Anyone else been here ?

2025.01.20 20:50 Background_Egg_1770 Anyone else been here ?

Now, a year ago my husband and I did have some rough patches and so on but we worked through it and so I thought we were on a great path and that everything was absolutely great. We've been together for 9 yrs, and have children. In the past 6 months I've caught my husband keeping secrets, some are things we have spoken about and cleared up. For some context, the items:

  1. Male enhancements - He tried it out of curiosity and after he said he did not like it and would stop.
  2. Maryjane Vapes (we both are smokers) - I would be the one to buy and then not communicate I have it and then he would be upset. So we agreed to just be transparent about it.
  3. Open and clear communication the above items all were spoken about and cleared a year ago 1. Over the summer, as I was cleaning, I found a pack of male enhancements (this is 4 months after above convo). It was opened and used (2 of 6 missing). Now mind you my mind went crazy BUT i did not say anything because I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt and allow him to communicate. I did some digging while waiting and found out the pills were delivered 4 weeks before I found them. Since he did not bring it up - I finally asked about it (probably another 2 weeks after I found them). He explained it was on auto delivery and forgot to skip it. When I asked about why two were missing he said he used them on me but he could not recall when exactly.
2. While doing laundry (about 2 weeks after the pill situation) a vape fell out of his pocket. Now, it did make me a little mad and I figured maybe he forgot so I just figured I would wait to ask him later. When I finally asked, I did it so that it would not give off what I knew. So I simply asked, When did you get a vape - all answers received were denied: I dont have one, what are you talking about, etc etc. So I pulled it out and said it was funny because this fell out when doing laundry - SILENCE and stares. I reminded him of our conversation about being transparent and I got an apology. I moved on from it.
3. Well it's obvious he is not. He just wants me to be communicative and transparent. Since he is not reciprocating it.
Now ever since all of the above has happened, about a month later something happened where we were hanging out with his friends and of course - they openly started talking about one particular day, his friends started talking and they recounted everything from that afternoon that did NOT match what he had told me! and it hit me - something is off. My gut went crazy and ever since has been.
I also had this ONE freaking vivid dream. It was him and his friends and he was legit screwing a girl whom we know and his friends were present. Now I told him about this dream and he called it crazy and all. I also did not make a fuss about the dream to him.
I've noticed some changes in behaviour and so on and I have been just mentally assessing everything I have noticed and this GUT feeling I have DOES NOT go away. I feel like there is something I just don't know what it is. I did already express this feeling I have (which I know I shouldn't have and I did because I wanted him to explain or at least give him a chance to say something). - SInce this talk I now know he has an OF acct. I don't know much about that site nor have I seen his acct - I just know because he follows these weird accounts which I now know are hidden OF girl accounts.
I'm still silently observing. If any other woman has been in this situation please let me know what else I can do to get some closure on my gut feeling. I won't ask him further because it's clear he is not being honest and transparent.
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There’s a bunch of fire trucks lined up at 4th & Jeff/Madison. Anyone know what’s going on?
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2025.01.20 20:50 kaykut99 Recommendations for Cancun

We’re planning our first all-inclusive vacation and would love recommendations! We’re a family of four (2 adults and 2 teenagers) looking for advice based on your experiences with the following resorts. Here’s what we’re looking for:

Given our budget, we’re leaning toward Barcelo Maya Palace, which seems like a good fit. We were initially drawn to Grand Moon Palace, but unfortunately, it’s out of our price range. We are looking into Iberostar Selection as well. Any other resort recommendations are also highly appreciated. Considering we are paying an arm and a leg for the experience we would like most amenities to be free (e.g. water park, wave rider etc) but again not a deal breaker.
Also, I’ve heard that tipping is generally recommended at all-inclusive. Can anyone share tips on how much to tip, who to tip, and when to tip? Any advice on the best approach for tipping would be much appreciated!
Thank you for your insights and suggestions!
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My dough came out way too dry and crumbly at first, so ended up having to add two tablespoons of water to get it to stay together. I used a fork to drizzle the melted white chocolate. Simple and delicious!
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2025.01.20 20:50 Bzzzb_tch Looking for APT

Hello po!
Looking for APT in Central, Kalayaan, or Teacher's village. Or any basta lapit sa Circle.
Solo Working Male, 5-6k budget. Own Sink and CR po sana.
Can move in this week.
Thank you po!
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2025.01.20 20:50 sweetpumpkinx What is sound? Is it vibration? How could it bring so much joy to my heart?

