Почему люди так любят давать оценки друг другу?
2025.01.24 09:40 Lynnlefay Почему люди так любят давать оценки друг другу?
Это начинается в детстве, когда родители и учителя пытаются оценить наш потенциал. Тогда и начинаются первые: "Ты очень мягкий человек", "Ты творческий человек, математика это не твоё". Не лучше ли было комментировать конкретные поступки и достижения ребёнка, а не оценивать всю личность? Например: "У тебя хорошо получается решать уравнения", "В данной ситуации тебе стоило поступить иначе, потому что..." и т.д.
Или взять светские разговоры уже в зрелом возрасте. "Ты всегда такая задумчивая", "Ты сегодня такая радостная". Понятно, что во многом такие фразы - повод для непринуждённой беседы. Но тут, опять же, видна склонность вешать какие-то ярлыки на всю личность и состояние человека в целом, основываясь на своих предположениях.
К чему это я. Естественно, в этом всём НЕТ НИЧЕГО КРИМИНАЛЬНОГО, я не пытаюсь тут развести нытьё из-за вполне безвредной практики общения. Но, думаю, было бы классно жить, если бы люди не пытались навешивать какие-либо характеристики на себя или других даже на уровне смолл-токов. В каждом из нас просто бесконечный потенциал и куча сюрпризов, так что пресловутое "знать о том, кто ты" гораздо чаще ведёт к самоограничениям и мешает гибкости. Особенно если это знание - результат чужих предположений и проекций.
Конечно, на других людей мы не повлияем, но можем повлиять на самих себя и постараться пореже давать характеристики самим себе. Думаю, это поможет справиться в разочаровании в самом себе, а на смену ему придёт радость и удивление от осознания того, какими мы можем быть разными.
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2025.01.24 09:40 Psygnal Sir Cecil and the Spanish Wine
 | It's hard being a leader of men in a world full of vice, and more so when those men really don't want to be where they are, are very hungry, and everything is turning pear-shaped.Sir Cecil Sir Cecil - properly known as Sir Edward Cecil - was an English military commander in 1625... and he was not a fan of the Spanish. One of those "Ooh, I really don't like the Spanish!" folk, who would follow that up with "We should sink all their ships and take all their loot." He proposed to the powers that be (at this point in history, that was King Charles I) that raiding Spanish shipping would be incredibly lucrative for the English, given that the Spanish were returning from the Americas laden with gold. Everyone likes gold, right? King Charles thought this was an absolutely spiffing idea, and fancied himself some Spanish gold. (I say 'Spanish' gold... technically speaking that gold was pilfered anyway, so if you're going to rob someone, it may as well be a robber you're robbing, right?) Cecil (and the king) were basically wanting to relive the glory-days of old, when the English fleet trounced the Spanish armada (1588) as well as weaken the country... which they felt was becoming a bit big for its britches. A bit of enlightened self-interest was likely mixed in there too. If a bit of that gold happened to stick to Cecil, well, he wouldn't be complaining, now, would he? The problem was that Parliament was all "Nooooo. That sounds very expensive, and do we really want to prod one of the wealthiest countries on the planet at this point?" - Cecil thought that they very much should... but he was not given the funds he wanted. Still... Cecil moved his base of operations to Devon and started assembling his troops. He managed to get hold of 120 ships - but they were very poorly maintained. A few of them were little more than hulks. Certainly not in the fighting trim they'd need to be to tackle the Spanish guns. Regardless, he also sourced himself 15,000 men. By sourced, of course, I mean he press-ganged them into service. Or bought them from debtor's prisons. He also had very little to feed them, and they went to see with barely 10 days provisions. Imagine falling behind on your rent, and suddenly you've woken up on a maggoty wooden ship bound for Spain, with a lump on your head, and a king's shilling in your pocket.But go to sea they did, in October 1625, and sailed off for Spain... in what could easily have been called one of the most poorly planned invasions of all time. The weather turned, and he was back in port the next day looking a bit sheepish. Two days later, they set off again, and this time they made it all the way to Spain before the bad weather hit them, and took heavy damage. Then they actually came across some fully laden Spanish ships, but took so long figuring out what to do, that the slow, lumbering probably-gold-laden vessels just wallowed off over the horizon while the English forces argued amongst themselves. Cádiz was their ultimate target. A nice plump spot, ripe for invasion and plunder. They landed nearby, disgorging their disorganised and poorly outfitted army. Sir Cecil took one look at Cádiz, and was rather surprised to see that it was rather well garrisoned... so he marched his men in completely the other direction, and fell upon a