My boyfriend was recently diagnosed.
2024.11.25 12:29 penitentfool My boyfriend was recently diagnosed.
He tells me not to listen to him when he says horrible things when he's upset because he has BPD, but I dont understand why he cant just not say them if he never means it. I am not quite ready to give up but I don't know how to do this. I regret giving him the ammunition. He knows exactly what to say to tear me down and it hurts so bad. It's so difficult to understand. I've had a horribly abusive childhood and I would never ever ever want to make anyone feel a fraction of the worthlessness I felt growing up. I have no support system and am in a very vulnerable position with him. It feels like I am replaying the dynamic with my mother who also had BPD. I wish he could understand what he's doing to me, how deep this hurts. Every day I wake up worrying something horrible is going to happen. I am so tired of this.
Has anyone ever had a positive outcome from this? I see that the general consensus is to run away but that isn't an option for me and I still love him deeply.
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2024.11.25 12:29 adogg281 Watching anime from the 1990s-2000s.
Hey guys. I've been watching anime for a while. But not much of it. I was thinking about watching Throwback anime from the 1990s and 2000s, as well as some modern ones (2010s-present). Are there any recommended 1990s-2000s anime around?
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2024.11.25 12:29 swanacubson Donacije česmi/bunara LEGIT ili SCAM?
 | Šta mislite o ovim fondacijama preko kojih (mnogo) ljudi donira za izgradnje česmi i bunara koliko shvatam u Africi. Je li samo meni ovo izgleda sve mega sumnjivo i scenirano, na nekim snimcima mi se čini i da se radi o česmama na istoj lokaciji samo iza kao da promjene da li se vidi zid ili stave neko sijeno. Znam da se u US pokazalo da su sve te stvari (izgradnja kuca, skola, bunara..) zapravo prevara i stete tom stanovnistvu. To jeste da bunari jako kratko traju, da dolaze stranci da to urade pa lokalno stanovnistvo gubi posao. Ima li neko nekih informacija? Stvarno bi bilo šteta da toliki ljudi iz najbolje namjere odvajaju novac a da se zapravo radi o prevari i da se ta njihova sadaka mogla korisnije udijeliti. Evo link gdje možete vidjeti više klipova: https://www.facebook.com/share/1Gam18XHKj/?mibextid=LQQJ4d submitted by swanacubson to bih [link] [comments] |
2024.11.25 12:29 BandicootLow2431 Do Canadians learn about the States in the USA?
This is a genuine question for my Canadians, I wondering if you guys learn and go over the States (even if it's brief). Here in America, most (If not all) of our schools have us learn about all the Canadian provinces (at least where and which province is where).
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2024.11.25 12:29 butterfly72000 Bo’s age
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2024.11.25 12:29 Thin_Outlandishness3 Bought only one collector booster in my life, found this
Should I protect it in some special way or this plastic case is enough? Also, I know I can grade cards, but it's expensive. Is it really necessary for this card?
Any advice is appreciated! Thank you :)
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2024.11.25 12:29 SierraHelios1527 Tugs working in Cleveland November 24,2024. Minnesota and Duluth.
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2024.11.25 12:29 WilliamBlack97AI High Tide Opens Second Canna Cabana in Scarborough, Ontario
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2024.11.25 12:29 Squigglybark357 What is this?
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2024.11.25 12:29 RoundDirt5174 Have you ever gone a day without saying a word?
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2024.11.25 12:29 Goutaxe KK invites you for New Year countdown: Fireworks by 1,000 synchronised drones, performances by international artists and bands from Korea, China, Indonesia and Malaysia
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2024.11.25 12:29 celebrityenjoying So pretty
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2024.11.25 12:29 alexsandrojrr [UPDATE + FREE FOR LIMITED TIME] AD SquareShift
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2024.11.25 12:29 LSDwarf Dostal jsem e-Identitu. Co s ji pouzivate?
Ahoj redditoři,
Konecne dostal jsem e-Identitu a vidim ze jsou porad sluzeb ktere muzu s ji pouzivat: https://info.identitaobcana.cz/sep/
Co hlavne pouzivate vy pro zmensovani offline komunikace (pojistovna, dane, stat, ridicak a t.d.)?
Dekuji!
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2024.11.25 12:29 MyDadBeatsMe74 The Brazilian black magician got Fraudiola
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2024.11.25 12:29 Typical_Conflict_162 First Time Getting A Huge By Hatching Thank You OP Autumn Event
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2024.11.25 12:29 crony_capitalist34 DILR not the toughest anymore?
I always felt like I am the weakest in DILR and was always worried if it will ever improve. Till November I couldn't even do 1 set properly but somehow managed to do pull of 2 sets in mocks before the CAT exam. And I did 3 sets in the actual paper. Maybe the mocks I was doing were too hard or maybe I got enlightened🤯 or more probably the section was easier. I am looking at the other two sets and uts pretty obvious now that those 4 questions sets are almost like a cakewalk. So that brings us to the question is QA now the hardest section in CAT?
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2024.11.25 12:29 Still-Mongoose-4312 Kody's mother meeting Robyn
Wonder her impression of the #4 wife
I would love to know how she felt about new wife of Kody. Coming into the family with baggage, kids and debt.? Now Winn was probably shocked that Kody could obtain a trophy wife.
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2024.11.25 12:29 Fiveravera1 Aw look at this little beauty! :)
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2024.11.25 12:29 MetaKnowing Study Finds 76% of Cybersecurity Professionals Believe AI Should Be Heavily Regulated
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2024.11.25 12:29 Party_Lake1375 다음 주에 언제 시간 있으세요?
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2024.11.25 12:29 Prestigious-Art-9758 In your opinion, is late 20s too late for a first tattoo?
I’m currently a clean skin, not because I’m like many on here a tattoo hater or anything, but because I’m very picky. Until recently I haven’t found a style or artist that has “spoken to me”. Of course, I had ideas when I was much younger which I’d have regretted now had I gone through with them, but they mostly had to do with music I liked and not a general artistic style.
In the past year I’ve come across a handful of tattoo artists who work in a sort of medieval woodcut style. I’ve always loved and sought out medieval art, and also gone out of my way to visit fortresses and castles when I can. Having something along these lines is really attractive to me, and would be small enough that I can cover it easily.
Also, most of the artists are located in either Poland or Serbia, and now that I’m in Europe it’s easier to get to (there’s a guy in NYC that works in a similar style - for some reason the majority of US artists that do this put an American traditional twist on it even if very slightly and it perturbs me, this guy is the only one I’ve seen that doesn’t - but it’s cheaper to get to Warsaw from Lyon than it is to get to NYC from Chicago, so). Would be the time to do it.
Has anyone gotten a first tattoo this late in life? Do you regret it or feel like a loser?
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2024.11.25 12:29 Powerful-Eye-3578 What does "proficient stance 1(stability)" do
Does it increase the chance if my main attack ceitting my 20% or does it increase the chance if all lightning attacks ceitting? Or does it increase the crit chance of the lighting that chains?
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2024.11.25 12:29 mileytabby Scoring well in exams!
What are the most effective study techniques for scoring well in exams?
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2024.11.25 12:29 SprinkerlerMan What does my fridge say about me?
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