Word of The Hour: slachtoffer
2025.01.19 03:01 sharewithme Word of The Hour: slachtoffer
slachtoffer translates to victim
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2025.01.19 03:01 Austeri Lions fans after that first half
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2025.01.19 03:01 NerdGuyDudeMan Think I might be done relic farming finally
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2025.01.19 03:01 FunnyAnchor123 AITA for not wanting a relationship with my parents now they've cut me off?
I am not The OOP, OOP is\ [deleted]
Original post -- 12 April 2020
I'm a student. My parents make enough money that when I went through student finance to get my maintenance loan I was told I could only get the minimum (just over 3k a year) because finance is calculated from what your parents earn and there's an assumption that your parents will help you out.
I'm on a high intensity course and I wasn't sure how I'd be able to balance studying and schooling, so when I found out I was going to get minimum I told my parents I wanted to either take the coming year to save up, and then go to my first choice university a year later than planned, or go to my second choice now because I wouldn't be able to afford to live in the city my first choice is in. My parents then said that they would pay my rent if I went to my first choice on schedule. They set me up in a studio flat, so all I had to do was get a part time job to cover the cost of food and bills.
On 18th February - my 20th birthday - they called me and said that I was relying on them too much and needed to find out what the real world was like by earning my own money, so they would cover my rent and phone for that month (so until end of February) and after that I was on my own, then said that they were still my parents and they loved me, and wanted me to stay in touch, just learn some independence while doing this. I begged them to reconsider but they ended the call, so I had 11 days notice that I would have no flat or phone. I begged my uni for emergency housing but they said that I had no proof I'd been cut off so they couldn't do anything. I emailed my parents asking them to write a letter stating they'd cut me off so I could sort my student finance and emergency housing, they said no.
I asked work if I could take on more hours and was told that due to my contract I can't do any more than I'm already doing, so I'm now looking for a second job. I'm sleeping on a friend's sofa until a place I can afford opens up, and as I still don't have proof I've been cut off for student finance I will probably have to drop out this summer.
I got a facebook message from them today telling me they were disappointed I didn't call on mum's birthday a couple days ago, and that I've not given them my new phone number yet. I responded telling them the position I'm currently in and that I no longer want a relationship with them. I've gotten a bunch of messages from them and my brothers asking me to reconsider.
My friend says I shouldn't feel bad but I feel incredibly guilty, and like a spoiled brat, because I don't love my family for their money, I love them because they're my family, but at the same time they've really screwed me over here.
AITA for not wanting a relationship with them?
Update: I messaged them asking why they cut me off, saying the least they could do was explain why they're fine leaving me homeless. They responded. My friend (the one I'm staying with) is an out and proud lesbian. There are maybe 2 posts about me on her social media, one being a group shot of us and some people we were studying with in the library with me and her sat together, and another from a couple days before my birthday where she posted a photo of me when we went to lunch because we weren't planning on seeing each other on my actual birthday, and in the caption she refers to me as "princess" in a clearly joking way. My brothers then showed our parents and told them I was a lesbian and she was my girlfriend. So now I have proof that they cut me off, proof they're homophobic and confirmation that they can and will switch on me at the drop of a hat, as well as proof of my brothers (who are older than me and living with our parents) being jealous shit heads. They didn't just tell me this on the phone because they hoped I'd figure it out, which is tricky given that it's not fucking true *. Apparently there's enough affection still there for them to expect a call on mum's birthday, but not enough to not totally fuck me over. So yeah, never talking to them again. Any of them.
I've sent the screenshots to the person I spoke to in emergency housing, though I've been warned that for something called "emergency" housing it's not very fast. My friend has said I can stay with her as long as I need. The reply my parents sent hasn't explicitly said the phrase "we cut you off because" but given the context of them replying to my message asking why it should be enough. Thanks everyone, I felt really shitty cutting them off over finances, but now I know they're pure fucking evil I don't feel so bad.
