2024.11.27 09:45 Tintenklex Mega Ampharos, 2 local 698140802701
Missed the mega during the raid weekend? This is your chance!
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2024.11.27 09:45 Select-Paramedic-906 Codependent Parent, family dynamics, guilt, just needing to vent
I am 10 years older than my younger sibling. Our mother died, 10 years ago this year. I am married as of this year too. Living almost 40 minutes away. Watching my younger sibling go through the same cycle I was in, when I was a teenager. Frustrated, angry, periodic breakdowns. Insecure, unsure, and shutting themself in. But also so intelligent and so painfully aware of what is happening, without the right words to convey how they feel. And watching my dad stuck in the same cycle too. Trying to do what he thinks is right, so stressed that his health is affected, constantly adding to the problem he thinks he is working to fix. They’ve both gone to therapy and have genuinely made progress, but I can only say so much to my dad — he takes almost everything as criticism and turns it into a “okay, but”, “but you don’t know what it’s like because you don’t live here anymore”, “I do x,y,and z”. The amount of times I have to tell him that I understand, that I am in the same boat he is, that I am trying my best too. And all the times I have to remind him that all I want is the best for both of them. It’s exhausting. It hurts me to see my little sibling so alone. That I can’t be there for them every day as a buffer or as the mediatoexplainer. My close friends and previous therapists have all given me the advice that I need to remove myself so that “he (my dad) can figure it out on his own.” That I am enabling him. But in the last, almost 4 years that I have been out of the house, it doesn’t truly change. I am being torn apart. All I want for my little sibling is to feel safe and loved and understood. To have a parent who doesn’t “yes, but” them constantly. But who listens and is an emotionally safe person to be with. My husband’s family is in no way codependent or enmeshed and he has the hardest time understanding the dynamics sometimes… I chose my partner as someone so opposite my father for a reason and I feel so respected and heard by him. I feel so guilty constantly that I am trying to stay away from that cycle with my father but that my younger sibling is still stuck in it. I constantly feel like I’m taking one step forward and two steps back. I feel like I’m being stripped of my agency and my independence when I get in a conversation with my dad and we go around in circles because he can’t just HEAR what I’m saying. I hate that I have nights where I cry and have to explain to my husband what is going on. I hate that my dad still relies on me so much. I hate that he can’t just be an adult and compartmentalize things/be a PARENT. I’m just exhausted. Staying the night at my dad’s house tonight so I can get some sibling time and I’m just feeling very torn up.
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2024.11.27 09:45 youvebeensamboozled I hate it here
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2024.11.27 09:45 mistaroooriginal No way, it's cannot be true
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2024.11.27 09:45 ringo41 Vibing creature trying to rizz you, do you accept?
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2024.11.27 09:45 taehug Anyway to fix this?
i never had such problem but i put too much weight on the leaves by gluing stuff to it, which made it rip. should i glue it or take all pages off to do smth? submitted by taehug to arthelp [link] [comments] |
2024.11.27 09:45 Life_Boysenberry2304 Let’s stroke and nut I can remix snap: ainoways
Ainoways
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2024.11.27 09:45 Petrusohnek I want to use Windows 11 and have no idea about PC Hardware
I want to keep using my old desktop PC but i cant update to windows 11 due to the CPU. The PC is already 8 or 9 years old. It has the following components NVIDEA GEFORCE 970 16 GB of RAM Intel i7 -6700 CPU I dont know about the Power Supply in terms of wattage and the name of the motherboard. I want to know your recomendations about new hardware that would make sense and possible compatability problems.
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2024.11.27 09:45 Jeshuuu My day was alright. How was yours?
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2024.11.27 09:45 Shoddy_Fee_550 Team Gun vs Team Shunko. Who would win?
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2024.11.27 09:45 overpopyoulater Some refugees are experiencing so much unexpected racism in Australia they wish they never came.
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2024.11.27 09:45 Fit_Specialist_2700 Sene me sexy feet/toes irls. Nud3 or nn 😍 0574f39392b63088c29cb14105c0f8da7b226307339bc18e3994349674af7a8871
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2024.11.27 09:45 SpyroGaming6751 I was wrong, THIS is peak fiction
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2024.11.27 09:45 Fast_n_Bulb0us Artwashing
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2024.11.27 09:45 strawbabeberry Should I confront to him or should I wait and move on?
