i think my brothers ex catfished me
2025.01.23 09:22 hushpuppie69 i think my brothers ex catfished me
it’s almost 3am i’ve been freaking out over this bc im so creeped out and confused. please let me know if there’s a logical explanation for this.
for context my brother and his ex (we’ll call hethem kris) broke up and the catalyst of this was them going to the met on a date and him disrespecting christianity (she’s a jewish atheist and he’s an ex mormon atheist). there were other reasons obv but this specifically will come into play later.
i (23f) match w dude (25m), we talk for a couple days. today we talked all day, the banter was rlly good and we were flirting heavy, tension was UP. we had been snap chatting a few times (not a lot and his replies were slightly weird imo) and i got his instagram. the thing i noticed was he had a little over 100 followers. this looked like a popular dude, we’re in a big city, it seems like he’d have more than that ? but i dont have a lot of followers (500) so i dismissed it. the username was weird, just a bunch of letters not his name. but i dismissed that as well bc i was enjoying talking to him so much. he expressed many times that the feeling was mutual, we had the same sense of humor so i was comfortable enough to plan a date when he all but begged me to do so. he set up a time and everything. few texts later i make a stupid joke and jokingly ask for his forgiveness. he says beg, i say “forgive me father for i have sinned 🧎🏻 im on my knees” he says “PROOF” and i basically say no im in bed im not going to get up to repent. i’m okay being a sinner, but i’ll do you one better and sent a risqué pic of myself (not a nude, but definitely suggestive) all the sudden i go to snapchat and his name is gone….go to instagram and his account: user not found. i text him “what i do 💔” doesn’t deliver….so sad….i thought maybe i went too far but earlier today he sent me a pic of him using the bathroom and we had been flirting about sexual stuff so it didn’t make sense to me :/
so i go to hinge expecting his account to be gone and coincidentally i left it open on his profile. when i scroll his pictures go white then change to none other than my brothers ex. the bio starts changing too, to all their details. i screenshot and reported the account then texted my brother the screenshots, asking if it was really kris and it sure fkn was. i check my feed/matches/likes on the off chance she’s there and nope.
so, naturally, i crash out. i use a fake number to text the catfish # screenshots of the profile and ask for an explanation. they say “Find God idk. But me (dudes name) was not feeling it when you brought up sin. Sorry Im assuming that's who this is No clue how those pictures ended up on my profile 😭😭😭 but all I did was unmatch” i say “fuck you that doesn’t make sense you didn’t care about me saying forgive me father for i have sinned but then i jokingly say i’m okay being a sinner so you block me? riiiiiight” to no reply. maybe i was blocked before it could be sent. idc. it wouldn’t bother me if that was the actual excuse and i didn’t think i was being catfished, but now i’m so confused. bc even the explanation doesn’t add up in my mind so now it doubly can’t be a glitch.
i call my brother and he’s certain it’s not them bc she’s a jewish athiest and their not normally up at this time…..these reasons don’t make sense to me. i ask for their number to ask her, he says no bc they’re supposed to meet up tmrw to exchange items and “talk”…..which seems like rlly perfect timing idk but he tells me he’ll ask them about it and if he thinks she’s lying he’ll give me their number to ask them myself.
i go tell my friends, they all agree it’s weird. crash out for a bit online. go back on hinge and swipe a few times then boom, there’s kris……in my feed……so what do you guys think ????? in my mind that’s an impossible glitch, but pls pls pls correct me if i’m wrong. i wish i knew how to test this, i feel like im going crazy. normally this wouldn’t bother me at all, dodged a bullet. but bc it was so weird i just don’t know how to feel about it. pls give me some
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