Need Help Writing an Autism Accommodations Request

2025.01.22 15:52 montager7 Need Help Writing an Autism Accommodations Request

I, (32F) am hitting the seven year itch with my company, which is in tech and construction, two areas I have no real passion or interest in long-term. However my company has been very good to me, and over the last several years I have been promoted internally several times, and had excellent luck with my managers, repeatedly finding positions that allowed me to self-manage, identify, and define the requirements of temporary or newly created positions, going from an over-qualified office coordinator role to someone in program management, product ownership, and business process management.
However, since I've been promoted internally with these massive job title changes I am now, even with pay raises and increases, several thousand dollars under market value for my current job title in my city and level of experience, so I'm looking to make a move to the non-profit sector to find work that's more meaningful to me in the long-run.
I put the decision to even start looking off for a long time, even when I knew I was not happy at my current position, because I dreaded job hunting outside of the company. Within my company I have developed a reputation as a go-to-guy, a jack-of-all-trades, and someone who at least knows someone if not the answer you're looking for, and I value that about myself. When I apply for a position internally my name and people willing to lobby for me are usually enough to get me through the door easily. However, I interview awfully.
My resume and decade of experience can get me an interview anywhere now, and I tried another job or two, hoping seven years off the open market would make a difference. It made it worse. And after sitting for a while to dissect what had just gone so catastrophically wrong that I got a pity call back for a job I was overqualified for within a two days, here's what I came up with:
I have accepted that I am a lot more autistic than I thought I was. This has shown up in a couple other places in my life, but perhaps none so devastatingly impactful as job interviewing. I knew I was neurodivergent. I have been treated for ADHD for years, and have a lot of friends with both ADHD and Autism, but after doing some more research after this interview, (specifically finding and resonating heavily with PDA which has a lot of overlapping symptoms with ADHD) I'm realizing that I'm in a negative feedback loop with my interviewing questions.
Some 'are you autistic' guides I have seen recently have said things like: "Remember, all questions on autism and ADHD exams are written by people who are not autistic, and you should always tend towards the maximum possible answer, so if you see a question like 'Do you have a Problem with Socks' and your answer is 'No, Because I Have a System', then your answer should be 'Yes'." In similar veins, I've seen excellent interviewing guides for autistic people for how to answer the basic interviewing questions (Tell me about yourself, tell me about a weakness, when you failed, etc) but my problems are much more in those gray areas:
"Would you rather go to a party or stay at home?" - Well, what kind of party? Who is throwing it? Do I know anyone there? How am I feeling that day? What would I be doing if I stayed home?
I have the social skills and awareness to understand that not every question can be answered with 'It Depends" or "I need more information" but I absolutely freeze and overthink when I get thrown these questions in an interview. The breaking point for me in the most recent interview was:
"Could you explain 'Business Process Management'?"- For a business process management position. I had no idea what they wanted to hear. Did they want a one-sentence summary that sounded like I had googled it before the interview? Did they want me to condense one of the 900 page textbooks on my shelf into a paragraph or two? My hopes, dreams and feelings on the subject? I just stammered and utterly gave up on the interview at that point.
The irony is my career primarily has been successful because of my skillset at clarification, process development, and ordering that have come from this lack of comfort with ambiguous answers.
I realize this is a long post, and I apologize, I only saw similar posts on autism, womeninautism and AutismTranslated, so I wanted to write this out in case it resonated with anyone else, but all of them were rather old and none had exactly what I was looking for, which is this:
TL;DR: Could someone help me write a template email / script to ask for interview questions ahead of an interview so I can prepare, either in writing or verbally as the interviewer prefers, as years of reinforced anxiety about ambiguity have made my freeze/flop trauma response truly awful under pressure. I would prefer not to use AI, I live in the U.S., and I would prefer to have something that acts as a 'red flag' detector while not requiring me to disclose my disability for accommodations to every interviewer.
Thank you
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2025.01.22 15:52 Slight-Translator-81 Come on bro

I know it’s different play styles but don’t just spam ki blast until you get close enough to fight its those kinda fights that make me wish we had a forfeit option
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2025.01.22 15:52 Noobmaster_1999 DCP NOIDA (Traffic) has decided to monitor and control abrupt lane-changing.

