Sake bingo at Asano Nihonshu Ten in Kyoto
2024.11.30 03:26 firefortysix Sake bingo at Asano Nihonshu Ten in Kyoto
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2024.11.30 03:26 DreamPirates Sonalee Kulkarni Benodekar Marathi Actress #SonaleeKulkarni
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2024.11.30 03:26 gombuguu Am i supposed to come with a personality
 | It feels like i dont have much going for me. I just do and say things that are expected or wanted from me. When im not talking to someone or doing something i just stare at nothing and dont even think. People have said im bad at conversation and hard to talk to. Im not even sure which thoughts are actually mine and which are what i think i should be thinking. Whenever im asked a question that doesnt have a right answer or asked to make a decision i just freeze up and try to ask someone for help, even if im well aware nobody can. Most of the time when im asked to do something i just say yes, because i dont know if i want to or not. But the one time im sure i dont want to do something, its something i pretty much have to do. Do i have to make a personality? Just come up with one? Or do you just have one? Sorry if this was hard to read and all over the place, most of the sentences were just completely seperate thoughts. and sorry that most of my posts here have been negative. submitted by gombuguu to sillyboyclub [link] [comments] |
2024.11.30 03:26 I_like_stuff__ Bingo ideas
3 beep people in a row Ring light visible in glasses reflection Someone that looks like theory Someone eating blue takis
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2024.11.30 03:26 117rambo Why so tiny is this normal?
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2024.11.30 03:26 Glittering-Cut2836 I think that PR molesting JBR is not unrealistic (tw graphic language, long post (sorry))
I have been interested in this case for awhile, but I haven’t researched into it as deeply as I have recently compared to previous years.
I'm not going to try to make any convincing arguments or offer anything new, and I am certainly not married to any one conclusion except that RDI, I guess I just wanna put my two cents in.
There is a theory that Patsy may have injured JonBenét's genitals more than once when aggressively trying to clean her after toileting accidents. I believe it was the housekeeper who said that on more than one occasion, she had seen Patsy take JonBenét to the bathroom to punish her for accidents, and she would then hear JonBenét screaming. (Please correct me if I’m wrong)
So, according to the evidence, prior to her murder, JonBenét had scarring consistent with chronic sexual abuse, specifically repeated acts of digital penetration.
But her hymen was injured over time and receded/worn down, which I would speculate means that she did not have repeated events of one simple rough traumatic insertion of a finger then withdrawal, but rather someone penetrating digitally continuously within one of several on-going instances of abuse over time. Essentially, raping her with a finger. I’m not a doctor, I really don’t know anything, but I would assume that if it were acts of a single traumatic insertion, there would only be tears in the hymen, but not the hymen being worn away like that.
I think that most people would consider this behavior seemingly more sexually charged than a single Insertion, that was an incident done more than once over time.
It’s speculated that Patsy might have injured her this way, and that during her roughly 'cleaning' JonBenét, she might have put her finger inside JonBenét, which most would view as unheard of and bizarre.
While I do agree that it is bizarre, as in irrational behavior, I definitely do not agree that it is unheard of. Mother-daughter sexual abuse thrives because of the belief that it is uncommon, and something that would require a vast amount of insanity, emotional disturbance or trauma on the part of the mother, something that one would assume Patsy is too functional to have that amount of. It is also supposed that a woman only sexually abuses a child on command of a man or in conjunction with sexual abuse on the child from a man (common, but certainly not the only way a woman perpetrates sex abuse)
Sexual abuse under the guise of hygiene when it comes to female sex abusers of children is remarkably common. In my time reading about the experiences of victims of mother-perpetrated sexual abuse, the mother using 'cleaning' pretenses to molest, rape and punish their child is the standard among manifestations of maternal sexual abuse, presumably because nurturing is what mothers are expected to do, and so it is a very easy and inconspicuous excuse for a mother to use.
From what I can tell, the cissexism of sexual assault and abuse being thought to be a strictly male, masculine or patriarchal type of abuse leads to mother-perpetrated (or otherwise female perpetrated) sexual abuse being ignored or outright stated to not exist; or to be so rare that it might as well not exist, an opinion that is shared by the court of law.
This gives women, especially mothers, societal free rein to sexually abuse their kids with no consequences. It seems that most people who suffered this type of abuse from their mothers don’t identify it as sexual abuse until they are adults, and usually from someone else telling them that what happened to them was not normal motherly behavior.
And in turn, I would assume that because of these biases, women are also less likely to consciously recognize their abuse as sexual in nature, function, or impact.
It really is not at all that unbelievable that a mother would digitally penetrate their child painfully during a 'cleaning' punishment. It does in fact happen. There are so, so, so many more people that experience this than we have the resources or the recognition to document at this time.
