Am I in the wrong for yelling at my dad who accused me of not taking better care of my alcoholic uncle.

2025.01.22 00:46 Ok-Demand5448 Am I in the wrong for yelling at my dad who accused me of not taking better care of my alcoholic uncle.

So my dad(42) is really close with his brother (my uncle 50). My dad always told me how his brother would be the main one taking care of him since my grandparents were always busy with work. Because of this they are really close, and my dad gets really defensive whenever someone talks badly of my uncle especially when they mention my uncle's drinking problem. My uncle had been struggling with alcoholism from his late twenties and had been struggling to hold since, the rest of my family ignores his problems and had stopped trying to help him a long time ago. They didn't want to give my uncle money just for him to spend it on alcohol. My dad seemed to be in denial of his brother's problem, anytime his delusion wavered all he had to do was ask my uncle " do you have a problem" and hear the expected "no" and snarky reply. However as of recent, when my dad went to ask him my uncle broke down. My uncle had a lot of debt and had to sell his house to pay for some of it, my dad decided to let him stay with us. My mother was strongly against my uncle living with us since he might be a danger to me and my little sister. My parents had a huge fight, I didn't hear what they said I just heard my dad cry a bit to my uncle. My uncle had been staying with us for a couple of months, both of my parents worked and me and my sister had school, my uncle would constantly complain to my dad about being lonely inside our house home all day and with no alcohol to distract him. I had a couple of breaks over the months and in those times my dad would encourage me to keep my uncle company. I would try my best, playing games with him and letting him tell strorys but I could see he still didn't know how to be sober. As the months went on my uncle seemed to be getting better and more controlled. One weekend he came up to me and said he wanted me to spend time with me. My parents were at work and my sister was a friend's house. My dad didn't want my uncle to leave the house without him, he was afraid my uncle would be able to control himself. I didn't think this was out of the ordinary at first, in the past my uncle would always want to spend time with us but my mother would refuse to let us go, causing arguments between her and my dad. I called my dad who of course was more than happy with it. My uncle drove us to an amusement, that only reassured me that the day would go smoothly. We spent the day actually having fun, playing games and going on rides. On the last roller coaster of the day he sat out, he said he would sit on a nearby bench and wait for me. After like 20 minutes I was done but I didn't see my uncle. I called his phone, but he didn't answer. I went to some of the staff members and asked around, a few of the told me he went to the parking lot. I was confused until I walked out to the parking lot and found him sitting in the car drunk and sleeping. I didn't wake him up I called my parents who came a few minutes later. My mom was worried but my dad just had a blank expression on his face. They woke my uncle up and guided him to the car, my dad drove my uncle's car and my mom drove their car. When we got home, my parents started arguing. It calmed down quickly, they only really has two long lasting arguments from what I can remember.i went to sleep shortly after and the next day I learned what happened. My uncle planned it out, he had his friend buy him vodka and bring it to the carnival parking lot. He picked it up while I was on the roller coaster. This was told to me by my dad, he sounded disappointed as he talked, but not at my uncle at me! He said that I should have "kept a better watch over him" like he wasn't a grown man! I argued with him but he didn't argue back. He just kept guilting me by saying how much he and my uncle did for me. He said the least I could do was watch my uncle. I could see he wanted to say more but he restrained himself and left. I know I am probably not a fault but it's just frustrating.
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