2025.01.31 00:48 demonichashbrown unsure of what to do when i get out of high school, advice plz!
hello all! im a minor still in high school and ive been struggling practically my entire life trying to figure out what i want to do in the future in terms of college and career.
id say part of the reason why im so indecisive on it is because i don’t really have a true passion or a hobby i cant make a safe career on/useless hobbies.
to help, heres a bit about me: my biggest hobby is mostly playing video games and listening to music. not at the same time but i do them both a good deal and love both hobbies to death. if it helps any (which im sure it really wont), my favorite games are as follows: the last of us (part 1 and 2), cult of the lamb, star wars outlaws, god of war, spider man, etc etc. in general, im a huge gaming fan. anywho, some other hobbies i have include watching tv shows (recently my favorites have been sopranos, landman, tulsa king, and the last of us, which is also a game) watching horror movies, reading, occasionally writing, and mostly just being a homebody. im one of the smartest kids in school for the most part, i have a 4.03 GPA and im pretty good at my classes. the only subject i really hate is math. i hate math. a lot. least favorite subject by far. if my job has anything to do with complex math, i dont really want to do it at all. but some math i can do and i can settle on. english is not bad, i like english cause mostly reading and writing are fun. science and history are my favorites, as im great at both and barely ever had below a high A in any science or history class.
i really dont know what i want to do, or what to search for, or even how to find what to do. i know i have plenty of time, but some help is greatly appreciated. any and all help is welcome. thanks!
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2025.01.31 00:48 JPEGSHIT Rice purity test
What's yalls rice purity scores, I'm 14 and it's 80, no dirty shit js mostly trouble with police
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2025.01.31 00:48 NappyNapperHelp I think my son is stealing his friend's diapers
Throwaway account. Names and some details changed for privacy. Just in case: nappy/nappies = UK word for diapediapers.
TL;DR: My (12M) son's friend (12M) wears a nappy at night, and I'm pretty sure my son has been secretly taking nappies from his friend's supply and wearing/using them "recreationally".
Anyway, a few months after they became friends, Harry asked me before school if he could invite Oliver for a sleepover at some point, which I said was OK with me as long as it was OK with Oliver's parents. However, he came home from school and said that he had asked Oliver about it and Oliver had just bluntly told him that he didn't like sleepovers, which kind of upset Harry a bit because he'd been quite excited about it.
I consoled him and said that, if it's not something that Oliver feels he would enjoy or would be comfortable with, then it's best to respect his feelings and not try and force him into it. I was kinda surprised because Oliver did seem like the kind of kid who would jump at the chance to spend the night eating pizza and gaming or whatever, but I didn't know Oliver's past and so didn't want Harry to try pressuring him into a sleepover in case there was trauma or whatever there, although I didn't tell him that part.
I said to Harry that, if Oliver is comfortable with it, then I'm happy to try and do a sleepover without the sleeping part -- he can come here and do all the normal sleepover stuff but, when it gets close to bedtime, we can drop him back at his instead -- but I said to not put any pressure on Oliver to say yes. Anyway, apparently Oliver was happier with that arrangement, and so that's what we did, and it went well.
This went on every couple of weeks for a few months, alternating between Oliver coming here for the evening and Harry going there for the evening. Then, one evening, while Harry was at Oliver's, he phoned and said that Oliver had said it was OK if he wanted to have a proper sleepover there, and asked me if that would be OK, which I said it was. I packed a his toiletries and a change of clothes, and dropped them off with him; he was beaming when he came out to collect them, so I could see how much it meant to him to be able to have a proper sleepover.
He got dropped off mid-afternoon the next day, and he said that he'd had an amazing time, and Oliver's parents said that Harry had been great, so I was glad. I said to them that, if Oliver ever feels comfortable enough, he's always welcome to have a sleepover here, but that there was no pressure and that I was happy to carry on with the half-sleepover thing if that's what he'd prefer, which they said they appreciated.
That evening, over dinner, he told me about what they'd got up to at the sleepover (just normal boys sleepover stuff). I asked if he slept OK, and he said yeah, they'd brought Oliver's older brother's bed into Oliver's room since his brother was at university, and he slept on that. Then I asked if Oliver had been OK with the sleeping part of the sleepover, and he said yeah, but he was kinda sheepish about it.
I asked if he wanted to talk about it, and he said that it was nothing, but then went on to tell me that Oliver had to wear a nappy to bed, and that that was why he hadn't wanted to do a sleepover originally; apparently he'd been bullied quite badly in primary school about it after he went on an overnight school trip and someone found out and told everyone. I asked Harry how he felt about it and he said that it made him feel a bit weird at the time but that he just told Oliver that it was OK and that it didn't change how he viewed him or something like that.
Apparently Oliver got quite emotional about it, which I can understand, and Harry tried to comfort him and reassure him that it's OK and that he really didn't mind and that he wasn't gonna tell anyone and that it wasn't a big deal, but his mum had to come in and help comfort him in the end, and together they reassured him that this wasn't gonna be a repeat of last time, and that Harry wasn't gonna tell anyone. After that, they watched a movie, then they chatted for a long time before they went to sleep.