Man I love how the music sound
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2025.01.20 20:50 Several_Bug_7952 Would you use an app to simplify meal planning and reduce food waste?

Hello,
I've got an idea and i was wondering there is a market for it so lets start with those questions
Do you often struggle to use all the ingredients in your fridge?
How do you currently plan meals for the week?
Thank you in advance
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2025.01.20 20:50 UKR10365 Benavidez’s Anger Problem: Advantage Morrell?

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Hi I’m Lys. A bit about me! I like traveling mostly by myself, trying new things, and capturing those moments. I also like listening to podcasts and reading. Would be down to talk about anything!
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2025.01.20 20:50 AdIntelligent3895 Covid protocol

Okay - this is my first watch-through. I’m on season 16. Ysabel is about to finally get her scoliosis surgery.
It’s glaringly obvious that all of Kody’s alleged COVID feaparanoia is from Robyn, right? The rules HE is following are HER rules? And he’s throwing the rest of his family away to see her and her kids??? Am I getting this right? What a colossal POS.
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2025.01.20 20:50 Classic-Ad-228 Quesadillas, Kids meals, tacos

is anyone else just so tired of making kids meals & quesadillas & tacos 😭 especially on DML, i know thats like half our menu but its every other order & they’re genuinely just so annoying to make. I wish chipotle hadn’t added the quesadillas as an online menu item
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2025.01.20 20:50 Underworn2 Ongezellig insta accounts

As much as I like that their promoting the show, I kinda wish they would credit the people making the art/edits as some of them have taken some of my edits and have gotten more views than my original post, which is kinda annoying since I’m not getting anything from it. Anyone feel the same way?
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2025.01.20 20:50 GlobalPeach Prometric Exam Fee?

I tried to register for the patent bar exam last night (I have the admittance letter to sit for the exam), but I saw there was a payment that had to be made directly on the Prometric website of another $254.14. I looked on the USPTO website and looks like the fee is referenced here.
I have experience registering for the exam sometime early 2024/late 2023, and I really don't recall having seen a separate payment to Prometric when I registered to sit for the exam then. I only recall paying ~$330 or so to USPTO but nothing to Prometric. Is this a recent change, or am I just completely blanking out?
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Trying to call off and we were told to do it on my PepsiCo website, I can’t find any information to do it.
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2025.01.20 20:50 Glum_Drop4864 This happened after using defrost

Can this be covered by warranty?
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Hey. I run a fashion niche page and do affiliate marketing with clothes I wear. People ask me for links but do not follow. What can I do to make them follow? Maybe say follow me first only then you’ll get link? lol. I have less followers 150 currently but my last 30 days reach is 3 million - one of my reel went viral.
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2025.01.20 20:50 Wonderful-Junket-687 Family med-Daily Schedule question?

Hello all,
New grad here, started seeing pts in December. Just trying to understand scheduling as I have no other PA's at my practice to compare and all of my classmates experiences seem pretty different.
If you work in family med, when is your last pt scheduled before lunch/before you're supposed to be off for the day and how long of an appt? Do they schedule it right up to the last second (for example Lunch is 12-1, and they schedule a 30 minute appt from 11:30-12:00).
My clinic hours are 8-6, with a one hour lunch. I am supposed to have the hour of 6-7 for "admin time", so should be done w/ pts at 6, but they routinely schedule my last pt at 5:30-6 for 30 minute appt (I am still ramping up, will do 4 weeks of 30 minutes and move to 20 minute blocks shortly). The front desk closes at 6 so I routinely have to let pts out thru the back door and rarely am actually done by 6.
I am not sure if this is an unrealistic expectation, but it seems all of the MDs at my clinic have some "cushion" before leaving for lunch and before they're supposed to be done for the day, about one appt length of time extra to give them time to finish charting. Is this standard practice or an unreasonable request? When I originally was negotiating my schedule I was trying to understand the specifics of my schedule and got a lot of vague answers that basically said "we'll work with you", but I seem to get pushback for everything I ask about.
There are no other PA's or NPs at my practice and comparing to MDs hasn't gotten me anywhere cause they all rotate as hospitalist and have very different clinic hours.
I am willing to accept if I am just being a baby but I wanted to get some perspective from folks in other clinics before I resign myself to this schedule.
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2025.01.20 20:50 Aware_Reception_273 Permporary

Insurance odds?
Functional ABS odds in the ice tomorrow?
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