How do I help him when he struggles with his mental health?
2025.01.23 01:23 Sorbet3082 How do I help him when he struggles with his mental health?
I (19f) have been seeing a guy (19m) for about three or four months.
He’s not the perfect guy, but he’s my dream guy. Great hygiene, great personality, a great mildly dark sense of humor, works out, and my type.
I knew his mental health was declining months ago during hell week when he was joining his frat and I did what I could. I made sure he had a “safe space” in my dorm, reassured him, held him, rubbed his back and played with his hair, that stuff. He slept in my dorm for two hours in my bed bc it smells like me and it was away from his two roommates (one is loud and not very nice, the other is nice enough).
When he got back from winter break we were going to have a date, aka cuddle in my dorm and watch movies because it’s cold as balls outside. He texted me letting me know that while he does have feelings for me (he said “i love you already” very seriously on our first date because I brought him a steak and sat outside the gym while he did his lift) and kept reassuring that he does have feelings for me, but that with his mental health things wouldn’t be smart. It makes me sad bc he explained that he had a bad break up with his ex and would explain to me in person what happened.
We’ve talked intermittently and he recently asked me if I was doing alright, I told him I had some clarity questions about us I want to ask at a later time. We haven’t had that in person conversation yet about what happened, but im taking him wanting to talk to me about it in person as a good sign.
I really like this guy, but I don’t know how to help him. I’ve given him space and he does start up conversations with me so I don’t think he was just dumping me to dump me (my anxiety says otherwise but thats not important, im more worried about him). And I know he’s not lying about his mental health because he looked like shit when i saw him the other day. He made it very clear before that Im the only girl he’s interested in so I don’t think he’s messing with me, he’s a very genuine guy.
Is there anything more I can do to help his mental health? Like little things even?
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2025.01.23 01:23 More_Coffee_Than_Man Gamescope Flatpak - Which one to install?
Apologies, I did search beforehand but didn't find a solution.
On my Fedora 40 machine, if I type flatpak install gamescope I'm presented with four options:
Looking for matches… Similar refs found for ‘gamescope’ in remote ‘flathub’ (system): If I search for gamescope in GNOME Software, the only result I see is paradoxically not gamescope at all, but the Freedesktop Platform flatpak, which then shows gamescope available as an "add-on". I'm not sure which of the packages that one is from among the four, either.
EDIT: Okay, having installed that one through GNOME Software then doing a
flatpak list command from the terminal, it appears to be the org.freedesktop.Platform.VulkanLayer.gamescope 23.08 one.My endgoal is simply to get a flatpak of gamescope installed and working alongside my flatpak install of Steam. I'm not sure how other people are getting it working, because the
gamescope command does nothing in my terminal (I assume it would have to be the flatpak run com.XXX.gamescope command, right?), so I don't know how the Steam launch options are able to invoke it.submitted by More_Coffee_Than_Man to linux_gaming [link] [comments]
2025.01.23 01:23 Queen_Magix My Re-imagining of Rouge's design
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2025.01.23 01:23 throwawaynmb69 ICE spotted in Chelsea, Everett and Revere
ICE has been doing raids of the north shore / Boston area recently. East Boston may be next. Stay safe out there if you are undocumented or know anyone that is.
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2025.01.23 01:23 Hot-Turnover4883 How have the Pistons been so good without Ivey?
I'm trying to do a video on the Pistons on how they've been so good in January with Ivey injured but I've only seen two of their games. Here's my main factors so far:
1. Emergence of Cade as a star
2. Elevated play of veterans Malik Beasley/Tobias Harris &Tim Hardaway jr
3. Get the ball up the floor quickly for fast breaks
https://www.teamrankings.com/nba/stat/fastbreak-points-per-game
4. Much Improved defense | Ausar does a pretty good job guarding the best player | Duren Stewart and Reed protect the rim pretty well
Did I miss anything?
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2025.01.23 01:23 _Stay_Golden_ Liquid Drum & Bass inspired by Netsky
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2025.01.23 01:23 BestStoogewasLarry Trump's latest executive order tells it like it is.
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2025.01.23 01:23 No-Appearance-7163 Should we bring back the mrs incredible becoming uncanny meme back?
And also the other family members.
View Poll
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2025.01.23 01:23 Weak-Sport-8181 The worst scenes in The 6 Rodger’s & Hammerstein Movies
The worst scenes in each Rodger’s & Hammerstein Movie:
1). Oklahoma-The traditional dream ballet starts out normal enough as Laurey and Curly happily dance and are to be wed, then the ballet takes an abrupt turn into nightmare territory when Jud appears and takes control of the dreamscape as burlesque dancers appear and force Laurey into joining their number. Then (this is the worst part😱😱😱) dream Jud kills dream Curly during a fight and takes Laurey away
2). Carousel-In Louise's Ballet, Louise was judged by a procession of disapproving, oppressive and uptight members of the entire Snow family led by Enoch, and was then rejected by the eldest Snow daughter, she was continually haunted by the community's negative view of her due to her father's reputation as a thief and bully then toward the end of the number, Louise watched as a seductive 'Starlight Carnival' barker (famed ballet dance legend Jacques d'Amboise) performed with dancers who created a rotating carousel under a 'big-top,' before he danced in a pas de deux with her, afterwards (this is the worst part😰😰😰), the nine sons and daughters of the Enoch family approached to scold and chastize Louise with pointing fingers saying "Shame on you. Shame on you" to which Louise replies “I Hate You, I Hate All Of You”
3). State Fair-Wayne is surprised to hear from McGee that Emily is leaving for Chicago that night because Emily didn't tell him. Emily finally comes out and Wayne tries to convince her to go home to the farm with him instead of going to Chicago with the band. (Now, here comes the worst part😰😰😰) Emily says she can't and starts to confess something to Wayne, but runs away crying. McGee explains to Wayne that Emily is already married, although the marriage is unhappy, and that Emily didn't want to tell Wayne and spoil everything
4). South Pacific-Bloody Mary urges Liat & Cable to marry. (Now, here comes the worst part😰😰😰) Cable, aware of his family's prejudices, says he cannot marry a Tonkinese girl. Bloody Mary furiously drags her distraught daughter away, telling Cable that Liat must now marry a much older French plantation owner instead. Cable laments his loss ("Younger Than Springtime" (reprise))
5). The King & I-Anna & The King Of Siam’s Dance is interrupted by the Kralahome. Tuptim has been captured, and a search is on for Lun Tha. For her dishonor, the King prepares to whip her despite Anna's pleas. When Anna declares he is indeed a barbarian, the King crumples, puts his hand over his heart, and runs out of the room. The Kralahome blames Anna for ruining him, while Tuptim is led away in tears after learning Lun Tha was found dead and dumped into the river. That causes Anna to sever all ties as a governess and declare she will leave Siam on the next boat
6). The Sound Of Music-At the Salzburg Festiva, during their final number, (Now here comes the worst part) the von Trapp family slips away and seeks shelter at the abbey, where Mother Abbess hides them in the cemetery crypt. Zeller and his men soon arrive and search the abbey, but the family is able to escape using the caretaker's car. When Zeller's men attempt to pursue, they discover their cars will not start, as two of the nuns have sabotaged their engines.
