My life is ruined, my DA left me and blindsided me with no warning signs.
2025.01.24 09:51 Naive-Story1899 My life is ruined, my DA left me and blindsided me with no warning signs.
Bear with me please, this will be long but it is therapy for me.
My Ex and I had been dating for 1 year and 10 months. She was narcissistic throughout the entirety of the relationship but it was my first relationship, I didn’t know otherwise until I explained it to my therapist today. She had me wrapped around her finger, she had total control over me. If she was angry at me, I couldn’t eat sleep or function.
Anyways, here is a timeline of the events;
Thursday: I am at my Ex’s house, she is telling me how much she loves me and she cannot wait to have children with me and marry me. She puts my hand on her heart and tells me she is the luckiest girl in the world to have me.
Friday: She doesn’t speak to me all day (this is usual as she is narcissistic and utilised my emotional weakness for her benefit) and messages me saying “we need to talk about something and it may effect our relationship”. I beg her to tell me more, I send her voice notes crying and she tells me to act like an adult and she isn’t there for me. She has never been this cold and callous before.
Saturday-Sunday: She basically does not contact me and acts as if she couldn’t care less about me, whilst I can’t sleep. I lose my mind, I can’t even function.
Monday: She meets me at a park, tells me I am the perfect guy but she feels the spark is gone and she has to find herself to be happy (no prior warning of anything like this ever). I beg her to stay, I am crying and my whole world has been turned upside down. She doesn’t shed a tear, she is messaging her friends while I am breaking down. After she breaks up with me, she starts making out with me saying I can still be in her life and she might take me back in a few years after she finds herself. I said no way, I could not do that. She leaves and has lunch with her friends.
Tuesday-Thursday: I spam her, send her hundreds upon hundreds of messages asking how she can almost throw away 2 years like this, we were about to move in together. She doesn’t respond. She says she will respond on Friday and “hear me out”. I cannot sleep, eat, function.
Friday rolls around, I ask her if we can talk, and she only responds with the attached image to this reddit, then she never speaks to me again and I haven’t heard from her since. Since speaking to a therapist I have learned how narcissistic she was and how she is a dismissive avoidant. I don’t understand how my sweet girl could become so cold and callous in a matter of days. I cannot function and I don’t know what to do.
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I recently applied for an auto loan from DIB, and my salary is credited to ENBD. The agreed monthly installment will be transferred via direct debit from my ENBD account to DIB.
However, the direct debit form states that the monthly payment amount is variable, even though the agent assured me that the rate is fixed. He explained that the variable amount is mentioned to account for potential late payment fees if the EMI is not deducted on time.
Is it okay to sign a direct debit form without a specific amount mentioned? I also read the terms and conditions, which state: 'Please note that if you choose a variable amount and decide not to agree a cap with your Creditor in this form, the Creditor will have an unlimited right to choose the amount deducted from your account, and the Paying Bank will have no liability to you or the Creditor for any dispute between you about the variable amount, unless the cap has been breached.'
Is this normal for an auto loan? Should I be concerned about this?
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I'm looking at a PV and I'm obviously going to do it manually.
I don't know what problems HostPath has or if it's really capped, but I can't waste any more time.
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