I've also sent my parents the screenshots of my brother confirming that he and my brother lied about me, and they've very apologetic, but that doesn't change anything. As my brothers live with my parents, I hope they're all very happy together right now.
New plan: changing the focus of my studies going into third year to focus on the subjects I want to do, not the ones my parents wanted me to do. If I do this, I have a far better shot at getting a work placement (it's far less popular than my current field of study) and if I get a work placement I can spend my third year working full time, earning a bit of cash, and then resume my studies the following year. Failing this, and if I can't get any help from the university or student finance, then I will defer my third year and work full time for a year. My friend says I can stay with her as long as I need and has said if I can't get emergency housing but can sort out my placement or another job then we could get a place together next year so I have a confirmed roommate.
I no longer think I'm TA so I'll probably be taking this down.
*so here's the thing. I might not be straight. I'm figuring it out and I don't really have the capacity to go through it right now, but I've never said anything to anyone, at all, ever, because I knew my parents were homophobic, so my brothers may have thought they were lying but they also may have been inadvertently correct, and I have to say being correct by accident is very typical of them.
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A_Sarcastic_Werecat
In their facebook messages, did they tell you that you were cut-off or could you get them to write that they cut you off?OP
LarryDavidsCerealI emailed asking why they cut me off, and they replied in a way that was like "we cannot confirm or deny that we did or did not cut you off but if we did then it's because of this" which combined with the whole homeless thing and messages they've previously sent confirming they'd paid my rent that month should be enough, but I'm prepared for it to not quite work. There are lawyers and student union but it's currently Easter holidays so everyone is away from work right now.
Am I reading this right? You were willing to delay your plans so you could get your finances in order and your parents told you not to worry about it, that they would pay- you relied on that and they suddenly cut you off with less than 2 weeks notice?OP
MSMissy116I live on the bare minimum, buying cheap clothes I only replace when I have to, cooking on a budget, saving all I can. I picked this uni because my parents wanted me to, and even chose my course based on the field they want me to go into, which makes more money than the one I wanted to do. I've always gone with whatever they said, never argued back, I don't even go out with friends or date because they always tell me they don't want stuff detracting from my studies, and nothing has happened on their end to decrease finances. If anything, given the nature of their work and current circumstances, business is thriving for them. Getting cut off was totally blindsiding. I'd understand it a bit more if I did something to warrant it, but there's honestly been nothing.
What I dont understand is why they refuse to put into writing what they have done if they believe it to be the right decisionOP
THIS IS A REPOST SUB - I AM NOT THE OOP. THE OOP NO LONGER HAS AN ACCOUNT ON REDDIT AND THE ORIGINAL POST IS LOCKEDThey said they've already given me enough advantages and I should be at a stage where I can pay for myself or figure it out without getting extra money from student loans or emergency housing.
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2025.01.19 03:01 wigglespup LED lights for succulents
Hi! I'm working on making my leopard geckos enclosure semi bioactive, and am trying to find a nice affordable LED light for succulents growth. It's kinda confusing lol, do you guys have any suggestions? A lightting system under $100 is definitely preferred 😅
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2025.01.19 03:01 sharewithme Word of The Hour: fethesik
fethesik translates to victim
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2025.01.19 03:01 client42 [WTS] Seiko 5K2J-0A30 Black Dial Scuba 200M Day Date Solar Quartz Watch - $145
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2025.01.19 03:01 Due_Ad_8493 This is your reminder you can listen to and like mainstream metal
So many metal fans are obnoxious and act like if you listen to popular music you’re a “fake” metal fan. I listened to enter sandman and crazy train today and loved every second of it. Lick my 🥜elitists
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2025.01.19 03:01 bite_wound It follows me
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2025.01.19 03:01 Eastern-Two-8634 New account, i need karma pleaseee 🙏🏻
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2025.01.19 03:01 jdyerjdyer "What have you got there?"
I didn't even have time to register the loud bang.
