It was all a game to her
2024.11.26 23:40 teachersteve93 It was all a game to her
Met online. Her Slovakia, me UK. She knew I'd recently got out of a relationship with a foreign lady who ended up mistreating me. And that I was currently living with an abusive dad threatening to kick me out every other week.
Very quickly told me she had BPD (didn't research it) and that she was obsessed for two years with a guy she met online whom she thought was the "love of her life", but had since realised he was far from that and that she had me now. That she viewed me as the guy of her dreams, that there must be some catch to this perfect life she felt she could have with me.
And within a month got the plane to me, paid for a ton of stuff and within a day of returning to Slovakia told me she loved me and professed eternal loyalty to me. The following month paid for my plane to her, rented us a cottage and for five days took me on trips and meals out. She briefly mentioned that she took the guy to the same castle that we were at, and also told me how if god were real he'd have listened to her prayers to get that guy. When I return home she tells me the time had gone so quickly.
I move to her next month. After one night she gives me the password to her PC and goes to work. Pretty early into the day her discord is going off and eventually I check. She's messaged a friend and some of her messages are "i dont love steve, i still love [that guy]. He loves me more than anything, he's willing to go above and beyond but i cant get intimate with him for some reason, i dont want to hurt him like [that guy] hurt me". When she gets home from work she apparently figures out that I read it (I think it was her intention all along) and is crying on the dining table with a pizza she brought home from work for me. I tell her I wouldn't leave, she asks me if I'd help her (presumably to get over that guy) I said I would and then I remember her telling me she would always love him more than me.
Following day I discover she has a folder on her pc called "best time of my life" and it's the castle she took me to dated to when this "love of my life" visited her and rejected her. So I message her, "when was the best time of your life?", "because of my BPD I don't see things in terms of best time of my life?", "How was our trip to the castle?", "It was meh, I'd been lots before", "had you been lots before you went with that guy?", "Yes". When she gets home, I show her the folder. She screams and deletes it.
I'll be spending too long detailing all the abusive comparing she did to this guy, with me. And how distant she was with me just after dropping this on me. Getting home from work at 5pm and staying on Final Fantasy until bedtime (a game she told me she'd entirely quit if he asked her to). She knows I read her messages, I want to now to find out what she seems to really think. One morning she messages her friend something like "I want to get rid of this d head. If you are reading this steve, pack your bags. I thought I could deal with not finding him attractive because I didn't want to b alone, but no". This was after she found me talking on an anonymous relationship support forum. Apparently she was allowed to talk to her friends about me, but I wasnt allowed to talk to anyone about her. Challenging that triggered her. But then when she got home in the afternoon, it was like nothing happened, she invited me to the pool, told me I had beautiful eyes, hugged me and said "I dont want to spend eternity alone, I want to spend it with you". I was having visa issues and would most likely have to return to the Uk. She tried to make it so I could stay and cried every other day on the week when I had to leave.
And then for a month into my return would pressure me to come back or to bring her there. Then one day she goes complete radio silence. No Discord, Final Fantasy, messenger and her phone is off. She had a trial shift that I had sorted for her. Even her potential boss tried calling her. So eventually I message her mum to ask if my ex is okay". Then she appears! Acting all confused. Then all of a sudden angry "did you involve your ex's parents in your relationship!? Oh wait relationship over..." and sent me a screenshot of her telling who was apparently the guy who was the love of her life "I love you more than anything. Every`day he was here, i wished it was you instead. He reminds me of why I dont want a bf". Blocked me, then breadcrumbed me, asking if id still been looking for a job for her in the uk, asking for job search help, getting all sexual to then just tell me she didn't have feelings for me. Ended up having me begging. Blocked again. And then about a week ago she comes back to tell me there has been something happen on Final Fantasy 14 Online and asked me to check it out. Through the whole relationship she had pushed and pushed me to play FF and I did play it, she didnt really give me a choice. I told her i didnt wish to play it at the moment. It would hurt to play it. So she tells me I was just playing it to get some girl, "this is the difference between you and him :)" "if you want to get another gf you need to get some of your own interests" and told me it would be a long time until she started looking for a bf again (because of how awful I apparently was) and that she would look for one in FF. I told her I knew she was lying (but not because i saw her dating profile setting up some new foreign guy to hurt the same way) and so she said "soooooooo you dont want to be friends. Take care" and blocked me.
Seems the whole thing was a joke. To hurt some guy the way she was hurt maybe, she was definitely obsessed with pushing "you are just like how I was with him, I see why he didn't like me now".
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2024.11.26 23:40 GenZparent Beware of stalkers at WT
This will probably get deleted because one of the mods must be a stalker, but anyway...
West Texas A&M police receive reports of stalking incidents on campus
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2024.11.26 23:40 TR1LL1ONA1RE How is Bestbuy able to offer a price $200 less on a new macbook m4 (16gd unified memory and 512gb ssd)? I don't understand. Are they used ones? How does this work?
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2024.11.26 23:40 Cacut Looking for 1 more active racer
Need someone who's active and wants to win.
Let me know !
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2024.11.26 23:40 Icy_Simple_5925 A few rolls and pics of new flavors
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2024.11.26 23:40 Cassingel First Person mystery/thriller
I would love a series or novel to read, unfortunately i really dislike any other point of view. Preferably set somewhere between 1985-2015, would be amazing if theres a “dirty/corrupt cop” trope. But im thankful for all and ANY recommendations.
Thanks in advance!
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2024.11.26 23:40 Net_Jeptune It's a shame that there's not someone here that could use Swamp Magic to cure both herpes and schizophrenia...