My question is when these expressways and roundabouts see lots of two-wheeler traffic because of Office buildings, which lane is dedicated for two-wheelers at this particular stretch?
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2025.01.22 15:52 Randy_g123 Do snipers play with the game on mute? 😂

Thought this was funny
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2025.01.22 15:52 ClassiccityA Mobile Couples Massage Recs

As the title says, coming to the Cosmopolitan the first weekend in June and looking for recommendations for a good in-room couples massage. Google results appear to be a different variety of massage than I’m looking for. I’ve seen some other threads here with recommendations but many of the accounts are deactivated. Is this a thing? Are there legitimate, licensed massage therapists who will come to your room?
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2025.01.22 15:52 Brazilianlawyer "Homem alto" é mais um mito importado dos EUA.

Nos EUA existem milhões de homens com grana, carro, e um padrão de vida elevado.
Logo, ser alto é uma forma de se destacar neste meio, inclusive pois muitas mulheres também são ricas e bem sucedidas.
No Brasil infelizmente pouquíssimos jovens tem condição financeira de ter sequer um carro novo, quanto mais poder viajar, pagar bons jantares, passeios etc.
Logo, um cara de 1.65 de boa índole e caráter, e que seja bem sucedido financeiramente, seja por herança ou mérito próprio, irá facilmente atrair muitas mulheres.
Eu particularmente conheço amigos ricos e baixinhos que sempre tiveram sucesso absurdo com mulheres lindas, enquanto outros de 1.90 são um fracasso.
Porém hoje em dia na Internet virou moda falar de altura do homem, como se fossemos os EUA.
É óbvio que se você for rico, bonito, gente boa e também alto, melhor.
Mas no Brasil o homem só precisa ter dinheiro para atrair um número absurdo de mulheres. Se o cara pensar em ser uma pessoa educada, agradável, gente boa, nem se fala.
As únicas que ficam fora do alcance são as mulheres altas.
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2025.01.22 15:52 ms733 Places to take Ap exam as guest NYC/li?

Anyone know of any places where you can take an AP exam as a guest in Long Island, NYC or the tri-state?
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2025.01.22 15:52 Apart-Chef8225 ⭐️The Lord said to my Lord, “Sit at my right hand.” (Psalm 110:1) Prophecies from the Book of Psalms.. Who do they refer to?!🤔

