My partner broke my trust several times, now I feel indifferent.
2025.01.31 00:52 pearl-and-diamonds29 My partner broke my trust several times, now I feel indifferent.
My (26F) boyfriend (30M) continues to make me feel like an afterthought To make this short, I'll just make bullet points.
• His ex girlfriend moved in with him, they shared a bed and he didn't tell me until I stumbled upon the information. • Then proceeds to rent a whole house to accommodate her and her family, inattentive to my discomfort of the situation. • Has a female "coworker" he never mentioned, turns out they're do not work for the same company, nor do we live in the same state. I call her ostomy bag, she literally looks like one. • They flirt with each other, saying things like "I wish we could be together for real" and "I want a hug from you so bad." • Told said "best friend" that I was "just a friend." • She's married and her husband is uncomfortable with their friendship. • Takes hours out of the time we spend together to go talk on the phone with her. • Told me he'd cut her off and block her, only to find out he'd unblocked her and they're actively talking everyday. On snapchat and even LinkedIn. • They talk at 5am on their respective drives to work, at lunch and after work while actively disappearing on me for days. • They send each other snaps at 2am because they "can't sleep," when I text him at 3am because I can't sleep, he simply disregards my messages because he doesn't have the wherewithal to deal with my problems • Gets mad at me for not being worried about him when he pulls said disappearing act, however, he does this several times a week. • Constantly leaves me on read. In fact, when we talk on the phone, majority of what I say is met with silence. • Used my supplies to make her a special "friendship" gift • Plan trips to each other's city, disguised as a work trip. • Told me that she's his twin flame. • He would constantly conveniently forget plans with me or the things I tell him. • He claims to not like cats and would be dismissive whenever I showed him cats I thought were cute, but he has many interest in her cats. Even has one of her cats as his screensaver. • They write each other letters that they would send in the mail. • Always enthusiastic to leave me to go hang out with other people. • He collects ex girlfriends like Pokémon go. • He'd have conversations with ostomy bag that he should be having with me, conversations to grow in intimacy. He closes up when I asked questions pertaining to that, but says he just got there quicker with her and that he and I would get there someday. • Constantly does the opposite of what we agree on, then Gets upset because I'm upset • Called me a "doormat" fornhelping my family with simple things, when he's the one consistently going out of his way to help every Tom, Dick, and Harry he encounters. • Takes his alcohol and weed withdrawals out on me.
PS, He dumped me on our anniversary. Icing on the cake.
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2025.01.31 00:52 Think-March7877 Avoidant breaks up with me for no reason then pins sad quotes about it - what does this mean?
Hey,
I dated an FA girl for a month. Our connection was incredible and at one point she tried to breakup and & came back a day after saying she had a panic attack after attempting to break up with me.
A few days later she said she “sadly isn’t feeling anything for me” (after acting the opposite way for a month) I wished her luck and we’ve been on NC for 32 days.
I recently went on her Pinterest out of curiosity and saw that a day after the breakup she pinned this quote:
Dec 31st: “getting bad again for no reason after being happy for a long time is one of the worst feelings ever” + “sometimes you have to accept people’s part in your story is over” (wtf? you broke up with me!)
Then on Jan 9th she pins this quote: “We don’t talk about how scary it is to love when you’ve never seen examples of healthy love growing up.”
The timing and context seems like she’s venting about me and even somewhat regretting her actions. But she never reached out. She never told me she used Pinterest so I’m assuming she didn’t pin them for me to see.
And please don’t tell me “you don’t want that kind of person anyway” - I know and I’m not intending to, but I am curious and I want to see what she says.
What do you think? Does this mean she’s shy and wants me to reach out or is it meaningless? She’s an extremely shy person so I can’t rule it out, but don’t want to antagonize myself in her eyes and devaluing myself by texting her after only 4 weeks. If she will show willingness to actually put in work and better herself I may consider taking her back so I’m just overall very curious to see what caused this behavior.
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2025.01.31 00:52 ThingMan012 Is this Man’s mentor?
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2025.01.31 00:52 ocasionaly_submisive Con cuántos hombres creen que es apropiado?
Si al comenzar una relación o conocer a alguien: que cantidad de hombres creen que es apropiado que haya conocido la mujer?
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2025.01.31 00:52 faithoverfear0 How much house can I afford? 250k yearly income. No debt.
Live in California, tax rates are high here and so is Homeowners insurance. And yes, interest rates are also at 7%. 😞 Is it worth it to keep saving for 20% down? What is a comfortable monthly payment for us? We don’t have any car payments or debt. 3x a week childcare will be in our future though.
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2025.01.31 00:52 P35h0 Looking for the music software that defined what I would do for living
My dear late dad was an electrical engineer for a big company in Brasil, and because of that he had access to computers and softwares that only few people had back in the 90s. We had a desktop 286 (probably) computer and one day he instaled a music software. It contained between 10 and 20 multi-track songs. For example, I remember it had Rolling Stone´s Jumping Jack Flash, and you could listen, separately, the vocals, the drums, the bass, harmony, etc. And you could mix these stems as you like. I´m almost sure it was a DOS software, not inside Windows.
