Is This Just How Relationships Are Now?

2024.11.29 00:40 Quiet_Ability2371 Is This Just How Relationships Are Now?

There’s this girl (25F) who used to be my (24M) best friend, but about 1.5 years ago, we stopped talking over some petty issue. Last month, on her birthday, I decided to call her and wish her. Surprisingly, we had a great conversation, and she even invited me to her birthday party. Initially, I thought the invitation might have just been a formality, but she called me the next day as well, insisting that I attend. So, I went to her party. When I got there, I found myself surrounded by a completely new group of people. The only ones I knew were her and her boyfriend (24M), whom she has been dating for the past four years. During the party, she pointed to a guy (28M) and said, “I’ve really messed things up.” Since it wasn’t the right setting to dive into the details, we didn’t discuss it further. Two days later, we met again, and she opened up about what she meant. She confessed that she had met this guy (who's quite rich) at a wedding about a year ago, and they were instantly attracted to each other. At that time, her relationship with her boyfriend was going through a rough patch—they hadn’t been intimate in months. What started as casual conversations with this new guy soon turned into something deeper. She admitted that she and the new guy (who is pretty rich) developed feelings for each other, and things escalated. They started getting physically involved—kisses, hugs, and eventually, sex. Essentially, she was in a four-year relationship with her boyfriend while simultaneously having an affair with this other guy. I was shocked when she told me all this. She explained that she feels deeply for the new guy and can’t imagine being without him. She gets frustrated when she can’t talk to him. Yet, at the same time, she insists that she has to marry her boyfriend because both their families are aware of their relationship. When I suggested that she might consider ending things with her boyfriend to be with the new guy, she dismissed the idea, saying it’s not an option. What’s even more complicated is that the new guy also has a girlfriend, and they’ve been together for 10 years! When I told her that what she’s doing is essentially cheating, she acknowledged it but wasn’t willing to stop. She told me, “These things are normal these days; the world is moving so fast.” It’s been a month since we reconnected, and whenever we talk, she often brings up the new guy. I usually stay silent because I don’t know how to respond. She’s even mentioned that she wants to get out of this situation but doesn’t want to make any real effort to change. Honestly, I’m baffled by all of this. This entire situation feels so messed up, and I can’t help but think about how confusing and chaotic relationships seem to have become these days. What should I do in this situation? Should I try to make her realize that what she’s doing is wrong, or should I just let it go?
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2024.11.29 00:40 Medical_Cabinet_6869 Phasmo VR super laggy on quest 2

I’m using airlink, should I use a cord instead? I’m going through steam vr. Is there anything to help the lag/shuttering
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2024.11.29 00:40 Pomegranate-Complex Thanks snake holders for buying me a new laptop!

Love yall, cant wait to take more profit. Snakewifhat is a PRINTER! Happy black friday everyone
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2024.11.29 00:40 Extra_Chipmunk9486 What is it that you keep wanting to smell despite the fact that it doesn't smell particularly good?

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2024.11.29 00:40 productslide In time for BlackFriday : a (better) list of all the Amazon Deals !

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2024.11.29 00:40 BroMandi [Amazon] NEXPOW 1500A Jump Starter Peak Q10Sl $26.49 + Free Shipping [Deal: $26.49, Actual: $79.99]

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2024.11.29 00:40 ChurchTheBlackCat Help!!

my cat found this little guy and were not sure if hes hurt/has rabies ect!
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2024.11.29 00:40 Outplayed_Kiddo Bulla x CFZ ☠️

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2024.11.29 00:40 Far_Strategy5672 are bags allowed

will we be allowed to take bags like leave them outside the hall obvio but since we have to carry like exam board admit card aadhar passport pics water will we be allowed to take a bag .. how am i supposed to carry all dat in 1 hand 😔 im too used to school exams Help
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2024.11.29 00:40 YanniRotten Turkey Elf by Smigliano2

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2024.11.29 00:40 Available_Feeling_98 Has anyone had an issue with getting card info stolen at the cvs on 11th s. Cause I’ve been there twice and both times that night my card was flagged for a crazy online purchase I didn’t make.

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2024.11.29 00:40 Flat-Aerie-8083 $TCC Texas Camp Cat (dark humor meme).

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This one is dark humor. A good meme nonetheless.
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2024.11.29 00:40 Disastrous_Pea_853 Bazaar

Can someone give me a bazaar key
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2024.11.29 00:40 Dheft PSA: supporter pack shipping cost saving

I noticed that when I let the autocomplete fill in my address, as oppose to the one that my account had, it went from $60 USD to $30 USD saving me 50% by letting the field validation do it's thing.
I'm guessing that the shipping company has a address API setting for validating address if it's in the correct format or something so delete the address field and start typing in your address and choose from the autocomplete list.
Good luck!
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2024.11.29 00:40 Organic_Egg1718 What's your favorite Video game on PlayStation 4 or PlayStation 5?

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2024.11.29 00:40 e_102_gamma_reacts Hello... shadow here... since I feel nice I have decided to grant a wish. Wish carefully though (I hope this isn't too low effort though)

Hello... shadow here... since I feel nice I have decided to grant a wish. Wish carefully though (I hope this isn't too low effort though)

(Yes I'm using shadow on this account and also espio but gamma will be focused on more)
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2024.11.29 00:40 united-verdict-bot Unanimous "Not the A-hole" with 4 votes

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2024.11.29 00:40 rick300bo Recteq Backyard Beast first smoke

25 hours straight , 30 lbs or so of pellets, smoked a 20 lb brisket and a spiral cut ham to perfection without a hitch. If it will continue to perform like this I will be very happy with my purchase.
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2024.11.29 00:40 raoul-m "Authenticate" between projects in the same organization

I have 2 projects within the same organization. I use Supabase Auth on both projects.
In this case, I am authenticated using Project 1 and I want to perform CRUD operations on the database of Project 2, where everything is secured with RLS for only authenticated users. How can I now access Project 2 safely and securely? Using the service_role key directly on the client side is of course a big no-no.
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2024.11.29 00:40 lil_nug-nug Yay beastywolf89 is back!

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2024.11.29 00:40 rmxg Weekend blood tests

Are there any places that do these? Awanui are weekdays, so is outpatients
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2024.11.29 00:40 Quinnify_ can anyone tell me what this structure is?

hey so im playing on a private server with the legendary encounters datapack and i kept seeing this monument but whenever i try and interact with the buttons nothing happens. idk what im doing please help :'(
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