Panicking please help
2025.01.19 15:25 FannyIlazki Panicking please help
Hello you guys. I have a 3 week old home and my friend came with her toddler (3 years old) to visit us and bring us some baby stuff. My friend is a very good friend and she told her daughter to don't touch the baby, don't be to loud and i was very impressed at how she behaved. Anyway. The little girl wanted to see my son closer and since she was being such a nice toddler i allowed her. (We know her since birth and we love her dearly) but then the thing happend. Out of the freaking nothing coughed almost on the face of my new born and now I am panicking. She is not sick or something. I guess is the ongoing toddle cough they always seem to have. I cleaned my baby's face and head but now i feel terrible cos if he gets sick I am guilty of happening but noone saw the coughing coming 😭 Any advice, tipps are welcome! Am I over reacting? I called our local hospital. They were not very happy to hear about it. The doctor said we can't change things now and I should look over the next days for fever... I am so sad and scared. I don't want my baby to get badly sick 🙁
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2025.01.19 15:25 Living-Succotash-776 Horrible housemate's girlfriend (and horrible housemate as well), how do I solve this? Any advice, leads, ritual, prank is welcomed
I need some good pieces of advice because I am going crazy.
I have lived for 2y and a half with this guy, "Dave", in The Netherlands. He was recommended to me by a mutual friend, who said he was a lovely guy. Because the housing crisis here is so bad I thought "Why not joining forces?", we started chatting when we were still away and in the process of searching a place together, and slowly he showed me that side of himself, we even got close enough to develop a crush on each other.
When we found a place and finally moved in together, he used to be very peculiar, he was carrying around intense energy (like some repressed anger issues); he was unable to put ANY care in the house and had severe IBS, social anxiety, and similar. I immediately noticed how we had completely different hygienic standards, he didn't want to clean as much (ex. he used to have just one towel that smelled like wet dogs), he never ventilated the house, kept using my food and stuff to then saying "I didn't know it was yours" (for instance, wine which he never buys).
When I confronted him on his lack of responsibilities towards the house care, he used to kick objects. When I made it clear that was a line that couldn't be trespassed, he started ignoring me every time I tried to complain about something. He was just sitting in front of his laptop, without even replying to me.
Eventually, I was the one who did all the job: 1) I found the house, 2) I furnished it all (without asking him for money because he was saying furnishing was not necessary. I am talking about basic furniture, like bed frames or desks), 3) I was managing all the bills because he was keeping forgetting, 4) I was cleaning much more than he did.
I tried to keep it all together because I am a freelancer in the art/design field (a poor one), and to find a place here is madness. They ask you to have an income of 3.5-4 times the monthly rent to access house viewings. The average rent here is around 1.500-1.800 euros, so I am fried.
At one point he met "Shakira" and he fell in love. Shakira acts like a queen and has a kind of master-slave relationship with him, in which she is the master of course. She is also the closest friend of a sexual predator guy, "Mattia", who once put a hand around my neck during a casual dinner to assert dominance since I wasn't taking his misogynistic comments and idiotic attitude. Because Shakira is very close to Mattia, I have never been happy to have her around or to know Dave is going for drinks with both of them.
Furthermore, Shakira started coming to our place more often, sometimes resulting in a week or 10 days. I don't often have notice about when or how she is coming, because, Dave says "she wants to be spontaneous". I always feel very bad when she is around, also because she expects always to have an audience and that people look up to her if not she becomes extremely passive-aggressive. 8 months ago, I was again mad about Dave not telling me Shakira would have come to our place (he never asks me by the way, he doesn't give a shit), so I put my earphones on, said "hi" when they entered, and then minding my own business. Because she didn't feel acknowledged she started acting so passive-aggressive, like not even saying hello or goodbye and looking at me with a resting bitch face all the time.
I tried to talk with her at different times and she pretended it was all ok, until one day when I confronted her more directly, she told me several mean stuff, protecting Dave, and, low-key, her abuser friend. She didn't acknowledge any of my reasons, saying that she was just matching my energy and that she hated drama. Anyhow the conversation ended poorly with her holding a position of power, she just stood her ground and didn't move one inch from her position. I thought she had her win and that probably this was enough, but she kept being passive-aggressive.
I talked with Dave at different times, I cried in front of him telling him how uncomfortable I was with the whole situation and him not setting any boundaries or helping me enjoy my place. I asked him to set some visit days, which should not exceed 6 nights a month, and to let me know in advance, so I can decide to go to sleep elsewhere. He tells me he is not going to ask her, because if so she would get even meaner to me, and that probably isn't what I want. Of course, he is using her shitty temperament to avoid doing any kind of job, he also says he's just the man in the middle. I also thought of directly speaking to her again, but the risk is to have another terrible conversation and to create even further animosity.
OK, I missed so many episodes of problematic, annoying, crazy things that happened that would give a clearer idea of how bad the situation is (for instance, he wanting us to live in the house without heating) and I am really searching for any advice, lead, idea, prank idea, rituals, ANYTHING to re-establish some sort of balance in the house.
