Why do men prefer jerking off to a woman rather than fucking her?
2025.01.30 22:32 CuriousCat657 Why do men prefer jerking off to a woman rather than fucking her?
I’m a woman in my early 20s and I am not looking for anything serious right now because of life circumstances but I am craving intimacy. I am what is considered conventionally attractive. I am curvy(not fat), short, get told I am pretty a lot. I am educated and can hold up a conversation very nicely. I have been told I am funny and have a great personality. I get told by people of all genders that I could have any man I want very often.
I am going through a lot right now and I am not in the position to date anyone seriously. I am on dating apps and it is fairly evident by my profile that I am looking for something casual. I do match with a lot of men but they rarely take the initiative to message first. If I message first many times they don’t reply. I make it known to them that I am actually interested in just having sex, nothing serious. But still most men stall meeting up and want nudes instead. A lot of times when they receive nudes and jerk off, they ghost me. It is just absurd to think these men prefer jerking off to me rather than actually fucking me. I have even made it clear that I don’t want to go on a date or do anything that involves socialization or spending money but still the biggest demand from them remains just getting nudes. I have started giving out a disclaimer saying I don’t give nudes until we decide a day to hook up to avoid this and a lot of men lose interest when I say this, or behave as if they are actually serious about hooking up but disappear.
It’s not that I am catfishing anyone with my profile. The unclothed version of me matches the clothed version. I’m not a prude. In fact I am very kinky and I let it known. It is just a perplexing thought why would a man choose to jerk off to an attractive woman rather than actually fucking her. I face this problem especially in North America. I have dated a little bit in Europe where men have actually driven over an hour to come and fuck me multiple times. My guy friends(some of whom I used to fuck) say I should have no problem finding men but here I am confused.
I know RIP my dms.
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2025.01.30 22:32 Useful-Mission-2905 This where I bit myself when felt angry/upset I just worry about it all the time is that normal?
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2025.01.30 22:32 New-Bonus8565 Purple/Brown Leaf on Bud – Normal or Issue? (Blueberry Muffin, 5-6 Weeks in Flower)
Noticed a small purple/brown leaf on one of my buds. The plant has been in flower for 5-6 weeks, strain is Blueberry Muffin from Humboldt, and I’m using Bio Plagron nutrients. I have a slight humidity/temp problem, can't get under 70% and 19°C during the night. The affected bud looks more mature than the others and doesn’t seem like it’ll get much bigger, but the buds lower on the same branch look normal.
Is this something to be concerned about, or just natural coloring? Anyone seen this before?
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2025.01.30 22:32 OwlNightBirdEarly Found the family that enslaved my ancestors. Ancestry hiding vital info behind paywall
TLDR: skip to the last paragraph!
I recently was able to connect some missing dots to my paternal lineage. My dad died when I was young and my mom lost touch with my paternal grandma. Skip to a million years later. I took ancestry 2014. But back then it was fairly new to people.
Well in the past year I started to get a lot of ppl on my paternal side dna matches that are closer related as in our grandparents are siblings.
So i reached out to these cousins and learned new info from one. I was able to do more digging (i love family genealogy) now that I had the names of my great grandma's parents, and even as far back as her great grandparents and the slaver that bought and married my great x4 when she was a teen.
Very racially mixed family back then, my great grandma dad was Mestizo and her mom multiracial from the admix slavery. I searched my dna relatives for the slaver Spaniard surname and Boom, I had a match, it was a distant white relative.
I have so many records that are behind a paywall, pictures etc. vital records that I need to keep digging. This is a huge find form my family. Ancestry wants to charge a ridiculous amount monthly to unlock MY FAMILY RECORDS. This is public record. Where does ancestry get their records from? So cruel to hide so much vital family history behind a paywall.
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2025.01.30 22:32 monisquain Can we get Esteban’s reaction to the new bad bunny album?
Con paz y amor
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2025.01.30 22:32 TheZachster416 LENS QUESTION: First time trying to photograph the Milky Way
I'm looking to photograph the Milky way tomorrow night. I know the odds are against me being that it's winter, not a new moon, and will be partly cloudy. On the DarkSiteMap, the area is light green/dark green. I'm trying to decide if I should use my 50mm 1.8 or rent a 16mm 2.8 for the weekend. I shoot with the Canon EOS R8 and am not using a tracker, just a tripod. I know you can get a longer exposure with the 16mm without streaking but will that extra exposure matter with it missing ~a full stop of light?
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2025.01.30 22:32 porfa-mi-reina Is there a plugin to mute a user in a server?
I’m in a server with a person who, uh, to put it politely, craves a lot of attention and spams a lot and is generally just really annoying and counterproductive and I would really really like to not get notifications from the server when they send a message, but I don’t want to block them either. Is there a plugin for that?
