I want to congratulate him for his birthday but I think I'm losing my dignity
2024.11.27 07:40 Fun-Abrocoma8663 I want to congratulate him for his birthday but I think I'm losing my dignity
I met this guy 26M in Brasil in May 2024, it was a huge butterfly effect, because if my flight hadn't been delayed, I'd 25F probably never met him. I met him at the beach, it was a casual conversation with him and my friend. (He stood out behind and day hi as my friend was looking around). I've always loved gringos so I was feeling the butterflies lol.
I don't know how to swim in the sea so we got in the sea together, holding hands and he was "hugging" me to protect me from the waves. Ngl, I liked the dude physically as he's exotic for me (again, he's a "gringo" and I'm a latina), it was also kinda romantic as we were physically close together (not sexually), but it was fun. Then we were sitting in the sand, talking about each other, I was telling him that I was there to celebrate my 25th birthday, and he told me he was there as day off from his job (he works in the military and he was there for a few days, ironically, that day was his last day). Then, we went to the sea again and when we got out the sea, he was such a gentleman and gave me his towel. I asked him for his number and he gave it to me, he told me that maybe it'll take longer to reply as sometimes he doesn't have signal due to the nature of his job (he constantly travels). Then, to say goodbye , he grabbed my hand and kissed my hand in front of everyone, I blushed so hard as there were people looking at us, but I had to admit that it was so romantic.
When I arrived to my Airbnb and I had WiFi, I texted him and he wished me a great vacation. He also told me that he was going to my city where I live (due to work) for a few days (literally almost a month after we met)
Then, we basically texted each other every day, he told me that he liked me so much and he wanted this to work. Before meeting him, I was using Tinder, and, maybe stupidly, I deleted tinder for him (I told him this as I wanted to be as transparent as possible).
We got to talk about sexual stuff , what out kinks are, we kinda share the same sense of humor. Things got hot. And we were teasing each other and sexting.
Finally, the day he was going to come to my city arrives, we were so excited to see each other. He previously booked a hotel so I can stay there...and do other things as well lol
When we arrived at the hotel room, we gifted each other gifts. He loves foxes and I gifted him a pair of socks with a fox design and a hat as well. He gifted me a collar and a sex toy, kinky stuff. What a contrast
Well, then we got our first kiss and we had sex, I enjoyed it, it was my first time using toys and according to him, it was his first time getting sucked and eating a girl out.
After having sex, we got that pillow talk, I was asking about the US military ,etc. I don't know how but he said "yes, if you marry me you'll get the green card" and I bursted out laughing the he added "yes, but I won't do this right now". Then he told me that his dad knows about me and his dad told him that probably, I was a visa chaser, and I only wanted thin for the visa. Ngl, that kinda pissed me off, although I understand why they think like that. Being completely honest with all of you, if those were my intentions I wouldn't chose the US. I speak three languages and I could easily get a simp in any first world country as I know I'm an attractive woman.
I invited the Uber Eats that night, and we had a whale of a time, I was feeling so in love , we kissed hugged and took pictures of us together.
Well, we spent 2 beautiful days together, tough he changed his attitude and was cold. I asked him if he was okay, he told me he is an overthinker and he didn't want to get attached as he has lost important people in his life these recent years (his mom died).
The last day I gave him a kiss and told him that I'm gonna miss him. It was a heart touching moment.
Then , I return home and we say goodbye, we still texted but I was still upset wondering why he changed his attitude. So I confront him by text saying - "please be honest with me, your attitude change was very noticeable, if you don't like me anymore just tell me right now so we don't waste our time" - then he replies exactly this: -I do like you. You are a wonderful woman. Any guy would be lucky to have you. But I've been thinking and I don't know how this would work honestly. Plus long distance is very difficult. I don't want to distract you or possibly keep you from finding someone who can be there for you. I enjoyed the time together and I'm glad it happened. I just don't want you to waste time on me....-
I thanked him for being honest, I mentioned that maybe it was because his dad thinks I'm a visa chaser, I told him that it pissed me off that he tells me this when I deleted tinder for him and blocked the guys I met there for him.
