I can't understand, should I stay calm like she told me to?
2024.11.29 05:50 a_fan_of_anything I can't understand, should I stay calm like she told me to?
Nothing nsfw here necessarily.
I'm ftm and she's mtf , idk why this would be necessary to add but I wanted to) Like, it was still about me feeling like I disrespected someone's boundaries but in this case I already talked with that someone and they said to me "no??? It was okay, I just got shocked" Let me say what happened, no I didn't touch her nor anything, it was more a joke, it was in 2022, we were both kids, we already knew each other from sometime and here we were aware each other were okay with nsfw jokes and everything, without even telling each other, it was something that was clear because we did this everytime, until once, according to she, there was me, her and one of our ex friends, and I said "hold on I'm (something, I'm not going to say. )" and according to her I touched my intimate part (????) and showed them whatever came from it, which she got shocked, but we three were aware it was a joke, and even though it was shocking, according to her, it was funny nowadays I reminded myself of it, and decided to send her a message, asking about this and if she felt uncomfortable, asking many times it and saying that if she doesn't want to talk about this, it's okay! Which she answered to me that I should chill and it was okay The problem is, she has problem talking about her feelings, which I tried my best to help her find the exact words she wanted to put, but by the end it was the same since the start "dude it's okay stop crying " " I already said that it didn't hurt me , it's okay" "baby calm down don't cry(she said it in English , she kept making jokes while I was asking her)" " I didn't felt hurt nor uncomfortable with it, it's okay" And I kept and kept asking her and she kept telling me to chill and that it was fine, and she just got between a mix of "funny, shocked and scared" which when I asked her about the scared part she sent me a photo of Lebron James doing a shocked face and said it was like this She told me I shouldn't worry, ofc it was a negative shock(aka, according to her, unexpected) but that it was okay and yes I got deeper with my questions asking her if she thought this was harassment or anything, because she was actually really chill talking about it, and didn't care , which she just said "no " and again "baby boy calm down"
Well, I talked with her for over an hour and some minutes, and she kept telling me to not say sorry nor anything, and that I was exaggerating a bit (I feel like she said a bit so I wouldn't feel bad) and that it was okay , literally Our whole conversation passed through this, she Telling me to chill and that it was okay , that she didn't felt uncomfortable nor anything, it was something more funny and shocking for her..
I'm still a bit anxious and wanted to get some opinions about it- now she's going to eat out, after talking with me about other topics,, she's really calm. I normally don't get anxious , but it was something that ofc got me really worried because what type of joke is that??? Later I asked her if she found it even a little bit bad which she also answered to no , and that everything was chill
Edit: yk what I'm more worried about now? About the fact she mentioned our ex friend was there too , My friendship with the girl I mentioned in the last text, lasted until 2023 , the middle of the year I decided to not talk with her anymore since she kept saying the n-word, I just talked with her today to see about this But the other person, our ex friend , after 2022 (I knew her more than the other girl) she was my friend until 2024 new year, and she had a nice memory also, but our friendship kept until again I decided to stop talking with her because she was absurdly problematic (racist, romanticized rape and etc) , and now I'm concerned, what about her? I don't remember her that day , but the girl says that yes, she was there. Well, I believe that if she felt uncomfortable, she would've said to me, because she has always been open about it, but according to the girl I mentioned I talked to today with, just like her, she was just shocked also
Edit:
somethings off , she told me it happened while me and they were sitting close to the gate, but I can't yk do this while I'm sitting , and she also told me that I was in a skirt, which feels more odd because when I'm using a skirt I normally can't even go to the bathroom correctly because I put 3 clothes under it to make sure nothing will fall or appear
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2024.11.29 05:50 ExaltedSlumber Quick thoughts about 2nd Trilogy Phoenix
On this sub, I've seen that AJ and DD Phoenix is a very hot topic on pretty much any discussion about these games. Not that I have a problem with that mind you, I find it very fascinating because it is such a departure both ways.
