Seems like everybody was working in the program.
2025.01.23 01:25 MartianMaterial Seems like everybody was working in the program.
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2025.01.23 01:25 gilescoreytiger [NY] 2 Months into a new job, boss being overly critical, micromanaging, gaslighting, making my job very difficult - do I go to HR?
As the title says, I am about two months into a new job, working directly under my new boss who leads the department which consists of only me and him (small nonprofit). Though not outright abusive, from day one, he has been incredibly condescending in his tone, critical of literally almost everything I do (which I would be fine with if it were constructive to help me learn and presented in a kind and helpful manner), extremely micromanaging - ie, making me CC him on all email communication, making sure he approves my email language before I send them, etc - gaslighting (telling me to do one thing, and then when I do it, telling me I should have done the opposite), and overall making my job extremely difficult. I dread going to work, seeing him, or doing literally anything because I know that 95% of the time, it will be met with criticism from him. My morale is very low and I feel defeated and beat down. Though he is not being outright abusive, is this worth going to HR over - also a one person department. I worry this is too small and too soon. Would love insight!
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2025.01.23 01:25 Many_Clock5667 Gusto maging ka-talking stage si crush/friend kahit meron na syang ka-talking stage kung pwede
Problem/Goal: Gusto maging ka-talking stage ang friend/crush kahit rejected na once. Hindi daw nahalata feelings ko noon. Hindi ko naman din kasi pinahalata. Meron syang ka-talking stage ngayon. Natatakot din na baka mawala ang friendship kung magsabi.
Context: Na-meet ko (F) sya (F) sa X. Same fandom kasi kami. Halos 1 year na din kaming friends. Eventually, nagkagusto ako. Di naman kasi sya mahirap magustuhan. Ang dami nyang positive traits sa kanya. Di ko inamin sa kanya. Then, nakakita ako ng signs na may crush na ata sya na bago sa X. Nagselos ako to the point na napa-amin tuloy ako ng feelings. Hindi nya daw nahalata pero kasi acts of service ako so baka di nya talaga halata online. Rejected ako pero friends pa din kami. This January lang ako nireject. Hindi ko din kasi pinahalata feelings ko sa kanya. Bali subtle gestures lang ng acts of service. Friends pa din, halos walang nagbago. Kaso akala ko nakamove on na ako, di pa pala. May feelings pa din pa pala ako kasi recently, kinwento nya sa gc namin na may ka-talking stage sya. Tapos nakikita ko din sa ig reels, yung mga liked reels nya eh talagang may gusto sya. There was one time, shinare nya sa story nya yung trending vid ni Bernadette Sembrano na “Sayo, Ako”. Gusto ko sana mag-ask sa kanya na maging ka-talking stage din sana sya kung pwede? Parang gusto ko pa din kasing bigyan ng shot eh. Ilaban lang. Kaso napanghihinaan ako ng loob kasi baka talagang gusto nya yung crush nya. Tapos di pa ako marunong mag-flirt talaga. Acts of service yung love language ko like gumawa ng meme, corny jokes, nag-download ng movies for her, mga ganun. So di ko pa din sure talaga gagawin ko. Sabihin ko ba na meron pa din akong feelings kahit sinabi ko na sa kanya na nagmoveon na ako? Pwede kaya mag-ask na maging ka-talking stage nya? Or talagang mag-move on na ako? Natatakot din kasi ako na baka mawala yung friendship. Thank you!
Previous Attempts: Rejected once pero di ko kasi talaga pinahalata feelings ko.
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2025.01.23 01:25 KeyNegotiation42069 Me and mommy Lute having sex right now irl, god she’s so good, holy shit, oh god, I bet you’re really jealous of me right now
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2025.01.23 01:25 lameemz Which endcaps for the Tacx Neo 2T
Hi I got a Tacx Neo 2T, my bike is an argon 18 krypton size S, shimano 105, 11 speeds. as per the instructions I originally used it with the 130 NDS endcap. After using it 3 times I fell and actually damaged my bike. I’m trying to re install it again and it occurred to me that the endcap may have not been the right one. I’m just confused as to which I should size I should use. I have been scanning the posts but any other resources or idea on how to figure that our would be great.
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2025.01.23 01:25 -Cono help i cant decide help me pick, 433 holding, have cr7 rn
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2025.01.23 01:25 Acceptable_Topic_285 Boyfriend broke up with me shortly after 2 year anniversary
I was not expecting this at all. I was with my boyfriend for 2 years (guess I should call him ex now, huh) and just a few days after we celebrated our 2nd anniversary, he tells me he wants to break up.
