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2024.11.26 03:31 InternationalWear614 Another turkish clasic
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2024.11.26 03:31 itHurts2xist AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend who has never been in a serious relationship, despite my efforts to set boundaries?
I (23F) have been dating my boyfriend (23M) for 5 months. We are complete opposites, but that's what I love about him. I'm extroverted, he's very introverted, and we met at the gym.
Some background: I got married young (19-21) to a very narcissistic, abusive man and finally moved on. Sadly, I found myself in an even worse relationship. Though it wasn’t physically abusive, it was much more mentally straining. Eventually, I found my way out of that situation and took a break from dating for a year.
Fast forward to today, I met this amazing guy. Let’s call him Jacob. He’s never been in a serious relationship, only having flings here and there. I went into this relationship knowing I would have to be more patient and work on communication. About a month into the relationship, he starts comparing me to other women. For example, we were holding hands, and I got the urge to nibble his arm. I said, "Sorry, I feel like I bite you a lot." His response was, “No, you don’t. [Fake name] Summer used to bite me way more, and a lot harder. You and Summer both have large butts.” (Background on Summer: He used to be head over heels in love with her, even though they never dated. She would break up with her boyfriend and then seek comfort and sex with him, and he would welcome her with open arms. They were also roommates before we met.) He would make comments like this often. Eventually, it started to get to me, and I told him I didn’t like being compared to other women. For the most part, he worked on it, with a few slip-ups here and there. After that, the relationship started to improve. The more I got to know him, the more I realized how sweet and funny he is. I never knew I could feel so comfortable with silence and the feeling of being held. He doesn't talk much, but when he does, I listen.
Now, on to what pushed me to break up.
In total, we’ve had one situation and two arguments that resulted in me attempting to break up. Without getting into too much detail, one situation involved a violation of my privacy and him trying to hide it. The other two were about Summer. I’m not the jealous type, and the picture he painted of her was that they aren’t friends, he doesn’t talk to her because she’s a bad person, and she’s manipulative. So, after a brief interaction in the gym, I walked away, and she walked up to him. She talked to him while doing squats, with her elbow resting on the workout bench, looking up at him. They eventually ended the conversation, and she went back to working out. Overall, their conversation didn’t seem respectful, and I told him it made me really upset. It looked flirty. His response was, “She said she could breathe and walked over to ask for help.” I said, “Why? I thought you weren’t friends and didn’t talk. So why is she so comfortable approaching you?” His response: “We haven’t talked in months. She just saw me and asked if I could help.”
Fast forward about two hours, and I asked him about setting boundaries. His response was that he doesn’t set boundaries with people because he doesn’t want problems. I told him that the interaction made me jealous and uncomfortable because of the lack of boundaries. He escalated the conversation by cussing and calling me “schizo.” I hung up the phone and cried. When I calmed down, we continued the conversation, and I went over to his place to talk in person. I explained why the lack of boundaries made me so uncomfortable, especially with this person. His response to that upset me so much that I had to leave and go home. He defended that I was with him to make Summer jealous and that my version of their relationship was wrong.
The next day, I went back to his place to help him move before he left for deployment. You’re probably wondering why I was helping. Even when I’m upset, if I say I’m going to help, I’m going to help. He knew I was going to break up with him if nothing changed. I asked him to please send a message to Summer telling her not to reach out unless it’s work-related via email and to block her on all other platforms. He said he would, and then two days later, he left for deployment.
A month and a half later, I had a dream I wanted to tell him about, but before I did, I asked if he had blocked Summer like he said he would.
Him: “It’s funny you bring that up—she texted me a paragraph on Snapchat, deleted it, and blocked me.”
Me: “I thought you said you’d block her?”
Him: “I didn’t have her on any social media or her phone number. So what was your dream about?”
Me: “I don’t want to talk about the dream. Why did you say you’d block her if you couldn’t? If you didn’t have her on social media, how did she snap you?”
Him: “Oh, she blocked me a long time ago and just added me back. I had no idea.”
Me: “Okay, understandable. But I would like to stop being available for her to reach out.”
Him: “I’m not. We don’t talk or text.”
I go to work and call him after.
Him: “You’re breaking up with me.”
Me: “I want to talk and sort this out so that doesn’t happen.”
Him: “Okay, I’m sorry. I don’t know what you want me to do.”
Me: “I want you to stop being available to her. Be proactive in stopping communication. You see how she blocks you, but you don’t block or remove her. So she has the power to talk to you whenever.”
Him: “I blocked her before I left…”
Me: “You just said you didn’t have her number to block her.”
Him: “I don’t know what you want me to do.”
Me: “Block her. Get her number and do what we talked about.”
Him: “I don’t know anyone who has her number.”
He did eventually send a message and a screenshot of the message being sent, but there was no proof of blocking.
The more I write, the more I realize it wasn’t a mistake for me to stop the relationship. I’m stopping the story here. Thank you for listening.
