AITA for thinking BF is blaming things on his health issues?
2025.01.23 00:02 Competitive-Key1064 AITA for thinking BF is blaming things on his health issues?
I'm F31, my bf is M32. We've known eachother since 2016, been really good friends, 2 years ago we decided to become a couple while I was still living in his country. Since then I had to move back to my home country (1h flight), with the intention of moving back to his, hence why we decided to stay together. I still visit every few months.
He's a really sweet guy, very attentive to details BUT there are a few things I am taking into consideration, and I am just lost and would like someone's opinion.
- A few traumatic things happened since I moved back to my home country, and I am slowly starting to realize I do not want to move out again.. I am planning on telling him this, but just didn't have the right time recently.
- He expects me to be on-line all the time, He works part time but suffers from hyperactive thyroid - I know this can affect one's life but I feel like this goes hand in hand with the fact that he's gaming all day every day, not going out. When I try to confront him about this he reminds me of how sick he is, that he can only work 2 days a week because of it and how much anxiety it's causing him. AITA for thinking this is not just thyroid related? He is not actively reaching out to doctors to get this sorted, but rather waits around telling me that's what he's got to do but then again he stays up until like 3 am gaming..
- I had someone die in my family last week that made me a bit prickly and not the most lovey dovey. Every day he SPAMS me with messages telling me that he loves me, that he can't wait til we're living together, that he wants to hear all about my day - I appreciate it, I know that's what a lot of ladies want but I told him clearly I'm not in the best of moods and might not be for a while, and yet he's asking me if he did something wrong, that he feels like I'm distancing from him cause I don't tell him how I'm feeling, when I clearly communicated with him that I'm not in the best mindset.
- After work, I do go on-line and spend time with him and our common friends on discord but he always ends up messaging me in private saying that we haven't spoken in ages on our own (since the funeral). I do call him throughout the day and we have chats so that's really starting to get to me.
Any advice? Cheers
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2025.01.23 00:02 Global-Difficulty153 WIBTA if I ask a housemate to leave?
Going to do my best to keep this story straightforward lol. Cast: Me (27F), BF (32M), SIL: BF’s sister (22F), Friend (35F)
So Friend had asked me if she could stay with me for a while as she was moving back to the country after a few years away. BF and I had a spare room so we said yes. There is no formal agreement for how long she can stay but she is paying rent.
With SIL, she was living in our home country but she was having a shit go at life. Just like, every bad thing that could happen to a young adult was happening and she needed help. When she agreed for us to fly her over and to move in with us, we made this happen ASAP so just after Friend moved in, SIL moved in too.
The dynamic with SIL is a bit weird, me and BF are somewhere between older sibling figures and parental figures for her. She hasn’t had a lot of support or love which is why she’s with us now, to get a proper start in life. For this reason, we might be a bit more involved than you would expect for a 22 year old.
So the current situation is that we are grateful to finally have SIL here and safe, and it’s handy having rent from Friend but the house is too full and tension is starting to come up.
Now I am considering telling Friend she needs to find a new place to stay and I cannot figure out whether my reasons are legitimate or selfish. The only reason for her to stay is the fact that she pays rent but we can live without the rent if we need and SIL will start paying rent as soon as she finds a job.
My reasons for wanting to ask her to leave are:
- Rent is not always on time meanwhile she spends a lot on consumer purchases. Not judging her for purchases but it does seem weird when rent is late, ya know?
- She orders a lot of packages, which we need to accept at the door. It can be disruptive when I’m working, especially because she doesn’t give us a heads up that things are arriving. I’m talking 5-6 packages each week. Small inconvenience but still.
- On the consumer purchases, we are a bit worried that SIL is seeing all of the spending and thinking that it’s normal. We are hoping to instill slightly more… sensible money habits in SIL.
- She takes advantage of SIL a bit. SIL cleans a lot around the house and Friend will leave her dishes to be cleaned by SIL. I haven’t seen this but BF is pissed and has said something to Friend about this.
- A cat. This one is probably a 100% selfish reason but I want a cat. Our cat passed away after a long health battle last year and we can’t get another cat until there’s more space in the house. Right now we can’t put the kitty litter anywhere but we could if Friend moved out.