You probably hear it all the time, but I really didn't know where it was coming from. He didn't want to tell me the reason for it, but I kept begging him for one. At least give me something so I can have closure instead of just torturing myself trying to guess what the reason could be.
My ex said that he stopped loving me, and hasn't loved me for a long time in the relationship. I asked what a "long time" meant, and he said that it was maybe 4 or 5 months into the relationship when he fell out of love with me. That just made it more confusing to me, and I almost didn't even believe him at first. I never had the indication that didn't love me anymore all throughout the relationship.
He apparently was having doubts about our relationship even into the early months of us dating. He said he did have feelings for me back then, but he felt like they were always fluctuating. He thought that with time, he would just naturally or eventually fall in love with me. Then the 4-5 month mark hit, and he realized that he didn't love me at all. But okay, if he really didn't love me anymore, why the hell did he stay for 2 years?
All he said was "I don't have a good answer for that." I pushed him to tell me the reason, even if it was super insulting or painful (the out of nowhere breakup was bad enough, so I doubted his reason would have hurt more), but he kept insisting that he doesn't know why, or that he didn't have a good explanation why.
I still don't believe his answer because of course everyone always has a reason for doing what they do. God I feel so fucking stupid. Fine, he isn't going to tell me, so I have to figure out what went so wrong. It was hard to because my ex never sat me down to tell me about issues in the relationship, or if he had an issue with something I did. Not to say that it was a perfect relationship; we still had arguments, but they were all about surface level issues.
Part of me wonders if I was too oblivious or in love to notice that our relationship was deteriorating right under my nose.
I just feel like an idiot. I keep going over every memory and moment I can think of from this relationship and second guessing/psychoanalyzing everything. I was always under the impression that we were happy, that he was happy. I thought we were going to have a future together; we were literally just talking about looking for apartments days before the breakup. I never suspected that there was something wrong in the relationship. Who the hell celebrates not one, but two anniversaries with someone if the relationship is going poorly, right? Well, I guess now it is totally possible. That's the scary part. Guess you really don't know someone until the mask drops.
And on that note, I am just beyond pissed off that he didn't break up with me sooner. That would've saved so much wasted time from both ends. It was all on him to do it. I was in love all this time, and I thought it was the same from him. Now that I know that he didn't love me anymore and stayed in the relationship pretending as though he did, I don't know how I can trust another man again.
We had arguments and disagreements, but nothing that would indicate that the man secretly hated me or wasn't happy in the relationship. I honestly thought I was having a bad dream at first. I don't know about you, but it is such a terrifying and shock-inducing feeling to find out that your partner was only pretending to love you and did a good job at it.
The fact that he made sure to celebrate our second anniversary before our breakup just makes my blood boil. It's another thing that makes me feel like an idiot. On every anniversary, I would give him a handwritten letter summarizing how we spent the year together and expressing my love for him. I was looking forward to making it a yearly tradition. My asshole of an ex read those letters, looked me in the eye, and told me how meaningful it was as though the scumbag actually had love in his heart for me. What a joke, and what a joke of a man. But maybe I'm the bigger joke for writing such a mushy love letter to a man who didn't even love me, and I never noticed.
I have wondered if the timing was deliberate too, like if my ex was a sadistic psychopath. Maybe that's what this is. Maybe he stayed for 2 years because he enjoyed having his "little secret" and constantly fooling me. It's the same reason why some people love pranks. They love being in a situation where they know everything, and the other person is unsuspecting and thinks everything okay. I really hope that my ex didn't stay in the relationship all for a "prank."
I did ask him if he planned the breakup that way on purpose. He claims he didn't mean it to be right after our anniversary. He said that he had been working up the courage to break up "for a while" and never could settle on the right moment. Apparently, what made him feel like it was the right time was because something I said made him "snap." The moment I said that we should take a drive to check out a potential neighborhood, he realized he couldn't take it anymore; he couldn't keep up the act anymore. The rest is history.
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2025.01.23 01:25 DonSolo96 Meet the Enemy: Saint Mary's Gaels
The Enemy: Saint Mary's Gaels
Last Season: 26-8 (15-1 WCC). Swept Dons, 77-60 in Memorial, 70-66 in Moraga.
