AIO? My boyfriend kept a photo w/ his ex up after I asked him to delete
2024.11.26 14:30 Free-Manufacturer487 AIO? My boyfriend kept a photo w/ his ex up after I asked him to delete
Let me preface- I know how immature this sounds on this surface. But AIO?
When I breakup with someone, I delete all traces on social media. Anything that reminds me of them I get rid of, especially when I start dating someone new.
I don’t like to talk about exes. I don’t wanna know their name, I don’t wanna know when you dated, how many girlfriends you’ve had… I love to be left in the dark because I don’t want memories of that person to become memories between us.
I made this very clear. I straight up said, I get jealous thinking about you with other women, and he said he gets jealous of thinking about me with other men.
For more context, we’re both celibate and waiting for marriage, so we both also have a newfound feeling and respect when it comes to sex. It makes me nauseous thinking about someone I haven’t had sex with yet having a sexual relationship with someone.
That said, I’m realistic. We both have pasts. I don’t judge or condemn him for having sex with women prior to me, of course. I just don’t want to know their names or see their faces. I don’t want to imagine that she’s the one who taught him all the things I know he knows about female anatomy (while we’re celibate, it’s still clear this man knows how to take care of a woman).
So a few months ago he deleted all his tagged photos on Instagram, deleted his entire twitter which I never looked at, and deleted all his Facebook photos with his ex-
Except one.
He told me a while ago he deleted them all and from what I saw he did. But yesterday I was missing my man while he was at work and was looking through his photos, and he kept one with his ex in it. The comments were him and her sending hearts.
This photo he removed as a tag on Instagram, so I know he acknowledges it was something I wouldn’t want to see. But for some reason he chose to leave it on Facebook. He admitted it wasn’t an oversight, and that he just didn’t choose to delete it.
Now I know her name and her face. I know they ran cross country together. This was his only serious relationship and lasted about 4 years. She cheated on him and broke his heart.
I instantly got mad. It’s not like I’m afraid they’re gonna go running back to each other. It was a photo with 2-3 other people and was a “team photo,” but I know he knows it would upset me, because he took it off Instagram. I told him I don’t ever want to see a picture with a woman he had a sexual and intimate relationship with. He told me he deleted them all but made a conscious decision to leave one.
Anyway. I got upset, as I told him I would when I asked him to delete photos of him and anyone he had a sexual relationship with. I was unkind and hurt him back.
I told him names and described physical attributes of my exes whom I erased all traces of and have been very mindful to not mention in any detail. I told him that I was feeling turned off, unnattraced and grossed out by him. I told him specific things about his personality that I found unsexy. Overall, I didn’t handle it with grace or kindness.
He’s such a gentle, loving person. He would never insult me or intentionally say or do anything to hurt me- so it’s even harder to sit with the idea of intentionally hurting him.
I hate the way I reacted, but at the same time, I reacted exactly the way I told him I would react if I saw pictures of him with an ex- esp his only relationship that lasted four years and ended in a devastating heartbreak for him.
I hate that I know her name. Idk if it’s the ADHD or what, but I ruminate. Bits of conversations and images play on loop and flash in my mind all day, no matter how hard I try to silence them. That’s why I do my very best to protect my mind and heart form anything that would cause me jealousy or anger.
It’s not just about the photo and the reason I didn’t want to see it; it’s about the fact I, the woman he wants to marry, asked him to delete it… and that he said he did.
I asked him why he chose to keep it and he just kept saying he has no good reason. I said, I know there’s no good reason- that’s why I don’t understand why you felt the need to keep it.
I feel like I overreacted. Now we’re both hurt over something so meaningless.
I told him names at attributes of my exes and asked him how he feels now that he knows the names and appearance of people I’ve slept with. He said he hated it. I explained that’s the reason I asked him to delete the photos. I knew they were there just by a quick cursory look at his socials when we first started dating, but I was very intentional to not look too closely, find her name, go to her page, know anything about her. Then I’m just flipping through his pics and boom, there she is, name, face, comments of hearts back and forth.
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2024.11.26 14:30 Eats_Beef_Steak Suddenly not receiving text images in group chats from iphone users?
Using a Moto G7 5G 2022. Im in several group chats and up until about 2 days ago, had no problems receiving images, gifs, and reaction emojis from all the users. But suddenly, and with no apparent changes being made to my phone, I'm getting little exclamation blocks in individual contact messages saying the attachments can't load.
I'll know people are sending images or responses to the group chats because I can look at our individual conversations and see the "can't load attachment" blocks. But in the group chats the only messages I'll see are from other android users.