I understand that it might be wrong and controlling to ask someone to block someone, but I felt that was the last course of action. Overall, I saw that this behavior—like small lies, telling me what I wanted to hear, and disregarding my boundaries—was a pattern, so I decided to leave. I did explain all of these reasons for the break up to him.
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2024.11.26 03:31 huaiyazi26 湾区找妹指南分享给兄弟们
在外面打拼的兄弟们都不容易，不能亏欠压抑自己，更不能让别人因为自己的因缺有需而哄抢自己。各位兄弟们，请对自己好一点。
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2024.11.26 03:31 Nervousstring_5194 AIO about what to say?
This is less of an am I overreacting post and more of a am I overthinking this kind of post. Hi reddit! F 19, I’m not sure exactly what to say but i’ll just try my best. So I live with a family member and i have to move out by the 1st of January (i’m essentially getting kicked out or “evicted” since I pay rent.) I have a move out date and a place to go for now but I don’t want to tell him. I’m slowly selling some of my furniture and various random items I have to get ready to start moving. I’m scared of telling him I have a move out date even though we’re both on the same page i have to move out anyway, I have a feeling he’ll ask me where i’m going/whats my plan but i just wanna leave and be gone I don’t want to say anything, basically just disappear. I have bad anxiety and some know how to go about this. And for anyone who will say leave when he’s not home/ not around, that isn’t an option he’s always home, he doesn’t currently work so he’s always around. I feel that I’ll have to say something but i’m not sure how to phrase it, i dont want him to know where i’m going, or who i’m going with. Is there anyway to say that nicely? He’s big on telling family members everyone’s business as well and I am just not sure what to do. Idk if this is the right forum for this but thank you anyway for anyone who read all the way through and gives me advice.
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2024.11.26 03:31 Mo_Caesar Bike for my 3 year old
Wanting everyone's thought on these 2 bikes. My son climbed on the 16" Ozone 500 tonight.
I don't know really anything about these brands.
Here are the 2 bikes I am thinking about.
https://a.co/d/8YdAyZ3
https://www.academy.com/p/ozone-500-boys-16-in-kick-it-bike?sku=orange-blue-16&gmc_feed=t&utm_source=Google&utm_medium=SEM-Shopping&utm_content=Shopping&utm_campaign=Non-Brand|PerformanceMax|SportsRec|Recreation&ogmap=SEM|PLN|GOOG|SHOP|m|SNR|IM|Non-Brand-PerformanceMax-SportsRec-Recreation||18325033100&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvykpa17AKMn7v59s002dpnc53nZmSCl_RFYIEYJdC7rGGHmzvAss-fRoCxyMQAvD_BwE
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2024.11.26 03:31 freakycuhh WTF SHE BLEW THEM UP
CERSEI BLEW UP THE CHURCH TRIAL PLACE WTFF 😭😭😭😭😭
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2024.11.26 03:31 Salty_Discipline_147 [PC][90s or VERY Early 2000s] Isometric Diablo-like RPG with a Demo, Had a Ghostly Spirit that you could choose during character creation that saves your life in the introduction.
I been having these memories of a isometric RPG like Diablo that I been scouring the internet for months trying to find. I played the demo when I was very young, so I never got past the intro. Likely died several times before restarting from the beginning.
You make your character, but (I think) you can select some sort of ghostly spirit, maybe a god, that affects the story and maybe your build. I remember a green and red one, but the most vivid I remember was a blue one that looked like a Minotaur and had a deep voice.
After making your character, the demo shows a rather lengthy in-game introduction where you are about to be executed by what appears to be the antagonists, possibly for committing a crime or being magical? I don't remember the exact wording. The moment you are killed, the spirit you selected would suddenly come out of your body, yell at the antagonists, and then the antagonists would comment on how you're some special person with a powerful being protecting you. You then appear in a jailcell and get a moment to talk to this ghostly spirit that supposedly saved you from dying, maybe you were resurrected. Afterwards the game begins and that's where my memory fades.
Platform(s): PC
Genre: Isometric, Diablo-like, RPG?
Estimated year of release: 90s-Early 2000s
Graphics/art style: Isometric, Dark Fantasy?
Notable characters: Three Spirits, One of them a Blue Bull-like creature that you can select to be your guide(?)
Notable gameplay mechanics: Besides your character, you can pick a spirit, which I assumes changes both the story and build of your character.
Other details: Since only the introduction is burned in my memory, anything past that is fuzzy.
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2024.11.26 03:31 Difficult-Earth3140 Trading regular NON party teal forest for 10 party favor pots pls!!
