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2025.01.30 23:41 Giladriver [49/M] ask me anything, let’s see where the chat goes
Start with ASL and let’s do it.
I’m married and living outside GA, I like hiking, music, drives, craft beers, bbq, the clone wars and sci-fi, have a ps4, xbox and computer, work full time, no kids, grew up on the west coast.
What do you want to talk about?
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2025.01.30 23:41 Remarkable_Method133 Hello, I am Argentine and I would like to see more Roma games. Would anyone recommend a page to me?
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2025.01.30 23:41 Condomphobic Has ANYONE tried DeepSeek Janus Pro?
Only seeing talk about V3 and V1. What about JP
Apparently, it can only be ran locally. The max is 7B parameters, so this should be more accessible to regulars.
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2025.01.30 23:41 ohhmarky What a beauty mold 🛞
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2025.01.30 23:41 boharat Congressional members can be jailed for not supporting Trump’ immigration policy
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2025.01.30 23:41 Naphthy I got to ring my first cancer bell today 😁 and my husband is taking me to see the play wicked in LA to celebrate here’s my fit
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2025.01.30 23:41 Rowena_Redalot Federal workers in PA?
We moved to PA from DC several years ago as I am fully remote for a Federal Agency. Given the dearth of white collar employment on the Peninsula, especially west, I figure these jobs are a boon to the local economy.
Despite the angst towards outsiders and all the terrible things we do, we spend our paychecks in the local economy, pay taxes and genuinely care about the community.
Further, it’s my contention that geographically distributing the federal workforce keeps agencies connected to the public we serve. DC is very much a bubble. From the local news, to small talk and a regional cultural focus on government, it’s easy to detach from the perspectives from outside that bubble.
Of course a majority of feds aren’t in DC, but leadership is over represented there and that isn’t good for the culture of government or the public. The “swamp” is less a product of ill intentions, more an issue of blinders. Conversely, when the average citizen never interacts with federal employees, particularly at the senior levels, it creates distrust. I make a point of talking about what I do and answering any questions I can about my work. It’s your entitlement to know, as I work for you.
Anyway, just curious who else is here as we navigate this difficult moment. And to the rest of you, it’s always been an honor and a privilege to be at your service.
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2025.01.30 23:41 pixelary-game What is this?
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2025.01.30 23:41 elegirl Can someone make these professional style photos please. I only want me in the photo looking professional. Will pay for the three best.
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2025.01.30 23:41 WitchVixen96 Just wanted to share a picture of my temple 💖
I make everything symmetrical every playthrough. 😬💖
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2025.01.30 23:41 vllvt O amigo do meu irmão era minha paixão platônica contei isso pra ele 🤡
lembro que quando ele era adolescente ele vinha na minha casa mas eu ainda era muito jovem achava ele bonito um dia eu disse que eu admirava ele que eu tinha uma "paixonite" por ele quando eu estava no início da adolescência agora ele tem 30 anos e continua lindo, às vezes vejo ele na academia e nossa melhor nem entrar em detalhes pois eu sei que é errado ter tido essa admiração por ele quando nós conversamos ele disse que a idade não tinha nada a ver pois ele é 9 anos mais velho que eu. Quando vejo ele pessoalmente eu fico morrendo de vergonha pq ele sabe que eu admirava ele que eu achava ele bonito que eu acho ele bonito enfim eu fico morrendo de vergonha. Mas já aceitei o fato de que nós nunca vamos ter nada até porque o meu irmão não ia gostar de saber que eu acho o amigo dele bonito. Pior ele não ia gostar de saber que o amigo dele era minha paixão platônica na infância e início da adolescência.
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2025.01.30 23:41 Slim-Mo F20 available stuff fun with cum
F20 available fun
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2025.01.30 23:41 HourTight8444 Brauch eure Hilfe, bin absolut planlos
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2025.01.30 23:41 Throw_aita_tomato AITA for ending a 20+ year friendship with my best friend?
I apologize in advance, this is going to be kind of long. Throwaway for privacy reasons.
So I [30F] have a best friend, let’s call him Frank [30M]. Frank and I have known each other since we were about 7 or 8, but we are polar opposites - he’s a very laid-back, go with the flow kind of guy, and he grew up in a very religious, “traditional” family. I on the other hand, am a very hot-headed and fastidious person who grew up in a broken home with a non-religious family. Even though we were very different people, we still somehow managed to become close friends.
