AITAH for skipping Thanksgiving because I’m finally over my sister’s shit?
2024.11.25 22:20 CommercialPen8117 AITAH for skipping Thanksgiving because I’m finally over my sister’s shit?
Throwaway account for anonymity. I (24M) have had a tumultuous relationship with my sister (40F) from the beginning of my conscious life. We have different dads and I feel like her mutual disdain with my dad contributed to our differences. We never saw eye to eye, got into constant battles over territory in the house, and she constantly tried to convince me that I wasn’t wanted in the family. Regardless of claims about them being jokes, I feel like even if they were, I was way too young to get the joke. One of the things I’ve always had a problem with was her running to my mom to snitch on my about complaints I had about the family or times I confided in her about my wrongdoings. I don’t know if it was to help bolster her relationship or get credibility with my mom, or to make my dad feel like he failed as a father. I know that sounds extreme but those are my theories in lieu of an explanation. Everything kind of hit a head over the last month or so. While at my sister’s birthday dinner, my mom made a comment after my sister had opened my gift, saying “See? He’s not a terrible brother after all.” I let it go in the moment, but it has sent me down a spiral about the kinds of things that are being said about me behind my back and it hurt really bad. Then, most recently, I was confiding in my sister about an argument that I had gotten into with my mom. While debriefing with my mom later, she’s telling me that I said things I had never said to her. I realized she was quoting my texts to my sister verbatim. I was livid. I did my best to stay calm and told my sister that I didn’t appreciate things I tell her in confidence being repeated to me by other people. She called me back while I was working but we never spoke about the issue. Over the course of about a week, I had calmed down and was texting in group chats she was in and sending her memes as if things were normal. After not hearing from her, I realized she had my number blocked. When I asked my mom about it her response was “I told her if she couldn’t handle what you were saying, she should just ignore it block you.” That was my last straw. It made so many other things make sense. Her call to me at work was not to make peace but to fight. She has to have been waiting for an opportunity like this and she jumped at the first sign of trouble. To me, blocking my number is a line that can’t be uncrossed. I pulled out of Thanksgiving despite pleas and sarcastic comments from family members about “Spending time TOGETHER” and “Keeping the family together through hard times”. The dialogue has been nothing but me needing to grow up and let it go and I refuse to accept it any further. If I’m going to be constantly forced to be the bigger person while everyone around me is scared to criticize her, then I just don’t need to be around. I realize that my mother is upset, and I haven’t been able to get a hold of my father. So it’s prompted the question of whether or not I’m the AH.
TLDR: Sister and I never got along. Mom didn’t really facilitate a healthy relationship. Sister makes comments behind my back that come out at a party. She blocks me because I criticized her. Now I want nothing to do with her. All of the family pressure to mend things is on me.
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I was just wondering if it was possible to have an overlay with the instant replay feature, and if not what instant replay programs can I use thank you 😊
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2024.11.25 22:20 KingVoid27 How should I make this TV face?
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2024.11.25 22:20 muga_mbi Why do I feel a blockage between my upper and lower body when listening to 417 Hz meditation music? Is this related to energy or emotional blockages?
I’ve recently been listening to 417 Hz meditation music, and I’ve noticed something unusual. When I listen, I often feel a sense of tension or a blockage between my upper and lower body, particularly around the heart area. It’s as if there's a physical or energetic block that’s preventing the flow of energy between my upper and lower body.
Is this feeling related to energy blockages, possibly around the heart chakra? Could it be an emotional release or something connected to the practice of sound healing? I’m curious if others have experienced something similar and how I might approach this sensation, especially from a Buddhist or mindfulness perspective.
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2024.11.25 22:20 iamfoxheh My casts feel wet on the inside on my leg
I just got mt casts re put on nd they feel wet i got them done like 3 hours. Is this normal? Or do i needa go back ans get them redone
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2024.11.25 22:20 bre__grace Cat coming in at night and eating my cats food
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2024.11.25 22:20 Jumpy_Tourist1606 Can I achieve my dream career with OCD?
I deal with obsessions regarding my health. These thoughts tend to focus particularly on cancer (eg. repeatedly checking myself for lumps in case I have breast cancer). I’ve been on medication since the past 6 months and it has DRAMATICALLY decreased my symptoms and I’ve only had one intense episode since my treatment started.
Ironically, I’m a med student. This hasn’t interfered with my patient interaction till now, I’m able to rationalize if other people are having health concerns. Since I started treatment and my symptoms decreased, I started considering a career in Oncology. I would NEVER have considered this before meds but now it just seems like something has clicked in my head that this is what I want to do. However, I wonder if oncology would trigger my own health anxiety and if this is just my brain forgetting how difficult existing was without SSRIs.
Have any of you been able to work in fields that have the potential to trigger your obsessions? Is this even a feasible career for me?
TLDR: I have obsessions about developing cancer. I’m currently on meds so symptoms are minimal and am considering oncology. Is this a dumb decision? Am I just overconfident because I’m on SSRIs and feeling well?
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