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2024.11.26 03:31 Troller122 4070 on 200w or 4060 on 330w power supply which is better?
 | So there is Acer Predator Helios Neo 16 with 4060 and MSI Katana 15 with 4070 on about the same price where I am from. I know TGP matters alot so in this case which is better? submitted by Troller122 to GamingLaptops [link] [comments] |
2024.11.26 03:31 Long_Pumpkin_3479 Could someone please read my chard and What sign should I date
Thank you so much 😊 ❤️
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2024.11.26 03:31 Chemical_Newt4907 Three Days Grace influence
Am I trippin or does TTS take a lot of influence from Three Days Grace? (Especially 2009-present TDG)
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2024.11.26 03:30 Feisty-Frame-7758 Anyone know what the airsoft gun is exactly?
I can’t find this gun on any big airsoft websites. I know that it’s made by G&G and it’s an M4A1 but nothing else. I got it for free from a random person and have had it for 5+ years. It has never worked but I’d like to try and fix it but I can’t find it online anywhere. I found ONE pic of one here on Reddit but that’s it. If anyone knows anything about it please let me know.
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2024.11.26 03:30 Icy_Lie_7891 19m bwc need cute twinks or femboys that love showing off for their daddy ;) disc: lockkk111
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2024.11.26 03:30 AveragusPenus same card, different manufacturers. why does one cost so much more?
gigabyte and msi. both have the same specs from what i can see but msi costs £100 more than gigabyte by original price and £34 with sale. eli5. also curious why msi weighs an extra 255 grams, is it just the shell? why make a shell weigh that much? again eli5, i have no clue what anything is, i just pick a 3 fan card that fits my case and has no compatibility issues on partpicker. msi card is slightly too big anyway, i can only fit a 300mm but i was just interested.
bit of a shame that i cant take advantage of the black friday sale and buy the card with a fatter sale, but still excited to upgrade from radeon rx 6600. side note question - is gigabyte good, does it matter and what does EAGLE mean on their cards? my current card is also an EAGLE. also any suggestion are welcome, i might be buying a garbage card, i wouldnt know
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2024.11.26 03:30 Gold_Handle8802 Da Nang or Nha Trang?
As a young couple traveling with an infant for the first time, we’re deciding between Da Nang and Nha Trang. Which would you pick and why? We’d love to hear your experiences and what makes either destination stand out.
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2024.11.26 03:30 Zack_Brodham Some of the last year’s Billy Breathes
 | All grown by members of Overgrow and Discord. Billy Breathes ( Jet Fuel g6 x (HAOG x Billy Idle) 9-10 weeks, average to above average yields, lots of delicious pungent flavors ranging from sweet skunky OG, to astringent sour pine and OG, to straight Sour kush. One of my best creations. submitted by Zack_Brodham to cannabisbreeding [link] [comments] |
2024.11.26 03:30 General_Action_357 Gs / sns, is it a viable dps spec? I absolutely think so. Its not a pure pure dps spec, but what it lacks in pure dps, it more than makes up for being tanky
What do you guys think
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2024.11.26 03:30 Fickle_Appeal_4954 Who to focus on?
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2024.11.26 03:30 MikeZ421 Ork Boyz
So got some Boyz in order to use them as the Med Brawler in solo/coop, but man, the kit is so awesome and has such character that I decided to make Kommandos Killteam with it. I ended up with the older box to be clear.
I am proxying a couple operatives and do not have the bomb Squig/grot, but there is plenty to work with. This guy here was the left over torso because the Nob has his own torso.
So, took this torso and did a minor conversion to a shooter to make it a flamer. Modeled him coming up out of a barrel I have had laying around for years. Loving how it turned out. Super Orky.
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2024.11.26 03:30 Viciousssylveonx3 Absolutely
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2024.11.26 03:30 imnotnorthern Why can the Stalwarts do this, do they still have power without the Captain?
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2024.11.26 03:30 PirateSteve44 Building pc with current parts, what you think of my replacements
Old parts : cpu: ryzen 7 3700,tuf gaming x570-plus wifi mobo, 650+ gold semi psu, gpu: raedon rx580 8 gig strix. I'm Utilizing my storage,case. Having to replace my mobo, I'm deciding to pull the trigger and get a new upgrade. Thoughts: https://pcpartpicker.com/list/NhnpGJ
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2024.11.26 03:30 Main_Competition4108 Placebo or real effect ?
I’ve been trying to do some research on buspar. For some people it works instantly. This is day 3 for me. I’m usually always angry, snappy, have severe mood swings and constant anxiety and panic attacks. I had a mini panic attack today but was able to control myself. Also I don’t worry while on it. My mind doesn’t race. It’s been about 12 hours since I took my last pill and my mind is starting to worry again. Am I supposed to take this at the same time everyday and is this exactly how it works ?
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2024.11.26 03:30 Doge_Of_Wall_Street TradeOgre pls ♥️
Would you like to see WagLayla $WALA listed on the Trade Ogre exchange?
The WALA house needs your help to share this post!
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2024.11.26 03:30 _MaxPlayz [hiring] 100-200$ vehicle searching commission
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It’s not easy at first as there are lots of factors that determine a vehicles worth, but once you get the hang of it it’s not too bad. Message me if interested, I can send a document that goes into full detail on this and how to do it.
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