How can I balance my high sex drive with the low sex drive of my husband without ruining my marriage

2025.01.19 17:53 TurnoverAdmirable621 How can I balance my high sex drive with the low sex drive of my husband without ruining my marriage

I '31 F' and my husband '41 M' have been married for over 6 years now, we have two beautiful children that we adore and he is the most loving and caring father. We got married out of a beautiful love story, he is a respectful male, very ambitious obsessed with his work and always wanting to achieve more things. He also have a high moral compass, very straightforward, honest, caring and compassionate with everyone around him. I truly feel blessed that I've found my soul mate, and I know that he will never intentionally hurt me, cheat on me or whatever thing that might destroy our family. My only and biggest issue is our sexual relationship. I've always been a "sexual" person, not by doing it I was preserving myself for marriage and I don't regret that I did. In the other hand my now husband had always the "good boy" energy, I could feel when we were dating that we had diffrent energies but I valued more his kindness, values and our similarities within out vision of life, how to raise kids, and so on! Since the beginning of our marriage he always have been "colder" than me, he was also mastrubating a lot and claimed that it's out of habbit, we had huge fights over it and eventually stopped doing it frequently. We had long conversations about what he does like and it was basically boobs so I started to wear more reveiling clothes at home with push-ups and started to have more intimate moments frequently. He isn't fond of penetration so it often has been us masturbating each other. So I always felt needing more but he was ok with how it's going so didn't put much effort to it. One of the fewer times we had full sex I ended up getting pregnant with my first which totally paused our sex life for a year, the day we tried again I got pregnant with my second.I gained 30kg with my second pregnancy and him not willing to touch me again made me loose all my self confidence ( for reference before getting married I always attracted the opposite sex and guys always wanted to date me I had a lot of boundaries but I've always felt desired which was fulfilling by itself) Anyway, I got my body back, lost my weight and I couldn't stop thinking about when can we have back our sex life back. But it didn't seem to bother him that much which made me even crazier. The thoughts of being with someone that doesn't crave me as i do, makes me insane. We started to have very open discussions, and not being unexperienced in this field, I feel like I still don't know what I really like, what's thrilling for me, and I can't feel that I'm with a partner that can help me do that. I'm writing seeking for an advice on how to handle this. We communicate a lot the issue is not here, he always end up saying he will make efforts, and he does from time to time but not as much as I was hoping for. It's getting critical for me because I'm starting to think about talking with other people anonymously online just for the thrill of feeling desired, I feel like I need to feel him wanting me everyday but can't blame him for not doing it either because I don't want to make this subject a burden for him. He is a great husband and father with great qualities and other than that I'm very happy and in love with him. But this sex drive that I have and the lack of compatibility is making me insane, and I'm afraid I'll ruin my marriage because of it.
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