Sou babaca por voltar da viagem de uber ao invés de em grupo?
2025.01.22 22:11 Regular-Variety-8216 Sou babaca por voltar da viagem de uber ao invés de em grupo?
Fiz um post confuso da outra vez, tentei melhora.
Fomos em uma viagem para a praia em 5 pessoas no carro de um. Combinamos que durante a viagem, cada um faria o que gostaria, não precisaríamos ir todos juntos para o mar, passeios, etc. Porém uma pessoa resolveu que não seguiria o combinado e iria nos infernizar a viagem toda para fazer o que ela queria, fizemos isso durante 3 dias, no terceiro resolvemos ir para outro lugar e a pessoa foi sozinha para a praia.
Durante esse período essa pessoa ficou nos alfinetando com mensagens, ligações, indiretas, falando que tínhamos abandonado ela, que somos egoístas e quando acabou o dia ela chegou bêbada e resolveu sozinha que todos iríamos embora já que ela estava dirigindo, xingou todos, falou que não se importava se iríamos de carro com ela, uber, táxi, falou que não tínhamos palavra por não acompanhá-la e etc.
Voltamos eu e mais uma pessoa de uber e os outros 2 ficaram com ela (não pq concordaram com ela, mas pq seria melhor pra eles ficarem).
Voltamos de uber por orgulho mesmo, me senti desrespeitada e achei bizarro esse estardalhaço por esse motivo besta, agora ela está novamente nos ofendendo e se fazendo de vítima pra todos. Fui babaca por ter simplesmente saído e não ter voltado com ela no carro?
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2025.01.22 22:11 rts93 America: Our troops are merely passing by
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2025.01.22 22:11 minionsweb PETG support interface on PLA prints hot end temps
1st attempt using an interface material - using the roll of bambu trans clear petg for interface at 0 gap with matt charcoal pla supports and print.
Of those of you who have done this with success, did you customize the hotend temp settings on either material, adjust on both, or leave it as the stock settings?
If adjusted, what were the settings you used?
Thanks
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2025.01.22 22:11 Sea-Play9584 r/DisabledinNYC New Members Intro
If you’re new to the community, introduce yourself!
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2025.01.22 22:11 TessCoheaX3 Can I use rit dye more for synthetic to dye a coat with a fabric content of 36% polyester, 60% cotton, 4% leather?
I want to dye it solid black. It is brown with black leather trim/accents and a black lining inside. Brown is not my color and I would certainly face a challenge trying to pull it off. But there's a coat on eBay someone is selling from a brand I really like, and the price they are asking for it is such a steal I would be hard pressed to pass on it. I haven't bought it yet but they sent me an offer and I might accept it and try to rock it anyways, but I've never dyed anything before. It's a long coat (knee length) but it isn't very thick looking. Like it's not a winter coat it's more of just a fashion coat.
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2025.01.22 22:11 Womersound Need zoom action Camera for videoing ski event
I need to video a ski event from the bottom of the course. iPhone is good but really blurry when I zoom while shooting or zoom when editing.
Is there an “affordable” digital camera that will capture a ski race in bright sun from about 100 yards at bottom of the course?
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2025.01.22 22:11 GodGaveMeAFunnyLife Sad and weird- transformers got me in trouble
Custom made pic btw.
Anyway I saw a video and commented on a sub reddit about backwards behavior. It was based on a youtube video involving a man suing a non straight person ( not going to say the word in the title). I detest everyone equally lol, nothing personal. I know how to be cordial and civilized. I don't personally h8 anyone. Couldn't believe how nothing I said had malicious intent could cause a ban. It made me furious and chuckle at the same time. Do people really remove context just to be victims this much? Ironic part is, I thought if I said the real word that would get me in trouble. At least I told them how I felt about the unfair ban lol. Why do most people want to be victims? I in know way want sympathy. I'm just venting while I watch legion 2010.
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2025.01.22 22:11 Spiritual-Tie-91 Unsent Letter to my Therapist
I'm not certain if this is the right place for this, but I wrote this to my ex-therapist and don't want to send it, but I felt like I needed to put it out there. I just needed to be heard in some way. Triggers for SI
I remember Thanksgiving, because I think about it a lot. I had been sick and used that as an excuse not to go see my mom and my aunt. I'd been dreading sitting down to dinner with them. It's always so sad. My mom and my aunt don't get along. My aunt has dealt with severe and debilitating depression all her life, and was taken care of by my grandparents for as long as I can remember. When they died she moved in with my mom. My mom resents her. She thinks that's she's lazy, and that she sleeps too much. Both are true, but it's more than that, and my mom can't see it. She's a strong and intelligent woman. She raised two children on her own, and carved out a good life for herself through sheer willpower, but she doesn't understand mental illness. She never understood me. It amazes me how far apart two people can be and still live under the same roof. They do have one thing in common though, they both hate men. They've told me all about it for most of my life. About how awful men are. How evil. How everything would've been different if women were in charge. I remember thinking as a little boy how I would be different than the men they told me about. The men that hurt them. Like my father, like my grandfather. I can't escape who I am though. I'm a man in many ways like any other, and I've always felt a little sick about it. So I hate going up there, and use any excuse I can to avoid it.