Don't tell me to find another living situation (I know it would be ideal, but I don't have the financial power or work stability to move right now), or to avoid them (I am already doing it as much as I can and still it directly impact my life).
Thanks so much for reading 💙
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2025.01.19 15:25 dnsm321 What can I do to improve this Victorian styled Gothic Mourning Dress?
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2025.01.19 15:25 PuzzleheadedForm4813 shorted at the dispensary
i just got 7g from the dispensary and i rolled 3 blunts(not even fat ones) and over half the weed was gone. i decided to just roll it all to see how much it would make and i have 4 blunts that are around .8 and 1 blunt that is probably over a little gram. i don’t have a working scale right now to know for sure but i don’t think it’s possible for a 7th to only make 5 small blunts right? i’ve been feeling suspicious im getting shorted there for the last two weeks. has anyone else been shorted multiple times at the dispensary? what did you do? i don’t have a dealer anymore so the dispensary is my only option right now but im so annoyed i don’t even want to go back.
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2025.01.19 15:25 Embarrassed-West824 Ho oH many locals add 136444499641
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2025.01.19 15:25 ThrowRA_dull I am confused i am broken--how many examples do you need for each aok for tok essay???
DO YOU NEED A SEPARATE EXAMPLE FOR AND A SEPARATE EXAMPLE AGAINST FOR EACH AOK OR JUST ONE THAT YOU ARGUE FOR AND AGAINST ON
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2025.01.19 15:25 Kooky-Feed-2521 A class Alien multi tool in Hilbert at space station
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2025.01.19 15:25 front-page-watch [#254|+745|88] They actually removed it, no justification given [r/tf2]
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2025.01.19 15:25 xoxefo3952 Slash of Fate PDF at Novel Online ni Venomousseth na Babasahin nang Libre - Romance Mga Kuwento Tagalog
Dalawang puso ang nakagapos na naaayin sa kagustuhan ng bawat isa. Thr thread can start to deepen or loosen and it's up to their descision. Ag sa bawat giit ng puso ay tila may binubulong, sa bawat katotohanan ay tila may nakatagong sekreto at sa bawat puso ay may nakamarkang pangalan ng nagmamay-ari rito. Ngunit paano mo mamahalin ang taong sumira at nagnakaw ng iyong karapatan? Paano mo itatama ang lahat kung una pa lang ay nagsimula ang kwento sa pagpapanggap at kasinungalingan? Hahayaan niya pa rin bang igapos siya ulit ng tadhana kasama ang lalaking kinamumuhian kahit na madaming rason para putulin iyon? Ngunit sa kagustuhan na pigilan ang sariling makulong muli ay hindi lang puso at katawan niya ang kalaban kundi pati na rin ang mapaglarong puso ng lalaking tinuturing niyang demonyo. You smell nice Dawn, I don't care if you ars afraid of me but one thing is for sure, kailangan mong itatak diyan sa isip mo na I won't let you run away without having the thrill of having you and tasting you first,— Flix Montero I do prefer being tainted ang madumihan ng pauli-ulit ay sadyang nagbibigay ng kakaibang ligata sa akin and I won't let myself fall again for I know I won't ve love the way I like and expect it to be. Because happy endings are only for women that worth to fight for and I am not one,—Dawn Mathison Read more
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2025.01.19 15:25 BrightReach123 my spider skin
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2025.01.19 15:25 bleacheddemon666 Where should I slot xp Larkin in?
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2025.01.19 15:25 Aunniy Can I win an appeal for final write up?
I’ve received my Final written warning for productivity and am eligible to appeal. I am in my 3rd trimester and received my first write up in November. I have had one taken off because i got a weight restriction update to 20-15 pounds. I don’t want Amazon a forever job but since I am due next month (2-22-25) I was counting on Amazon for maternity leave however, if I dont win this appeal or get another write up for productivity (which is more than likely going to happen) I will be fired and no maternity leave. My supervisor said he can leave a comment of good words but the rest is up for me to handle. I have 6 files of letters uploaded to my pregnancy case. One of the letters says to transfer me to singles. That never happened because HR said my doctors don’t know how the facility works and pack goes off of weight. I got 2 weight restrictions from the start it went from 30 pounds To 20 then to 15. Still no singles transfer. In the beginning I was diagnosed with HG (Hyperemesis gravidarum) that causes you to puke a lot during pregnancy and become severely dehydrated. I mentioned this in my case and got accommodated for frequent bathroom breaks. Then I got another accommodation for longer Additional breaks throughout my shift thats coded time with HR. Ive also been accommodated for wellness center and personal break time for my back and stretches. I know my accommodations play a role in my time that effects my productivity. I am sharing all of this information because I can’t afford to lose my job so im asking yall if I have a chance to win the appeal and what can I say in my letter that will help?
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2025.01.19 15:25 n0ls11 Dumb question but
Is there any way i can play any games on my redmi watch 5 active?
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2025.01.19 15:25 QuietPace9 Anyone take Letrozole stopped due to side effects?