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2024.11.26 23:40 Vic-iou I'm loving this game but my hype is getting killed by bugs like this. Every time I finish a Flashback Battle, I get DC'd
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2024.11.26 23:40 Kenjiby Hard to look away
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2024.11.26 23:40 infernoflo [B] [USA-MD] Laowa 10mm f/2.8 or 15mm f/2 for L- mount
I don't see a lot of L Mount offerings for some of the gadget lenses so i figured i'd throw it out. If anyone has the 15mm make me an offer!
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2024.11.26 23:40 abjinternational Rio Ferdinand praises Arsenal's 'statement performance' in 5-1 demolition of Sporting Lisbon - and singles out one star after Champions League triumph
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2024.11.26 23:40 Ill-Candidate-2846 Horny teen m looking to sext 05e632dd6b8ca2785c48d0578a0c0937c65a275e6df9b3e26d8236703b750b7c05
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2024.11.26 23:40 BeautifulTop1063 Is KING toxic?
First time Tekken player here, I've worked my ass off to reach Kishin with King in Tekken 8 and damn I've found him to be a technical character, not my opponents though lmao. The amount of hate I get for playing with King is insane. "Carried", "Broken", "Toxic" are some of the words used to describe him alongwith a string of abuses. So my question is, is king really that toxic? Surely not as much as Jin, Alissa, Yoshi?
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2024.11.26 23:40 stealthbaz 860 hours plus.... first time closing in on Tier 9. Holy Copper Powder...
no body Just expressing my new understanding of copper.
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2024.11.26 23:40 life_can_change My lucky quarter that I found in Havelock I had to give away today
I found a quarter in Havelock a while ago. I got emotionally attached to it. I kept it in my coat pocket for a while. It reminded me that times would get better for me eventually.
I haven’t had steady good paying work in six months. It’s been so hard for me to find any kind of job. I’ve been crashing with a friend and I’m constantly worried they will kick me out.
I started a new job today. My brother gave me a car and my father drove it out to me from Colorado and he’s going to stay for Thanksgiving. I’ll be able to keep getting better work now.
As I was walking into Walmart today I saw the Salvation Army bucket. That sweet familiar sound of the bell ringing brought me back to reality. There are so many who have it way worse. I too used to sleep on the street and in the mission, so I understand. I took that lucky quarter out of my coat pocket and put it in the bucket. I have enough money for food tonight. I have some smokes. I have a bed to sleep in. Now I have a car and a job.
It’s time for that lucky quarter to bless someone else. Happy Thanksgiving y’all.
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2024.11.26 23:40 Successful_Buffalo24 My old girl out hiking
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2024.11.26 23:40 wilby_mcgee What is this?
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2024.11.26 23:40 Remote_Two8475 Guidelime Question: How to I load Westfall area quests?
The title says most of it. I leveled in the Dun Morogh area to level 10. I now want to go and level in Westfall. But, I am unsure how to reload guidelime to show me Westfall's quest route. I've loaded Sage's guide. Any help would be appreciated.
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2024.11.26 23:40 SevenMan7777777 I’m still playing SAS 4
It’s very nostalgic and fun. I haven’t been keeping track of you guys though, what game are you on now?
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2024.11.26 23:40 CresciMasQueroMamar2 Surprisingly enough, I've got a date
I've made a post a couple days ago (can't direct link it because mobile sucks) but I've decided to make an effort and tool some courage and asked a match out and yeah, we've scheduled a date :). I'm not exactly happy and I think she agrees that I have very little time to actually text each other so I just took the damn courage and asked her out
We've decided to see each other in a public park next to our houses and let's see how it goes. Not gonna lie I'm terrified of it bring super duper awkward but that's what dates are for aren't they? Getting to know each other. I don't have much expectations honestly but yeah, I got a bit of time and I'm very much attracted to her so why not?
I'm super proud of just creating this courage. A few months ago I would just be having an mental breakdown before texting her ans probably just wouldn't so... it's progress a suppose :)
Thank you guys so much for the support. Belive it or not I'm inly capable of living normaly due to this sub. Your guys efforts are greatly appreciated it, thank you so much
My post: https://www.reddit.com/IncelExit/s/lX6uPV
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2024.11.26 23:40 Galileos_grandson National Reconnaissance Program crisis photography concepts, part 4: FASTBACK and FASTBACK-B
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2024.11.26 23:40 Mysticfluffy95 How’s this 3 man trade?
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2024.11.26 23:40 Sad-Syrup7112 Dre Greenlaw Return
Thoughts on his value? Is he worth a stash could be a top 12 weekly lb in his return?
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2024.11.26 23:40 Significant-Case2307 Rica Games está de volta, link da entrevista nos comentários
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2024.11.26 23:40 Plenty-Package1883 Shout out to Local Game store!!!
Please take down if not allowed ! Just a customer trying to get awareness for this amazing giveaway for Pokemon addicts!
Hey everyone, I had to share this amazing FREE giveaway my local game store, Event Horizon Hobbies, is running! They’re giving away their last Surging Sparks Booster Box (totally sold out everywhere!) as part of a $500+ Pokémon Christmas Basket! ⚡🐾
There are 10 fun ways to enter, and it’s completely free to join! Perfect for Pokémon fans or anyone near Midland, Barrie, Orillia, or Elmvale. Don’t miss your chance to snag this!
Here’s the link with all the details: https://www.eventhorizonhobbies.com/pages/giveaway
Let’s support an awesome local store in Midland that’s always doing cool stuff for the community! 🃏✨
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