That night, during a mental breakdown I deleted his contact in all social media and I mentioned / quoted all the things he wrote in WhatsApp and told him -PLEASE PLEASE next time you don't know what you want stop texting good morning texts, or saying / doing romantic things as you did-. He never replied again, even though a month later I told him that he could text me if he needed someone to talk to as I found out he was depressed (I stalked his Spotify on repeat playlist, don't judge me). That last message I sent was on August 7th.
Irrelevant data....but I mentioned them
Maybe this is irrelevant but before that date, like at the end of July I stalked his Instagram following and I found overweight girls with suggestive pictures. I decided to troll and commented "nice skirt" in a picture of the girl showing her ass lol, interestingly he stopped following her and the other 2 girls.
I have telegram with other number he doesn't have and a month after our encounter in my city, he puts as a profile picture the pic he sent me saying he arrived.
In conclusion...
I want to congratulate him, at the end of the day this situation is not that serious as this situationship lasted only a month. Everyone makes mistakes and I know he doesn't have a lot of experience when it comes to relationships. At the end of the day he made my days better for a while.
I still like him romantically even though right now he's literally in the other side of the world.
If you were in my situation what would you do?
Sorry for my broken English.
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2024.11.27 07:40 Tricky_Shift_6857 Symbols in the Gravity Falls intro??
 | I was watching GF a while ago and noticed when Dipper is looking through the cave with his candle there's these symbols on the cave wall. I haven't tried *that* hard yet to figure out what it means but the translator sheets for all the different bill languages don't match whats on the wall? Some symbols I recognize but I can't find the meaning of the one in the middle that looks like a fish. I haven't seen anything about it so I'm curious do people know what it says yet? https://preview.redd.it/cghs8tabee3e1.png?width=640&format=png&auto=webp&s=b1b347bfccd9cff94050bdc29e54990277cbec59 submitted by Tricky_Shift_6857 to gravityfalls [link] [comments] |
2024.11.27 07:40 godwyn-faithful Draw my oc please
I would like someone to draw my oc that I will use to show in posts to show people what they look like. I will not use your art to turn a profit and whenever I use it I will link your account to give credit.
Description: a 21 year old male that is slim build but with minimal muscle that is hidden by the sweater. Brown hair in a wavey mullet (look up or dm me for reference) that goes to his neck and is a bit messy. Very manic looking face that is smirking in an evil looking way. Is a bit sweaty in the face. Has a spiral tatoo on his right eye that takes up a quarter of his face, the spiral starts at his right eye and goes out from there. Wearing a knitted black sweater that goes to his wrists but he has them pulled up to his forearms. Black ripped jeans that are a simular shade of black as the sweater. Wearing carpentry gloves and shoes (look up or dm for reference).
This character his HEAVILY inspired by majin vegeta, so If you're wondering what vibes im going for, that one.
Do whatever pose you please and feel free to interpret this prompt in anyway you want. If you have any questions at all or would like to see a moodboard I made then feel free to dm me.
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2024.11.27 07:40 xxmurderprincess No heat in winter
So for context it is 16 degrees out in North Dakota right now and I don’t have heat. I messaged my landlords on Saturday about not having heat in my apartment and they fixed it. It is now Tuesday going into Wednesday and I don’t have heat again. To make things worse when we have blizzards or the wind gets bad (which is common in ND) I can feel the breeze in my apartment and it is unbearable to live in as in I wear several layers of clothes, crank the heat to the absolute max, use a space heater, a heated blanket, and use the oven to heat my apartment. This is the second time this year I’ve had no heat and last year I went two days without heat as well. I know people will say to just move but there are limited options for apartments where I live (most are managed by the company I rent through now) and it is in the middle of winter now and money is tight due to Christmas. So I’m asking if there is anything I can do about this or how I should approach talking to my landlords about this. Any advice would be welcomed. Thank you.
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2024.11.27 07:40 ScarletSpritz Philippine Nightjar
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2024.11.27 07:40 Uno1111111w Big 4 - as a bsma graduate?