For most of my childhood (ages 6-12) I was sexually abused by a family member. I never spoke about it with anyone (including Frank), and I was very promiscuous from a young age. I was basically always in a relationship from the age of 13 onwards. Most of my relationships were very long term (lasting several years), but every time I broke up with one guy I would find a new boyfriend within a few months. This continued all the way through college, and throughout that whole time Frank was always there, either third wheeling with my current boyfriend or comforting me during breakups.
Frank on the other hand, had never been in any type of relationship (serious or otherwise). I had always thought that was a little weird, but every time I asked he would make up some excuse, like “I’m just focusing on myself” or “I’m just waiting for the right girl.” He never seemed too bothered about being single though, so I didn’t think much of it and never really pressed him about it.
Then when I was 18-19, I went through a particularly hard breakup. I was with a guy for only 9 months, but he broke up with me because of my PTSD from my past trauma (sex was very triggering to me). This was the first time someone had broken up with me directly because of my PTSD, and I was devastated. I finally confessed to Frank about all the abuse I suffered growing up, that I felt broken and how much it hurt not being able to have “normal” sexual relationships.
Frank told me that he understood exactly how I felt, because…he’s gay. By that point I had my suspicions that he was gay, but it was still kind of a shock to hear him actually admit it. He said he had never told anyone, including his family. We both really bonded that day, and I think we both felt some relief finally telling someone these big secrets that we’ve been keeping inside for so long.
After telling Frank about my trauma, I finally had the courage to begin therapy for the first time at 19 (it was free through my university). I won’t lie, it has been a very difficult journey. My abuse was a chronic, ongoing trauma that lasted many years, and has very deeply affected how I view sex and relationships. I have also been sexually abused a couple times as an adult by men who I thought were my friends (always while I was single), which is why I always felt the need to be in a relationship.
I openly admit that I am very angry at the world, especially towards (straight) men, but I have been trying my best to work through it. As part of my healing journey I have distanced myself greatly from my family, and Frank is aware of this.
The next few years our friendship seemed to flourish and we got really close, up until I finished college. While I was attempting to cope with my trauma and move forward with my life through therapy, it seemed like Frank was becoming more and more insensitive and even triggering to my trauma.
For example, when I was about 22 or 23, Frank began to flirt with my childhood abuser in front of me and joked about hooking up with him. When I was 24, I was sexually abused by a close friend who knew about my trauma, but when I told Frank about it he dismissed it basically saying “shit happens you just have to move forward.” He also began to make comments about me distancing myself from my family, implying that I was overreacting but never explicitly said so.
Those are just a few examples, and each time something like that happened it deeply hurt and angered me, but I didn’t really say anything to him at the time. Instead I began to slowly distance myself from him too, and eventually I moved to another city a few hours away with my boyfriend. That greatly diminished our contact, and our friendship sort of took a backseat in my life.
Then about 2 years ago, Frank told me he started therapy for the first time. He began to open up about what he was going through, and he admitted to me that he was raped by a close (male) family friend when he was 12. He told me that he had been in denial about it for awhile, and thought that was just a “normal” experience everyone had at some point.
I then realized that all his past toxic behavior (minimizing my assault, flirting with my abuser, etc.) was probably him not being able to cope with his own abuse and was trying to minimize mine to avoid confronting his own. Even though I never had an official conversation with him about it, I decided internally that I forgave him and wanted to rebuild our friendship.
After that we started talking much more frequently, and he started making tremendous progress. Selfishly it was nice to be able to share my healing journey with someone, and we frequently would “exchange notes” about what we were each learning in therapy. He also began dating for the first time in his life, and I enjoyed hearing about his experiences and relating to him with our “boy problems.” For the first time in a long time, I felt like our friendship was beginning to not only recover, but thrive even.
Then about a year ago Frank decided to quit his job, and subsequently stopped attending therapy since he could no longer afford it. I strongly advised against him quitting his job, but he just said he wanted to take some time to really “find himself.” I figured he was just trying to explore his sexuality, so I kind of dropped the subject because I figured it was probably a good thing in the long run.
Since then, I’ve noticed a huge decline in his progress. He began to adopt a “boys will be boys” mentality about everything, he began to minimize traumas again, and he spent every other day partying and doing drugs. I noticed our relationship began to turn rocky again, and I asked him a few times about what his long-term plans/goals were, but he always dismissed it saying he’s “just having fun right now.”
Then about 3 months ago, I discovered my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me. We had been going through a rough patch the last couple years, and I will admit I was venting quite a lot to Frank about it during that time. However I had not really spoken to Frank much in the last 6 months about my relationship (I thought things were getting better between my bf and I), until I discovered his cheating.
