I think I just lost a close friend partially because I quit smoking.

2025.01.22 04:26 AffectionateRepair7 I think I just lost a close friend partially because I quit smoking.

I met this friend 3 years ago when we were neighbors, we became friends after she started buying medical marijuana for me. Through many smoke sessions, we became fast friends. Even though we participated in sober activities together (going to the park, listening to live music, doing errands together, etc.), we primarily spent our time smoking and talking. When I told her I was quitting forever, she was supportive but not very enthusiastic about my decision. We hung out once and she told me she felt like I was judging her because she was high. I reassured her that I genuinely didn’t care, I just know I can’t have it in my life anymore but still love being around her. She mentioned she felt like I wasn’t really accepting of her anymore since quitting.
I haven’t seen her since then, almost a month ago. 2 days ago she picked a fight with me over the fact she’s not a bridesmaid in my wedding. I chose my bridal party a year ago and since I have 3 sisters, I didn’t really have room for many friends. She knows this and didn’t share any issues with it and seemed excited to do a reading at the wedding instead. When she talked to me she told me how I must look at her as “some degenerate weed smoker” and a “back burner friend.” It was really confusing considering I’ve done nothing but support this woman by providing free reading lessons and childcare, or even just showing up with free decorations for her kid’s birthday parties. It also feels weird that we never had any conflicts until I quit smoking. I’m really at a loss of what to think or feel. I asked if she’d be willing to meet in person to talk but she hasn’t responded. My birthday is in 4 days…I’ll be one month sober that day too. I feel pretty fucking low but I’m trying to stay above it.
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2025.01.22 04:26 Similar-Baker8537 i’m way too kind

my two friends backstabbed me, made themselves a victim, making me the bad guy, left me out multiple times, and blamed me all for it, even tho they knew i was not in a good place mentally, and when i asked them to cut me some slack they (AGAIN) made me the bad guy and somehow i ended up being the one apologizing. and a day later i went to one of the girls’ places (because apparently they had a sleepover to study together), took snacks with me and cooked for them because they had an exam the next day and didn’t have time to cook( and by the way, they were scrolling on reels while i was cooking, not even studying) i lost all respect to myself when i realized how i let them walk all over me and take advantage of me
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2025.01.22 04:26 RedditHoss My wife has Neil Gaiman’s signature tattooed on her forearm.

My wife and I had a close friend who took his own life several years ago. The friend had a magnificent tattoo on his back, and we decided it would be meaningful for us to get tattoos in his honor. Our friend was a huge fan of Sandman, so my wife decided to get “I am hope” as her commemorative piece. Furthermore, she thought it would be cool if it could be in Gaiman’s own handwriting. So she tweeted at him with her idea, and he actually responded to connect her with his assistant. My wife followed up, and after a few exchanges and a couple weeks of waiting, she got a small envelope from New Zealand with a piece of paper that had “I am hope” and Neil Gaiman’s signature, each written three times slightly differently so she could pick her favorite. She ended up getting both the quote and his signature tattooed.
I know her. She’ll never get it removed or covered up. She’ll forever have a visible reminder on her arm, not just of the friend that we lost, but of the fact that people contain multitudes, and that even the person going out of their way to be nice to you may be doing something monstrous to someone else.
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2025.01.22 04:26 Spirited_Load_7153 Proper Green Lillian

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I make her more green because I just wanted to see what she will look like as a proper green
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2025.01.22 04:26 420-sapphic is it possible to go through hypomania for 4 days or more but also, less than that sometimes?

hi everyone! i know the minimum days to be clinically diagnosed with bp2 and hypomania is 4 days but i’m wondering if it’s possible to go through a mix of 4 days or more of hypomania as well as less than that? like 2-3 days during other episodes? or maybe even hours? (without meds)
i know its different for everyone and with the criteria and what not but i’m just a little confused. ty in advanced!
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2025.01.22 04:26 ForkzUp Appropriations chairs says Hobbs’ voucher proposal dead

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2025.01.22 04:26 Latter_Tea_2081 My PC won't detect my GPU, so I've made a Reddit account because y'all get this more than I do

