Things I've learnt about dating and life.
2024.11.28 03:31 Onefunkybear Things I've learnt about dating and life.
- Relationships don't fix you, only work on yourself can ever fix you .
- Codependency is the belief you need someone to be a full person, you don't. You are a full valid person on your own.
- I've learnt this one recently: seeking external validation for your happiness is like building your house on sand. Get to know yourself and see other people's judgement as noise. The people who don't come into your life are being filtered out to save you energy and time.
- I've seen people who look like Shrek date models and those I knew like this were charismatic, confident and epic people. You may not be able to date models just now but work in your confidence and self belief, you may be able to one day.
- Love isn't enough, you need to share similar goals and values.
- People change, you grow in different directions and want different things from life, it could be your girlfriend or your friends. Change is growth, don resist it, lean into it and follow your own path. Grieve the people who leave you but see as a space for new people.
- Sex doesn't fix everything and it's not this holy grail. I am sex addict and sex can give you highs, but it also can make you feel hollow inside. Seek out sex for fun but listen to your heart when you want a connection, ignoring this leads you to emptiness.
- Seeking out help and being vulnerable with supportive people is strength.
- Travel and dating overseas is like waking up in a dream!
- Women are guarded and play hard to get, because they have to protect themselves. Women are physically weaker and can be assaulted easier.
- No one owes us anything, the world is an unfair place. I hate realing this, but once you accept this you can empower yourself and rely on yourself.
- Persistence is the only way to win in life. You must see every failure as a lesson to learn, keep getting back out there and you will keep improving. You must make failure your best friend, because it is your best teacher.
- Comparison is the thief of Joy, focus on the present and seek to improve on what your past self did.
- Stay in the present, it's the place where you have the most power to change your life. The past and future don't matter.
- Don't fall in love with a FWB, it can sometimes happen but just focus on fun and let her bring up feelings.
- When a person tells you who they are the first time listen! A person may say something about themselves like " I'm problematic or I crazy exes" 9 times out of 10 they are the problem, listen to this and bounce!
- People who destroy your peace don't belong in your life
- You don't owe anyone anything, be a good person and do the right thing, that's it.
- Have banter with women (playful teasing) treat her like your bratty sister in a playful way. This is the easiest way to playfully flirt with women.
- Learn KINO , how to escalate physically with women on a date!
2024.11.28 03:31 Bitt07 Batao
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2024.11.28 03:31 Masonbysy AHHHH
THE COFFEE FRAPPES AT MCDONALDS ARE SO GOOD I CANT STOP BUYING THEM BUT THE MILK AND AMOUNT OF SUGAR IS INSANE AND ALWAYS LEAVES ME WITH FLARE UPS AND THE SHITS. WHY AM I LIKE THIS.
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2024.11.28 03:31 stormy_kaktus Hell yea.
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2024.11.28 03:31 shallah Analysis of 25 studies shows reduced risk of long COVID after vaccination
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2024.11.28 03:31 moniqeur Breaking In After 3 Years Of Consulting/Account Management. Any Tips? (Resume Review)
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2024.11.28 03:31 TinyToad9907 Autodock Vina Element Field Error
Hey, I was just wondering if anyone has any advice on how I can fix this error saying that not all atoms have an autodock_element field. It appears on every protein I prep but has not just started recently. I download the pdb from the protein databank and do the usual prep (remove inhibitors and heteroatoms, remove water, add polar hydrogens, and add Kollman charges) but it still appears when I go to write the pdbqt file for any molecule. Any advice is appreciated
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2024.11.28 03:31 Codeman0077 [Recommendation Request] watches for a banker (under $500)
Hello all,
Just recently changed jobs. I was a retail store manager and now I’m in banking. (Loans).
At my retail job even though I was the manager we still had a “uniform” it was company polos, ugly button ups, etc. I didn’t feel or dress as “professional” as I wanted due to the dress code.
Now I’m in banking and the dress code is more business casual so I can dress with nice clothes. Polos, pull overs, different colored dress pants, etc. so as I’m rebuilding my wardrobe, I’m looking for some suggestions for some watches. Probably $500 or less budget. What types of watches do you think a banker would wear?
My watch collection so far is more quantity over quality. I own a few Casios, timex, seikos. I would say the 2 seikos I own are my nicer watches. I own a standard dive watch from Seiko (can’t remember the model) and I own a blue dial Seiko presage cocktail time. I do plan on wearing it some to work!
But just getting ideas of what you think a banker might wear. I’m cool with it being on a metal bracelet, leather band, etc. just give me some suggestions! Business casual!
I eventually want to move to a Tudor black bay and dream watch is a Rolex sub!
Thanks!
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2024.11.28 03:31 Own-Item-4192 Thanksgiving advance: Dolphins have struggled in chilly waters
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2024.11.28 03:31 topstriker6 hiii
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2024.11.28 03:31 General_Dream Aio that my partner doesn’t want to have sex with me anymore
Might delete. I 25m has Been with my gf 28f for almost a year. Things have been great and I love her and still do. Early on I found it hard to give my commitment to her because she had some red flags. Her ex was contacting her and I didn’t like that so she broke that off (no they bsolutueley were not fucking at that point she’s been with me every day this year) It was only until a couple of months that basically she used to be coerce by her ex. She told me that and it heartbreaking to here and I’d support and love her. But now she feels that the trauma is kinda resurfacing when we do it sometimes and she says it’s not me at first I was assured, but knowing that she give all to her ex until it broke up, I’m starting feel some type of way… woudl she have broken things or did I have to ask… am I overreacting?
