He broke my heart in just six weeks
2024.11.26 00:50 Sufficient-Ice6123 He broke my heart in just six weeks
I am 24F, I dated 29M for six weeks. It is crazy to think in the beginning, I was unsure - he was conventionally attractive, but not my type. However, I met with him as he was so interesting to talk to and we pretty much immediately hit it off. I was comfortable with him from the get-go.
I have limited dating experience. The only other guy I've seen, I was in a long-distance situationship with for an entire year (it was as bad as it sounds, and he did just want me for my body lol, but luckily I never gave it up). So this guy brought a lot of 'firsts' along with him into my life. He treated me so gently and kindly, of course I fell for him. He was the first guy I held hands with romantically in public, to come over to my apartment, to share a bed with for the night... He held me in his arms and ran his fingers through my hair, kissed my forehead, he cuddled me while I slept, let me lay my head on his chest, took me to get dessert just because he knew I like sweet stuff... And I did similar things for him, laying as still as possible because I know he has insomnia and he finally fell asleep while holding onto me, buying him coffee because I know he's tired. It was a short time, but we came to be attuned with one another.
However, around a week ago, after daily communication for a month and a half and a wonderful date the day before (our sixth), I woke up to be completely blindsided by a text saying that it wasn't anything that I did, but he has a feeling we're incompatible and we should see other people. I haven't been the same since. I've cried every day. How can I feel this strongly about someone I knew for less than two months? It felt like we were going somewhere. It felt like he liked me just as much as I liked him. He'd said it to me, too. He'd said, while looking into my eyes, that he likes me. And I believed him. But the next day he ended it.
I understand having doubts, but he never communicated them with me. He just decided they were too much and left without even properly telling me what they were. Why couldn't we work around it and adjust? Or at least discuss and mutually agree that there is an unfixable problem, so I wouldn't feel like I did something terrible to cause this? He wouldn't even come and see me to discuss anything in person, claiming it was 'unfair' to me. I can't cope with the idea that everything we said and did was a lie. It felt so real to me, and he has already etched himself deeply into my heart. I am struggle to come to grips with the idea that was the last time I'd see him and I didn't know, that I'll never kiss or hug him again, I won't fall asleep next to him again... It breaks me. While I had been involved with another guy for a pretty long period of time before this, that was very much an attachment/trauma bond. This time, it was true feelings - I felt so safe and I wasn't anxious. Maybe that's why I'm even more blindsided by how emotionlessly he discarded me.
I don't know how to progress after this. He is already seeing other people while I'm still as broken, if not more, as I was the day it ended.
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2024.11.26 00:50 Highthere_90 Life's not going anywhere
In my 30's, have a dead end job thats full time but I'm still unable to support myself. Live at home with my parents because I can't afford a place..
Went to college for social worker, graduated but can't find anything in the field to make a living, idk if I have it in me to go back to school..
I don't understand how people I grew up with who didn't get an education are able to make a living and support themselves.
Whenever i try to achieve a goal I have people eaither shoot me down or tell me they will help but never get around to it..
Sometiems I feel I'm being judged by friends by not having the same thing they do, a car, house, partner, kids things like that.
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Hi ladies,
I’m 29F and just got diagnosed with PCOS. I’m very very lost to be honest. I’ve struggled with weight gain and an inability to lose it for about 5 years now, and with this new diagnosis I’m wondering on wether or not it’s possible to lose weight without some kind of medication for insulin resistance? I got my bloodwork done and I’m riiiiight under the line (.01 away) for insulin resistance. I’m really afraid of getting diabetes so I’m looking to lose some body fat. Any suggestions?
I’m so lost here. 😔
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2024.11.26 00:50 HospitalHumble8163 chance a queen who never CRIES💜 for ivies & t20s
demographics: fgli, female, african, east coast (suburban, but our district is classified as low income overall), public non-competitive high school (but an IB feeder to uva) fgli (>45k)
intended major(s): poli sci, global affairs
sat: ~1380 (not bad, but SAT inflation puts me out of range for the schools i like) avg SAT for my school 1100
gpa & rank: top 10% in my class w a 4.3/4.5 unweighted
coursework: full ib SURVIVOR 😨 (13 in jr + st year) + 2 APs (comp gov 4, us gov self study)
awards + honors (not as detailed cuz i don’t wanna be doxxed): - qb finalist & college prep scholar - 3x model un awards, 1 local, 1 national, 1 international (gaveled once) - part of committee that helped establish regulations for an education academy at a local university - selected as a student panelist for statewide education convention, presented data alongside superintendent - worked w/ non profit and huge department org. to transform an old room in my school—also chosen to be spokesperson for local and national news coverage (one of the coolest experiences in my freaking life) - current pioneered book drive w/ local non profit to send books to impoverished area in west africa (300+ books so far) - helped run voter registration drive at my school, got ~50% of the people to register
ecs: - student rep to school board, countywide position | 11, 12 - member + executive officer for model un @ my school | 10, 11, 12 - tutoring college student in french | 12 - black student union co-founder and exec | 10, 11, 12 - media coord for local groups and non profs (this is volunteering) | 9–12 - roblox group manager + digital media specialist for ~400k+ users, i also created physical merch for a youtuber (200k subs) | 9, 10, 11 - chamber orchestra (4yrs) – second violin leader 2 yrs concertmistress 2yrs | 9–12 - nhs prez(i basically reinvented it and my sponsor said i was one of the best prezzys yay) | 12 - class officer + senior prez | 11, 12 - i also make money (retail sales associate) | 10, 11, 12
essays/lors/others: - club directoteacher 11/10 best teacher i’ve ever had, he’s also said i’m one of if not the best students he’s ever had 😎 - foreign lang teacher 8/10 she’s known me since freshman year and we’ve always had great conversations 😎 - counselor 8/10 she’s the reason i write my emails a certain way and she knows that, always super helpful someone i can openly talk to since forever 😎
schools: princeton, yale, harvard, brown, columbia, uva, georgetown (i also have a LOT of safeties)
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Thanks in advance.
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Putting my full 90ml Bin Saadaik for sale.
Not looking for swaps at this time.
$40 shipped.
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2024.11.26 00:49 ekin2345 Como se usa reddit? No entiendo nada
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2024.11.26 00:49 Street_Region5740 My second game prototype: Click Willingly
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