Yeah, I'm at a total loss guys, so I'm just going to explain my situation as best I can and hopefully someone more technologically adept can help me.
I have a TUF Gaming Z790 Plus Motherboard with the 750 W power supply. My CPU is an i7 13700k (I think off the top of my head) and it includes an integrated UHD 770 GPU (this is only the only GPU this PC has ever seen). And I'm running Windows 11 Pro.
All that said, I recently purchased a GeForce GTX 1070 GDDR5 (the 8 GB one with 3 fans, it's old I know) and I used the cables my power bank came with (one side says PSU with 8 pins and the other is split and says PCIe and has 6 and 2 pins. Once I plugged it in, I connected the GPU to the PCIe x16 slot on my motherboard. When I powered my PC on, it lit up (at least the Gigabyte logo does). However, my device manager will not detect it, and if I try to plug my HDMI or DP cable into it, it won't send an input to the monitor.
I've tried downloading drivers from the website, but the program can't detect my GPU either. I've seen several methods involving Armoury Crate and dGPUs and updating BIOS and changing some settings and disabling my integrated GPU, but I don't know which if any of these to try in my case. I have so far tried adding legacy hardware, and I've also tried using the driver installer on the original disc it came with, but none of that has worked. If someone could offer anything they've done that worked in the past, and maybe even some liberally-detailed instructions, I'd be immensely grateful. I'll try to reply to any comments as soon as I can.
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2025.01.22 04:26 Winter-Aardvark-1932 Can I walk all over you?

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2025.01.22 04:26 Lord_DerpyNinja Turning a '65 dodge dart into my daily driver?

So I'm 15 and my parents have a 64 dodge dart convertible that they used to drive me to school in, it broke down a decent amount but apparently it's mostly fixed(hasn't been driven since I was like 10). I'm not sure if it has functioning ac. Is there a way i could turn this into a daily drive car? Preferably with a Bluetooth stereo i could install and AC. If i don't make this my daily drive then I turn 16 they'll probably sell it and I can't have this happen. Any advice would be appreciated.
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2025.01.22 04:26 certified_punk666 Rate my physique /5' 9'' /17yrs /11 months of calisthenics(no gym)

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Any filipino authors who wanted to support each other’s book?
I support ones that gets less reads and votes too!!
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2025.01.22 04:26 Burninsanity [for hire] Fantasy Character Designs! $80 / Rendered character, DM for negotiation or further details

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2025.01.22 04:26 jeresun Phantom Blade Zero - Year of the Snake Gameplay Trailer 2025

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2025.01.22 04:26 Important_Court_4125 Hiring Content Creator - Video Editor SHORTS

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Work with the marketing team and other departments to create videos that reinforce the brand identity and effectively communicate key messages.
Edit and refine videos to ensure high quality and consistency across all projects.
Requirements:
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2025.01.22 04:26 Opallustration Not sure if I’m in the right place to confront my friends about being left out.