Hello everyone, I am 22(F) had met a guy on dating app we both were looking for long term relationship and we really had a great talk even he came to meet me just after our conversation (he lives quite far) to see me in person and he was really happy and after that we had met again he was busy in shifting work still he managed to came and meet me it was nice and i was helping him in lot of things and he was expressing a lot of things his ideas even his future plans with me during our third meet I stay over at his place and we get close and started cuddling and i asked him is he sure this is not for short term and he said from his side it is not and ask me the same and we got into bed and lose control. Everything was good we did star gazing too and watched movies too but later on next day he was tired with shifting work and i was there too and work was still going he was little off too and idk why he suddenly stated he needs to settle things down first and do need to do things. He was previously cheated on by his ex so he told me we are on initial stage he don't wants to rush anything and compromise with his goals again over a girl. I did told him, I will be not interfering between his goal he can accomplish that and so on and he said he needs time to make good decision that time i breakdown and started crying he hugged me and pampered me and ask me to give him a month to make good decision ( the guy who on first meeting told me i was his best decision suddenly saying he needs time to make good decision) then he took me for walk and later on before I left his place he told me he is more of practical person and logical person and don't like to talk on unnecessary until there is something than i left from his place he told me to inform when i will reach safely. I texted him he replied after then i shared him 2 3 reels on Instagram he liked it and texted him he replied to my text , I was feeling little off next day also we didn't speak much he bought some new furniture send me video of apartment and then at night I asked him I m not feel good can I come to meet him in mid week for which he replied next morning by saying good morning i will be busy in office and need to go market and let things get set in his flat first and i said Ok after then I didnt texted him neither did he texted me anything since yesterday. My friends are saying he just used me and only wanted to sleep but I dont agree with them but at the same time it put doubt in my head and I do regret somewhere sleeping with him at early stage I should have build the trust and relationship first but i want to ask him what is in his mind did he really lose the interest? I want to tell him I never slept with other guy but i was comfortable with him and trusted him very fast and thought it was genuine.
Guys what should I do? Should I tell him and ask him or just wait for him to text me again or should I just forget everything and move on
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2024.11.27 09:45 Sea_Forever_4254 Usefulness of CSD graphs for headphones?
I had a discussion with another user about whether the magnitude response graph show all transitory effects of minumum phase systems like headphones. My understanding is, when there is a change in amplitude over a sweep, it causes no linear distortion proportional to its shape. So in other words, CSD graph can't present data that can't also be presented by the FR. Headphones don't have time smearing or phase alignment caused by non-linearities that wouldn't be shown by the FR if at all, so could someone explain what kind of acoustic properties of a driver could only be proportional to the CSD or be displayed better?
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2024.11.27 09:45 RottenCase Game keeps crashing in the middle of a game
*the image attached is the moment where the game freezes before crashing
Model: Lenovo Ideapad Gaming 3 2019
My games keeps crashing in the middle of the game. Every games varies.
at this point every game i play will crash and the frequency varies.
the quickest to crash (2-5 minutes)
2024.11.27 09:45 yachthrowaway Rush Hour Traffic
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2024.11.27 09:45 Odd-Bad600 Russia launches largest drone attack of war, pushes deeper into Ukraine
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2024.11.27 09:45 DoatPhilosopher You all need me - Toad
You all need me now I don’t know what sort of blood shed and terror has been going on on the forum but you people cannot be trusted to run your selves without me
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2024.11.27 09:45 General_Mycologist_1 Help
I posted a few weeks ago about how I was having trouble convincing my parents to let me transfer out of UCSC to go to a CC then go back into a UC closer to home. Now, I kinda convinced them but my dad basically threatened me and said that if I don’t graduate within 4 years, I’m being completely cut off. I’m meeting with my advisor tomorrow to go over the withdrawal process and I’m withdrawing after only my first quarter since I want to major in Business Accounting and it’s not offered at UCSC. I’m worried that if I go to a CC, I may not be able to graduate in 4 years and be cut off. This has been weighing on me for some time now and I don’t know if I should stay the year to see if I want to stay at UCSC or transfer. The community college I want to go to, San Diego Mesa College, is also a 2 hour bus ride from where I am. I can go to Southwestern College, which is closer, but I feel that SDMC has better transfeacademic programs. I kind of lied to my dad that I’d be carpooling with a friend if I go to Mesa so now I’m beginning to question what options are best for me. I know it’s my own fault and stupidity for choosing UCSC in the first place but I just want to make better choices now.
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2024.11.27 09:45 TopNumerous4910 Are there invertabret furries?
Like, there's furries and scalies, but what about birds? Fish? Invertabrets? Honestly, now I want to know if somebody has a fursona of a sea sponge.
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2024.11.27 09:45 Individual_Lack5809 How did you hear about the game?
My Steam discover queue offered the suggestion. The art style was not necessarily my cup of tea but the reviews seemed compelling, so I bought it and Jaaaaaayyyysus. What a game-and-a-half.
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2024.11.27 09:45 xamo76 God can but won't... is that how it goes?
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2024.11.27 09:45 Dabaddesthere Tix
How to get your tickets overseas ? Ik possible but did the time end already for his under blue tour ?
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