⭐️The Lord said to my Lord, “Sit at my right hand.” (Psalm 110:1) Prophecies from the Book of Psalms.. Who do they refer to?!🤔
Those who claim that the Bible prophesied another prophet to come after Jesus Christ like to use some verses in the Book of Psalms to support their words, thus contradicting the clear text of the biblical texts and interpreting them in a way other than their intended meaning.
Among them is this verse: “The Lord said to my Lord, ‘Sit at my right hand, until I make your enemies your footstool’” (Psalm 110:1).
Some brothers Muslim writers have claimed that the awaited Messiah is not from the lineage of David, but rather he is the master and Lord of David, and thus he is the coming prophet, citing the words of the Lord Jesus Christ: “And while the Pharisees were gathered together, Jesus asked them, saying, What do you think about the Christ? Whose son is He? They said to Him, The Son of David.
He said to them, How then does David in the Spirit call Him Lord, saying, The Lord said to my Lord, Sit at My right hand, until I make Your enemies Your footstool? If David calls Him Lord, how is He His son?” (Matthew 22:42-44).
Brother muslim said, “Either Jesus Christ is not the son of David (if David called him Lord, how could he be his son) and this is not possible because Jesus Christ is from the lineage of David on his mother’s side… or Jesus Christ wanted to mention that the Lord “the Prophet” that David, peace be upon him, is talking about – is not from the lineage of David,” and she adds a note that the Prophet of Muslims is not from the lineage of David!!
Brother muslim wrote a chapter proving that the one David called “my Lord” which he tried his best to turn into a mere “Lord” is the Prophet of Muslims, based on the words of the Lord Jesus Christ mentioned above!!
⭐️1 – We tell them here that the word “my Lord” used in the words of the Prophet David “The Lord (- Jehovah) said to my Lord (????- Adonai ) Sit at my right hand, until I make your enemies your footstool” (Psalm 110:1).
It is (????- Adonai ) , from the title “Adon, ( Adon – adhonai ), in Hebrew, meaning “Lord” , and its plural is “ Adonim – Lords ”, and it is used as a plural of honor for the singular.
This title “Adon” has been used in all these meanings to address God, in the highest sense, the sense of dignity and sovereignty, as He is the Lord and Master, the possessor of authority and sovereignty over all creatures.
It is also used to express God’s power and all-powerful ability. It is also used for God in the plural form, the plural of majesty, to express God’s divinity, lordship and sovereignty “His eternal power and divinity” (Rom. 1:2), “The Lord your God is God of gods and Lord of lords, (Adoni ha-Adonim), the great and mighty God” (Deut. 1:17).
The title “Adoni” means “ my lord ” because the letter (yod – ?), “ya – y”, is the possessive “ya”.
“Adonai ” is usually used for respect and reverence, as an alternative to “you” and “he” and is used most often of God and is always associated with the divine name “Yahweh”.
This title appears in the Old Testament 449 times, 315 of which are with Yahweh – “Adonai Yahweh” 31 times, “Yahweh Adonai” 5 times – and 134 times “Adonai” alone. The title is repeated in the Book of Ezekiel, most of them with “Adonai Yahweh” and the rest with “Adonai” alone. This compound title, “Adonai Yahweh” and “Yahweh Adonai,” has been translated as “Lord God, ” and expresses the authority of God, Yahweh, and His sovereignty over the entire universe, all of creation.
In the vast majority of passages in which “Adonai” is repeated, it is preceded by the phrase “Thus says” as an introduction, especially in the books of Ezekiel and Isaiah:
“Therefore thus says the Lord God…” “Thus says the Lord God of hosts…” (Isa. 10:24).
Since the period after the captivity and the Jews’ abstention from pronouncing the name Yahweh, the title “Adonai” was used as a synonym for the name Yahweh and an interpretive equivalent to it, expressing its meaning and essence, and it also replaced it, as an alternative, in oral conversations. This made the Jews keen to protect the religious use of “Adon” so that people would not be addressed with it as they address human masters. They would write it, when used with “Yahweh” or as an alternative to it, in a distinctive way and also pronounce it in a distinctive way (they considered the final letter “Y” in the word, which indicates ownership, to be part of the word “Adon-Y”, then they developed the pronunciation of this final letter “Y” in the word) so it became “Adon-Ay”.
This slight difference was enough to distinguish “Adonai” as a religious text).
2- In this prophecy, he speaks about the Lord “Yahweh” who addresses the Lord “Adonai” and seats him at the right hand of the Majesty.
So who is meant here by Adonai who is equal to Yahweh? The answer is found in the same verse and in David’s saying in another psalm; here in this verse Yahweh says to Adonai “Sit at my right hand, until I make your enemies your footstool”, and in the second psalm he prophesies about the Messiah saying “He said to me, ‘You are my Son; today I have begotten you’” (Psalm 2:7).