moderate-sized village in nearby Andalusia instead. Here's where things got a little out of hand. This was a wine-producing village, and Sir Cecil's men - hungry and tired - decided to go feral. They raided cellars and storehouses, and drank the place dry. Sounds a bit like my 21st. Actually, who am I trying to kid? I went to an Italian restaurant, and someone bought me a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles cake, and I had a coke that was suspiciously devoid of rum.They drank wine until it was coming out of their pores. They sang bawdy songs, and clashed their mugs together in drunken revelry until they largely fell into a drunken stupor. There was little that Sir Cecil or his officers could do to stop them... or indeed, rouse them. "…the soldiers who, by the avarice or negligence of their commanders, were permitted to fill themselves so much with the wine they found in the cellars and other places they plundered, that they became more like beasts than men…" - Sir Richard Baker: A Chronicle of the Kings of England (1684)After this, it was decided that there really wasn't a great deal of point trying to capture anything on the Spanish mainland, and that the sea was the place to be. Nobody was going to be drowning their sorrows on the ocean wave. As it were. So they sailed up and down the Spanish coast looking for ships to plunder. They found what could graciously be described as 'sod all', and then ran out of supplies, and began to die in droves of malnutrition and disease. It didn't take long after this before the fleet simply split up and made its way home to England... his invasion turned into a debauched drunken mess... and... Well, you'd think disgrace - but it wasn't. Oh, to be sure, he was accused of incompetence and even of misappropriating booty from the expedition... but he was still a respected military commander. Cecil served in various military posts in the years that followed. He became Governor of Portsmouth in 1628, a position which he held until his death in 1638. submitted by Psygnal to VillainyGroup [link] [comments] |
2025.01.24 09:40 Pretty_Ad1909 Pls pray for me
I got waitlisted from the university I wanted to go and the have been calling or messaging students who have been selected so pls pray that I get this admission 😭😭💗
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2025.01.24 09:40 anginsun Еще походит
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2025.01.24 09:40 Tommycooker_1711 I killed all 3 tanks of this guy 😂😂😂
 | I got his bmp with the panther first then he got me with his is3 then i killed his is3 with my ferdinand, he attempted to kill me with the 268 but i was the faster one submitted by Tommycooker_1711 to warthundermobile [link] [comments] |
2025.01.24 09:40 Expert-Two8524 Experts vs. Market: Who Will Win the Battle?
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2025.01.24 09:40 mXoFF What Is THIS in Minecraft?! | Episode 5 (2025)
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2025.01.24 09:40 Thick-Strain-3286 How Should I Document My Work in a Project
Hi everyone,
I’m currently working on a project and want to start documenting my work more effectively. I’m not sure how detailed I need to be or what exactly I should focus on.
Some specific questions I have:
- What are the key things I should document in a project?
- How do I keep it concise but still useful for myself and my team?
- Do you have any examples or templates for documenting tasks or activities?
Thanks!
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2025.01.24 09:40 CookingWithIce Angebotsoptimierung: Tipps und Empfehlungen gesucht
Hallo zusammen,
bei meinem bisherigen Hausbau-Projekt habe ich leider einige negative Erfahrungen bei der Auswahl der Komponenten gemacht. Daher möchte ich nun die Schwarmintelligenz nutzen, um das aktuelle Angebot zu überprüfen und gegebenenfalls zu optimieren. Die Firma ist offen für Alternativen, weshalb ich euch gerne um Rat fragen möchte.
Einige Fakten zum Dach:
- Ausrichtung: Ost/West (Azimut 30°)
- Dachneigung: 30°
- Dachfläche: 12 m × 5,8 m Satteldach ohne Schornstein und Fenster
- Belegung: Vollbelegung gewünscht
- Module: 48 × Trina Solar 440 Watt TSM-440-NEG9RC.27 VERTEX S+ (Gesamtleistung: 21,12 kWp)
- Wechselrichter: Huawei SUN2000-20K-MB0 (20 kW)
- Smart Meter: HUAWEI Smart Power Sensor 250A / 50mA
- Generatoranschlusskasten: WEIDMÜLLER mit 2 MPP-Trackern
- Leistungen: Material, Arbeitsleistung, Abstimmung mit dem EVU, Inbetriebnahme
- Kosten: 20.660 €
- Zahlungsbedingungen: 80% nach Dachmontage (DC-Termin), 20% nach Inbetriebnahme
Fragen:
- Sind die vorgeschlagenen Überstände von 50 cm an der Traufseite und 32 cm am Ortgang ausreichend?
- Sind die Komponenten grundsätzlich in Ordnung?
- Welche hybriden Wechselrichter kommen als Alternative in Frage, insbesondere wenn die Gesamtleistung auf 26,2 kWp erhöht wird? Insbesondere, wenn wir nachträglich vorrausichtlich einen 6 kWh Speicher einbauen möchten. Ich bin derzeit noch nicht vollständig von Huawei überzeugt, aber ist mehr Bauchgefühl.
