Badnjak
2025.01.24 17:40 cagralegra Badnjak
Badnjak, the ceremonial oak branches, fill the streets of Belgrade in the days leading up to Orthodox Christmas.
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2025.01.24 17:40 SrValmont Need help feeling secure and building resilience to sit on discomfort
Hi, me (42M) and my wife (36F) decided to turn our marriage non-monogamous after 12 years. When we started dating 16 years ago we were openly commited but many irresponsible actions led us to close our relationship, we got married, had kids but throuout all this time it's always been something that was losely discussed between us, and finally we thought we were ready to do it. We were incredibly in love with each other, our kids are not toddlers anymore (the youngest is almost 5) and we can manage some time alone either by ourselves or together.
It was in November that we discussed it and it didn't take long to come out first challenge: on a work trip she met a guy she hooked up with and I had a hard time dealing with jealousy and attention. I had many emotional crisis and I've said terrible things to her.
He lives far and since this hookup they haven't met yet, they only talk through texts and calls, but even this (since it shows a strong emotional bond) was making me feel insecure.
In the beginning it was because I expected to be involved and that it wasn't "supposed" to have deep emotional connection, and after many discussions we understood that I had this expectation of only light emotional connection and she was fully open to deep relationships, and we agreed on freedom to get involved but still our relationship was supposed to be the primary attachment.
Later i started to get controlling and extra jealous of the attention she was giving him and every few days I'd lash out against him or her in some fashion. Every time some opportunity that they meet was brought up I got strongly uncomfortable and felt like she was "giving him too much" and tried to sabotage it somehow or limit in some manner.
It eventually got to a point where she told him about my discomfort and we offered to talk to me and make sure he let his intentions of being involved with her limited to this emotional connection and eventual meets but no more because he's also married and has kids.
It calmed me down for a while but every once in a while, whenever a new situation emerges it all comes back to me and I have a strong emotional breakdown and lash it out on her and hurt her to a point where she's on the brink of breaking up with him without having ever met him again because I'm making her life hell. She offered me to veto him but I understand it wasn't fair to her because I've got no actual reason to believe she's abandoning me or disconnecting from me to be with him. But the times she said that came with a ton of resentment and very pessimistic statements like "she'll never date anyone again" or that "it's so unfair because when I fall for someone I'll be able to fully enjoy it because she won't do this to me". All the time she's done a ton of things and showed proof that I'm her primary partner.
Throuout these 2 months we met another couple and we had a double date that worked beautifully and with them, either individually or when we're all together I've never felt any jealousy or discomfort or anything negative and I truly feel compression even when I'm not involved at all.
I've been going to therapy and have explored many venues to try to understand where this comes from and I now believe strongly that I've got Anxious Attachment issues and that explains all my insecurities, how I feel she's stranding away from me at the slightest distance she asks and why I'm so obsessed with her and not letting her drift away.
These emotional breakdowns I've got start with some slight discomfort, but then it grows into feeling my chest really heavy, I can barely breathe or think and I can't handle the discomfort for long and then after I lash it out I realise how stupid I was and I apologise, I understand the logical reasoning behind my crisis and I can detail all my mistakes and exactly where I was wrong.
Most advice on working in anxious attachment issues are long term into creating rituals with her, developing self esteem and building my individuality and hobbies and independence, but nothing I've seen so far helps me deal with the immediate discomfort, the pain that throws my brains out of the window and thus drive me to be such an asshole to her.
I need advice on something that might help me keep it cool until I can work on all the steps to feel more secure and not ruin our marriage because I can't deal with anxiety, feelings of abandonment, disconnection and her independence to have another relationship that doesn't involve me.
Has anyone here dealt with this before? Know any tools that might help in the Hort term while I work on building a more solid confidence in the long run? I'm desperate because I don't want to hurt her anymore and I'm feeling completely out of control and a bomb about to blow at anytime.
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2025.01.24 17:40 Latter-Bread-8608 Data Engineer at Tesla
I’m in the interview process for a Data Engineer role at Tesla. I’ve already passed the initial screening and a one-hour interview, and I submitted the 90-minute technical assessment last week.
How long does it typically take for the team to review the assessment and decide on the next steps? The next stage will be panel interviews - any insights on what to expect in the 1:1 engineer interviews? Technical coding, behavioral questions, etc.?