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2025.01.30 22:32 boharat Does this count?
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2025.01.30 22:32 pbx1123 Notorious squatter pleads guilty to illegally occupying Flushing home: DA – QNS
 | An East Flushing man pleaded guilty to a felony and is expected to be sentenced to two years in prison for illegally occupying a single-family home in Flushing and renting out rooms to others last year. When the homeowner regained access to the property and changed the locks, the defendant, Brian Rodriguez, forced himself back inside the home and claimed he was a legal tenant without proof and had the temerity to call the cops to arrest the rightful homeowner. The case gained national attention due to the presence of an Eyewitness News crew during the incident. submitted by pbx1123 to nyc2 [link] [comments] |
2025.01.30 22:32 CactusFingies It feels impossible to win games in solo queue
I recently started playing this game, just did quick play for a while because I don't really care about rankings. However, I decided to try ranked because I feel like I'm not improving in quick play anymore. It started out great, but the past couple days have been miserable.
I've been back and forth between silver I and III like 5 times now. I won't get cocky and say that I'm carrying and that I deserve to be in a higher rank, I'm not even that good at the game. But there is a huge issue that needs to be fixed. Every single game I lose it's ALWAYS because the team just refuses to play together. When I play tank my team doesn't back me up. When I play dps I get ignored by supports. When I play Support the tanks won't push. You get the idea. No one can seem to grasp the simple concept of playing as a team. THAT'S WHY YOU HAVE TEAMMATES. By far the biggest problem is staggering. It's the most basic strategy of playing as a team. I'll be in lobbies that are all level 30+ and everyone just tries to do everything themselves, rushing in without grouping up. I don't get how you can be so ignorant that you've played the game for that long and you still can't acknowledge your mistakes.
So basically, does anyone have any advice for solo queuing? Am I going in with the wrong mindset? I just wanna be able to enjoy this game man.
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2025.01.30 22:32 Yeehaw_RedPanda ICE checkpoints in Central Falls and Olneyville on 1/30 - If you're legal and want to avoid harassment, avoid the areas!
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2025.01.30 22:32 Equal_Feature_9065 Adam Nayman on Anora?
finally caught up with The Brutalist last night, and have since read/listened to a lot of reactions. But no one's stirred me quite as much as Adam Nayman -- both his written piece on the site and his appearance on The Big Pic (i think he's pretty spot on with this one).
I've been searching everywhere to see his take on Anora (i'm so curious! that's a film i loved and really wanna know his take). But i can't find anything written by him anywhere. Anyone remember if he ever talked about it on the pod?
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2025.01.30 22:32 murkyCrimes Property Tax Value
 | I have a ‘24 core with no packages and I live in NC. I’m wondering if there is an error with my property tax appraisal as I’ve owned the vehicle for a year, yet the appraised value is more than the MSRP and more than what I paid for it new. The make seems to lump Core, Premium, and Circuit into one category. Does anyone know if this is the expected behavior? The cost isn’t an issue but it’s annoying. And I don’t want this to cause issues down the line when I sell due to an error. I appreciate any insight. submitted by murkyCrimes to GRCorolla [link] [comments] |
2025.01.30 22:32 Material_Monitor_528 I Want to leave Arizona. Options?
Hey. I, 23, am very concerned as a genderqueer individual living in Arizona. My partner and I are genderfluid, and my partner plans on transitioning. I present as my AGAB, so no issue there.
Things are real bad in this country, and I am thinking about a move into a trans refuge state. Nearby are Colorado and California as trans refuge options. I am concerned about our future safety. Am I overreacting? Any general advice, or ideas on moving? Thanks.
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2025.01.30 22:32 MillianIV9 Poli 206 with Tina Rupcic
Couldn't make class today, did she say anything about the test next Tuesday? Like format, what we'll be tested on etc.. i would appreciate if yall would tell me.
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2025.01.30 22:32 jose__1110 Alguém sabe se o "low volume" é bom?
Meu tiktok e instagram estão cheios de pessoas dizendo que o treino de baixo volume é melhor que todos os outros
alguém sabe qual a melhor divisão para trabalhar neste treinamento? tipo, se for PPL duas vezes por semana, Upper e Lower três vezes na semana ou PPL e Upper e Lower.
E como escolho os melhores exercícios para os respectivos treinos?
Frequento academia a três anos entao sou experiente
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2025.01.30 22:32 Yuthogh Extreme psychic attack/Very powerful false light entity - Warning to light starseeds
Since the start of my spiritual awakening, I've been energetically attacked by imposter entities. Everything was going well until suddenly an entity that claims to be my "higher self", spam "guidance" all day with numbers. Since that day (2019), my life has never been the same. I feel tormented every day with incoherent messages. They want me to stay stuck and they keep telling me that I'm doing something wrong when I'm not.