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0190740922001335
In fact, I would say that a mother doing that to their child as a form of 'cleaning' sounds very likely if we work with the assumption that female sexual abusers do not abuse for sexual reasons (which is not true at all, there certainly are abusers who do, but playing devil's advocate) because it would be more likely for a woman who was not sexually motivated in her sexual abuse to abuse as a twisted and sadistic form of 'cleaning' their child instead of intentionally performing an act of rape for the sake of rape.
Mothers obsessively 'cleaning' of the inside of a child's vagina (from my observations) is associated with other obsessive-compulsive, controlling physical grooming behaviors of the child.
For a woman like Patsy, who was very much enamored of JonBenét's physical appearance and who was reportedly fixated on controlling the way JonBenét looked (dying her hair, pageantry, photographing, arguments about what clothes JBR would wear, etc), 'cleaning' JonBenét internally seems in character.
JonBenét is Patsy's doll that she lives vicariously through. To her, JBR is a reflection of herself, and so it pleases her when JonBenét reflects Patsy well/ what PR believes are her own good traits, and displeases her when JonBenét reflects poorly on hereflects things about PR that she thinks is a flaw of hers.
If Patsy had childhood trauma of some sort as well, I could see the projection, enmeshment and attachment being more severe. If JonBenét were to reflect a part of her that she hated because she was abused and hates to look back on her own issues and what was done to her, especially if it were in response to Patsy herself abusing her daughter, then Patsy would lash out at her more cruelly. And if Patsy were specifically sexually abused in her past, it would follow that she would be more inclined to sexually abuse her daughter, perhaps as an attempt to process her own trauma or to normalize it within her own brain so she would feel it was more normal and not the terrible violation that it was.
For JonBenét to react to Patsy's abusing her the way she herself would react to abuse when she was a child would then make Patsy angry that she is being made to feel that she is just like the abusers who hurt her. She might take it as sort of accusation against her.
I agree that Patsy probably didn’t have a big problem with JonBenét's or Burke's accidents since she didn’t have to clean it up most of the time, and supposedly bedwetting runs in the family for them, but I also don't think it’s strange that if Patsy were stressed and forced to clean her own kids up herself, and/or JonBenét was doing other things that triggered her perfectionism and anger at her daughter's independence, Patsy would punish her for her accidents, presumably by taking her into the bathroom and hurting her intimately.
I'm not a criminal profiler or anything, but I definitely feel like the act of reaching inside JBR to scrape out whatever supposed dirtiness Patsy perceived in her could be symbolic of Patsy either feeling that JonBenét is inherently 'dirty inside' (a common feeling of SA victims) or Patsy feeling that she herself is dirty inside, and is trying to scrape it out in an act of shame and repulsion towards herself because JBR represents her in her mind. That sort of projection would make sense to me.
Without the sexual projection, I would see it as an act of cruelty just to hurt JBR out of anger, or perhaps a conscious or subconscious sexual motivation. (Also, sexual motivation doesn’t necessarily mean I’m saying that Patsy was attracted to JBR; perpetrators can be opportunistic as much as they can be preferential)
But then again, I haven’t heard of any internal scarring from the inside of JBR's vagina that would suggest scraping with a fingernail or fingertip, so maybe Patsy wasn’t scraping her, or scraping enough to do visible damage. Or maybe Patsy sexually abused her this way not during the aforementioned punishments. Or maybe her roughness with JonBenét irritated JBR's recurrent vaginitis, or perhaps it hurt because of prior digital penetrations, enough for her to scream.
Or maybe Patsy was physically abusing her in some other way that caused her to scream. Or maybe that account was exaggerated and/or inaccurate.
Really, I just wanted to validate survivors of this type of mother-perpetrated sexual abuse while also educating about how Patsy digitally penetrating JBR isn't that far-fetched.
If I got anything incorrect, please correct me! I’m open to additional information and discussion.
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2024.11.30 03:26 justin_quinnn Goldman Sees ‘Significant’ Hit to US From Trump’s Canada Tariffs
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2024.11.30 03:26 ZealousIdealBasil517 DJ Sharpnel - On the Beach [2001]
https://youtu.be/qUjwZUr_ULc
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2024.11.30 03:26 FinalProgramer Unreal…total narcissist. She delivered ONE meal to Virginia. If she had 17 deliveries she would have posted videos at every stop. She has No Friends. No family!
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2024.11.30 03:26 Monroe8401 The Evolution
The first time watching Dawson's Creek in 1998 I was 14 years old. And of course I had a crush on Pacey. But now as an adult, every five years or so I'll do a rewatch. So as a grown ass woman watching the show, my crush switched to Mr. Leery. He's fine as hell with those biceps! Ok sir lol 🤣
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2024.11.30 03:26 LowLaw7966 Markets don't move the way most people think
Most people think that because institutions are buying something let's say like Bitcoin that's why the market's going up.
This is way wrong. Institutions buy/sell accumulate and distribute in ranges. If you had a hundred million. And you keep buying at 40 cents to fill your hundred million budget, When you stop buying is where retail starts fighting for the price. Pushing prices higher and higher or lower and lower. So when you're jumping in at all time highs you're only fighting with each other making more money for the institutions , while these big players are getting ready to dump and distribute little by little. Pay attention to ranges
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2024.11.30 03:26 oliviam26 Anyone??