This Season: 16-3, 6-0 WCC (picked 2nd)
Kenpom/NET: 28/28 (USF 72/70)
The Line: Gaels -8.5
Where to Watch?: CBSSN
The Skinny: The Dons were 21-6 the last time they walked into Moraga's McKeon Pavilion (or UCU or whatever the heck it's called now) and came out as losers, 70-66. That was a decidedly physical contest that played to the Gaels frontcourt strength, and I fully expect a similar sort of game in the East Bay tomorrow night.
There are, of course, familiar names the Dons will need to contend with: 6'10" tank Mitchell Saxen (10.1 ppg, 8.2 rpg) has probably looked at a lot of tape of how USF defended against Michael Rataj and Parsa Fallah on Saturday, while defending WCC PoY Augustus Marciulionis (14.2 ppg, 5.63 apg) is surely aware of the hype Malik Thomas has been garnering around taking the PoY crown away. But there are newcomers this year as well, starting with freshman Mikey Lewis (8.7 ppg, team-high 38.8% 3pt). Lewis started the year redhot before cooling off a bit, but he provides a spark off the bench that reminds me a bit of the impact Ryan Beasley had in his freshman campaign.
The Gaels, per usual, are excellent in multiple facets of the game: 6th in the country in rebounding (41.2 rpg), 7th in assist-turnover ratio (1.727), 7th in team scoring defense (62.4 ppg) and 12th in opponent 3PM per game (5.8). They only give up 9.8 turnovers per game (17th), so mistakes are few and far between.
SMC has yet to play any of the top contenders in the conference, and this game is the first of a grueling eight-game gauntlet where they will do nothing but. Bennett will have his usual tricks up his sleeve, so it will be up to CG to react and toss his own creative ideas on the court: a full-court press to attempt to disrupt the cool, efficient Gaels offense? Crashing the boards to attempt to maximize second-chance points? I am optimistic this will be a fun game of cat-and-mouse.
Fun Fact: Former Don Jason Gaines, who hit the game-winning jumper with 2.9 seconds left in the Dons' last victory in Moraga, 68-67, way back in 2003, now works in Orange County as a Human Capital Management (HCM) Technical Sales Consultant for HR software company Trinet.
The Prediction: If the Dons play anywhere as efficient as they did against Oregon State, then they have a shot. I felt this spread was a tad higher than expected. That said, RB has been such a tough nut for the Dons to crack for so long, it is difficult to predict a win. Saint Mary's 70, Dons 68.
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2025.01.23 01:25 Potterhead1234567890 How to forgive yourself for ignored health?
Hi everyone,
I’m a 22F, who was diagnosed with diabetes type 1 in 2020. In 2022 I started having systematic lupus symptoms, for which I was under supervision of a cardiologist, neurologist, dermatologist, and GP. Long story short, they couldn’t help me further and my biopsy came back inconclusive, so I decided to go abroad for treatment. This cost me a lot of money (almost 2000 euros) for a second biopsy by someone who got recommended to me. This biopsy came back inconclusive too. However, the biopsy report was wrongly interpreted by the specialist, as he wrote in his letter to me that there was no sign of disease, when in fact although the disease couldn’t be confirmed, it also couldn’t be excluded. However, because he said there was no sign of the disease, I ignored my gut feeling and went on with life. Fast forward to 2024, I got diagnosed and the prognosis is less good than in 2022, as treatment in the first 3-6 months is most important. Needless to say I’m heartbroken and have trouble forgiving myself for some mistakes I made. For example, I followed one of the pioneers in the field on social media, but didn’t send in a question of the week. In hindsight I heard that he replies to almost everyone and it would’ve helped me tremendously, as he would’ve interpreted the biopsy correctly. Feels like a huge missed chance. Similarly, I didn’t book a second opinion which I regret so much now. I know it’s in the past but how should I cope with this if the effects are lasting? What I’m especially upset about is that the biopsies showed 0 damage and I would’ve been able to make a full recovery if I had been treated that moment, but that didn’t happen. I’m so incredibly upset about this, more upset than about the diabetes diagnosis, as I feel like this was preventable. I selected the wrong doctor, didn’t send in the question, forgot to put an important detail in an email, didn’t get a second opinion etc. Everyone can say I should move on etc, but every day I’m experiencing the consequences of my failures back then. I’ve been trying to pray and go to church more often, but I feel sad. I haven’t been able to leave bed for 2 weeks now. I’m crying multiple times a day. I feel like I ruined my own life. I had access to the right resources, I just didn’t use them efficiently. I feel like I had so many other options to exhaust, but that I stopped looking for answers after the second biopsy. Please help me
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2025.01.23 01:25 SillyZealot Why I'll open a hole on the Roof and let the sunshine in on the entire Neath, Reason 1:
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2025.01.23 01:25 Le_7889 Formada em direito tenho medo de prestar concurso
Há pouco tempo decidi me dedicar para estudar para concurso, estudo uma média de 4:30h por dia, estou fazendo uma mentoria, mas meu mentor me desencorajou a fazer concurso para técnico e analista pq a média para passar é 2 anos e meio… dizendo que eu deveria focar em procuradorias e etc, o problema é que eu não tenho um sonho com carreira jurídica, queria algo para ter estabilidade e dignidade apenas.