I told Harry that I was proud of him for being understanding of Oliver, and that I knew that he was gonna do right by Oliver and not tell anyone, which he reassured me that he wouldn't tell anyone (which I knew anyway). I said to him that it was OK that he told me, but that he shouldn't let Harry know that he'd told me, just in case he isn't comfortable with that, and he agreed.
Anyway, a couple of weeks later, Oliver had a "full" sleepover here, and it went really well; I could tell that they both enjoyed it, and Oliver (as far as I know) didn't get upset or emotional, so I think he had taken onboard that it was OK that Harry knew. From that point onwards, all of the sleepovers were "full" sleepovers, and it was all good.
Probably 3-4 months after that, Oliver was due to come home with Harry after school for a sleepover, but Harry's room was kinda messy, so I did a quick tidy up, including putting away the clothes that I'd washed but that he'd just left on his bed rather than putting away properly. While putting away his underwear, I found a couple of nappies tucked away at the back of his underwear drawer. At the time, I just assumed that they were there as Oliver's spares, and that Harry had agreed to keep them here for when they have sleepovers, just in case. It made me happy that Oliver was comfortable enough with Harry to arrange something like that, and proud that Harry was happy to accommodate him in this way. I left them where they were, put the underwear away, and put it out of my mind.
It's been months since then, and, as far as I'm aware, all has been going well; they are very close still, and still have sleepovers every few weeks, which they both seem to enjoy. I've gotten to know Oliver better through him coming over to hang out with Harry and have sleepovers and stuff, and I'm honestly really happy that Harry has a close friend like Oliver; they both seem to bring out the best in each-other.
However, yesterday morning, I was emptying the bin to take the rubbish out and the bag split, and, while I was collecting all of the rubbish to put into a new bin bag, I found a used nappy. Initially, I just assumed that it must be Oliver's and carried on clearing away the rubbish, but he hasn't been for a sleepover here in over a fortnight and I change the bin bag pretty much every other day, so I'm confident it's not his. Since Harry is an only child and I'm a single parent, and I'm very confident that the nappy isn't mine... the only explanation that makes any sense to me is that Harry must've used it?
I Googled it, and there's a lot of stuff about people who find comfort in wearing and using nappies, and other people who wear and use them for... "gratification". I've thought and felt a lot over the past couple of days reflecting on this but the conclusion I've come to is that, if this is his "thing", then that's honestly OK. I think maybe I should feel more weirded out or grossed out by it, but I grew up as the middle child of five, with an older brother whose "thing" was heroin, and so I know that, as "things" go, it could be so much worse than finding comfort or happiness in something harmless like nappies.
The one thing that makes me uncomfortable is the source of the nappies; I can't imagine Oliver is just giving Harry nappies to wear or use or whatever, and so I'm concerned that Harry is taking/stealing them from Oliver's stock.
There's quite a few things that concern me about this: I don't like the idea that Harry is essentially committing theft, and nappies aren't cheap, especially for older kids. However, the main thing that concerns me even more than this is that I worry he is risking his friendship with Oliver doing this; if he is caught, or Oliver or his parents catch onto the fact that nappies are going missing or that they're having to restock more often than normal, and they manage to link that back to Harry, I don't know how Oliver or his parents would react to that, but I can't imagine that it would be good for their friendship, and I know that that would be devastating for him.
I've thought about sitting down with him and trying to discuss it with him, but I also remember being his age and doing dumb stuff, and I know that, if my parent(s) had sat down with me and wanted to discuss it, I would've been mortified to the point that, to this day, I think I wouldn't be comfortable if I knew they knew the dumb stuff I did at that age, so I'm gonna try and avoid that if I can.
The only other solution I can think of would be if I'm able to somehow supply him with nappies so that he doesn't take any more from Oliver, but I've thought and thought and I honestly can't think of a way to do that. The best I've come up with so far is:
Basically, I think I need a reason that (1) makes it seem like I've come into possession of them by chance, and (2) allows them to come into Harry's possession in a way that both doesn't directly link to Oliver and also doesn't raise any kind of suspicions that I know about him wearing/using nappies.
If you can think of a good reason, or if you have any advice or experience handling a situation like this, then I would be very grateful; it's been a tough and confusing couple of days for me trying to figure out how best to deal with this.
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2025.01.31 00:48 annn_122 I poured my soul into "A Journey of Two Hearts" (My first written work)
I never considered myself a writer, yet somehow, I found myself writing. Not just words, but pieces of something real, something that carries a part of me within it. This is my first written work, and I can’t say it was easy. Every page, every sentence, came from a place deeper than I expected.
I wrote this with nothing but honesty, letting my thoughts flow freely, unfiltered and raw. It is more than just a story, it is an experience, a moment in time captured in words. I don’t know if it will resonate with anyone, but I know that I want it to be read, to be felt.
Now, as I take this step into the unknown, I only ask for one thing, your thoughts. Not just as feedback, but as something more. Because this is new to me, and I want to know if what I wrote truly speaks.
