Who thinks C will make it to school today???
2024.11.25 12:50 ConstructionCool7190 Who thinks C will make it to school today???
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2024.11.25 12:50 Ok_Analysis_120 I finally stood up for myself
On Friday, I had an appointment with my old therapist that has decades of experience and advocated, helped others get out of abusive situations. I've been so scared to tell anyone or even imply abuse, and I explained everything from an unbiased standpoint. I told her what I could in a 30 min phone call, we have longer apps scheduled this week and the next. I was shocked when she said I am experiencing DV and that what he makes me feel bad for, is not an excuse to treat me this way. And that my "faults" are extremely minor. Like struggling to clean from mental illness and health issues for example. Which I've improved so much. I even got a job in the field I'm passionate about despite health issues because I don't want it to control my life. I've felt for years that it's my fault, and apologise for everything. It hurts me really badly beyond belief but thought maybe it's normal. I posted on here also a few days ago and received comments that helped so much to reach out to her and i'm endlessly grateful. She said of course, she cannot diagnose him, however she could say that it sounds at the very least that he possesses narcissistic traits. I didn't mention that word at all, but I did say I think i'm in an emotionally abusive relationship. I just explained everything in full honesty trying to understand why he treats me this way and also need help with an exit plan if it comes down to that. But.. wow, hearing this from a very renowned expert in this field made me stop blaming myself for once. I didn't even go into depth and the small basics I could tell her indicated this.
I have a long history of trauma with C-PTSD from childhood and my only other relationship being abusive and she explained that my hesitance/empathy towards him is a trauma response.
My "egg donor" would call everyone a narcissist, which I'm confident that this is something you've all frequently heard.. It's more common than I thought that narcissists do this. so given that, I feel uncomfortable calling anyone one (which I never do or feel that way towards anyone else but him. and her of course) because what if I'm one for saying that word. But that couldn't be further from the truth. I experience everything that they're incapable of, and to a very very high amount. And all I hear is that I'm the kindest person anyone has ever met. I've heard that for years and years. And even that feels weird saying because I don't want credit and it feels... narcissistic. I feel like kindness should just be a given.
Yesterday something snapped in me, not anger, but I put my foot down. For the first time ever I stood up for myself and told him all of this. Except the narcissist thing.
He was crying when he woke up because the night before I implied breaking up if things don't change. And... I didn't feel anything. It didn't affect me!! I didn't comfort him or apologise for no reason and let it make me feel bad about myself. He watches me bawl my eyes and does nothing. So I didn't. And I didn't do it to be awful or even intentionally. I just couldn't bring myself to. My brain just realized for once there is no reason to, I did nothing wrong at all. And you guys and my therapist and a couple of friends I confided in reassured me and gave me so much strength. There were barely tears too .. and I know some people struggle to cry, it's not their fault. but.. idk, it didn't feel genuine. I just went about my business.
Shortly after, I told him we need to talk. I told him he's not perfect. No one is. But he constantly blames everyone for their problems. Our entire family, all of our friends, he's not perfect. I emphasized that this isn't meant to make him feel bad, that it makes me feel so bad. Professionals that have worked decades for women AND men told me this is abuse. That I told people. That my faults are no reason to treat me so mean. I just went into all of it, everything I've felt for years. He was silent and usually he tries to speak over me. There were moments where he tried to get defensive and I shut it down real quick. I told him he needs to seriously reflect on this and who HE is as a person. That this isn't who I fell in love with. That he SCARES me. That he throws things in my direction knowing my history. He sat in silence and honestly... I hate to say this but it looked like gears were turning in his head. One funny thing is that when I mentioned he accused me of being an addict in the past and he was like, "cause whenever there's a problem you reach for your pills." And I told him.. most of the time it's my damn heart medication!! I have to double or triple the dose. He said he was scared to lose me when I found out about my grade 1 diastolic failure and I was like... if you actually paid attention, my BP raises from this, i'm seriously high risk of stroke! And even if I do take my anxiety meds (I took the max prescribed dose years ago when I found out he was cheating on me) i'm prescribed them for a reason and my psych has told me that! It's diazepam so of course there's that stigma. Again he went quiet. I just kept pointing out the excuses and holes in everything he says about me and treats me.