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2025.01.23 01:25 tashdasher Hulu thumbnail mess up
My friend and I watch LI Aus out of order. We started with season 6, then 5 and now we’re on 3 (chaotic, I know) and this tripped us up. It clearly says Season 3 Episode 12 and she texted me last night like wait Mercedes is in this season!? I caught up to her today so it shows it like this for both of us. Just an interesting little aside that made us think he’s coming in as the next bomb haha
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2025.01.23 01:25 x_XhxneybeeX_x Want Tyler the creator tickets DC April 1st
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2025.01.23 01:25 AdPlastic5758 Somebody please tell me the Top and Bottom the Vampire NPC is wearing.
I know it may not be important to you guys but its something that no video, post or anything has given me an answer too, and i dont have any way of finding out myself. I'd really like some good samaritan to inform me the name, Im aware the cape that theu wear is the vampire cloak, I do not know the hair (I'd also like the name of that please) and obviously I dont his clothes either. I would really enjoy someone's help on this.
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2025.01.23 01:25 welp007 See-MO-ASSes?
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2025.01.23 01:25 hockeyelfie Garland does not care about being enemy #1 in Edmonton
OG Post on Insta: https://www.instagram.com/p/DFJFsB-Rb3U/?igsh=bTByZXVzNnR6dDd0
I think that’s a pretty cool response, although what else could he have even said? “Yeah I’m gonna let it affect my game”?! LOL
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2025.01.23 01:25 h3artc0re BTS is a Non-Pharmacological Way to Soothe Headaches
Pain scale 0-10, with 10 being the highest.
Pre-BTS Headache 8/10 from lack of sleep and sole hydration from coffee bc of the lack of sleep
During Serendipity Singing along when Jimin sings in English, headache 5/10
Post-BTS (whole LY album) Headache 2/10
“Title 1” Ursoo!!
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2025.01.23 01:25 Chockolajka Alfa Romeo Busso 12C update WIP
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2025.01.23 01:25 SkylarVex Patch on a 3 and a half year old child?
Hello! First of all, I know that nothing replaces the assessment of a doctor who is an expert on the subject, but I am making this post because I am very worried about my daughter and I want to know what others think. Sorra for my bad english.
My daughter (3 and a half years old) has one eye that sees outward from time to time, it is her right eye. I took her to an ophthalmologist a few days ago and she told me that my daughter is going to have a treatment with patches, so I bought them. He will wear a patch all day on one eye, for 3 days, then another 3 days with the other eye, and on Sunday without any patch as a day of rest. However, I have read a lot about the patch not correcting strabismus, and from other people who were told to only put it on their children for about 2 hours. per day at most. I wouldn't like it if, by wanting to help her, I'm causing another problem by making her wear the patches all day for several days.
What do you think?
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2025.01.23 01:25 Swox92 What should I target
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2025.01.23 01:25 omnibot2M fly.elgses.fly.
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2025.01.23 01:25 Brightlywound89 Individually packaged cupcakes?
Anyone know of a nice bakery that does individually packaged cupcakes that could be given as party favors?
Thank you!
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2025.01.23 01:25 EulaFan2021 How do you make a drivetrain for an hdrive (VexIq) with absolute orientation/room heading? (Brain Inertial)
So basically, what I want is the hdrive to be coded such that while I hold down forwards on the controller, even when the orientation of the robot changes or it is rotated, it still goes forwards in the same way as before. Block code would be preferable.
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2025.01.23 01:25 backyardspace Thr XF-85 Goblin: The Mini Fighter Designed to Defend B-29s That Launched and Reconnected Mid-Air
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2025.01.23 01:25 Critical_Night_8853 😂😂
when your man off the don tryin tell you how yall locked in and shit
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