It's not like they really know me anyway, not really. They know of me, but that's about it. Except for Dave, no one has ever really known me. The closest I've gotten to someone knowing me since he disappeared is you. Somehow not going to see them on Thanksgiving really effected me though. It seemed to symbolize how alone I really am, bringing my isolation to the forefront of my imagination. That day was so dark. I remember pacing around my house, sobbing, telling myself over and over again that it was going to be okay, and that this was going to pass.
I went to work the next day intending to have a good week. If I'm able to make some sort of difference, if I do a good job, that always makes me feel a little bit better. It always makes up for...something, everything. It wasn't a good week though. I couldn't shake the mood I was in. Nobody was all that sick, nobody really needed us. We were there though, going through the motions, wasting everyone's time.
I almost hung myself that Saturday.
I can't remember if I told you, but one of the reason's I was admitted to inpatient is that I couldn't stop driving around looking for the right place to hang myself. I spent that summer having what I think are mixed episodes, or rapid cycling. I don't really know what the right term would be. Anyway, I would spend one or two weekends getting high and seeing as many women as I could afford. Then I would spend the next weekend depressed and in so much pain, trying to work up the courage to finally end it. I didn't though. Instead I spent six days in inpatient after a long bender, and when I got out I started down the path of finally trying to get the help that I needed.
I still have the rope. I always thought it was funny that you were into rock climbing. When I was looking into the right way to do it I ended up on a lot of climbing forums and threads. Learning how to tie knots, how to anchor properly. I had it all figured out. I was so afraid that I would screw it up and end up an invalid. So that Saturday I got the rope out and set it all up. I was very close. I've been that close a few times since my admission. I was so afraid to tell someone about it. I couldn't stand the thought of another admission. Everyone would know. I couldn't deal with that again. But this time there was you. You were there, and if I did get admitted again you would be there when I got out. So I planned to tell you about it the next time I saw you, that following Monday.
I never got the chance.
That's when you ended it. It destroyed me. I took the news so badly, and you seemed so shocked. I was already in a bad place, and that made everything so much worse. The look on your face when I got up to leave, I've seen that look before. From my mother, from my sister, my aunt. From the eyes of every woman with good intentions and a good heart who tried to help me when I was a boy, right before they gave up on me. Like I was too much to handle. Too far gone. Like they didn't have the time or the energy. Teachers, counselors, my aunt, my sister, and even my mother. They always passed me along to someone else. Over and over again. It made everything so much worse. I remember wishing that they would just leave me alone. The only man who showed any interest in me was my grandfather, who my mother eventually passed me on to. He was kind of abusive though. I didn't want to talk about it but he was. He constantly demeaned me, constantly insulted me, and sometimes he did beat me. Not often, and not badly, but enough. I loved him so much just for paying attention to me though, for not giving up. He was just so mean. So I asked my mother if I could move back in with her, but then the looks came back. I loved my mother, but when she looked at me like that, the way you did, I felt sick. Like something was so wrong with me that there was no fixing it.
I'm sorry I had feelings for you, I really am. I didn't mean it, and I didn't want it to happen. If I could have chosen not to I would have. I didn't want to have a relationship with you, or anything of the sort, I just didn't want you to give up on me. It's like my feelings have a mind of their own. I wish I'd never told you, but I did. I thought we could talk about it and it would go away, but it didn't, and now it's over.
You know you used to get irritated when I told you about my childhood, about how the adults in my life never seemed to know what to do with me. Like they had done something wrong. Like they didn't know what they were doing. I think you would have done the same thing though. They all seemed to do their best, just like you, but in the end it wasn't enough. So I was set aside, passed along to someone else, and on and on. I don't think you did anything wrong, I think your care was beyond reproach, even exceptional, but you still couldn't help me and in the end you knew it. The look on your face told me everything. I see it in my dreams. Your rejection of me seems so final, so damning, like it's over, and I've never been this hopeless in my life.
So there's the rope, I keep it in my bedroom, right next to my bed. It's always on my mind. I'm drawn to it. It even seems okay now, like it never has before. It offers only a few moments of pain, instead of a lifetime of suffering. I'm fighting it, but I'm not winning, and I'm all alone.
