Anxious first year college student

2025.01.21 06:01 Few_Dig_4631 Anxious first year college student

Problem/Goal: From the title itself yes I tend to ruminate about my career after finishing college.
Context: For context, I am a first year student in a state university in Manila.My program is under Communications (I won't disclose all the details but it has a lot to do with writing/broadcast/productions). Though, I did my own research before signing up in this course, I still couldn't help but feel uneasy about the job opportunities and career growth in the future.
I am not a breadwinner and my parents have a relatively stable income but I want to move out and be independent after I secure a stable job. I am curious about law as well and maybe migrate to another country.
For those who graduated with the similar program as mine, I want to know your advices and what career are you pursuing right now.
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2025.01.21 06:01 MoistCroissant22 Which European country should I visit with the remaining 10 days of my trip?

I have a month off work and so im planning a 26/27 day trip in Europe. I’m planning to fly into Cyprus and spend 11 days there before spending 6 days in Malta. I’m already set on visiting Cyprus and Malta.
My question is where should I spend the remaining 10 days of my trip? I’m tossing up between spending that time in: - Nice/French Riviera - Strasbourg/Colmar with a stop in Luxembourg. - Swiss countryside
Note I have visited Italy, Spain, UK and Portugal recently and don’t plan on going to those places until later in the future.
I know 10 days isn’t a lot, but do you have any other trip suggestions?
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2025.01.21 06:01 journeyx222 roleplay partner search!

sapphic roleplay partner search!
hi everyone! i hope you’re having a wonderful day/night and that this post finds you well! as stated in my title, i’m looking for roleplay partners! specifically i’m looking for sapphic roleplays!
a little about me, my name is journey, you can call me sunny if you’d like! im an adv-lit, third person writer, putting out about 3-5 paragraphs per response! sadly i am an adult with a full time job and my own personal life, so i can only really promise 3-4 responses a week, but on a good week i’m very active and can respond as much as 1-2 a day, especially on my days off!! sadly i do work two 10 hours a week so those days i will be pretty dead!!
a little of what i’m looking for, i’m wanting a partner who roleplays sapphic plots, being basically anything but F4M, i specifically am looking for F4F! i don’t ask much writing wise, as long as writing is in third person and you give me enough to work off of, we can trade some writing samples to see how well we pair together. another i really would hope to find with my roleplay partners is connection! i don’t want to just know your character but you as a person! i love to have online friends, especially someone i can trade game-tags with and spend time with you outside of our plot!
as far as roles, plots and genres go, i am a sucker for fantasy, supernatural, action, dark-romance, etc! the only genres i’m not too fond of have to be SOL and modern-though i am okay with those if they have something else mixed into them, sadly fandoms are not something i am comfortable roleplaying; though i am always open to hearing ideas and possible plots you want to bring forward! i have a wide variety of pre-made characters already but love a good excuse to make a new one! i am 18+ and all participants and characters must be 18+ as well!!
i do enjoy ERP but not without story, plot and character building, and i’m not looking to do it every other scene, it just takes the fun out of it and honestly i prefer the story and romance more than the actual ERP, though that doesn’t mean i’m not up for it!
ANYWAYS, now that i’m done rambling, if you made it this far, i really hope my post peaked your interest and that i hope from some of y’all soon!

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2025.01.21 06:01 Eaglewatch358 New Members Intro

If you’re new to the community, introduce yourself! God bless you all and please keep the subreddit clean and loving.
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2025.01.21 06:01 Ancient-Drive5889 Fed up with lowballers

Fed up with lowballers the title just about sums it up
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2025.01.21 06:01 Th3KodiakBear Alucard gets trapped in the lands between

Alucard gets trapped in the lands between I've always wanted a modern Castlevania link but elden ring is all I've got so I thought Id share. I have the sliders if anyone's interested.
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2025.01.21 06:01 Apart_Grade_4868 F22 completely inexperienced. I ruin my chances and I don’t know how to overcome this

