Victim blaming
2024.11.26 14:50 C_bells Victim blaming
Just finished the series last night and loved it, especially the ending.
I was reflecting back on the show a bit this morning and just realized how they very artfully weave in the experience of being victim-blamed.
Throughout the series, Allison is constantly told that she is the source of trouble and problems. And as a viewer, it doesn't really stand out as victim blaming, because she does indeed cause a lot of mayhem while trying to untangle herself from Kevin.
I'm not someone who thought for a second that Kevin was ever "not that bad." I've always thought he is awful. However, I did admittedly blame Allison's attempts to take extreme measures on a weakness or character or lack of courage on her part.
I thought the reason she turned straight to murder or faking her own death was due to a lack of problem-solving skills and deep self-esteem issues.
Throughout the show, then, it's understandable how many people tell her she's the problem. She gets other entangled in messes and stressful situations.
Looking back, though, I now see how well this depicts the phenomenon of victim blaming, and how often we as humans identify the "problem," when really what we're calling the "problem" is an outcome of the actual root of the problem.
This resonates deeply with me as human, but especially as a woman.
It's a frustrating experience, even in smaller-scale scenarios. All of those times at work, when you speak out against a problem on a project. You know something isn't working well and is going to lead to issues, so you call it out. But since you're the only one talking about problems, people start to associate the problem with you.
People go out and protest and are seen as creating the problem by the masses who are unaffected by the actual problem itself.
Anyway, I had figured that the narrative device (is that what it is technically?) where Allison is constantly told by everyone around her that she is problematic was more about developing and highlighting her moral character and relationships.
It's only at the end that I can see it for what it was.
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