My mom died and I’m mad at my dad
2024.11.26 04:50 sunshinecurtain My mom died and I’m mad at my dad
A few years ago my parents separated for a year. They ended up getting back together for a couple years, then last winter she got diagnosed with cancer, and she died from cancer this fall. Two months ago. Last week my dad told me that he cheated on my mom. But that’s not why they separated. He kept it to himself. And then when he couldn’t live with the guilt anymore he had a come to Jesus moment, broke it off with the mistress and told my mother. After my mom processed it, she decided to get back with him because at the end of the day she loved him. They didn’t want to tell us because they thought it would break the family apart. I don’t get along with my dad and our relationship has been very rocky so I understand why she didn’t want to tell me. But my entire perspective on life has been shattered. My parents have always been extremely honest with me even when it hurts. Honesty and loyalty were who my parents were. Now I learn that they lied to us? I’m not even mad at my mom I’m just crushed. I am pissed at my dad. And we have met the mistress she was his coworker. I am disgusted and angry. Then, tonight, he tells me he’s going to start dating again. It’s been TWO MONTHS. What the fuck. And guess who he’s going to ask out? The mistress. He’s already reached out to her. My heart is broken and my chest hurts and I feel like I’m going to throw up. Who is he? I genuinely never would have taken him as a man to cheat on his wife. I would’ve given my left foot to that. My mom and I felt that his “friendship” with his coworker was odd but we both didn’t think he’d ever physically escalate things. My image of my father is destroyed, my image of my mother has changed, my intuition and judgment is shattered, my perspective on good people is broken. I can’t believe he would do that to my mother. I don’t want to talk to him or look at him.
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2024.11.26 04:50 Limp_Goat_229 Feeding my friends gfs big booties. Kikk ayubb89 to see their pawg asses
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2024.11.26 04:50 FromChiCity LH - CONZUELO (Latin Kings from Cuba)
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2024.11.26 04:50 NSK0421 First Time Going to Therapy, Don’t Know What to Say.
24M and I’ve got my first therapy session coming up soon, but I’m feeling pretty nervous about it. The problem is, I’m not great at vocalizing my thoughts, and I’m worried I won’t know what to say when I’m there.
My mood and outlook on life are all over the place. It can shift a lot, and it’s hard to even pin down what’s wrong half the time. I feel like if I can’t explain myself clearly, the therapist might not be able to help me.
Has anyone else felt this way before starting therapy? How do I even begin the conversation when my brain feels like a jumbled mess? Are there things I should prepare or think about before going?
Any advice is appreciated.
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2024.11.26 04:50 Mysfunctional Some Zoro pencil sketches
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2024.11.26 04:50 BrightCrystalRever LF Super-Visor
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2024.11.26 04:50 Apprehensive-Bid2842 What would you do?
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2024.11.26 04:50 Virtual_Second_7541 I read that there is a possibility to gain remote access to a mobile phone just from calling it, is that true?
I was reading a write up about a recent Israeli rabbi who was targeted and executed abroad by hired mercenaries, and how enemy operatives targets Israelis trying to gain remote access to their phones. The write up claimed that they can get remote access simply by calling the phone from an unknown number.
“Device compromise typically occurs through deceptively innocent text message links or calls from unknown numbers, which, when engaged with, grant remote access to mobile devices and their stored data.” From : https://www.israelhayom.com/2024/11/24/iranian-intelligence-targets-thousands-of-israelis-this-is-what-you-need-to-know/
This is not a tech or security website, so I don’t know how accurate what they’re writing is. Is this even possible?
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2024.11.26 04:50 Mamalama1859 Funny!
So my husband and I are discussing thanksgiving and I asked if he wanted to be in charge of the turkey…he goes “HELL NO, you think I want that pressure!? If I mess that up and you get sick you’ll never eat again and I’m not mentally prepared to handle that kind of stress” 😂😂😂😂 keep in mind we were both laughing hysterically. No bad intentions.
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2024.11.26 04:50 HersheyKiss-_- These 2 men put me on FTP and I will be forever grateful🫡
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2024.11.26 04:50 rustynutbun Progressive, a 150 billion dollar company using AI Ads…
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2024.11.26 04:50 Narrow_Money5632 How do you stop "just existing" in life ?
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2024.11.26 04:50 Shyvadi This aged well, Shyvana indeed get "Ruined"
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2024.11.26 04:50 KarmaKePakode Sissu in winters, covered in snow!!