Well, it’s kinda awkward posting this but whatever haha. I just turned 22 and I realized that things might get more serious for me soon and certain things will not be as age appropriate anymore and I’d rather do mistakes now than later. I have never had my first kiss, had sex nothing bla bla bla you know the gist.
You’d think I don’t get attention but it’s the complete opposite. I know that guys find me attractive and I get alot of compliments. It’s funny tho because I don’t get approached a lot but when that happens it’s always guys that are super direct and confident (which I prefer anyways)
Now, a little background info (I will split this into parts so you can follow):

  1. I was socially excluded in high school.
I went to a private catholic school in germany and everyone was white except me. Also, the kids were super racist. I was never treated well and people viewed me as the funny weird black girl that they saw as a character. So whenever I SEEMED to like a guy, I was met with disgust and rejection. And people thought it was super funny too and I don’t know they just couldn’t mind their business. It was like everyone was watching what I was doing once “they found out”. I knew I wasn’t anyone’s type back then bc everyone made that more than clear. I have this memory that til this day stuck with me: It was during break and I was with a group of kids and they were talking about a guy two grades above us. I just said that he was handsome but purely as a compliment. But they slapped their hand in front of their mouth and ran away and came back with 10-15 more people who all mocked me and questioned me. A few would say that he’d never want me and asked whether I really think I would have a chance with anyone. At the time, I didn’t feel bad because I have already accepted that this is how things were for me and I was used to it (though that did shocked me icl bc what the heck?) I am okay tho because lol I don’t think about high school but I was once thinking about why I was having so many internal issues with dating and I sorta realized that my past experiences did affected me until this day 😭 Also my mother was super strict and would forbid me to date so I never saw it as an option for me.
  1. Now the actual problem
I feel like I subconsciously built a protective mechanism so that I wouldn’t feel hurt/get rejected.
After high school, I was 19 to be exact, I realized that I wasn’t “ugly”. All of a sudden I got a lot of male attention and I felt normal/like a girl for the first time in my life.
It was during holidays and a guy was super direct and showed interest. But I didn’t know how to show him that I was also interested. I did it in a way I knew how: I was just friendly like I would be with friends (I don’t know how to flirt). It’s like I don’t know what to say or how to act flirty like in movies I see or on social media or how I watch my peers do it. I mean how could I? I was so clueless I didn’t even know he just wanted to sleep with me. (He asked me to come over to his hotel room and bring him his stuff at 11 pm after I accidentally saw him naked and I didn’t get it until the next day omgg 💔 I was so naive.)
I just feel this pressure to also impress a guy. But I also feel like through more intimate interactions, they would catch on to the fact that I am inexperienced and they’d think I am lame/compare me to other girls who are way more fun. I really don’t wanna embarrass myself. And also deep down I feel like once I show an ounce of interest back, everyone who witnessed it would laugh at me and use it against me. For the life of me I cannot be vulnerable. So when I end up in an intimate situation, I just freeze up and I don’t do it intentionally. It’s so bad I don’t know what to say or to do and I just wanna escape the situation because it gives me so much anxiety. I only have it with guys who are interested in me and who I also like back (even if it would just be casual). I remember a guy told me I “shouldn’t be scared” when he tried to kiss me and I pulled away and walked off. (lol I was 18, the signs were there) I don’t know whether I am avoidant??
It’s so bad I feel like I am sabotaging myself to the point where I don’t even dare to like guys or feel any attraction. Just so I can protect myself maybe? I just assume it will turn out bad. And that guys would react horribly to anything I do. And I know it won’t be that way and that it could all be easy but I really can’t take the first step/ say that I wanna hook up/ say that I like someone because it really gives me this nauseous feeling.
I feel like if I would get over my firsts, dating would be much more easier because I’d have no expectations? I just wanna get over it at this point because I won’t be anyone’s first anyways, so it’s not even special.
You’re probably asking yourself why I don’t just wait until I date someone I like and that it’s not that hard to find someone to kiss. It should be easy since I did say I get a lot of attention, right?
I’ll keep it short:
A guy approaches me. He flirts and all. I involuntarily act platonic all the time. Don’t know how to text him differently, don’t know how to respond but I stay nice. Time passes. He gets bored/gives up pursuing me. The situation dies out and I am left with infatuation until I get over him.
It’s a cycle I just wanna break out of.
I just want to get to do everything I missed out on whether it be casual stuff or relationships. And I know in a few years it won’t be the same as now because everyone will look for their husbands and I want to just catch up. I also want to do mistakes now than later.
I don’t even know what my question is? I just wonder how to text someone, what to say and how to subtly show signals. I guess just making things thrilling?? Help I feel like an alien 😭😭
I don’t want pity or anything, just some advice or tips.
/sry for the typos I can’t edit them on my phone
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2025.01.21 06:01 TThrowawayAccoun What could these tracks be from? [NYC]