I called Frank to tell him what happened, but I was shocked to find he was completely indifferent about it. He basically insinuated that I was “overreacting” to my (ex) bf’s cheating, and that it’s “just how men are.” I was furious and began to argue with him, but after about 10 min I just made up an excuse and ended the call because I didn’t want to deal with him.
About a month later I went to visit my family in my hometown (where Frank still lives). I was feeling really down after the breakup, and was sort of attempting to (slowly) rebuild my relationship with my family after so many years.
Over the last month, Frank had not contacted me once to ask how I was doing (or to apologize) since our call. I decided to extend an olive branch and reach out to him, letting him know I was in town and asked if he wanted to hang out. I was in town for 2 weeks, and during those 2 weeks Frank bailed on me 3x - twice because he decided to go out partying and was too tired the next day, and once to go on a date with a new guy.
At that point I was furious. I ended up sending him a long text, explaining how hurt I was, how I felt he didn’t care about me, that he couldn’t even be bothered to see me once while I was in town, and that ever since he stopped going to therapy it seems like he’s really regressed and that being around him is very triggering to me.
I told him that I cared about him, but I just needed some time to figure my shit out and needed some distance from him (I know I could have just silently distanced myself from him like I’ve done in the past, but idk this time I felt the need to tell him how I really felt). I was clear that I did not want to “permanently” end our friendship, but that I definitely needed some time.
He responded basically saying that he’s shocked and offended that our friendship is “so fragile” that I’m willing to end it just because he couldn’t hang out with me when I wanted. He said he has his own life and I can’t expect him to drop everything whenever I need him.
He said he’s spent all these years by my side throughout all my relationships, but now that he has experiences with his own relationships, he realizes that he and I do not align on what we consider “acceptable behavior” in a relationship. He said he does care about me, but he thinks I’m overreacting and he doesn’t know how to respond or comfort me anymore. He said that I’m just a bitter, angry person and that he’s tried to be by my side but I just push everyone away. He said I’m free to “take a break” from our friendship, but that he might not be there when I decide to come back. After that I stopped responding and haven’t spoken to him since.
Recently I talked with my ex (he was moving out the rest of his stuff from our apartment), and I confessed to him about me and Frank’s falling out. My ex agreed with Frank, saying that I completely overreacted in ending my friendship with him. I told him I wasn’t the one who ended it, I just told Frank I needed space and he basically ended it in response. My ex said that I was stupid to throw away a 20+ year friendship over something so petty.
Now I’m second guessing myself and am wondering if I’m in the wrong. So AITA for ending my 20+ year friendship with Frank?
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2025.01.30 23:41 Consistent-Lie5538 Abacate tem sabor de pênis limpo
Abacate tem gosto de pênis limpo e você sabe disso. Não estou dizendo que é ruim mas a verdade é essa. Uma batida de abacate é literalmente uma orgia alimentar. Agora quando você comer abacate vai lembrar desse post. Abraços!
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2025.01.30 23:41 Other-Earth4346 Bundao gostoso
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2025.01.30 23:41 Remarkable-Map5846 LIES! LIES! LIES! trumpdump 💩 is imposing 25% tariffs on Canada based on lies about the amount of fentanyl coming across the borders. NOT TRUE!
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2025.01.30 23:41 The_Daily_Pootis Anybody trying to help me start an aquarists club?
Hey y’all, I’m a student tryna start a fish keepers club since the school doesn’t seem to offer anything related to that. The only thing is, however, that I don’t have any aquarist friends to get the 6 members I need to start a club. I love fish keeping and have had many tanks prior to the one I have in my dorm right now. Anybody interested? LMK in the comments.
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2025.01.30 23:41 AriginalUsername I thought I should y’all someone made a The One Thing You Can't Replace animation video of Dandy’s World
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2025.01.30 23:41 Consistent-Lie5538 Abacate tem sabor de pênis limpo
Abacate tem gosto de pênis limpo e você sabe disso. Não estou dizendo que é ruim mas a verdade é essa. Uma batida de abacate é literalmente uma orgia alimentar. Agora quando você comer abacate vai lembrar desse post. Abraços!
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2025.01.30 23:41 GranolaCola rip
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2025.01.30 23:41 avagirl5005 TWICE Strategy
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2025.01.30 23:41 Street_Promotion_548 bro realy hit unreal on the switch before gta six
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