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2024.11.26 04:50 xoxefo3952 The mafia's maid by Success write to Read for Free - Mafia Stories
The mafia's maid. Are you ready? Damon asked. Of course. I can't even imagine what torture my sister must be going through right now. Ashley answered. Mom and dad won't allow this and she needs help, I can sacrifice myself. She wore a deep frown. The anger inside Ashely's heart was burning and that can't be hidden. Okay then, just follow my instructions and report to me everything he does. Damon continued, but if you feel you're in danger, he leaned forward from the front seat and placed her hands on his, please leave immediately. He looked at her seriously. His forehead was wrinkled as he stared seriously at her. And one more vital information. What is it? She inquiried. He's a heart throb. Promise you will never get attracted to him. Okay. She half smiled. ***** Ashley is a nineteen year old college girl striving to survive school when her younger sister gets kidnapped by a mafia boss. She has to go undercover as a maid to rescue her sister with some help from Damon. The plan was to get information, save her sister and leave. No falling in love. Easy right? Read more
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2024.11.26 04:50 No-Palpitation-6096 MMA gym split
Hey so I am currently doing mixed martial arts on Thursday and Wednesday and I'm looking for a 4 day gym split that can make me more quick, stronger and just more athletic to help in my martial arts.
I'm thinking of something like Monday: gym Tuesday: gym Wednesday: wrestling Thursday; boxing and ju jitsu Friday: gym Saturday: gym Sunday: rest
Sunday and Saturday can be swapped if needed for rest
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2024.11.26 04:50 WhatTheForkYo "I Don't Think So" Video - Higher Quality
Friends,
For years, the only version of the "I Don't Think So" music video was a copy on YouTube whose source appeared to be a second-hand tape that was not de-interlaced during the transfer. I have remedied that. Here's the complete music video, properly de-interlaced, with CD-ripped audio.
There will be an even higher quality version coming in the future; my professional grade VCR is currently being repaired. When it's done, I'll do another transfer that should be somewhat crisper and not quite as "washed out" color-wise.
https://vimeo.com/1033332594?share=copy
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2024.11.26 04:50 burn3r_96 28 [M4F] #NC - wanna be night shift buddies with a cop?
I try to not define myself by my job, but it does give me plenty to talk about. I just happen to be caught up on all my paperwork and looking to take it easy for the rest of the night. Might get busy on the occasional call but will otherwise be hanging out in empty parking lots. Im looking for friends that could match that vibe and I could chat with at all sorts of weird hours with. I'm open to any discussion. I'm happy to talk with anyone and I'm more than welcoming to anyone who might have a dislike or a fear of people in my profession, I'd like to give changing that a shot by letting you get to know me. I'd appreciate it if you could open by telling me a little about yourself and Im ready to exchange pics as soon as you are but no pressure.
A little about me:5'10" broad build with a bit of a dad bod I've been working on with running and calisthenics. 1/4 Native American with the tan to show for it and have dark brown hair and eyes. Clean shaven with glasses. I enjoy the outdoors with fishing, kayaking, swimming, and recreational shooting. Indoors I get more nerdy and enjoy anything Sci-fi, my gaming PC, 3d Printing, and a lot of YouTube relating to all my hobbies.
I'd like to meet someone who is open and honest to the max. Someone who knows how to put the effort into keeping a conversation going. Someone local would be really nice. Someone who doesn't feel the need to be reserved and we can get attached and needy for better or worse. If you feel like that might be you shoot me a message and lets see where it goes!
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2024.11.26 04:50 itsallgnocchi I want to be everything
I want to be stunningly gorgeous and never have to work; I also want to be ultra successful as a scientist; I also want to be a famous pop star; I also want to have billions and the freedom and luxury to just waste time and be creative without any pressure to “succeed.” I want to love myself and feel cool and beautiful and talented and wanted. I want to be appreciated for the work and effort I have put into my relationships and projects, I want to be recognized for my contributions. I want to be effortlessly brilliant. I want to be universally loved and adored.
Anyone else manifested from a place like this, with the biggest dreams, superlative dreams? How do I move forward from this endless ambition and actually chose what will make me happy and feel like I’m a good person and not wasting my life?
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2024.11.26 04:50 Clay_sloth Pics 1-2 are 2020ish, and the others are recent (2024)
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2024.11.26 04:50 Interesting_Metal143 Using Substrate to Build Intent-Based State Machines
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2024.11.26 04:50 statueman77 Who wins?
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2024.11.26 04:50 Real-Loquat-7751 Any SG Roblox players?
I welcome the move by Roblox to block under-13s from directly messaging others on Roblox.. but not sure if I'm comfortable with sending a pic of a government-issued photo ID (This can be a driver's license, passport, residency card, or any other government-issued identification document).
https://en.help.roblox.com/hc/en-us/articles/ 4407282410644-Age-ID-Verification
For context I play the game with my young kids. Is it safe to send such sensitive information? Any Singaporeans have the same issue as me?
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2024.11.26 04:50 ManiaforBeatles Sloping road lined with ginkgo trees at night, Taepyeong Neighborhood, Sujeong District, Seongnam, Gyeonggi Province [1440×1800]
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2024.11.26 04:50 UnfairStrategy780 0-6 in Navy. Can we at least admit they aren’t helping at this point?
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