- Machen wir uns Probleme wenn wir die Anlage mit >25 kWp einplanen? Hab die Grenze schon ein paar mal gesehen, ist sie für uns relevant?
2025.01.24 09:40 ApplicationMelodic60 Use a memory card higher than V60, When a V90 card is in the camera. How to fix?
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2025.01.24 09:40 Own_Presentation6211 Woke up and decided, let's introduce two SCD characters i rarely see in this sub. Who wins? Lupin, Canon and Kaito kid vs Koji, Yuuichi, Kirari and Yumeko?
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2025.01.24 09:40 ShoddyRedIsBack98 Who wears it better?
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2025.01.24 09:40 Forest_dewler Feed my new songs\artists
I'm really into Deftones, tool ,a perfect circle, pierce the vail, Lil peep, $uicideboy$,the neighborhood, mitski uhm what else Paramore,limp bizkit that kinda stuff
I like pretty much all genres except k pop
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2025.01.24 09:40 _evelynarchives ''can i help you madam''
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2025.01.24 09:40 ericthelostman Giants (Buster Posey) or Cardinals (Chaim Bloom), who turns it around first?
Both early 2010's World Series champions took different paths this offseason. The Cardinals hired a credentialed executive who was a major part in building great farm systems in Tampa and Boston. The Giants hired a legendary former player and promoted an exec within to work with him. The Cardinals have an easier division, higher draft capital, and appear to be doing a more traditional rebuild/retool. The Giants signed one of the higher rated free agents this year (Adames) and appear to be continuing their half in/half out mantra we've come to know so well.
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2025.01.24 09:40 Hopeful-Mention927 Pls A BIG BRATZ JADE??
 | Hii!! Just sharing my Big Bratz collection! I know many people don’t even know they exist or found out due to the Kylie collab, but I LOVE THEM!! I have two of the OG Yasmin’s (one NIB) and two of the pink winter dream Cloe (currently rerooting). Any tips on how to better display them? I’m also thinking of rerooting a Sasha, but way too scared to damage her as she is so rare (maybe a GCDS style w microbraids?). I just want them to look beautiful, but it’s so hard with their stiff limbs lol. Also, I wish they all had thought out outfits like the 3 OG’s with the jackets purse and hat/earrings. I need to trim Yasmin’s ends after the rerooting, but I’m loving the length for now. CAN WE PLEASE GET A BIG BRATZ JADE?? Why has she never been made??! Thoughts, comments, concerns? 🫶 submitted by Hopeful-Mention927 to Bratz [link] [comments] |
2025.01.24 09:40 Stormpilot747 Using 10 of 12 Rad Mount Screws
So I’m trying to top mount an Arctic LFIII 360 AIO to a Lian Li Lancool 216 and only 10 of the 12 required Radiator mounting screws fit into the cases pre-cut mounting holes.
The two screws that won’t fit are in the middle of the radiator. No amount of moving the rad around seems to let the two blocked screws in. Should I just top-mount the LFIII 360 with 10 screws instead of 12? Or is that too risky?
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2025.01.24 09:40 CaterpillarOdd291 Need Recommendation
Need recommendation which one should I go for, Let me know if any one have used any of these
- JBL Live Flex 3
- Beats Fit Pro
- Sony WF-1000XM5
- Bose QuietComfort Earbuds II
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2025.01.24 09:40 tradeify What's your thoughts about WPEPE?
Do someone know if the dev has some other cryptocurrencies with success?
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2025.01.24 09:40 Quirky-Extreme-8364 مهاراتك اكبر استثمار ممكن تسويه لنفسك في حياتك
الحمدلله هذا من شغل الفريلانس بس وانا موظفة فل تايم هذا الشهر طلعت هذا الرقم ونهاية الشهر الجاي بتجيني ٢٥٠٠٠ ، صحيح انه شغل متعب ومرق بس يستحق لحد يسألني ايش المهارة اللي عندي هي دقيقة ونادرة واللي يعرفها مابيصدق اني اقدر جيب منها مبالغ 🙏🏼
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2025.01.24 09:40 Traditional-Act2104 H4 interview
What is the list of documents required for h4 interview if wife is going alone for interview and husband is already in USA. What are the chances of getting 221 g ? How can I avoid it?I am applying from india on Indian passport
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2025.01.24 09:40 4REANS What song gets more emotional to you by year?
To me it's everglow. Each year passes and it's more emotional than the year before.
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2025.01.24 09:40 Equivalent-Dark2573 What’s your“perfect first date”?
Back home, dinner and drinks are the norm ?
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2025.01.24 09:40 injkgz Need help collecting data from Armoury Crate on g16 2024 with Intel Core Ultra 7 155h
If someone has g16 with Core Ultra 7 155H or Core Ultra 9 185H please post a screenshots, we need this for driver development on Linux!
https://gitlab.com/asus-linux/asusctl/-/issues/564
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