Can’t stand my Father in law
2024.11.27 11:50 dontknowanymore107 Can’t stand my Father in law
How does anyone do it? I am 29(f) and husband is 36(m).. I have been with my husband for 8 years, engaged 6 married 2. We starting living together shortly after we started dating and his dad was always around. His mom passed, so his dad is all he has left which was no issue to me, we all lived together. I never got to meet his mom... his dad would help out around the house, cook dinner and go grocery shopping. I worked full time at an amazing job I feel my husband didn't like too much. He is traditional and I believe he thinks it's best for me to stay home. He would hate male attention from my job/long hours as I became the manager at where I worked.... my husband and his father work for a family business so they also work full time. They pay rent I paid for food etc. Over the years things have changed, chores at home became so much more. Working until 6/7pm plus a drive and coming home to make dinner with my husband..his father in law just waiting on the couch watching us cook...He no longer grocery shops only for himself like bread, chips and icecream and no longer cleans. Will eat toast and get crumbs everywhere and will use his finger to clean it...eat with his mouth open- openly fart around food will not say excuse me or thank you for any type of meal... Will make himself coffee in the morning with the dishwasher clean and not unload it- only to put the dirty dishes in the sink. My husband does a lot of the work as well but it was getting to me to have to work all day and take care of everything once I get home. My husband and his dad work the same shift of 7-3 and I work 9-6. Normally would clean in the morning before I left with the alone time I had. Work was getting overwhelming -I quit. I stayed home for a bit taking care of the house and making dinner for them but it was killing me.. His dad is just so lazy. I found work again to make myself happy to do something for myself and my husband is not too happy I'm working again but did it anyways so I told him the work has to be split and I can't be full time taking care of everything. His dad will have to start helping out again. His dad knows I'm back to work now... Anyways I made dinner, his dad is always the first to eat- cleaned up and washed the work clothes put on the dishwasher and headed to bed. Wokeup in the morning to a coffee made and the dishes not put away, his dad has been up for hours and couldn't be bothered to put them away.. I told my husband I am fed up and my husband tells me well, I would have just done it without you knowing like the last few times and you wouldn't have been mad... like he is enabling him. I understand it's his father but come on, he is constantly complaining to me how lazy he is as well but I feel I am starting to not love him the same I almost want to leave, and we fight often about the same thing. This. I just wanted to vent and see some other perspective as I don't have many friends but I also don't like to share my business.... am I wrong for thinking it's possibly time to give up? I once did snap and yell at his dad to clean up after himself and he did for bit but it's not my place.... I feel he is a like a child I have to look after and I can't have my own with my husband ...I don't know anymore.
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2024.11.27 11:50 bewcooker28 Need help to last in bed while having sex sober
Male here. I just got into my first sexual relationship, and noticed immediadly that I cum way too soon when I’m sober. Me and my partner are super annoyed by that. When I’m drunk though she loves the sex and I last for long and even able to recover soon and do it again lol. It shouldn’t be performance anxiety because I know this woman well and I’m not like ”oh my god i need to last long this time”, sex with her is very natural for me and she doesn’t mind that even that much. What could help me with this?
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2024.11.27 11:50 maddmannmelludy 5 weeks post laminectomy / discectomy. Feeling much better but pain lingers
I don’t regret having the surgery at all. Best decision I could have made after 12 months of the worst sciatica running from my lower back, to very sharp glute pain, and running down the to the calf. I couldn’t walk for more than a couple minutes before my lower back was in intense pain where I had to sit. Couldn’t sit in cars, or cough or sneeze without being in pain, couldn’t even turn to look at someone without pain.
Now, most of that is better. I can walk miles, I can cough and sneeze, and standing and walking feels pretty good.
However, I still do have glute and hip pain where it still feels like something is compressing the nerve in certain positions. The position is when I’m laying on my back and I have to get up to stand, or laying on my back and doing a hip thrust. While my quality of life has greatly improved, I’m worried I’ll be left with this glute pain forever.
Has anyone had a similar issue after surgery? 5 weeks later and still nerve pain in the glute and sometimes calf?
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Som sagt så går jeg flere timers turer hver dag. Overveldende mange er kål svarte og du ser dem nesten ikke før de puster deg i ansiktet. Dette gjelder også syklister, som du ikke får med deg kommer forbi deg for og bakfra i 100km/t i mørket.
Mange veier og stier er dårlig belyst - hvis belyst i det hele tatt - og alt for mange går i mørke klær uten noen form for refleks. Skjerpens folkens, her må vi gjøre bedre.
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2024.11.27 11:50 brokestudenthungryaf can I feasibly survive off of £200 a month?
I live in accommodation right now so my rent covers all my utilities as well
after that I'm left with £188 a month, I do most of my shopping at lidl and only have a meal a day to try and save costs, I do live near a community grocery but I would feel cheeky going there when there are others who need it more
I'm not sure if this is enough to live off of or not, I don't want to ask my family for money as they don't have much to give and it would feel wrong taking it from them
before now I had a bit more money to live off of but unfortunately some of that got cut, I'm quite worried about how it's going to go so if anyone has any advice or tips on how to make the money go farther it would be greatly appreciated
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The idea is to create engaging content for kids about Hindu gods, traditions, and values using fun stories, interactive mantras, and cultural lessons. It includes:
- Stories of Gods: Ganesha, Krishna, Hanuman, and more.
- Festival Teachings: Diwali, Holi, Navaratri, and their significance.
- Mantras: Easy-to-recite mantras with meanings.
- Life Lessons: Short stories from the Ramayana and Mahabharata.
Does this sound like something people would actually watch? Or is it just another idea that won’t go anywhere? I want to know what you really think. Thanks!
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