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2024.11.30 03:26 Signal_Account6065 Best ECWCS/PCU Manufacturer?
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2024.11.30 03:26 blacknwhitelife02 IVF / Egg freezing buddies.. Hormones + mental health — anyone else struggling??
22f with stage 3 endo and adeno I have three rounds of egg freezing and have already finished one round.
I was supposed to start the second round but my ovaries were still too bulky from round 1 so the docs put me on levonorgestrel & ethinyloestradiol OCP and I don’t feel okay, like I’ve been extremely low. I’ve finished my last dose and will tell my doc too.
But overall I’ve been just so all over the place since I started any sort of hormones for all this. Depressed, irritable, sad, angry, and now some suicidal ideation. Wondering if it’s the constant up and down of hormones or just my life + head or a bit of both
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2024.11.30 03:26 miguelson Taking this to the office
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2024.11.30 03:26 jhelen23 Estoy desesperada por hablar
Tengo 23 años soy mujer. Hace 2 años estoy con alguien en una relación muy fea y tóxica. Todo el tiempo me ha estado dejando, me ha roto el corazón, me ha sido infiel, incluso nos hemos golpeado...en fin, me siento clml la mierda. Todas las veces q nos hemoss reparado yo he sufrido mucho, sobre todo el rechazo, su rechazo. Luego de un tiempo, viene de nuevo, me pide q volvamos y yo acepto, siempre he aceptado. Hace 2 meses lo volvimos a intentar, con terapia y todo. En algún momento la terapia dejo de existir y como era de esperarse todo se fue al traste otra vez. Hace 1 mes me confesó q no estaba enamorado de mi, q no valía la pena seguir intentándolo y yo le insistí para continuar, solo no puedo con la idea de q otra vez voy a tener q lidiar con otra ruptura, otro rechazo...la vergüenza me consume. He pasado todo este mes sintiendo qno tengo derecho de sentirme bien aquí, en esta relación xq el no quiere estar conmigo, soy yo la q le insistió. Hace una semana me conto q le había escrito a otra chica diciéndole q no podía olvidarla, q no podía parar de pensar en ella... Fue algo muy feo para mí. Escribo aquí no solo porque necesito desahogarme, si no tambien porque necesito ayuda, necesito hablar, necesito q alguien q lo entienda diferente me diga, q está mal conmigo, por qué yo aún quiero seguir con esta persona, por q no puedo dejar ir todos los recuerdos inexistentes de los "momentos felices", de los momentos q nunca existieron... Por q solo deseo q m abrace y m diga: tranquila, todo va a estar bien, vamos a estar juntos y va a ser bonito, vamis ayacer q sea bonito... Me siento fatal.
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2024.11.30 03:26 Powerful_Anime_1 fromis_9 & NewJeans Depart HYBE on the Same Day: Mutual Agreement vs. Legal Dispute
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2024.11.30 03:26 Powerful_Anime_1 Korean Netizens Criticized Celebrities for Supporting Jung Woo Sung at Blue Dragon Film Awards, Except For Hyeri
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2024.11.30 03:26 simonskipper_bass Get Guitar Pro 8 for 30% Off!
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2024.11.30 03:26 Zax720 My LEGO Snow Globe Design for Christmas
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2024.11.30 03:26 silencedwhispers Can I even call myself aroace?
I've dated a few people but I don't think I've ever done it "correctly", most of the time after I feel I was accidentally love bombing them and trying to get anything back, but end up pushing them away
I've sort of just given up, but I feel like I can't truly call myself "aroace" because I still 'like people (though it might just be myself lying) The only things I found I do 'like' are just fictional people, so it feels like the umbrella or label or whatever isn't the right one to use
(Sorry if this is scrambled and difficult to read, I don't know how to write it all-) (I feel like I might also note I'm under 18, I tried dating from 13-14 -)
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2024.11.30 03:26 Practical_Wait_8335 Going for a blind date
Any Norwich girls between 25-45 want to go on a purely organic date with a good looking 6'7 black guy and 38 professional entrepreneur and get treated like a real woman? ...shout me ladies
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2024.11.30 03:26 Skaalle Would he want to be your friend?
Really he's a nice guy if you ignore the fact that he looks like he wants to kill you all the time, he's been through some problems lately
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2024.11.30 03:26 General-Stomach-8979 Daemon having a son with Laena
I think I read somewhere that Daemon wanted a son, and that’s one of the reasons he married Rhaenyra after Laena died. However, I can’t find the source for this information, so I’m not completely sure about it. If it’s true that Daemon married Rhaenyra in hopes of having a son, I find that doubtful.
In my fanfic, Daemon and Laena marry earlier in the timeline, and she gives him a son—actually, three sons and four daughters. Hypothetically speaking, would Daemon still marry Rhaenyra after having all those children?
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