What could these tracks be from? [NYC] Leading from trashcan to door. Camera didn't pick it up, "they just appeared on the camera" I feel like that part was a user error though. Thanks in advance!
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2025.01.21 06:01 TeddyNNewfie Where is alpha mask?

I'm finding the new version of Kittl quite frustrating. Right now I'm trying to clip a texture so that it applies only to elements in my design rather than the whole page, but in the blending mode drop-down list, "alpha mask" has disappeared. Can anyone tell me where to find it?
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2025.01.21 06:01 Jolly_Technology5589 Is the Gold Card worth it?

Just got approved for the gold card is it even that worth it? How is the annual fee charged? Once a year? Im only 20 and the fee seems kind of high i only make around 45k a year? I have a week to decide should i pull the trigger on the rose gold?
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2025.01.21 06:01 Haunting_Falcon_4598 Help me please!!!!

Help! please! I’ve been trying to sign into my account for years now, I don’t have access to my email. It was a school email, I know it’s stupid but I was young and didn’t have access to much at the time. PLEASE SAVE ME!!! HOW CAN I CHANGE THE PASSWORD!
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2025.01.21 06:01 Electronic_Pay_7077 Dont know what to do naaaaa

Problem/Goal:
Dont know talaga hahaha
Context: I'm a fresh graduate currently working in a corporate job here in the Philippines with a salary of 19k per month. I'm staying in Novaliches, while my work location is somewhere around Eastwood. I commute back and forth to work for almost 4-5 hours daily. My daily allowance ranges from 400 to 500 pesos, including food. I really can't save anything. I don't know what to do or how to deal with this kind of life. Any advice?
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2025.01.21 06:01 individual_aid-1898 Costco's unionized workers vote to authorize nationwide strike

Costco's unionized workers vote to authorize nationwide strike Always good to post some labor wins, unionized workers coordinating nationwide towards organized objectives. Curious on your opinion on union activity under the Trump administration. On the one hand, one must not forget that the war on organized labor is bipartisan, and Costco is a huge donor. On the one hand, the Teamsters boss, Sean O’Brien, kissed the ring in the campaign - endorsing Trump and speaking at the RNC in June. Personally, just like the Democrats, the short pro-worker rebrand of the Republicans was just that, and will fall away faster when the union is inevitably backstabbed, but interested to know more of your opinions
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2025.01.21 06:01 UnlikelyTaro3962 standing up for ice deportation rally ....

As I'm sure many of you are aware, ICE deportations have been ramping up, targeting hardworking immigrants who call the US home. It's heartbreaking to see families torn apart, livelihoods destroyed, and communities shattered. My parents came here to work hard and give their children a better future/ education. These people contribute to our society, pay taxes, and enrich our culture. They deserve respect, dignity, and a fair shot at the American dream.
I would love to organize a rally to speak out against these unjust deportations. We need to stand in solidarity with them.
If you're interested in joining the fight, let's get started! Share your ideas, resources, and passion. Together, we can make a difference.
Let's raise our voices, and together we can try to make a difference, Just like MLK did.
:) thank you.
(no harsh comments. we don't need those here. mind ya business if you believe this won't affect you in any way.)
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2025.01.21 06:01 AutoModerator Happy Tuesday, everybody! Hope Tuesdays gonna be good!

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2025.01.21 06:01 hellaxhydrated New video for The Lycan dropped today.

New video for The Lycan dropped today. h
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2025.01.21 06:00 aZZy_d3Lta New Members Intro

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2025.01.21 06:00 djinn66 Who to Supreme+ using the Arena Store Coins?

Who to Supreme+ using the Arena Store Coins? I have both Cassadee and Bryon at Supreme. Using the Arena Store Coins I can get 2 copies of any one character. Whom should I prioritise and S+ first?
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