“6 months let’s see where this progresses”
2025.01.31 04:21 siphoninarabia “6 months let’s see where this progresses”
For context met this guy in August. Took me out was always imitating texting and calling and occasionally seeing me in public settings. After our first hangout he suggested my place I agreed we cuddled nothing much. After that day he still remained consistent. To be honest I’m 18 and he’s 21 my parents are strict so I started sneaking him in at night we wouldn’t have sex as I’m a virgin but he tried to convince me multiple times to at least take my clothes off bc it’s “more hot” I never agreed bc we haven’t known each other for a while I was uncomfertable. Ok so months go by I’m still sneaking this guy in every about every other week if not twice a month, things started to progress (intimacy wise) he now would let me feel his tip inside me took a while but he convinced me of other things. By this point I’m still not giving him full penetrative sex. In the beginning he used to put effort in and time to texting and calling but now he’s very inconsistent like I get it he might be busy but what really triggered me was not going the entire day and saying “I wasn’t on my phone a lot I was with my family” like are you serious? Not one message giving me a notice? or other time he would say he will call me but doesn’t. I addressed these things he would be good for like a week then fall off again. And some of it is my fault I would be inconsistent in texting but genuinely was busy and I tell him that. I ignored all his red flags all these months in hopes of him acting right. But recently he’s very inconsistent, our chats are meaningless, I don’t know what our dynamic is the only time he wants to see him is at night when I mentioned a lot we should do stuff during the day. I’m self aware, yes I called him out, yes I gave him a lot of access to me, yes I let all his bs slide.
Today I decided I’m so fed up
Him: bc i was trying to not bicker with you over something that we both suck at (texting) feels like that’s his excuse to not putting effort
Me: Yea I’m just talking about lack of inconsistency and you change the subject like it’s nothing and ask to hangout and see makes no sense
Him: you suck at texting me back n i do too are you going to change you replying faster ?
Me: that won’t change anything about you will it like at first it was whatever but now this is so meaningless
Him: so you’re getting tired of this ? do u even know what this is
Me: no do you care to tell me Im asking you to take initiative as a man and answer the question
Him: idk what we are we haven’t had this conversation yet but ik i like you and im guessing you like me but i have no idea what this is
Me: I assume you were never going to mention this conversation
Him: i was waiting til you were (like wtff he’s acting feminine)
Me: you keep saying I have to mention or start things first whats the deal?
Him: bc i always want to hear it from you first it’s just how i am
HERES THE TEA
Him: but yeah tho but i like how we are right now we can keep talking and see how things progress
Me: I think things have progressed rapidly all we’re doing is “hanging out”
Me: I don’t wanna do this anymore if that’s all you’re into (basically me sneaking him in). You’re telling me let’s keep talking and see how this progresses as if it hasn’t been half a year that’s a new low And it takes you half a year to know if you like someone or not?
Him: well we can take a bigger steps like idk i’ll make an effort to see you more during the day instead of only at night (this sounds like total bs)
Me: I don’t want to keep talking with you to see how things “progress” by now you should be firm on where you stand
Him: i wanna keep moving forward with you i said i like you and i want to continue moving forward with you I’ll change me actions
Me: never changed before even though I called you out on it, all I hear is talk I have nothing to talk about, I told you what I wanted and you can’t give it to me.
Him: i said i will give it to you i’ll put in more effort
That’s the final message. This is where i don’t know what to say or do or just let it go and not respond. Idk if i should believe another word that comes out of his mouth.
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