For those interested in reading what I wrote, you can find it in my post ^ ^
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2025.01.31 00:48 Ket_art Un Jeune permis, une boite auto
Bonjoubonsoir à tous, dépendra à quelle heure vous regarderez ce poste,
Je suis jeune permis (1 ans), et je cherche une nouvelle voiture en boîte automatique, disons le, fiable !
je suis sur un budget entre 3k et 6k, voire même 6.5k, et je cherche une voiture correcte au niveau de ce budget. Mais surtout qui passera au niveau de l’assurance ! (Quelle soit pas trop cher)
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2025.01.31 00:48 Either_Somewhere_18 [REQ] ($100) - (#Philadelphia, PA, United States) (repay $150 by 2/9) (CashApp/Venmo/)
In need of some assistance for food and gas I do not have a down payment available. Very legit willing to verify as needed.
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2025.01.31 00:48 eng2725 Ordered the wrong adaptor for my free card reader on accident, can I return that one and get the right one?
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2025.01.31 00:48 ConsiderationFlat299 20 [F4M] Let’s make this night one to remember.
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2025.01.31 00:48 SpiritWalkerTorak Gorge trail closures
Hi all! Recently moved out here and wanted to hit some trails this weekend. Are there any gorge trails that aren't closed? The websites for Tremen, Buttermilk, and Watkins Glen all say that the trails are closed. Wondering what's left for something like those.
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2025.01.31 00:48 OkSeason3685 The second ammendment.
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2025.01.31 00:48 allchokedupp 5600 to 5700x3D worth it for Wilds?
Hey all.
I have a bit of extra money this month and I saw some cheap 5700x3ds on aliexpress ($140). I currently have a 5600 with a RX 6600 gpu. I probably can't afford a gpu at this time, but the cpu is definitely in my budget.
For the wilds context: the game stuttered in the open beta quite a bit and my fps was in the 40-50 fps range with dlss. Would upgrading have an noticable effect? I heard mhwilds was cpu intensive. I do plan to wait for the next test to really test it again fully, but the more advice I can get the better.
Thanks!
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2025.01.31 00:48 Odd_Childhood_6029 I can’t navigate this menu
No errors or anything it just will not select or move at all, any ideas?
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2025.01.31 00:48 sugahoneyicedteababy need help completing pokedex please!
hi there! i recently got back into pokemon sword about 2 weeks ago & have been working on finishing the pokedex. this is my first time ever being this close to completing a pokedex (i have 386/400) but i need help!
the last few i need are either ones that need to be evolved via trade or ones that i've just had trouble finding. please see list below!
2025.01.31 00:48 New_Pea_9908 How’s everyone doing so far?!
Came all the way from Mexico for this, looking great so far!! The pit has to get ready
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2025.01.31 00:48 Owl_Open January Reads [8/60]
Harry Potter, Fourth Wing, and Iron Flame are all re-reads, but I’m counting them. My challenge, right? submitted by Owl_Open to 52book [link] [comments] |
2025.01.31 00:48 murasconstruct John Atkinson Grimshaw paintings inspired SH2R lighting (probably)
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2025.01.31 00:48 libtears-usa More, more!
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2025.01.31 00:48 red_fox23 Exclusive Hamilton Pocket Watch... are you aware?
February 6h at the Lancaster store, Hamilton is releasing a special pocket watch that apparently will only be released there. That being said, is anyone else aware of this or will be attending?
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2025.01.31 00:48 YumxYummy Nayeon
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2025.01.31 00:48 Bxnkrollz Group Ironman
Looking to start a Ironman but prefer group anyone interested?
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2025.01.31 00:48 Insufferable-Asshat Lakers shouldn’t keep getting 2 all stars by default if they aren’t the best or near the top of the conference
It has to be one of either Bron or Davis. At this point it’s seemingly a name recognition award. Teams that have better records should be rewarded. This is my opinion I am willing to discuss and or change my opinion. It’s ok if you disagree
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2025.01.31 00:48 radicalcentrist611 any ideas where the stockings could be from?
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2025.01.31 00:48 Birdie_Bird_Bird glitches after update
I did the update this week, now none of the play/pause buttons work. Before the update the upper button never worked. What gives? submitted by Birdie_Bird_Bird to sonos [link] [comments] |
2025.01.31 00:48 Choice-Bag9285 Online friends
Hey there, I (F19) and my 2 online best friends (F20 and F18) want to play games together and watch movies together but don’t know what games we could play together, and I dont have any movies we could watch. If anyone could comment some games and movies, that would be amazing. One of my friends has a switch, the other has just her phone and I have a XBOX series X fyi
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2025.01.31 00:48 Perod22 Tall women claiming 5’10 as a woman isn’t tall and men are just tiny
https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGdDfj5KM/
Just complete double standards and it isn’t even funny women that are 5’10 are trying to gaslight people and claiming being 6 inches above average American women height isn’t tall that’s like being 6’3 as a man and being called average or being 5’3 as a man and saying it’s not that short. 2 million people agree than men are just tiny and women in the comments openly talking about there disgust for short men for just existing. Genuinely can’t take women anymore
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