Lied to someone during the talking stage? How can I fix this?
2025.01.23 03:57 GrapeNo2051 Lied to someone during the talking stage? How can I fix this?
My ex bf of 3 years and I broke up back in the beginning of October, it was pretty messy and it was long overdue. We were living together for about two years and dating for three, I moved away from my family and friends to be with him and didn't have much support aside from him and his family. He ended up being an alcoholic and neglectful and not very nice to me. I began talking to this new guy shortly after our breakup, we'll call him Kyle. I've never had a connection like this before. Pretty early in to Kyle and I seeing each other, my ex showed up at my house early in the morning and got into a drunk fight with Kyle and I. Kyle made it pretty clear he didn't want to be involved in our breakup, and wanted me to get everything under control. I spent the next few months trying to get my ex off my lease, or find a new apartment, refurnish the house, and get him completely cut off despite my exes efforts to stay in my life. Throughout this time, I would make up white lies to Kyle to make sure there was a boundary between him and my past. For example, I would tell him to park in the street "in case I need to back out" or cause "someone is going to come shovel for me". In reality, I didn't want my ex driving by, seeing Kyle's car and entering the house. I wouldn't tell Kyle if my ex went to my house to grab things (which I would always leave the house for), or if I got nasty drunk texts from him. There was another time my ex was drunk and came in to my house, screaming at me and breaking things. I didn't tell Kyle about that until a week later. It was very scary, I was afraid of my ex but also afraid of opening up to Kyle about all of this when we were only talking for a couple of months.
I was secretive about it all and made these white lies up to keep Kyle as disconnected as possible until I got my life back on track. Now, I have finally got my ex off my lease. He can't come into my house anymore or try and take my dog or threaten me. However, Kyle picked up on the white lies I was telling him. He knew I was being vague, he told me my secretiveness was bothering him, and while I trying to stop and fix everything, I was still so scared and anxious. Now, he says he doesn't think he can trust me and doesn't think he can be with me. I'm so heartbroken. I've been honest about my entire life and I want him to see me for who I am in a safe, comfortable environment. Am I in the wrong or can I win him back?
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2025.01.23 03:57 awwitsgubgub Might be taken off my meds
This isn't exactly a vent but I didn't know what flair to use. Anyways, I had a checkup with my doctor and it wasn't what I expected or wanted to hear, I will have to be taken off my medication if I can't keep my weight at a steady level because I'm on the verge of being underweight and being on stimulants while being underweight is not a good thing. I absolutely need this medication, I have adhd and cannot function without it, I'm chronically exhausted without it which makes every aspect of my life so much harder to get through. I've been dealing with ana for a long time and the past year it has gotten pretty bad, it's ironic because the more weight I loose the bigger I feel/think I am which has made me come to the realization I don't think it'll ever be enough, there is no pleasing this disorder, it always wants more. I feel stuck and scared, I'm horrified at the thought I'm not allowed to loose more weight, it makes me actually sick to think about having to keep my weight consistent which is most likely not normal considering I'm bordering being underweight. I've never gotten help because that was the last thing I wanted or believed I needed, but I also don't want to loose my ability to function. It's hard. I guess I'm looking for support or maybe just someone to say getting help is okay. I just can't imagine myself being happy with my body, feeling valid and like I actually do have a problem which I think is another reason why I haven't sought out help, because I don't feel sick enough. Idk I hope this all makes sense, I think I'm getting sick so I'm honestly exhausted but I wanted to try and take those first steps and try and get myself to understand this is not healthy. Thank you to whoever for reading, I hope the best for you <3
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2025.01.23 03:57 Kwhitney1982 Why don’t Kyle’s cast mates see what we see?
Kyle is generally one of the most popular ones on the show from the perspective of her cast mates. No one goes up against her, she usually has a big group protecting her, being her guard dog, her mouthpiece etc. and Kyle always says “you guys know my character” and generally they all agree and say yeah Kyle doesn’t have bad intentions. But yet the audience constantly sees her as manipulative and passive aggressive. This has been the audience sentiment almost since season 2. My question is, I wonder why the viewers have such a different perspective of Kyle than her cast mates, crew and even Andy? For most other housewives, the cast generally feels the same way about them as viewers (eg, Teresa, Delores, Ramona, dorinda, etc.). Do Kyle’s friends and coworkers see something completely different than we do or are they scared of Kyle like dorit says?
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2025.01.23 03:57 Purple51Turtle Job ad in paper / evidence for WFA
I live regionally, so we do still have a local paper w classifieds. I've seen a job ad for a casual position, which asks for resume and cover letter to be emailed to them.
I'm wondering, if I apply, should I send this cover letter to WFA as evidence ? I've only previously applied for jobs on SEEK and used their auto reply as evidence. This is only my 2nd reporting period.
2nd Q. I was going to include some details about my availability on the letter. The job ad asks for full avail, but I already have a sole trader casual role (8-15h / week) and I study (and am a parent). By mentioning this on the letter am I potentially flagging myself w WFA as I should in their eyes be applying for FT??
Context - study relates to a short (3-4 month) industry specific role [upskilling], which has a good chance of at least casual work at the end, which would earn enough to get me off JSP. So hopefully JSP will be pretty short term.
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