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2024.11.28 03:31 MASTEREDreactions Give Me Some Videos To React To From Grant Wisler
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2024.11.28 03:31 Future_Egg8256 Looking for answers in a trans identity
First, I want to say I support trans identities and trans rights. Nothing will change my view on that.
That said, I feel the current rhetoric around trans issues leaves no room to question individual cases or circumstances. My husband has a sibling who is much younger (24 years old) and is diagnosed with ADHD and unspecified neurodivergence. To me ASD seems obvious, but their mom has never took them to a psychiatrist, so we can't be certain exactly what's going on. This sibling also has very high levels of depression, anxiety, and struggles with anger management and impulse control. While IQ is average, executive functioning is low.
In the past year, this young person has been consumed with crippling anxiety about their place in the world and their ability to live a meaningful life. They have lived with their mom their whole life, and she has made them feel like they can't be on their own. It's a very Norman Bates-y kind of codependent relationship. The one place where my sibling-in-law has found some acceptance and companionship has been in the local LGBTQ community. The trouble is - they aren't gay. They were born male and are attracted to women, and have always presented as male with traditional male interests and behaviors, etc. A few months ago, their friends referred them to a gender affirming therapist who encouraged them to explore their gender identity. They now go by a different name and use they/them pronouns, which you can see I use. I want to be supportive.
The trouble is, none of these changes have done anything to help my sibling's mental health. They were uncomfortable as a man, and now they are uncomfortable as a woman. I suspect some of the people in the friend group have suggested the problem is us, the family, for not being supportive enough, but I swear we support whatever gender identity they feel is the right one. I'm just really starting to suspect that my sibling is looking for answers in a trans identity, and getting lost along the way.
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2024.11.28 03:31 yourmysticmuse Cozy and classy
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2024.11.28 03:31 FncyTomato Is it worth getting surgery to fix my class II malocclusion?
 | Hi! I recently had to do a few scans to be able to order my Invisalign & start my treatment. When I took the scans to my dentist, we talked about how my treatment is going to happen, but he also mentioned something else. He mentioned my teeth were not aligned & the top teeth covered the bottom teeth almost entirely. He did not tell me what it is called, but I assume it is a class II malocclusion from my research. This made sense because the lower part of my face has always looked very compact & it has always bothered me. I am currently 16 and male. Can you guys let me know if it's worth getting surgery? I do not think it affects my health or breathing, so this would be for aesthetic reasons. By the way, I have around 11 months left on my Invisalign treatment. Here are two pictures from my scans: https://preview.redd.it/4b3ae7r7ak3e1.png?width=640&format=png&auto=webp&s=437796cd4d77f102c7c1d7bcd497ed7b2449d30f https://preview.redd.it/ft54y1v3ak3e1.jpg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=107dbbc284e016fc0cc108a53a6e14e5f80b1868 submitted by FncyTomato to jawsurgery [link] [comments] |
2024.11.28 03:31 Mickey31-AGB Is there any way to solve this?
Hey guys how you doin? Well i got a question, I really want to play the Team Reforma mod (Mexico mod) but in every tutorial it says that i need to buy some DLCs (Texas, New Mexico and some others) in order to install it and actually play it, you know any way for me to play it without needing to buy those other maps?
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2024.11.28 03:31 pimpkitten0357 The face of thanksgiving
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2024.11.28 03:31 mike71630 Anfisa
Hotter every day
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2024.11.28 03:31 atbohxii Yet another image from my mind.
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2024.11.28 03:31 mmarcati I made a free 3D printable papillon cookie cutter for christmas!
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2024.11.28 03:31 justkeepswimming159 3.5 foot tall cactus needs repotting help!
 | Hello fellow cactus people! I have had this guy for 8 or so years. He is in a pot that is definitely too big and has largely thrived off of neglect. He’s not near a window so I have a grow light over him that’s on a fair bit of the day and I barely water him as his pot has no drainage but does have 4+ inches of rocks in the bottom. I know he needs to be repotted but I have some questions 1. How do I get him out of the pot and back into another without completely destroying it? 2. What size pot and kind of dirt do I need? 3. Will he always need the stick so he doesn’t tip over? 4. What’s that crusty flakes being caused by? submitted by justkeepswimming159 to cactus [link] [comments] |
2024.11.28 03:31 am_a_bean How old are you and how/when did you discover subliminals? Who mainly uses subs?
Super curious about what the population of this community is! Like how old are you, where are you in life, when and how did you discover subs, why you started using them and what they have helped you with in life
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2024.11.28 03:31 Obitouchiha757 Juice WRLD superior Taylor Swift is overrated
That’s all I’m going to say
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2024.11.28 03:31 loriteggie Best song no one else remembers
For me it’s You Show Me Yours and I’ll Show You Mine by Kris Kristofferson
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