I did cry and told him everyone tells me to leave him, that I don't deserve this and now I know that too. That I want the person I love back. I haven't left because I don't want to give up on him. But I seriously can't take the abuse anymore. That he is abusive. He apologised (seemingly genuinely..? But you know...) that he scares me. I told him he needs to see a therapist and he said he'd rather talk to me. He'll stop doing all of this. I'm going to take that with a grain of salt.
I'm going to tell him in a few days that it isn't an option, he needs therapy and he needs to be honest. Unbiased like I am, I don't play victim. Honest how it should be, and personal therapy.
I can't leave right now anyways, so I'll see if he goes through with actually changing. I'm not sure if I believe it. I'm going to work hard at my new job and save up for an exit plan that my therapist will help me navigate.
I'm not taking this anymore. I don't deserve this, no one does. We all deserve love.
I can't describe how much relief I feel, standing up for myself. It feels so good.
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2024.11.25 12:50 amb_7_96 Human "Hazbin" screenshot edits [OC].
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2024.11.25 12:50 Leviad0n Anywhere in Chester that has gaming clubs? The nerdy kind...(Warhammer, tabletop games, card games. That sort of thing?)
Not much more to say than the title really. I wouldn't mind getting out a bit more and I've been into painting Warhammer for years, so learning to play the tabletop game would be cool. If not, also down to play some board games or card games (Magic The Gathering, Pokemon, Star Wars Unlimited etc?).
Are there any clubs in Chester at the moment for this kind of thing? Geek Retreat closed down before I got to go there.
Thank you!
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2024.11.25 12:50 Known-Frosting-1059 J Dilla and Madlib trying to create a new masterpiece
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2024.11.25 12:50 Livinhelll_ Super Party potions in shop!
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2024.11.25 12:50 Weird-Fly3682 Comment passer outre ma honte de la sexualité ?
Mon copain (M24) et moi (F20) sommes en couple depuis 1 an. On s'aime très fort, notre relation est la plus saine possible, il est très à cheval sur la communication. Mais parfois un peu trop
Je viens d'une famille catholique praticante, on n'a jamais trop parlé de sexualité. Lui est athée de naissance. Je lui ai vite fait comprendre que je ne voulais pas de pénétration avant le mariage, parce que je ne suis pas sous contraception, mais que le reste je voulais bien.
Ca ne m'a jamais dérangé de faire des choses avec lui, mais je n'ai jamais aimé en parler, que ce soit avant, pendant ou après. Et lorsque l'on se sépare, que ce soit pour deux jours ou deux semaines, il m'arrive de me faire plaisir toute seule, mais il veut toujours en parler quand je rentre.
Hier soir il m'a forcé a en parler parce que je n'avais pas envie de faire des choses avec lui (on rentre d'un week-end séparé), et ce matin il s'est excusé en disant qu'il allait travailler sur cela.
Comment ne plus avoir honte de faire des choses de mon côté, et réussir à en parler sans honte ?
Pour l'instant je cherche juste à arrêter de faire des choses quand je dors seule, car je vais sur des sites et cela m'embête profondément pour notre relation, mais il dit que ça ne le dérange pas
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2024.11.25 12:50 lordwinter63 Lord Winter - Fantasy
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2024.11.25 12:50 TheScrewUp_WhoGrewUp Let’s not forget, 20 sum years later and the shadowless 1st editions value has shot up to $200k on these bad boys… How many series have they print since then?? #CurrencyCards to the MOON🚀
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2024.11.25 12:50 Noledgebase Google Looker Masterclass: Looker and LookML A-Z 2024 ($69.99 to FREE)
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2024.11.25 12:50 Fuckhogayadude Urgent Help Needed - Betrayed Online and now Freaking Out
17F here, and I'm in a total mess. I need urgent advice. I recently found out that someone I thought was my boyfriend for a year has been lying about his age and identity. We met on Discord and then moved to WhatsApp. He told me he was 19, but today he confessed he's actually 17. On top of that, his account was being used by a bunch of older guys to message me.
I'm seriously freaking out. This guy is from Delhi and I'm from a different state. I confronted him, and while he apologized, I'm super scared and don’t know what to do next. I can't tell my family about this, and I need some serious advice on how to handle the situation. I've sent him some face pics (no nudes), but now I'm terrified they could be morphed or used against me.