I remember spending hours playing with this software and I´m absolutely sure that it was the seed for becoming a musician/music producemixing engineer years later, and that´s what I do today for a living.
Since I got to this conclusion, I tried to find this software online, any information, but never found anything. I can´t remember its name. I only remember it was a DOS software, the RS´s song and it had a blue and gray graphic interface.
That´s it. If you can help me, it would be a joy to remember these memories again. Thanks!
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2025.01.31 00:52 Cloudyhaze13 The Vertical live saved my channel
Hey folks, I just wanted to share something with those that can take advantage of it. This new vertical live feed basically gave my channel a new life. I had been doing Live content for about a year, was lucky if anyone got a notification about it on the horizontal feed... I was still able to get over the 1k subs needed but Maxed out maybe 20 concurrent viewers on any live stream. So one day, I decided to try the vertical live feed, since I have general success with my shorts, it seemed like a good spot to drop into. Let me just say, the vertical live is what monetized the channel... A year of the full screen content and no traffic was moving.... 1 MONTH in the vertical live feed and the channel more than doubled in subscribers from 1500 to 3500.
That being said, I don't really like it... When I started, I put a lot of time into thumbnails, titles screen graphics and overlays etc... No one was seeing that stuff. Now I am literally just talking crap for an hour and get 40K views and 1000 hrs of watch time. No graphics, no cool overlays and pictures, just talking crap. I got into youtube to be creative and to raise awareness for a couple of causes I am heavily invested in. Granted, it is nice to see all of the new subs, but it feels like I am cheating because I am doing a fraction of the work I was doing before, but getting 10x the viewer interaction. Either way, it is a good thing for the channel to finally grow and for my new audience to be as interactive as they are; I just feel like youtube gave NO LOVE to the previous content even though CTR was over 10% for most vids. I honestly think if they could stop the shorts feed from sending me 40k sets of eyes and 100 new subs in an hour it would definitely stop it, but something is preventing that from happening. So for now, I will ride this little wave on the vertical and hopefully be able to get back to the full screen content later.
For anyone getting little to no traffic on the horizontal, try the vertical(if you are a live creator) and if you are not doing LIVE videos, create the video then play it through OBS (screenshare a scene) with the vertical live plugin Aitum and Youtube will treat it like a live. For anyone feeling down on the growth of their channel, it is worth it to try vertical to get your numbers going. Lastly, I ALWAYS do Subscribers only Live videos with a 5minute wait time. It gets people to subscribe faster and they have to give you a sub and 5 minutes of watch time just to be in the chat. Keeps the trolls down to a minimum and allows the faithful subscribers to be more interactive. If you feel like checking out my channel, it is Purge the BS on youtube. I would love to see you in the next live chat!
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2025.01.31 00:52 PornMadman Why do the widows still antagonize you have you give them money?
Like I gain honor for it, isn’t it a good thing?
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2025.01.31 00:52 Icy_Negotiation4237 would anyone sell me a bunch of the weekend songs for 60k coins
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2025.01.31 00:52 Crocotta1 Did the Kaifeng Jews ever have their own language like Yiddish and Ladino?
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2025.01.31 00:52 PigyOguy Hot oppinion: Windows Vista was not released for the first time on this day.
Windows Vista was first released on November 30th of 2006 for business users. Then on January 30 of 2007, it was released for consumers. While today is the more renowned date of Windows Vista, November 30th might be more accurate. Let me know!
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2025.01.31 00:52 ineedcodies Truly one of the fights of all time
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2025.01.31 00:52 lennath1975 Sort of reoccurring dream
I have this dream that occasionally will come back again from time to time. Sometimes it will be several months to almost a year but it pretty much does come back. It's not always the same except that. I'm in a car, a passenger, be driving on a ramp, a bridge, or cliffside.. think Hwy 50 near Tahoe... and somehow the driver loses control and the car pretty much drives off. I can feel the car going into the air and than starting to fall down. The last time I actually remembered telling the driver well you just killed us. Just weird I get them on occasion.. they aren't back to back. Like I said it could be several months or a couple of years.. but they do come back. Anyone has something similar?
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2025.01.31 00:52 Wertypite Interesting lore detail that was lost in translation: Samus thinks that Adam is irreplaceable person for her. That's information is in Japanese script of Other M.
アダムは私の過去を知り 最も理解してくれた人物だ 幼くして両親を失った私は、アダムに父親の姿を重ね合わせていた その彼に反発することで＿私はささやかな安らぎを得ていた 当時の私がアダムには心を許し、そして甘えていたことはいまさら言うまでも無い 私の心を理解し受け入れてくれた唯一かけがえの無い存在… なのに…やがて私は彼の元を去ってしまう
私は幼なすぎた あまりにも子供だった…
And here's translation
Adam was the person who knew about my past and understood me the most. Having lost my parents at a young age, I saw in Adam what real father would be like. By rebelling against him, I gained a small amount of peace.It goes without saying that at that time I was open to Adam, and even indulged him. He was the only irreplaceable person who understood my heart and accepted me... And yet... eventually I left him. I was too young, too childish...
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