I was on letrozole for about three months, but I could no longer stand the fatigue, the crying headaches and multiple other side effects. I felt like somebody else said that they felt as if the drug was consuming them from the inside out about another breast cancer drug.
I have tried lots of time to talk to my GP, but they’re basically telling me my prognosis is bad on putting everything down to the cancer. They have even refuse me test I have asked for as a check up to see if it’s something that else that’s treatable or possibly making my symptoms worse. anyway, I couldn’t stand it anymore when I looked up the side effects for letrozole I was a walking poster child.
It’s now a week today. I decided to suffer it on my own. Some things have improved but other things feel worse. Did anybody else go through this at all feel like some things getting worse muscle spasms?
I feel like somebody’s trying to snap me now but that was another reason for stopping the letrozole was that’s tripped off a lot of spasms along with other things. I had breast cancer, but it spread to my heart lungs, skull bones probably somewhere else I can’t remember.
but I do feel that a couple of things are better as I said, stopping the letrozole I couldn’t keep my eyes open and cry. I’ve never cried like that or if I did it was many years ago I just felt hopeless. It was no good anymore. Everything was gone. I don’t feel like that like that a week off of it.
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2025.01.19 15:25 gossamor Is it finally dead?
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2025.01.19 15:25 Scoortgirl67 What do you do to stop a bully from their obsession?
October 2023 I was drugged by the bakery manager. Ultimately, he was fired. One of his staff members/girlfriend has bullied me ever since. Here we are 2025 and I’m done ignoring her. I reported her to mgmt and they spoke with her. Hopefully, she will finally learn that the incident is none of her business. Example: employment is a market. She’d block me with a cart, and force me to say “excuse me”. Which I did not. If I’m walking, she’d speed up to get behind me and shake her water bottle behind my head and make cracking sounds with the plastic in my ear while I waited for the time clock. I cleaned out the refrigerator and she’d sprinkle taco sauce all over the inside doors and microwave. This human is over 30 years old. She is a perpetual student still living with mommy and daddy. She goes around telling people her personal opinions and backs it with telling people how smart she is. I’ve mentioned it to HR before and mgmt. They don’t want to deal with her, anymore than I do. What would you do?
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2025.01.19 15:25 Socko73 Shadow HO-OH Raid with locals. 6969 5348 5543 or 0365 1945 0302
Shadow HO-OH Raid with locals. 6969 5348 5543 or 0365 1945 0302
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2025.01.19 15:25 FitSquirrel7356 Nothing feels right...
I’m 20F, pursuing Psychology Honours from a reputed university. My journey has been anything but easy. Throughout my childhood, I was bullied, ignored, and often felt invisible. In my area, at school everywhere I was a loner. I envied those with friends while I spent my free time reading books alone, eating lunch by myself, and feeling like I didn’t belong.
Academically, things were never great. My confidence hit rock bottom as I struggled to keep up. Growing up in a dysfunctional family didn’t help either. My parents’ constant fights created an environment where I felt unsafe emotionally. My only anchor was my brother, but now he’s married and has his own life.
I’m in a relationship with someone from college a girl 20F my age. But truthfully, it feels emotionally unfulfilling most of the time. Even now, in college, I remain a loner. I have one so-called friend, but I often catch myself looking at others with friends, laughing, and living life, and I can’t help but feel jealous.
Academically, things have only gone downhill since the 10th grade. I barely pass, and in college, I’ve had three backs in both my first and second semesters. I just finished my third semester exams, and I can’t shake off the fear of failure.
Mentally, I’ve been through the wringer. I was diagnosed with OCD in 2021, depression and anxiety in 2022, and in 2023, I hit my lowest point, attempting self-harm and suicide. I feel drained and angry at myself and others. I hurt the very people who care for me, like my brother and parents.
Right now, I’m just surviving. I scroll through social media, watching others live the life I crave happiness, stability, love and it hurts. I have no energy to pursue anything, no motivation to fight back. I dream of getting a job, finding stability, and rebuilding my life, but I don’t know if I’ll ever get there.
I’ve lost almost all hope. I’m just lying here, broken, wondering if there’s even a way out of this darkness.
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2025.01.19 15:25 CoupIG_ What do you think?
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2025.01.19 15:25 National-Substance64 Jupiter Mobile Question
Does the mobile app support NFTs? Want to use the funds to buy a Solana phone. Thanks
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2025.01.19 15:25 Rafiq_Hasanov 微信支付兑10年店[薇信:halchiou]虚拟币代付换BCH Exchangers
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2025.01.19 15:25 arnaqueattaque i cannot make a choice. both are perfect.. which one I should keep and which one I should sell ?
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2025.01.19 15:25 Antique-Handle3200 Ps5 Tom Heroes Suddenly Super Theme Song Into: Astro'S Playroom & Mthi Boi Gamerz [ravedj]
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2025.01.19 15:25 Rafiq_Hasanov USDT To 美元老店【薇信:halchiou】虚拟币代付 今日汇率
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2025.01.19 15:25 Rayorsay Ai generated slop I found in the break room
My store added a snack bar recently & had this on top of one of the mini shelves(idk what it's called, xd)
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