- My office. Again, might be selfish but I want my office back. Doing my work from a corner in the living room doesn’t work, it’s cramped and I have to move halfway through my work day. I just want my space back.
Do we even need a reason? I mean, it is our house. That being said, we did tell her she could stay with us but the situation has changed.
I don’t want to lose my friendship with Friend but if it does happen, it won’t be the end of the world. I like Friend but we just aren’t super close.
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Meds: Vyvanse (binge eating - down 40lbs one 1 year), Adderall, Lamotrigine, Prazosin and Trazodone.
Noticed swollen right submandibular lymph node approx 6 months ago. No swelling on left side.
Additional s/s: head/neck discomfort for the last 12 months, occipital to mid thoracic, incessant need to crack neck/back/jaw with minimal relief - almost feels as if jaw is misaligned. Frequent tinnitus, ear pressure at times but no drainage.
Also pertinent: worked as a paramedic for the past ~15 years so neck/back pain may be completely irrelevant. Fall approx 2 years ago on ice with fractured ribs. Fall approx 1 year ago, again on ice, with significant head strike/no LOC/anticoags/etc.
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Hello legaladvicecanada,
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I’m quite uncomfortable with this, as I feel there’s a conflict of interest given the information I shared with them. I’m concerned about the implications this might have on my case and my privacy.
Has anyone here experienced something similar? What steps did you take in such a scenario? Is there a way to formally object to this representation given the potential conflict of interest? Any advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you!
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I have been working through a number of classics as a personal project over the past year or so and recently started John Steinbeck. My original plan was to reread Of Mice and Men (which I hadn’t tackled since high school) and the Grapes of Wrath. However after finishing Of Mice and Men I found I was greatly moved by the story and fixated with his writing. I tackled the Winter of Our Discontent, Travels With Charlie Across America, East of Eden and The Red Pony in addition to my originally planned novels and I plan to continue my way through his bibliography.
Until now, Steinbeck had always been another modernist writer who I read in school but never thought much about since. I enjoyed his work as much as any other author, but not particularly much more. Now, I find it to be not only quite enjoyable but more importantly extremely engrossing. This took me by surprise and I have been putting a lot of thought into why this might be.
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Reflecting back on the last couple months of reading, I’m excited and grateful to have had this experience, I wanted share and see if anyone has had something similar happen to them? Have you found yourself rediscovering classic literature and experiencing it in a completely different way?
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After the iron infusion and months of taking the pills basically everyday, I still feel awful. My period takes most of my iron I guess, but even after all the treatments, I feel worse than before.
I don’t know if I should get another infusion, I had gotten one a couple of months ago. I feel as if I can’t drive, I can’t stand, I can’t breathe. Everything is so draining.
What would you suggest?
TLDR: Dying
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2025.01.23 00:02 unidentifiedactual Need some help with a somewhat awkward friend situation
Hi to all. I’m focusing on finishing up my graduate degree right now and likely should put all energy towards that, but my New Year’s resolution was to be more open & social.
I have a friend I met through mutual acquaintances. We hung out once and in a way I felt like she was interviewing me. She asked if I know “a”. This is how I’ll refer to this other person I was inseparable from. Our friendship lasted from early teens to early 20s and abruptly ended. I tried to omit the questions because while we didn’t have a big fight or burned a bridge, I felt a bit unliked by her so I quietly left.
The acquaintance asked me what I’m doing and we met up. This time she tried to tell me we should do a weekend trip right then and there. We walked, and turns out she made us stop by As boyfriends house.. they were all going on a trip then and there. The acquaintance picked up her bag from the apartment and I said um I’m not really ready so I won’t be joining.
This happened a few times organically too. My cousin and I were at a family baby shower and both A and the acquaintance were there. a was very nice and respectful to me, she even gave me her # and we made plans just us. It was fine.
But we haven’t spoken since, and I feel like the acquaintance friend is continually springing these plans onto me and sometimes A is there. I don’t know if I should talk to them both, but acquaintance friend asks me if me and A caught up.. how our friendship is.. why we fell out?? So I’m assuming A must’ve said something. I don’t know, should I try to be friendly with both? Or make plans myself?
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