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2025.01.24 17:40 Quirky_feets New ie seeking help
Hello, i am new to this how do i know if someone is legit can you give advice that should i sell feets on reddit or not?
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2025.01.24 17:40 Cred2000 BBC2 in the Park 2024 Pet Shop Boys Live
I just listened back to this now. It sounded great listening back to it but Jesus Christ it was a mess on the day. It rained all day, there was mud sludge mixed with earth worms on the ground and it was miserable. The only reason I stayed was because who knows maybe this would be theirast gig. Even footage of the gig on YouTube makes it look not so bad...but it was horrific 🤣
(Saw them in Barcelona 2 months before that and it couldn't have been any more different. Blue skies, warm summer air)
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2025.01.24 17:40 Old_Ad_306 top 5 butplukk trikşot complation!!😱😱😱😎😜(2013]
![top 5 butplukk trikşot complation!!😱😱😱😎😜(2013]](https://external-preview.redd.it/Ym9hcGd5NWlhemVlMd_ko5IS-6pKuEeFX7JWINKUt5vrnx4rBf-0xhDjTkd4.png?width=320&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=c232e98fcee13795a353734a72a5ba34144d8911 "top 5 butplukk trikşot complation!!😱😱😱😎😜(2013]") | submitted by Old_Ad_306 to tamamahbapengelli [link] [comments] |
2025.01.24 17:40 Next-Life1892 I.C.E
Can we have an ice sightings thread?
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2025.01.24 17:40 silvravager POST ON R/TEENAGERS TALKING ABOUT VERY WEIRD AND PERSONAL ISSUES RELATING TO THEIR PRIVATE BODY PARTS AND RELATED MATTERS (TAGGED NSFW)
BODY DESCRIBING ISSUE IN TRAUMATIZINGLY DISTURBING DETAIL
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2025.01.24 17:40 SuperMintoxNova Possible unpopular opinion: I prefer my 20's over my teen years.
I prefer being older right now, than being younger. I think this may just be a me thing, but on this sub, I've seen so many people glorify their teen years, and say how much they hate being an adult. While I don't dislike my teen years, I much prefer still being young but also being an adult and having free range. I much prefer being 20+ (or 18+ by extension), than under 18 or 20.
For context, I hit puberty late, so I looked kinda weird and child-like for most of my teen years, so when I hit into my early 20's, I realized I was still growing in height, and I ended up bulking up without much effort. Not saying I am 10/10 (not even close) but I look much better than I did in high school, I dread looking back at some of those photos.
I also graduated school and realized how much freedom I truly had and went to university and loved it much more than school. I'm now allowed to do whatever I want without restrictions due to age.
This is not a hate on teen years, but I feel they are slightly overrated, and too many believe them to be the only years of your life to have fun and if you didn't achieve certain goals before graduating high school, "it's over!". I don't believe this is true, and I believe that any age range can be your best years if you make it your best years.
Anyone else prefer being an adult, rather than a kid?
TLDR: Basically, I prefer my 20's to teens.
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2025.01.24 17:40 Whole_Chard7710 is no greek life a valid reason?
Is not having greek life at fordham a valid reason to mention in my why transfer essay?
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2025.01.24 17:40 terrariapro147 Is she a foxhound?
 | This is my dog of 5 years, lola, Ever since my family got her, we knew she wasnt a beagle (Way too big), but we couldn’t actually pinpoint what she was. Only today did i decide to do some research on dogs that look like beagles, and i found many images of foxhounds that look basically identical to my dog. On a side note, are foxhounds rare? Just think it would be kind of cool to have a rare dog breed. submitted by terrariapro147 to IDmydog [link] [comments] |
2025.01.24 17:40 n3ongr3y soRRowInTHEhILLs - mixtape
soRRowInTHEhILLs - mixtape
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2025.01.24 17:40 BLORANGE8 X-games Saturday tickets for sale.
I have 3 (potentially more) x-games tickets for Saturday.
tickets are limited so prices are high. Looking to get $500 per ticket, obo
DM if interested. Local meet up only
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2025.01.24 17:40 Fun_Can6079 My kraken
My kraken 240mm aio isn’t being detected any solutions?
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2025.01.24 17:40 CharmingBeuty Bikini 👙
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2025.01.24 17:40 I_Luv_Purple Cousin slept with my ex & we had to get restraining orders.