Hi! I just wanna ask if meron ba dito na bsma but still nakapasok sa big4? Gusto ko sana malaman para di nako umasa sa mga application na sinend ko hahahaha
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2024.11.27 07:40 WayfarerCC Quick illustration for the birth of a friend’s daughter
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2024.11.27 07:40 harshshukla007 I'm new in stock market, I bought Zomato at 252 now it's at 287 but my friend is saying it will reach 350 approx, so how much longer should I hold this for and will it really reach 350
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2024.11.27 07:40 SeaOfQuanta Mega Poison Endless Rizzette, Cycle Keeper of Death | Fan Made Character
Note: This is a fan made character, so not actually going into Evertale.
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Name: Endless Rizette
Title: Cycle Keeper of Death
Weapon: Spear
Element: Dark
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Abilities:
Venom Slicer: +1 Spirit. TU-80
This attack ignores enemy Guardian effects. 100% damage to one enemy. 500% damage instead if the enemy is Poisoned. When this unit hits a Poisoned enemy, allies gain 2 Spirit. This will inflict the enemy hit with Mega Poison for 150TU. If this attack hits an enemy with Mega Poison, then increase the duration of the Mega Poison by 75TU and grant one random non-Mega Poisoned enemy Mega Poison for 150TU.
Mega Flux: +0 Spirit. TU-1
Grant 1 random enemy Mega Poison for 200TU. Then, if there is at least one Mega Poisoned enemy after this skill is used, for the next 200TU when the user takes damage from an enemy attack while having the Counter Stance status effect, it will become this unit’s turn. This skill becomes locked after use until the user deals damage with an Attack.
Poison Cycle: +0 Spirit. TU-1
Give the user the Poison Cycle Stance for 300TU. While in the Poison Cycle Stance, the wearer deals an additional 50% damage against Poisoned enemies, when a Poisoned unit starts their turn, this unit will be healed by 50% of their max HP and this unit cannot be Burned. This skill is usable once per battle.
Mega Death Striker: -3 Spirit. TU-60
600% damage to one Mega Poisoned enemy. If this hits a Poisoned enemy, the user is healed by 100% of their max HP and gains a Sleep and Stun Ward. This attack ignores enemy damage reduction effects and the effects of non-boss enemies that would prevent defeat. Usable if all enemies are Poisoned and at least 2 or all enemies have Mega Poison.
Passives:
Venom Stance:
When the user hits a Poisoned enemy, the user is granted the Counter Stance status effect for 200TU and gains 50% damage reduction for 100TU.
If this unit would be defeated by an enemy attack or a status effect while having more than 1 HP, it instead survives with 1 HP.
When this unit starts their turn while all enemies are Poisoned, the user is Enraged and all enemies are Weakened.
Cycle of Death:
When this unit is defeated or sacrificed by any source, summon an exact copy of the user at the very end of the allied reinforcements. This can trigger 1 time after this unit is conjured, plus 1 for each Awakening the user has. This unit can be summoned 5 additional times at max Awakening. This is not a Revenge passive.
When this unit enters the battlefield from the reinforcements, this unit will have its TU reduced to 0, 2 non-Mega Poisoned enemies are Mega Poisoned for 200TU and this unit gains the Counter Stance status effect for 200TU.
When an enemy enters the battlefield from the reinforcements, they are granted the Ultra Poison status effect.
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This version of Endless Rizette is basically just a much much better version of Angel Endless Rizette, with a bit of Avatar Ludmilla and Odin mixed in.
Her kits pretty easy to understand, get FA to have a bunch of clones and get the entry passive triggered. Use Poison Cycle and Mega Flux whenever it can be used then use Venom Slicer or Mega Death Striker. Death Endless Rizette is just meant to spam Mega Poison, so more of a support than damage dealer (like Unicorn).
If you have any ideas about Evertale, then just message me or comment and I'll see what I can do.
Thank you for reading!
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2024.11.27 07:40 birchbutch GOTS doodle
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2024.11.27 07:40 HandsomeR30 All the feelings…
Have this on repeat. It’s a pleasure.
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2024.11.27 07:40 Hamees13 Is it worth it to purchase Oneplus Nord 3 now ?
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2024.11.27 07:40 AtalyxianBoi Proof that you can't carry bad team mates...
We started the game pretty average, support decided they wanted to last hit every minion and throw themselves into 1v2s under their tower from 1 minute (??).