what do you think of these scenes?
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2025.01.23 01:23 SharkMature66 Maiô é mais sexy do que biquíni
O verdadeiro traje de banho sexy deveria ser o maiô e não o biquíni, já que, enquanto o maiô acentua as curvas, o peitoral e as nádegas de quem o usa e cria mistério sobre as partes tampadas, o biquíni se compromete a apenas tampar as partes íntimas da usuária, não sendo justo o suficiente para realçar as curvas e as partes do corpo.
Um argumento que pode ser usado por aqueles que preferem o biquíni do que o maiô é o de que o biquíni mostra muito mais 'pele' do que o maiô; porém, como já foi dito acima, o mistério e a criação de expectativas também são importantes para surgir o desejo e costuma ser usado na estética sensual.
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2025.01.23 01:23 GamingT2009 Would you rather Jeff be a shit monster but he's really fun to go against, or Jeff be a really strong monster but he's really annoying to go against. (Image kinda related)
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2025.01.23 01:23 heythereyou01 Losing hope. IRS keeps hanging up on me. Can’t look up my refund from 2021
I’m supposed to be receiving my recovery refund but it hasn’t arrived. I was sent a notice on 1/6/2025. I can’t view my refund online for the year 2021 on the irs website and irs keeps hanging up on me. It’s been hours. Can anyone help :(
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2025.01.23 01:23 HiFernandOwO Me siento ignorado por mi novia
Actualmente llevo conociendo a mi pareja desde hace 6 meses y tenemos 3 meses saliendo, pero durante el último mes ha sido muy distante conmigo en el senitdo de que es muy poco el tiempo que me da para vernos, más o menos una vez a la semana como por 3 horas aproximadamente.
Realmente no hay problemas de movilidad ni de distancia para vernos o similares, he querido intentar entender porque es así, pero no puedo evitar sentirme que realmente me esta ignorando, porque ambos tenemos el suficiente tiempo para vernos al menos para vernos un rato por la tarde o lo que fuese, realmente no espero hacer planes muy elaborados o algo que implique un gasto económico y ni siquiera íntimo, ni similar; para mí es muy importante el tiempo de calidad que puedo pasar con la otra persona, simplemente para conversar o tener esa compañía presencial.
Habíamos hablado del tema sobre como me sentía al respecto, pero siento que no logra entenderlo. Constantemente dice que me extraña o similar, inmediatamente pongo de mi parte y le digo que la veo después del trabajo o en anteriores días que me encontraba de vacaciones, pero simplemente es un mensaje que se pierde en el chat, porque prefiere ignorarlo.
No se trata de algún tema de infidelidad ni nada por el estilo, pero es algo con lo que me cuesta lidiar, porque pese a todo le tengo mucho cariño.
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2025.01.23 01:23 Honesty_8941526 like
this game has a very steep learning curve
what popular modern current paid game is similiar or like this game so can have an idea what kind of game this is
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2025.01.23 01:23 Moistbarrelloffuck I just realize Philippines is not a Time Traveler friendly country.
An American with a time machine can go back to the 1980s and buy cheaper groceries, and cashiers wouldn’t notice since they don’t names of Presidents on the banknotes. U.S. currency has had the same design for about a century.
If a Filipino had a time machine, it would be much harder. We change currency designs with every president. Time traveling to Duterte’s era might work because those currencies are still in use, but we couldn’t go back to Noynoy’s time. The only way to go back in time and shop would be to bring gold and sell it.
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2025.01.23 01:23 Fabinho4454 What do you think is the best infernalist damage build with minions? And the cleaning?
Until now I have been using the bombers, but I think there are better builds, am I thinking about the ice ones or the electric wizards? Recommendations?
I appreciate if you leave a guide or a video so I can see
I am currently using this build
https://maxroll.gg/poe2/build-guides/bombarding-minions-infernalist-build-guide
I don't care how much money I have to spend
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2025.01.23 01:23 Diligent-Car-2404 Intramurals competitive vball
Has anyone signed up or how does it work? Can i sign up as free agent and i get put into a team or will they put all free agent together i rly wanna play?
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2025.01.23 01:23 Brilliant-Artist9324 Death Road To Canada is underrated asf! (The game and its soundtrack)
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