Hello I’m 44 F. So a while back my cousin 45 F, slept with one of my exes and we had to get restraining orders against him 34 M (yes, I’m a cougar). I met him thru FB. We talked on messenger a lot. One day my cousin was riding with me to the store when he called. She was having a get together and SHE invited him to come. I told her that I hadn’t seen him in person yet, so this will be weird. She replied, we’ll consider this a “safe space” to meet this stranger. When he walked in, I saw her eye-ball him. Physically, he was her type. He didn’t look like his FB photos. He was fat up top, with bird legs. In his photos he was a slim guy. I like the tall, athletic type. During the get together he interacted very well with my people. Party was over he left. Next day he rings me up to go on a date. For about 2 months we go out a few more times. On occasion, he would ask me about some of the people at the party, particularly my cousin who had invited him to come. I thought nothing of it, just that he was trying to get to know my people. One morning he calls me and says he has a flat tire and asked me to give him a ride. I told him that I couldn’t because I was already at work. He got upset and hung up on me. We went on a couple more dates, then one day we got into a huge argument. My phone rang and it was a cousin who I didn’t want to talk to. They called my phone repeatedly and he looked at me and said, “Why aren’t you answering your phone?” I told him that it was someone who I didn’t want to talk to. He got upset and said, “I think it’s someone else that you’re talking to!” When my phone rang again he grabbed it out of my hand and answered it. When he heard her voice he threw my phone AT ME. I told her that I was busy and that I would call her back. We started to argue and I told him that I was done with him. He respondes with, “That’s why I’ve been phucking your cousin!” He told me that the day that he caught the flat and I didn’t come to help him, that he call her thru messenger and she came to help him & they phucked in her minivan. He said that was when they started. He said that linked up a few more times after that. I didn’t believe him. He told me to ask her about it. Of course when I asked her, she was upset and said that it NEVER happened. When I called him in front of her on speaker, he said “Of course you’re gonna deny it when she standing right there.” My jaw hit the ground. They started going back and forth arguing. I grabbed my phone from her and just left. I told him not to contact me anymore and I blocked him on everything. A few days later I get a call from a random number it was him. He was threatening to harm me and her for “leaving him.” Next thing my other line was ringing, it was my cousin. She told me that he had been threatening her thru messenger and that I needed to do something about it. I hung up on them both. I tried to 3 way call them both, but when I would get one and the phone, the other would gang up. Like they didn’t want to talk. He kept on with the stalking & threatening, so she and I decided to get restraining orders against him. The whole process was a mess. Til this day she still denies everything that he said.
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2025.01.24 17:40 Godzilla-Of-Wilbur Expansions of the Woranids
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2025.01.24 17:40 AWarTimeConsigliere What inventions have remained relatively unchanged for decades?
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2025.01.24 17:40 rusakovic 📩 Business Development Representative (Eastern US) Salary: 💰$55,000 - $60,000. 📍Remote job in 🇺🇸 United States
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2025.01.24 17:40 lostinkelp One of the most beautiful harbor seals I've ever seen (rescued and released by South Essex Wildlife Hospital)
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2025.01.24 17:40 BotJacobReddit Any tips on improving my thumbnail? Was planning on adding text saying ''spa survival''...
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2025.01.24 17:40 ZioPera4316 When do they end?
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2025.01.24 17:40 Gesus_Trippy H: David Trophy×2 (100). Venison and Tato Stew×2/ Burned×1 (75e or set 125). W: Leaders/Displayable misc
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2025.01.24 17:40 SuperstarRockYou transformer or CNN/RNN for transportation transit trip production/distribution prediction ?
Which one of these models is more suitable for transport planning -- on demand transit trip production/distribution prediction , transformer or CNN/RNN etc ?
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2025.01.24 17:40 Efficient_String2699 Friends
Hi everyone, I'm a 18M (ind) currently, just finished As Lately, I've come to realize that I don't really have any genuine friends I can trust or talk to at all. It's been feeling a bit lonely asf, so I thought I'd try reaching out here. I'm someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, and I'm a good listener too so if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm happy to be there. Some of my hobbies include baking, photography, video editing and playing badminton or just watching netflix. I'd love to connect with anyone who shares similar interests, or even just someone who wants to have a casual chat. Feel free to DM me if you're keen to be friends or have a conversation. Thanks and I hope to hear from you
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