Just found out..not mine
2025.01.31 01:52 Connect_Pattern_7518 Just found out..not mine
I had an emotional moment with my recent ex at the time. A couple weeks later she was SA. Found out months later she was pregnant. Now the baby is 18 months old and I’ve been well into her life for a year now. I chose not to be involved at the beginning because I didn’t know if she was mine or not and didn’t want to be attached because I knew the risk of me getting attached as I have had an ex with children before and the worst is losing the attachment to the kids. I gave up on the paternity testing and accepted she was mine after a while because her mother also didn’t want to know the results of the test given that the alternative to me not being her father was that the man who SA her was her father. I love the child dearly and I have been planning my life and career based on her well being. I have been telling coworkers and just random people in conversation I’m a father and I’ve been damn proud of it. It felt nice. For a young man with no real family attachment or father figure, to say I have a daughter was a relief. Her mother and I have a strained relationship and we aren’t the best at communicating but at the end of the day we both want what is best for the baby.
Recently been going through some tough times and have considered getting a vasectomy so I wanted to do the test. Ordered a Genetrace test and sent it in. Got the results saying I have 0% chance of being the father. I feel empty. I feel as if I’m no longer her father, I feel like she was pulled away from me and that I don’t belong. I feel like the ex-step father trying to stay in the picture.
I understand that I have made some very obvious mistakes and I don’t need to be reminded of that. At this point, I just need advice. I need someone to talk to. I feel like I have no where to turn. My heart says to act like the test never happened and love her until my last breath but I know myself. I know it’s always going to be in my mind, feeling like I’m living a lie. The other hand, my brain says to get out and walk away now before I ruin it even more. Before I destroy something else and hurt more people in life. Just run away and try to drown it in some unhealthy coping mechanism.
Maybe the test was wrong. Maybe it was right. Maybe I should be her father. Maybe it’s best for everyone if I take off and don’t look back. I honestly don’t know if I could recover from walking away from this but if that is what is best then maybe it should happen. Idk
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2025.01.31 01:52 Fassfer Update
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2025.01.31 01:52 SkepticalOutlook_66 Something they did to you that was pure evil?
Too many to choose from, but I’ll share three that have always stuck with me.
1 - The last time I broke down and cried in front of my bpd ex was during her one of her hour long pure rage/hate filled splitting episodes where I was just degraded, slandered with a false accusation, and completely put down as a pathetic waste of time & space to her. Her reaction to my crying episode? She called up one of the new supplies she was currently monkey branching to and put him on speaker phone during my breakdown, and proceeded to make fun of me with him over the phone. Before taking my car to go see him.
2 - She forcibly gave me a bunch of cash for her share of the rent (something I never asked her for as the one and only time I ever asked resulted in an insane splitting episode). I found the huge wad of cash sitting on the bathroom counter and tried to give it to her, which she refused to take. She played this form of game often, only to later guilt trip/harass me for the money back. Well, this time she decided to go the slander route. I later received a text that she “accidentally” sent to me, that was meant for her new supply. Basically accusing me of “taking all her money away from her”…
3 - Worst one. Lying and accusing me of sexual assault after I had to call the police on her for hitting, bitting, and bullying me nonstop in the middle of the night. This immediately followed after we had consensual sex. We were literally laughing, flirting, and joking like best friends seconds before she randomly flew off the handle and went insane with rage. I’m lucky nobody believed her and I had proof of consent + abuse from my living room camera.
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Thanks!
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