At this point Idk what to do, pleasee help me out guyss I used to be the prodigy student of my institute but since last few months this relationship thing has detoriated many things and wasted hell lot of time, I've my preboards coming up and I can't let this matter slip as well.
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2024.11.25 12:50 yilosia slammed legacy
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2024.11.25 12:50 Noledgebase Convolutional Neural Networks in Python: CNN Computer Vision ($74.99 to FREE)
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2024.11.25 12:50 Party-Good2444 E pack durability
Buying level 370-400 Target 500
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2024.11.25 12:50 Murky-Gate-68 Two wheeler upgrade
Should I sell my 2015 bought TB350 and buy a Bear 650?
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2024.11.25 12:50 SmallOwlDesign Delivery went badly, will this raspberry plant be ok? First time owner.
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2024.11.25 12:50 BeefonMars Rovers morning lefist opinion
I’m done, too political. Rover is a big lefty, can’t take it anymore
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2024.11.25 12:50 free2write Images not shown offline
When offline, images in notes don't show up.
They are there. I can extract text from them.
But I cannot see them.
When I'm back online, I see them.
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2024.11.25 12:50 pragmaticminimalist The Hardest Way Up- A lodestar expedition and a pivotal moment from siege tactics to alpine style
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2024.11.25 12:50 Thewanderer997 I dont think Ive seen a Bone wars meme within this sub, which is why Im gonna make it.
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2024.11.25 12:50 Particular_Olive6645 Friend has 3 (GA) London 11/30 he’s letting em go
Text him +1 (332) 261-0041 for more info so you can do tickets transfer.
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2024.11.25 12:50 Apprehensive_Cow83 My friend just got an email from a person and attached a screenshot of his desktop and also a pdf.file text which I will put in the description and I need help identifying if this is actually real or not
This is kinda half sided for me, because on one end it does actually seem like a legitimate security and privacy concern but on the other end, why is this dude using an email with someones full name on it (I’m saying someones because maybe it is actually an alternative email)
My friend said that he did download something but he did read about people having this same situation and most of them said it’s a scam.
Anyways here’s the email:
Hello. There's a development that I need to brief you on, and it's quite unexpected. 7/26/2024 1:45:43 PM - Today marks the day when I have overcome the security of your device's operating system, claiming full access to your account. For a long duration, your every online step has been closely followed by me. Your devices are now operated by a virus l've installed, which gives me control over the display and camera. Every piece of your information, including your social media activities, is now in my possession. Over time, I've built a complete profile of you from the data. During my vigil over you, I happened upon some fascinating discoveries. You probably realize the weight of what I now know and what that necessitates. If you would prefer that I not do it, transfer 1050 $ (Dollar US in my bitcoin wallet. BTC Wallet address: 3N66wUstps85wvVDrFZ5CioJbVMDRJStWE Unsure how to add funds to your Bitcoin wallet? Google has many tutorials that can help you with the process. Once the funds arrive, I will promptly address the removal of undesirable material. Subsequently, we can disengage from one another. I also pledge to deactivate and remove any malware from your devices. Trust in my word, for I consistently fulfill my commitments. This is a reasonable deal, especially considering the time and energy I've invested in monitoring your profile and traffic. You have exactly 48 hours from the time you open this letter to make the payment! After this allotted time, if I don't receive the specified payment from you, I will expose your accounts, visited websites, personal information, and edited materials to the public without any prior notice. Just be aware, I don't make errors. It's not a clever idea to try and play tricks on me because I have an array of tactics at my disposal. There's no point in voicing complaints about me because they won't be able to discover my whereabouts. Even wiping the drive or destroying the device won't change the fact that I already possess your data. Writing back to me is a pointless endeavor, as I don't communicate through personal email, and I won't be monitoring responses using the set of postites, and way get us so a noter, each of tough situation. P.S. In the days ahead, I suggest that you keep to online safety rules and
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2024.11.25 12:50 Dramatic_College9878 Thoughts?
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2024.11.25 12:50 Illustrious_Snow5254 Name the character you want to beat up
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2024.11.25 12:50 Meesie293 Star-themed Tealight Holder
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