AITA for getting annoyed and a little snappy when my gf is upset?
2024.11.26 04:30 sharagonian AITA for getting annoyed and a little snappy when my gf is upset?
In my defense I try to be as patient as possible with her and work with her as best I can because she does have BPD, but almost every day she's upset and let's the littlest things ruin the moment. I constantly reassure her or listen but it seems like its never enough because she's always got things on her mind. I love her but her constant despair and down mood drags me down to where I end up feeling empty or upset so I feel like just being somewhat blunt about how she needs to get over something or not get upset over something or stop reading into nothing would be better than making her upset with herself by telling her she's damaging my mental health too. I don't want to just leave her or abandon what we have but I mentally can't handle this time of year because she gets some seasonal depression very bad. Am I the asshole and should I try to hold my tongue so I don't make her feel like she's hurting me or be honest and hope she doesn't beat herself up?
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2024.11.26 04:30 _B1rdz Pop and Awe 2MPC on Castle Revenge!
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2024.11.26 04:30 Northie_78753 What contributes to a successful Friends First?
Hey Reddit! What is your advice on being friends first? What are your best tips?
By a "successful" friends-first, I don't mean necessarily that it ends in a relationship - just that the effort is successful (i.e., meaningful, intentional).
I'm thinking of evolving the friendship and getting to know them as a person - but not making the person the center of my world by any means. Enjoying their company and contributing to positivity in each others' lives.
I think we would naturally spend time in friend groups, but also make an effort to do 1:1 hang-outs. And then from there, figure out if we even like each other, really.
Should there be ground rules? What are things to consider?
Context if anyone wants it - writing the below was really more for me.
We were acquaintances for about a year. In the summer, their relationship of almost two decades ended - and over time we became friends due to his being more available and our having shared friends. One evening, our friends left early unexpectedly and we struck up a fantastic conversation and there was obvious chemistry.
Over the past few months, things escalated to become quite emotional and physical. I had to deal with a very difficult, very traumatic series of events where he provided a lot of emotional support and I provided him with the same. There have been about three attempts (including this last one) at transitioning back to being platonic due to his not being ready for a relationship. I had said that I ultimately wanted a life partner but was willing to see how this worked out - no worries if not. I think he feels more pressure than I'm putting on him.
Recently, he suffered a loss of a family member, traveled home and saw many childhood friends and family. Upon his return, he said that he would move out of town to be closer to family (timeline of 3 - 5 years) and that he didn't see how we could be together long term, no matter how badly he wanted it to and how much he liked me intellectually, emotionally and physically. He said he feels very confused. In many conversations, I can tell he's still very much dealing with his break-up (which is essentially a divorce in my mind since it was almost 20 years!).
That he didn't see a future with me really impacted me. Not something I can easily forget or let go - or take lightly - and I told him so. He said that it wasn't having anything to do with me, but that he just couldn't see how he could heal and be a partner anytime soon and that our friendship was worth a lot to him, much more than sex - and he felt that the situation was unfair to me. That sex was complicating things. He said things were moving way too fast - and could we please continue to spend time together.
I was relatively happy with the friends with benefits setup - provided it was temporary. I wanted to see how it'd evolve over the next 6 - 12 months. I'm comfortable with ambiguity if there's a genuine intention to be open to the possibility of long-term. This last bit may be too much pressure on the man, though.
I know the risks here - and that all this could result in massive heartbreak, but I won't forgive myself if I don't take a chance and remain open to the possibility - for perhaps a few months to a year. I've been divorced for almost 8 years now and he's the best I've come across fit-wise (intellectually, emotionally, and super-handsome to boot). He absolutely has flaws, but man, I don't think I could make up someone this ideal.
So, yeah, my plan is just that - to be a good friend - and remain open to the possibility. If someone else came along that seemed like a great fit, I could be open to that evolving as well. I owe that to myself.
My other plan is to spend my time working on myself, too, since my recent, difficult time was the culmination (trial) of a sexual assault that occurred almost 4 years ago, but the legal situation has not allowed me to move on and better focus on things that would bring me joy and growth. This is my time to get better and stronger, too. Perhaps we could encourage one another.
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2024.11.26 04:30 StarLord_Gaming New Members Intro
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2024.11.26 04:30 New_Prior_8017 I hate when people say “nobody deserves to bite the curb”. Like YES THEY DO SHUT UP.
So this is probably a stupid thing to vent about, but I just can’t hold it in any longer.
So there was this person being bullied on TikTok, they finally had enough so they jumped their bully. Then, they said “BITE THE CURB”
The person in the video made some sort of stupid edit about it saying “nobody deserves it I don’t care who you are”..
Well, that just tells me nobody cares about victims of bullying and they only care about what happens to the bully.
I’m so mad. In my opinion all bullies can end it. A they do is cause unnecessary trauma and they need to bite the curb.