I know it has something to do with iMessage and probably RCS or MMS/SMS, but nothing I've done to fix it has worked. Reset phone, reset network, reinsert SIM, try to activate RCS, use alternate text apps etc. The only thing that works so far is using Whatsapp or Slack, but obviously I'm not going to convince everyone to switch over to those just for my convenience.
Has anyone encountered this issue and found a solution? Thanks.
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My family member questions his diagnoses of bipolar 1, claiming that it’s often misdiagnosed. He had major depression and anxiety for years and full blown mania for more than a week (pressured speech, paranoia, grandiosity, not sleeping or eating) which he was hospitalized for and diagnosed at that time bipolar1. He’s been trying different medications but I’m nervous he doesn’t take them properly. I’m concerned that he’s questioning the diagnosis because yesterday he seemed very out of sorts. This is hard to navigate as a family member. Does anyone have suggestions for reading matter I could give him to help him understand the diagnoses and importance of medication?
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2024.11.26 14:30 CatEyesOnYou Very happy I had my surgery yesterday!
The fibroids are finally out!!! I'm tired and in some pain, but can feel a huge change in how my stomach feels already. I'm glad that in the midst of me absolutely freaking out and sobbing before surgery, I remembered to ask for pictures. Because mine were so large, they had to cut them to take them out through four small incisions (belly button, below belly button, and on either side of my stomach). It's hard to tell size in the first picture. One was almost 7 inches, one around 2 inches, and one around 1 inch, all outside the uterus. The largest was pedunculated and on a fairly thin stalk. It hit me just how much that was looking at the second picture of an almost full cup that the surgeon is holding. I know how lucky I am to be somewhere that has such skilled surgeons they could do this laproscopically and not have to do an open myo. I'm also lucky that I had a fully female team. From the two surgeons, nurses, anesthesiologists...everyone! The only male I saw all day was my fiance. (Not saying men can't be great surgeons and doctors for females, it was just comforting knowing that everyone working on me had the shared experience of having a uterus).
The anesthesiologist knew I had horrible anxiety (everyone did, I couldn't stop crying and shaking and I had myself broken out into hives). They had me sedated before I even knew what they were doing and before my fiance ever left the pre-op room. All she said to me was "OK were going to start to get you a little sleepy then we will put you under when we get to the room. Let's talk about something other than the surgery. What do you want to talk about?" We didn't talk lol I was out cold after that sentence and I love this woman for doing that for me. Next thing I knew I was opening my eyes hearing another nurse say "Hey you're in recovery!" I will say as I was waking up I was having bad cramps and literally thought I was going to poop. Also, my throat was killing me from being intubated and my uvula is still tender and swollen. I ended up being more worried about that than anything as I came out of the anesthesia. I laid there for about 10-15 minutes waking up and instantly had to pee. I know that's what most people get hung up on while trying to go home, but I had to go. I wasn't ready to stand up yet so they gave me a bed pan. I asked if I actually peed a normal amount or if I was just crazy and they told me I did. Then about 10-15 minutes later I really had to pee again. I couldn't believe it. I stood up and walked to the bathroom and went that time. The second I sat up in bed this giant burp just rumbled up from my stomach releasing some of the gas they pumped into me. It happened again as I was walking to the bathroom. I went a full amount again and asked if this was normal. The nurse told me that they had been pumping a ton of fluids into me during surgery so, yes, it was. I also was allowed to have liquids up until 3 hours before my surgery and they suggested Gatorade. I took that advice and had plenty of it and water before that three hour mark. (I know not everyone gets these instructions, but for my case I think this helped tremendously!) As I was going to the bathroom the second time the nurse was telling someone else to call my fiance back. They called him by name several times like they just knew exactly who he was. That was comforting. I hadn't even walked back from the bathroom before he was walking in. I should mention that he is on crutches currently due to being hit head on by an intoxicated driver back in June. Yup, we're quite the pair right now lol He had my bag of things with him and the nurses actually took it from him and dressed me and got me all ready to leave. They were absolute angels all of them.
I definitely have some pain from the gas this morning but gasx seems to be helping. I didn't think I would be hungry when I got home last night but I was starving. I didn't want to over do it so I had a bowl of cottage cheese for some soft protein. I'm currently drinking a boost with 30 g of protein in it for breakfast.
I couldn't really sleep much last night, so hoping to get some sleep soon. I'm glad it's over and I'm ready to now heal and hopefully feel like myself again.
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