And we ask again; who is it to whom Yahweh said, “You are my Son; today I have begotten you”? The answer is, the Bible says that it is the Lord Jesus Christ:
“When Jesus rose, as it is also written in the second Psalm, ‘You are my Son, today I have begotten you’” (Acts 13:33), and in comparison with the angels it says, “For to which of the angels did he ever say, ‘You are my Son, today I have begotten you’” (Hebrews 1:5), “So also Christ did not glorify himself to become a high priest, but he who said to him, ‘You are my Son, today I have begotten you’” (Hebrews 5:5).
The second question: Who is sitting at the right hand of God, Jehovah?
The answer is the Lord Jesus Christ, as the Bible tells us that only one person ascended to heaven and sits at the right hand of the Father, the Lord Jesus Christ!! The Lord Jesus Christ confirmed that He is the Lord “Adonai” and Adonai is “Jehovah”, and that He is the one sitting at the right hand of Majesty, on the throne of God in heaven.
He also said to His disciples, “Hereafter you will see the Son of Man sitting at the right hand of Power” (Matthew 26:64; Mark 14:62).
And about His ascension, He says, “Then the Lord, after He had spoken to them (His disciples and apostles), was received up into heaven and sat at the right hand of God” (Mark 16:19).
“He was exalted to the right hand of God” (Acts 2:32; 5:31), “Christ is he who died, yea rather, he is also risen, who is also at the right hand of God, who also intercedes for us” (Rom. 8:34), “Christ is seated at the right hand of God” (Col. 3:1), “Who being the brightness of God’s glory and the express image of his person, and upholding all things by the word of his power, when he had by himself purged our sins, sat down at the right hand of the Majesty on high” (Heb. 1:3), “He sat down at the right hand of the throne of the Majesty in the heavens” (Heb. 8:1), “He sat down forever at the right hand of God” (Heb. 8:1).
“He sat down at the right hand of the throne of God” (Heb. 12:2), “And seated him at his right hand in the heavenly places” (Eph. 1:2), “Who is at the right hand of God, having gone into heaven, with angels and authorities and powers subject to him” (1 Pet. 3:22). Christ, then, is the Lord “Adonai-Jehovah,” the Lord of David, seated at the right hand of the throne of majesty, the throne of God in heaven.
3 - As for what these writers said that Christ “rejected the idea that the Messiah whom Israel was waiting for was one of the sons of David”?!!
Christ never denied that he was the Messiah whom Israel was waiting for, nor that he was one of the sons of David. Rather, the crowds called him “the son of David” and said to him “Son of David.” Rather, the Gospel of Saint Matthew begins by saying “The book of the generation of Jesus Christ, the son of David, the son of Abraham” (Matthew 1:1), and the book also said about him “who was descended from David according to the flesh” (Romans 1:3), and the book described him as “the Lion of the tribe of Judah, the Root of David” (Revelation 5:5), and he described himself by saying “I am the root and offspring of David” (Revelation 22:16).
As for the verses that the writer cited in which the Lord Jesus Christ asked the Jews, saying, “What do you think about the Christ? Whose son is he?” They said to him, “The Son of David.” He said to them, “How is it that David in the spirit calls him Lord, saying:
The Lord said to my Lord, “Sit at my right hand, until I make your enemies your footstool.” If David calls him Lord, how can he be his son? (Matthew 22:42-44).
It does not deny that Christ is the son of David, but rather confirms that he is the son of David in the flesh and the Lord of David in his divinity.
This is what the Lord Jesus Christ wanted to confirm to the Jews, as he said about himself, “I am the root and the offspring of David” (Revelation 22:16), the root of David as his Lord and the offspring of David in the flesh, as the book says, “who became of the seed of David according to the flesh” (Romans 1:3).
Here the Lord Jesus Christ confirms in His question to them that He is the Lord of David, seated at the right hand of the Majesty in the heavens. So who is the Lord of David?
The answer is: The Lord of David is God! The Bible says: “Hear, O Israel. “The Lord our God is one Lord” (Deut. 6:4), and also “You shall worship the Lord your God and serve him only” (Deut. 6:13; Matt. 4:1). This was also confirmed by the Lord Christ Himself when He said, “The first of all the commandments is, ‘Hear, O Israel:
The Lord our God is one Lord’” (Mark 12:29). The Bible also says that the Lord Jesus Christ Himself is this one Lord: “But for us there is one God, the Father, from whom are all things, and we for Him; and one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom are all things, and we through Him” (1 Cor. 8:6).
And St. Peter says of Him in the Spirit, “This is Lord of all” (Acts 1:36). ✝️🕊
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2025.01.22 15:52 greengobletgames [OC-Art] New Magic Item: Monster Hunter's Dragon Medallion | '14 & '24 Compatible | Green Goblet Games