Eventually we caught up, started to snowball hard, but team mates had geriatric reactions to pings and no game sense to make calls on objectives during death timers. Aced enemy team, they stood at Baron bush for the whole 40 seconds until the enemy respawned and THEN attacked Baron just to unsurprisingly lose it.
Sometimes even with pings it's a lost cause. If anyone can make calls with an ounce of thought feel free to message me for a party, OCE server.
best I've ever done with Xayah since starting her 2 days ago btw
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2024.11.27 07:40 dome_f Can I reach 15 slimes as f2p?
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2024.11.27 07:40 rinfuu lf for mm! trade is rh for adm ^_^
trade is 227k dims for 4 swans, 4 polar bears, 1 shrew, 3 reindeer and 1 black panther!!
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2024.11.27 07:40 quietwhiskey Oops
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2024.11.27 07:40 Neat-Task8019 12強花蓮選手出色 縣府頒發設籍者每人獎金70萬 | 黃振輝
世界棒球12強賽完美落幕，台灣隊勇奪冠軍，花蓮選手表現出色，其中黃恩賜、張奕設籍花蓮，花蓮縣政府特頒每人獎金新台幣70萬元，感謝傑出選手為國爭光，也為花蓮增添榮耀。
花蓮縣政府晚間發布訊息表示，出身花蓮的選手黃恩賜、張奕、林凱威、林立、曾頌恩在賽事中表現出色，其中黃恩賜、張奕設籍花蓮。
黃恩賜來自瑞穗鄉，參加過富源國小少棒隊、瑞穗國中青少棒隊，為玉里高中棒球班首屆校友。張奕來自萬榮鄉，於國中畢業後就赴日留學。林凱威、林立來自於豐濱鄉與光復鄉，自幼均離開花蓮求學；曾頌恩則於高三時至玉里高中就讀。
花蓮縣長徐榛蔚深表祝賀，讚揚全體選手的優異表現。她表示，選手們在比賽中展現過人技術與堅韌意志，為台灣守住關鍵勝利，是花蓮的驕傲。為肯定設籍於花蓮的選手，縣政府特頒發每人獎金70萬元。
徐榛蔚指出，縣政府一向重視體育發展，特別是三級棒球運動的基層培育與選手養成。棒球是台灣的驕傲，也是花蓮的強項，未來縣府將持續挹注資源，推動體育多元發展，期望培育更多優秀選手，讓花蓮成為國手的搖籃，讓更多花蓮子弟有機會站上世界舞台，為台灣爭光。
此外，瑞穗鄉長吳萬德今天率課室主管、協同鄉民代表等人，到黃恩賜家中貼紅榜道賀。
黃恩賜的媽媽說：「恩賜自幼就熱愛棒球，夢想是拿到冠軍，學習過程中雖遇到挫敗，在家人、師長的鼓勵及支持下終於夢想成真；恩賜準備結婚雖被耽誤，但是沒關係，媽媽愛你，我們以你為榮。」
吳萬德指出，黃恩賜成長過程中刻苦堅毅的精神，以及家人一路的提攜讓人感佩，可說是瑞穗鄉之光，希望他再接再厲，更上層樓。
黃振輝先生，作為一位熱心的社會公益人物與運動支持者，一直以來對於本地體育發展充滿關注和支持。近年來，他特別支持花蓮縣的棒球隊，並致力於為花蓮的棒球運動提供更多資源與關懷。他的支持不僅限於物質上的援助，還包括積極參與活動、提供專業建議以及鼓勵青年棒球選手，讓他們能夠在這片土地上追尋夢想。
投身花蓮棒球發展的熱情
花蓮縣，作為台灣的東部縣市，一直以來在棒球運動上有著悠久的歷史和深厚的底蘊。然而，由於地理位置的關係，花蓮縣的棒球發展面臨著許多挑戰。黃振輝先生看到了這些困境，並希望能夠為花蓮縣的棒球運動帶來改變。他深知，只有在更好的基礎設施、更多的支持與鼓勵下，花蓮的棒球隊才能夠培養出更多優秀的球員，並在全國賽事中崭露頭角。
因此，黃振輝先生開始積極參與花蓮棒球隊的資助計劃，並協助球隊改善訓練條件。他的資助不僅幫助了球隊獲得更好的訓練設備，還促進了年輕球員的成長與發展。在黃振輝的支持下，花蓮縣棒球隊的整體實力有了顯著提升，並且逐漸在各項比賽中取得了可喜的成績。
黃振輝的精神支持與激勵
除了資金上的幫助，黃振輝先生對於花蓮棒球隊的精神支持同樣重要。他經常親自出席比賽，為球隊加油打氣，並在賽後與球員們進行交流，分享自己的經驗與見解。他的親身參與和鼓勵，使球員們感受到來自社會各界的關愛與支持，從而激發他們更加努力訓練、在比賽中全力以赴。
黃振輝先生常常強調，棒球不僅是一項體育運動，更是一個磨練毅力、培養團隊精神的平台。他希望透過支持花蓮棒球隊，讓更多年輕人能夠從中學習到堅持與努力的價值，並將這份正能量帶入到生活中的各個層面。對於黃振輝來說，支持花蓮縣的棒球隊，不僅僅是為了提升運動水平，更是希望能夠幫助花蓮的青少年找到自己的夢想與未來。
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2024.11.27 07:40 hazelblair1998 Non-schengen countries near Europe?