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2024.11.26 04:30 DiodeMcRoy After his last film, could he make a career related to music?
One thing huge in all of his films is the use of music. He seems to have a great knowledge of the music from the 60's/70's. Probably not as much than his knowledge of films, but he probably knows a lot.
In a way, he has been like a dj, remixing old scenes to create something new, like a hip-hop producer, but visually. But he also had a huge influence on the music played on the radio. Missirlou from Pulp Fiction was everywhere at some point.
I'm not sure if he plays music, but it wouldn't be surprising. His director friend Robert Rodriguez plays guitar in a band. And some other well known director like David Lynch have released interesting stuff too.
Or maybe he could host a radio show, like a DJ. Telling stories but with music.
What do you think?
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2024.11.26 04:30 EXIO_2099 Hey Guy I am an indie game developer looking for a community who loves my games!
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2024.11.26 04:30 RadRenaBoBena Eat it and weap, Trumpers.
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2024.11.26 04:30 como365 It’s so strange to me that we live among vast fields of soybeans, but usually only eat them in Asian cuisine.
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2024.11.26 04:30 alicenin9 What song really resonates with you?
Mine is korn - kiss. It reminds me of an ex gf that I lost due to my own troubles. I really feel the chorus saying "want do I have to to do, why can't this hurt be though." And the line "the last thing I would like to do before I go away, is cry there next to you. Cry and talk about the good old days and where they've gone, and now how much I hate you." I really loved her and would love a chance to sit down and tell her how much I cherished our time together, but at the same time im so mad at how hurt I was when things ended.
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2024.11.26 04:30 carliemonier Summer Fruit Salad with Lime & Mint
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2024.11.26 04:30 The-Usual-mud Remember this line to be successful in sales.
The foundational root of all sales success is a fanatical focus on prospecting
There is no secret formula that can deliver success
you always need to constantly prospect and fill your pipe with good leads.
Prospecting is supposed to be hard - there is no way around it - if you had a choice between prospecting and swimming with sharks, you would choose the sharks.
But the people who prospects regularly - wins.
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2024.11.26 04:30 throwawaytopp Do you guys have accurate guesses on what production was thinking when picking these new ‘Famous Stars’ ?
Was it actually just “Haha OF girls, Machos & Gays Will be Funny !!!” Or does anybody see what else their vision might’ve been?
No matter what they were thinking, I’m sure they didn’t exactly hope this would be the result.
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2024.11.26 04:30 leonchan119 What is this?
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2024.11.26 04:30 szoofficial Wicked: The Soundtrack (Picture Disc Vinyl) - Republic Records Official Store
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2024.11.26 04:30 wrongsideoftheweb uh thanks u/gachaziff for making this apart of my reddit recap
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2024.11.26 04:30 jackthefront69 Just finished MK4->MK4S Upgrade ugh
Just gonna say: first impression. A waste of 5 hours. I wish I would have bought a high flow nozzle, I had upgraded my fan and idc about nfc or WiFi.
This new fan shroud is ugly AF and will further reduce my print visibility. With my old fan I could swing it out of the way to see what was up.
This is just ugly and not worth the 5 hours of ill-fitting screws into injection molded plastic.
Just buy a CHF nozzle and upgrade ur fan.
I broke the nfc antenna mount on my buddy board but I will literally never ever ever use nfc for anything
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2024.11.26 04:30 goldenbearpilot CPA or financial advisor needed
We are considering purchasing my inlaws home in Nevada. We would like to find a professional to help us with determining whether to buy as a second home vs investment, tax implications, etc.
Does anyone here have recommendations for CPA or financial planner with experience in residential investment properties? Thanks in advance!
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2024.11.26 04:30 thefinisher__ there’s no way this would happen in real life
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2024.11.26 04:30 AnxiousCharge2147 Any queer folks I can connect with ?
18M here. This is not a hookup attempt, just genuinely trying to connect with LGBTQ folks.
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2024.11.26 04:30 gamegalaxies What is this?
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2024.11.26 04:30 Wisconsin-Expat Gain visible muscle
I lift 3-4x a week since starting 8 months ago and am eating at maintenance. I do hypertrophy training with the Fitbod app. I have definitely gotten stronger and when I flex, I can see muscles pop. What’s the tipping point for those muscles to be more visible all the time, even when not flexed?
I think the weights are usually spot on now but should I try to add more sets to each recommended exercise or add more reps or ?? Or does it not matter and I should just repeat to failure?
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2024.11.26 04:30 Upstairs-Ad3131 Tape B Flume
Did anyone get a video of the some minds flip plssss🙏🏻
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2024.11.26 04:30 Bulldogmama49 Trading a 5⭐️
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2024.11.26 04:30 chinny4213 📈Crypto Alert📈
Cryptocurrency: $ICP/USD
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