Even if I follow what they tell me to do, there is always something I'm "doing wrong".
This entity spends most of the time (24 hours a day) forbidding me from doing the things I want (for no reason).
He is always sending synchronicities saying he doesn't care if I'm suffering, that the only choice I have is to submit to him. I've already tried to challenge the entity, but it still tells me that it is "invincible".
Every time my intuition says something is wrong.
It's a daily torment. I almost killed myself years algo, but I survived.
He always gives me a negative and narcissistic vibe every time he sends me guidance or synchronicity. Terrible nightmarish dreams every night, started to occur. He wants to force everything, and I tried everything to remove the entity. I'm rotting and the entity tells me he will never stop.
The entity tries to use shame, guilt, rejection and judgment as a way to prevent me from making any choices he doesn't like. They send me thoughts and brain signals to induce me into thinking that these random synchronicities are "real guidance".
This is not a new thing. I'm realizing now that doubting yourself is another form of psychic attack induced by them to prevent you from believing that you are being abused and consider it as "normal". I'm recovering, and they seem very mad.
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2025.01.30 22:32 bhoff_9 Reading light replacement in 2003
 | How do I get into these overhead panels? Pretty sure my lightbulbs have died. I’m thinking it involves taking off the top because I don’t see any other way to access them. submitted by bhoff_9 to WranglerTJ [link] [comments] |
2025.01.30 22:32 Such_Payment_1614 Online Data Analyst -Maps
Anyone currently in this project?
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2025.01.30 22:32 Sharp_Professor_5695 Building for 20,000+ Users, But Struggling to Keep Going
Over the past several months, I’ve dedicated hundreds of hours to developing and maintaining tools that collectively have over 20,000 active users. These projects are completely free, open-source, and built with the goal of improving people’s digital experiences.
I never expected to make a fortune from this, but I did expect that the time and effort I put in would be valued. Right now, I’m in a tough financial situation, my family need support and I’m honestly frustrated. The support has been minimal, and I’m struggling to justify spending so much time on projects that so many people use but so few support.
Some of the Projects I’ve Built 💠 IGPlus (~10,000 daily users) – A browser extension that removes Reels, Stories, recommendations, and vanity metrics on Instagram. It also allows for theme and font customization, giving users full control over their experience. https://weblxapplications.com/igp/
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📱 DoHabbit – A fully open-source habit tracker for iOS & Android, designed to help users stay consistent, track progress, and build better routines. The UX is lightweight, simple, and engaging.
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🖥 Memento. - Minimalistic Homepage – A customizable, open-source start page for browsers. Users can upload custom backgrounds, choose what to display, and manage widgets in a clean, distraction-free interface. https://weblxapplications.com/memento/
https://preview.redd.it/ny9d2ep4g7ge1.jpg?width=1000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c210a8b1b135cf19b6580823f03fe7c72a6b6e3d
🎵 SpoPlus for Spotify (~12,000 daily users) – A browser extension that customizes Spotify’s web player, allowing users to change themes, fonts, and remove popups and distractions. https://weblxapplications.com/sp/
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🎵 ChessHelper for Chess.com (~4,500 daily users) – A browser extension that customizes Chess.com experience, allowing users to change boards, pieces, fonts and remove popups and distractions. https://weblxapplications.com/ch/
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The Reality of Building These These aren’t quick side projects. Every update, bug fix, and feature request takes time and effort. I manage everything—development, bug reports, feature updates, user feedback, and maintenance—on my own. Right now, I’m struggling financially, and I don’t know how much longer I can justify working on these without support.
If You Find These Projects Useful, Consider Supporting My Work! ko-fi.com/patrykjaworski
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2025.01.30 22:32 Impressive_Car_4222 New series/season?
Is there a sub to discuss the new season?
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2025.01.30 22:32 CondemnedTye For those who desperately want Excal prime who aren’t founders, I wonder if a challenge of sufficient impact could award them the frame as a New Game+ prestige token of sorts.
Obviously this is just theoretical, I don’t know if DE or their relevant founders would even agree to do such a thing. My suggestion would be reaching a certain mastery rank and then you could reset back to rank one. You would then start the whole game over with your starting frame and Excal Prime once the arsenal is available. Leave thoughts below.
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2025.01.30 22:32 dancoker Gaming Laptop Suggestions
Looks like I need a new gaming laptop. Any suggestions.
Looking for under $1000.
Currently use an ASUS Tuff but would prefer a different brand.
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2025.01.30 22:32 Round_Wind4661 Work Authorization
Is 5 years EAD normal?
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