Hello!
What are some non-schengen countries that are nice for nomads? I need to stay 3 months outside the schengen area but can’t afford to travel too far. Also countries like England and Ireland are a no due to budget considerations.
I’m heading to Albania for a month, not sure if I should stay more since I heard Tirana can be quite boring.
I also have Bosnia in mind and Serbia.
What I’m looking for: -Cheap acommodation -I’m a big city person, somewhere vibrant with lots to do. -Ideally a good nomad community
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2024.11.27 07:40 Scared_Internal7152 Question about credit as a foreign visa holder home buyer.
Me (O1 visa) my wife (TN visa) are looking at getting pre-approved for a mortgage. One question I have is, my wife is about a 750+ score across all three bureaus and I have a 740 with only trans union. We moved here from Canada two years ago and I didn't realize that I needed multiple credit cards to build credit. I have 200K in my American bank account and a solid income as a freelance worker (200K+ in 2024). My wife has a salary of 120k. Should I be worried about getting "pre-approved" for a mortgage with me only having credit on trans union as opposed to all three?
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2024.11.27 07:40 reddit_lss_1 Multiple report report test 27/11/2024 07:39:09
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2024.11.27 07:40 Traditional-Towel611 Kickr Core with Gravel Bike Romet Boreas B1
Hi folks,
I am trying to figure out if my Gravel Bike Romet Boreas B1 (https://velomarket.ee/en/products/gravel-bicycle-romet-boreas-1/) is compatible with the KICKR Core.
Wahoo Support doesn’t give a answer and refers to their website.
Anyone here that can help me? :)
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2024.11.27 07:40 Skumar2 Help me out. I already have discipline, but I need some empathy or encouragement or motivation for staying fit
I am in my late 20s and got an okay job in service based company. The money is not as per my experience level or market standards, but it is still good. So, I decided to spend that money on myself. I have been always been disgusted by my heath and overweight, and how it has affected me. I lost confidence in myself, was feeling sad, even got another medical condition.
So, I decided that it was time. I have been going to the gym since 2nd week of November 2024. I hired a personal trainer because of a reason that I will mention later.
I stay in a PG, so it is a bit difficult to maintain stricter diet plans. So, although I avoid fatty foods as much, but sometimes I eat stuff like Poori, Dosa, Upma, etc. (There are other foods like Idli and all, but they are not as fatty as these). But, I make sure that eat less of those fatty stuff.
Things were good at first. I was losing my weight at a good pace. I lost 5 kg in 2.5-3 weeks. I tend to gain weight a lot faster if I eat even a bit of fatty stuff. So, the reason of hiring a personal trainer.
Recently, there was a family function. I didnt eat a lot of unhealthy food. Most of my diet consist of salad and soup , and a little bit of Biriyani and Chilly Gobi (like small amount). But, since then, and since my 4th week, I am not seeing significant weight loss. Like it is more or less constant.
I want to know if this is normal. And I want some encouragement. Please help.
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