This is kind of a long, probably confusing story but please bear with me because it’s eating at me.
So I (21) have friends who I hang out with in a group usually, my step sister, friends that I met through her and then recently, as in last Saturday, I met a very sweet guy. We hit it off immediately, I don’t think I was drunk at the time of getting to know him.
Bad news, I haven’t been feeling romantic for weeks now, so every date I’ve been on, or any person I talked to, it just didn’t go anywhere. I’m not sure if something in my body just turned off but I just didn’t enjoy anything from anyone…and it sucks, till this day I don’t know if it’s just mentally related or it’s my meds.
So when I met this guy, I did feel a little spark. So of course, I jumped on this feeling because I was excited to feel romantic after forever of not feeling it. Then through out the night yes I got drunk but by the end I was very much coherent enough to get in this guys car and talk to him for like 30 minutes. We established a date, I even told him that I did enjoy his company but made him aware of what was currently going on. He said that was fine.
Fast forward to Tuesday we had a date, by then I felt nothing and I tried to tell him about it. That I wasn’t sure why, but it just happened. That it’s not his fault, etc. I tried to explain that I was happy to try but it just physically wasn’t working. He said he was disappointed but he understood, he said it would be hard to be friends though.
Fast forward today, after a bit of chat here and there because I asked him if he was going out today. Our group has been going to comedy night for a couple weekends so by now it’s just routine.
How it started though, was that i asked my sister what the plan was today (I don’t drive so I like to ask what SHE wants to do) and she said she had to stay at work late today then she was going to our friends. I already felt kind of odd about that. FOR SOME CONTEXT I HAVE DIAGNOSED BPD. So fomo is basically fuel. Then I asked who all was going to be there and she said all of our friends. She said she didn’t think to invite me because they were going to eat edibles. I don’t do that. I said that’s fair but “could you pick me up before 19 for comedy night?” She said she would have to think about it cause she didn’t even know if she was going or not.
So I asked our friend what she was doing today. Said the same thing, and then said that depending on what was going on that they might be able to give me a ride. I was like ok I will keep you updated because I wanted to see if my sister could pick me up first. Then by 9pm I started getting anxious cause it starts at 10. I asked my friend what was up and she said that my sisters phone probably died so that’s why she wasn’t answering my texts. Then she explained that there were too many people. That’s because two other people came. As if I didn’t ask before them.
It made me feel like I wasn’t even a thought, and that something was going on. I even asked my sister earlier if I wasn’t being invited to things because of the guy that I went on a date with was with them. She said it definitely wasn’t that and she just didn’t want to crowd the house. At this point what she said felt like bs. Because why would two other people be able to fit when I asked first.
So I started crying, basically accepting that I wasn’t even a thought, or that it was on purpose. If it is about the date going unwell due to my own emotional problems, I did all I can to try to comfort him and tell him it has nothing to do with him. There is nothing else I can do, and at this point if it’s awkward it’s him feeling awkward, not me. I cannot tell if it was an episode or what, but it genuinely feels like I’m being punished or purposefully left out.
Is it foolish to ask my sister what happened and why it all happened? What’s stopping me is that I feel like it’s going to be put on me and be told that it’s all in my head. I just want my friends to be honest but something doesn’t feel right. If it is because of what i mentioned above, do I have to accept it? Is it genuinely something I deserve? My episodes get bad, so I was crying for almost 5 hours because the idea of being left out, as well as being unaware that I’m a bad person has been eating at me.
So for short: got left out possibly because of me turning down a guy I went on a date with due to my emotional problems. They might view me as an asshole and I don’t even know it/not accepting it.
Edit: I meant 10pm, not 19pm..
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2025.01.22 04:26 mangostrawberries89 Flare up’s post poem?

I had a poem about a year ago and most days I can eat semi normally with a large amount of water. However, I’ve found that from time to time- I’ll have a day where eating is hard, painful, and sometimes impossible. But then the next day I’m fine. Does this happen to anyone else? Is it normal?
I also saw some research linking EoE and Achalasia and the role of mast cells. My biopsy for EoE a few years ago was negative, but it seems like there’s some evidence that EoE can also be inside the lining of the esophagus and hard to detect on a normal endoscopy biopsy. Has anyone had experience with this or talked with a doctor about it?
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2025.01.22 04:26 ConcentrateNew9423 Stress not registered

Can I trust my ring if it didn’t register any stress during one of THE most stressful moments I’ve experienced in my life?!
TW: dog bite
My daughter was attacked and bit in the face 3 times by a dog a few days ago. I thought surely my ring would have been off the charts, I was shaking and my 2.5 yr old daughter screaming and bleeding, it was awful. (Thankfully she is ok, full recovery/no scarring) she had 4 puncture holes on her face/inside her mouth and I couldn’t even sleep that night going through the event in my head thinking how much worse it could have been. My ring didn’t pick up on any of that and I’m a little worried it won’t be tracking things accurately for me since my primary use for the ring is syncing it with Natural Cycles to eventually use it to avoid pregnancy. If it’s not picking up on these things should I worry it’s not working correctly? I bought it second hand, now the 3rd owner.
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2025.01.22 04:26 Shaave Lelit Elizabeth Steam Boiler Overheating

My machine started making a weird noise and I found out the smaller tube that feeds into the water tank was too hot to touch and it was steaming and bubbling in the water reservoir.
Opened the machine up and I could see the anti vacuum valve on the steam boiler releasing pressure and leaking water. What is this a symptom of? I've been sending emails and videos to Lelit customer service but they are slow and their last reply was 7 days ago. I'm desperate to figure out what is causing the overheating.
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2025.01.22 04:26 DoodleTheGreat24 I got a blue raspberry gummy snake the length of my leg at the movies.

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2025.01.22 04:26 Living-Mastodon Games similar to MTG /Commander on ps4

I haven't played since high school and don't really have the money to properly get back into it, are there any video games that are in the same vein?
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2025.01.22 04:26 LeagueIndependent826 So you’re sitting on the couch eating a snack that leaves residue on your fingers, you lick your fingers clean, and then don’t wash your hands. Reddit, is this gross or not gross?

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