I don't know if I'll be able to reach out for help again. I know I need to, but I don't think I can. I'm just going to try and hold on.
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2025.01.22 22:11 StrongZucchini9373 Question about cross-chargeability
Hi everyone, I have a quick question.
I am a postdoc in the US (currently on F1 OPT), and I am in the ROW category. I submitted my I-140 for EB-2 NIW in June 2024 and I am waiting for it to be reviewed.
I recently came to know about "cross-chargeability". My wife (born in India) is also a postdoc in the US and has a pretty strong research profile. I am wondering if I have understood cross-chargeability accurately: If my wife gets her I-140 approved in the EB-1A category, then we can combine her EB-1A with my ROW status to apply for I-485 immediately (since the EB-1 for ROW is "Current").
Can someone confirm this for me, especially if you have been through this process before?
Also, will this cross-chargeability be affected in any way by my EB-2 NIW application?
Thank you in advance!
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2025.01.22 22:11 FeistyMall4768 Is the UX Job Market bad?
I recently graduated with a degree in design management and I am having a lotttt of trouble landing a job. I was thinking about pursing my masters in HCI or Interaction Design. I’m just wondering if it’s worth it or a waste of time. I am only like 6 weeks post grad but it still feels hopeless getting so many rejections. I have been applying to jobs since October. I don’t want to continue pursing UX, wasting my time on new projects and certifications, if the field isn’t going to give me reliability and consistency in the long term. I understand that many says it’s the market all around but tech specifically seems to be pretty tough. I have even considered switching to Data Analytics and Comp Sci (just as bad apparently).
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2025.01.22 22:11 Enrico_Tortellini ….
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2025.01.22 22:11 TheJWT Anyone else like simple, low-hp drift cars?
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2025.01.22 22:11 Bigdaddymatty0969 Ps5
Need help with radagon/elden beast
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2025.01.22 22:11 BedroomMaleficent994 Point domain to homeserver with dynamic ip?
Hello, I currently have a domain that I want to use for hosting a simple webserver for API purposes. I have a cheap homeserver that I would love to use for this since I already have it, but the issue is that my ISP does not provide static IPs to private customers and therefore the IP changes every now and then. Is there any way to still point my domain to my home machine without issues? I really don't want to waste extra money on a VPS when I already have a machine capable of doing everything I need...
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2025.01.22 22:11 S-Budget91 my collection, as a man (just found this subreddit and im already in love!)
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2025.01.22 22:11 9646gt How to rename partition of internal HDD install?
Long story short my internal HDD install is kind of messed up. I have a USB installer made but overtime I try and boot form it I instead get the internal install. Even with the HDD disabled as boot device in BIOS. I verified it is the boot loader doing this because if I boot without the USB plugged in it says no boot device on the POST screen.
That being said, I assume it is picking up the first install that says Batocera as the label and the HDD is taking priority. How can I force the USB to boot or how can I change the label for the internal HDD install to make it continue booting the USB? I know very little about linux but can somewhat use xterm
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2025.01.22 22:11 AmbitiousCow9860 Nosferatu
She is actually the sweetest kitty on earth.
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2025.01.22 22:11 Pek_Dominik The attention to detail in big hero 6
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2025.01.22 22:11 jonpeeji AI Futurist needs to learn Critical Thinking Skills
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2025.01.22 22:11 SadEstate4070 Why are some guys stuck on age?
I’m a 56yo gay man. I have no grey hair, and I’ve been told my many guys and women that I’m very handsome and I don’t look a day over 40. I prefer twinks. And I usually don’t have any problems getting one. If I lie on Grinder about my age and say I’m 40. I get all I want! If I say I am 56, I rarely get responses. What’s the problem? It’s just sex! It’s just a number! I don’t get it!🤷🏻♂️
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2025.01.22 22:11 tedthe3rd The view straight up from here is amazing
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2025.01.22 22:11 MrHiccuped Big Bang Theory is a fine show
I legit don't get where the hatred of this show comes from. It obviously is full of cringy troupes, but like, so are all shows, but in the case of this show, its intentional. I think it has some honestly very funny situational comedy. I think people who hate on this show, just hate on it because it's easy to hate on. As an aside I unironically think this show helped my parents understand why I would want to just hang out and play video games or nerd out with my friends all day. I think they now get we aren't just some total losers who play Halo or COD all night, but just good friends with shared hobbies.
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2025.01.22 22:11 Bitter-Drawing-2092 7 days clean
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2025.01.22 22:11 essiefraquora Which smell brings back memories for you?
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