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2025.01.22 15:52 aaronfromAlbemarle What I need/what I can trade

What I need/what I can trade Pretty much self explanatory.
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2025.01.22 15:52 _a_gay_frog_ I also find bluesky much more active. What does everyone else think?

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2025.01.22 15:52 Adventurous-Way-7979 Holy burnt bacon 🤮🤢

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2025.01.22 15:52 is-normal Advice for building an Eldrazi Ramp deck

Hey everyone,
I'm looking to get my first competitive Modern deck and need some advice.
Background: I'm fairly new to competitve MtG and the Modern format. I've played a lot of Hearthstone and some MtG many years back, and I've been playing some MtGO and MtGA the past couple of months. Also got some Commander pre-cons and have been playing a bit at my LGS, but the competitive 1v1 formats appeal more to me.
I'm looking to buy all of the singles for the Eldrazi Ramp deck as it's a playstyle I enjoy, and I've tested it out for a few weeks on MtGO. The meta builds of the deck seem to have been shifting recently, however, with players opting to include Karn and build a sideboard around him.
Here are a few things I'm considering:

My budget is fairly loose, but I want to optimize my spending and resources as efficiently as possible.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
TL;DR: Fairly new to the Modern format, want to build an Eldrazi Ramp deck. Should I include Karn, or not, or buy cards for both strategies?
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2025.01.22 15:52 KylleiJenner Charlį

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2025.01.22 15:52 Similar-Ad8289 Local Drag Competition starts on Friday

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2025.01.22 15:52 RobDewDoes Finding what business to start is easy in 2025

I'm starting a business that helps entrepreneurs find and validate their ideas in 7 days to make business more predictable without the risk.
Through the process of building a lead magnet for another thing, I ran into one small problem: "This seems really useful, but I don’t have any business ideas"
Later on the next day, I noticed many Reddit posts from people asking for business ideas. So I decided to write a prompt to help you come up with business ideas tailored to WHO you are. It is in my lead magnet but I thought it would be valuable here. Here is the prompt:
"I want you to act as a business idea generator. Using my answers to the following questions, generate ALL 30 personalized business ideas (straight through, no questions asked, no stopping) that match my skills, resources, and goals. Each idea should consider my time availability, starting capital, and desired outcome. Present the ideas organized by type (service-based, product-based, online, local) and connect the idea to the problem it is solving. Make sure you include up and coming trends!
Please gather my information by asking these questions one set at a time:
Set 1 - Personal Background:

Set 2 - Resources & Availability:
Set 3 - Vision & Preferences:
Based on my answers, generate ideas that:
This is the AI Prompt I use to help people find business ideas.
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2025.01.22 15:52 Clear-Panic7920 Hey 👋

Hey 👋 I made miku on gacha life What you guys think?
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2025.01.22 15:52 mattatastically What is this?

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2025.01.22 15:52 bumbletea215 Lost my soul cat yesterday

Lost my soul cat yesterday She was my childhood cat and I have no contact with my mother. I heard the news from my grandmother. I’m glad I was able to see her one last time when I finally moved the end of my belongings out of my birth-giver’s house. Otherwise I haven’t seen her in almost five years.
Her name was Genesis but we called her Chicken Nugget or Nug. She used to ride on my shoulders and follow me everywhere. Belly rubs were her favorite thing in the world.
I don’t know when my time to go is, but when it does come, I know she will be waiting for me on the other side.
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2025.01.22 15:52 Y_Merser The Colour Out of Space

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2025.01.22 15:52 EntelFeridunArt You like kissi- Nevermind.

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2025.01.22 15:52 CAT__2024 Imi delhi form filling

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2025.01.22 15:52 NeptuneLilac Is it dumb to call out of work for losing a pet?

Last night my cat suddenly lost control of its rear legs. Found out that it was saddle thrombus, and he was put to sleep. And I just haven’t gotten much sleep and have been crying here and there with a lack of wanting to get out of bed. Would it be dumb to call out of work for a death of a pet?
I work as a host/server at a restaurant and usually when I try to call out when I’m really sick, my boss will make me come in anyway because we’re a small restaurant and it can be hard to find cover if she can’t cover for me. So I’m worried if I call out for a loss of a pet what she’ll say. But I really don’t think I can be around people and interact with them, not being able to concentrate or randomly getting emotional throughout my shift.
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2025.01.22 15:52 RVReadit Reality hurts Reality hitsback

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