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2025.01.19 03:01 sharewithme Word of The Hour: víctima
víctima translates to victim
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2025.01.19 03:01 ligamentperson46 Anyone else seeing that really bright orange light?
I don't know if this is a dumb question, but I'm feeling really curious so I thought I'd ask. A bit earlier, driving back from trinidad and I see this really bright orange light in the distance. It wasn't dark outside yet so It stood out to me. Now, driving into arcata and I see a similar orange glow far off in the distance. Anyone know what's going on? Or am I just being dumb?
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2025.01.19 03:01 mblunt1201 Do languages like Chinese or Japanese have different fonts like English does?
For example, English has some pretty well known fonts, like Times New Roman or Comic Sans. Do languages like Chinese/Japanese also have different fonts?
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2025.01.19 03:01 ladywelsh Just curious: why do I always want to itch my lotion/creams off?
I’ve tried dozens of lotions and creams and without fail I always want to itch them off, but only on my legs! I can put the same exact lotion on my arms, stomach, etc. and am completely unbothered, so it’s not an allergy. I also know it’s not eczema, as my husband and sons all have that so I know what it looks like.
My theory is maybe it’s because I shave my legs? But it’s only my calves and it’s only AFTER I apply lotion, if it’s been 3+ days without shaving, or if I’m extremely stressed out. They don’t itch most times otherwise.
Are my legs just chronically dry from decades of shaving? Or is this just likely psychological?
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2025.01.19 03:01 shreddedpower How much trouble am I in for an alleged aggressive driving charge in Arizona?
Back story, I’m from a state that does not have “aggressive driving” as a law. From what I understand, both from reading and research, it is a Class 1 Misdemeanor.
I’m over 25, no priors, not as much of a speeding ticket.
I was headed home and I was fully stopped at a light for allegedly “aggressive driving”. There was no radar reading, I asked to confirm. I am in complete disbelief about this. I was driving in an open road and don’t believe I was speeding or aggressive towards anyone.
Anyone have experience with this?
I’ve sought legal council but not getting a lot of specialized lawyers.
Please let me know. Thank you.
Is there a chance it gets dismissed or reduced to civil?
They did not book me or impound my car. Just a court date. I would imagine if I was driving aggressively and recklessly (actually), they wouldn’t let me keep driving? I’m not sure.
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2025.01.19 03:01 BigTunaPA Are the Elac B6.2’s too big for my space? Placement help
Underestimated how big the Elac B6.2 speakers are. I hate the way they look right now. I’m in the process of getting a media tower to put the receiver etc. in so that will go to the right of the tv in the space between the tv and lamp.
What other options do I have for placement? Just stands I think? One could go between the plant and tv but the other one on the right would have to cram in somewhere by the lamp.
I have kids so not too many options to shift things around. Any ideas? Do I just need smaller speakers?
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2025.01.19 03:01 ExternalBorder8489 Interview tips for a 5 star hotel in an affluent part of my city
I’ve got an interview coming soon for a supposed 5-star hotel in a affluent part of my city, I’ve got a few years of experience bartending and serving at restaurants and venues, but I feel like this is shooting above my usual gig. Any tips for the interview ?
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2025.01.19 03:01 PolskiNapoleon Why are you openly sharing your SaaS revenue and customer base? Isn’t that against your own interest?
If your SaaS's main functionality and marketing strategy are relatively simple, and I have excellent full-stack development skills then why shouldn't I create a copycat of your product? Many SaaS apps are built using no-code tools and often lack quality, making them even easier to replicate.
If I were to brag about my success, I would do it in front of my neighbors, friends, family in tangible ways like driving a nice car or having some sauna/pool in my yard. Why are you doing it in front of thousands of strangers where any of them can duplicate your product and compete with you potentially stealing your potential customers.
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2025.01.19 03:01 JAYDENJAY_ uh am new💔(dont mind the first pic💔💔💔)
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