Apollo Justice Phoenix: I for one really despise how they disbarred Phoenix a couple months after 3-5, I felt like it was a complete slap to the face to the player and the character for simply just playing through his adventures. Especially because he was disbarred for 7 YEARS which is substantially longer than the 3 years he was actually a lawyer. Now, all of this could've been forgiven if they stuck the landing on the execution of his successor and what Phoenix has been like these long years. ............welp. I have a myriad of problems with Apollo, but I'll keep it brief and say he's probably my least favorite playable character in the series and almost entirely usurped in his own game.....and Phoenix himself? Not a huge fan. I appreciate how intelligent he is, but I also feel like they moved the needle too far in an effort to shake up the status quo. Pretty much the very first thing he does is force Apollo to forge evidence in a trial, possibly losing him his badge and the game kinda just leaves this be. Fine. (not really, but whatever) And then it's revealed that has basically been cheating his way through poker games making just enough to get by while Trucy makes all the big bucks. Then the entire game, he's basically speaking in riddles and being as aloof as possible, it can be quite entertaining at times, but man o man. He basically spends the entire game doing jack shit and then basically wins the last trial for you by making this complicated simulation and instating an entirely new legal component all the while not being qualified to practice law. Again, I appreciate how intelligent he is and I can appreciate the aloofness, but I feel like the game is trying to have it's cake and eat it too by having him not be the main character, but steal the show at all the critical moments. And I understand that he's not a lawyer and hasn't been for a while, but I cannot buy Phoenix Wright forging evidence and having someone else potentially take the fall for it.
Dual Destinies Phoenix: Now here comes this game promising to bring back the status quo restore Phoenix to his former glory. He comes back with this really spiffy and sleek redesign of his classic outfit and probably the best objection theme in the series, off to a great start. The problem here is that to a lot of people, they seem to have once again pushed the needle back all the way in the other direction, back to AA1 Phoenix. I agree and disagree. I posit that OG trilogy Phoenix actually feels like he has a better poker face than this guy, DD Phoenix often feels like he overreacts half of the time. My go to example in my head is during 5-5 right before the Thought Route where he looks like a complete jackass in front of Edgeworth, "The Prosecution is attempting to lead the court!", that kinda stuff. I get that it's a high stakes situation and he's feeling the pressure, but I really do not believe even AA1 Phoenix was like that. He certainly wasn't in at least, the 1st trial of 1-2, his second trial ever. I'm THAT trial, he completely beats back Edgeworth on his own and even has time to talk smack to April May. The game also really, REALLY tries to push this whole bluffing thing when I don't think that was ever really the case? Like obviously he tries to make things seem a little bigger than maybe they are, but in these situations, he always is able to make a counter and one that seems logically sound. They also kinda try to add this ego to Phoenix like in 5-4 where he calls Blackquill a "Little Boy" before it completely blows up on him. In short, I like him more than AJ Phoenix because he's actually like the character I've come to know, but I think they overcorrected and he comes off even more like a rookie than in his rookie days.
What I would've done: My favorite Portrayal of Phoenix is actually in the flashback case in 4-4. In that case, he is extremely competent and quite arrogant, but that arrogance is completely restricted to his own inner monologue so it doesn't come off as egotistical. His poker face is also impeccable, his sweat sprites only come out in response to a joke or a part of his trademark cynicism. Now, it's obvious they made him like that to make him seem like a veteran and to seem like he was careless before he gets disbarred, but I thought that this portrayal was entirely earned and different enough from his usual self. I feel like this version of him should have been the baseline for DD Phoenix. The game makes a huge deal out of him coming back and people talk about him as though he's a savior of law, so him acting really cool on the bench and seeming to not get rattled by contradicts as much would really suit this persona he was given. Since we also have Athena and Apollo, they can still act like the typical AA protagonists, bumbling around and getting out by the skin of their teeth. Phoenix acting like 4-4 Phoenix in contrast to them would make him really stand out and make the player feel like you're playing as a legend. Obviously, he can't be infallible, he can be caught of guard and be put in corners often, but make me feel like I'm the veteran attorney I'm supposed to be. As for AA4 Phoenix, he can be aloof and all that, but him being disbarred for 7 years is ludicrous, cut that down to 3 at most. And no forging evidence please.
But those are just my scattered thoughts, I'm curious to know how everyone else feels.
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If I were to get the game, what is the an easy class that is tanky enough not to die and have simple rotations? Something like Garen in LoL on how he simple enough to play in all ranks. Not S tier but always high B low A tier type of champ. I'm the type of player if I have 80ish percent gear for endgame, that is good enough and im satisfied and no rush for the last 20 percent from endgame.
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I also considered just getting this body and buying the clothes and hair separately.
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