2025.01.24 14:42 Suitable-Reserve-891 Update
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2025.01.24 14:42 setholynsk Can We Get an Option to Override Player Positions? My Striker is NOT a DM!
For example, the only two options are the absolute mess you see when they can play several positions (I have a striker who I only deploy as a striker, but he can also play DM so he's grouped with my midfielders which is just infuriating to look at) or the even more annoying natural positions only which is just too stripped back.
You can give players stupid nicknames, but you can't override their positions, it's infuriating.
Yes my CB might be able to play RB, LB DM ST but I don't want to see all that nonsense, I just want to see the positions that I deploy him at which is CB and DM very occasionally
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2025.01.24 14:42 attackonblunts Trades?
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2025.01.24 14:42 No-Goose5175 Has anyone had an accidental pregnancy while following the calendar? I am still nervous and always end up using condoms for 2-3 days before and after NC algorithm, cervical mucus and body temperature tell me I am not fertile. I’d like to hear others experiences to feel more comfortable following Nc
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2025.01.24 14:42 ChampsTalk JAMAL BEN SADDIK VS UKU JURJENDAL ‘ZE HEBBEN HEM NODIG!’ #GLORY98 BREAKDOWN & PREDICTION
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2025.01.24 14:42 Important_Tiger6016 Am I wrong for telling my partner his unlicensed cousin should not be driving his car
Its a long one (sorry) Please bare with me I'm dyslexic so spelling and grammar may not be the best and i have never done a reddit post.
My f 34 partner of 5/6 years m33 and i had a disagreements that somehow turned into a massive argument that he says he now needs space to process and does not want to speak to me.
Bit of background/context, basically he cheated with 2 others 1 of which he classed as his bestfriend, because of situations i was put in with our young child and being pregnant at the time of finding out. it wasnt safe for me to remain in the area so i was made to leave, these people stalked me and waited outside my house and followed me almost every where i went, I was in and out of refugees and up and down with hospital appointments, specialist (high risk pregnancy) etc everytime he wanted to speak i blocked him after 6 months of no contact he reached out again on my birthday checking on the pregnancy , wishing me happy birthday etc fast forward 3 months and unfortunately we lost our son at 2 days old.
fast forward another 7 months, after what i thought was hard work and willingness to change and be better and seeing the steps taken to change i gave him another chance, i told him the biggest thing was for us to deal and speak about the betrayals and what happened or we wont be able to move forward, i told him what i needed and how i needed him to be going forward long story short i waited almost 2 years for those conversations and questions to be answered i became inpatient and sick of constantly arguing and because of an argument to do with the same "cousin" this current argument involves i ended the relationship and again walked away... 3 months later he comes back begging for another chance and yes i with stupid written on my head wanted my family back together agreed to work at it with him. We had conversations we had never had before we spoke and deal with alot, i explained my trust wasnt going to come back over night and that i needed to see his phone and needed him to call me before he sleeps and when he wakes up and message me throughout the day on days off as well as few other things locations etc (we now live over 200miles away from each other) .
So im Christian hes Muslim neither of our religions premits for us to live with the opposite sex unless married or related, he lives with someone he calls his "cousin" male and his "sister", now when we first started dating i actually had no obligations or objections to this "sister" (these 2 are not actual relatives to him) until sometimes when i needed him he would have to go home to 'rub sister belly and give her meds because shes in pain', he would change his side chicks name to hers in his phone when we went away and always made it seem like it was her messaging or calling, my breaking point came after i started finding out about the cheating and i went over to speak to him, she was asleep in his bed half naked he swears blind she wasn't! he says she walks around and sleeps in basically a vest and shorts (very short shorts may i add) and apparently thats what she slept in, he tried to tell me he left her to sleep there whiles he went and slept in her room because she fell asleep talking to him during the night because she found out she lost her grandma. The thing is her bed did not look as if it had been slept in and as I was walking up the stairs I saw him throw his phone under her pillow and ran back out of her room quickly saying I spelt in there not in my bed with her... we sat down to speak and she walks out of him room wrapped in a towel and went into the shower, he still swears im making this up.
Anywhoz when we got back together i once again stated my boundaries and my do's and don't one of which was again i need to see the phone and he needs to start making plans and arrangements for us to actually move in together at some point this year, that caused a massive argument and we just couldnt come to an agreement, he says his phone is his privacy, he cant just leave he has his job and he takes care of his mom abroad and his dad in Africa and that if he moves he would get his own place closer but not to expect that from him this year, he started to get angry and said he class them as family she's his sister and i should accept this as even his parents consider them the same... i have said it is wrong for her to be there and she should leave and go back to her family as the house was rented to HIM by previous supervisor or something, he refused and said we basically live in sin, i explained to him how this makes me feel and again disregarded, i told him this was not something i was willing to compromise on, he said we would speak about this face to face after reminding him of what I had seen.. I dropped it for now. Thats the outline of the "Sister"
Now the "cousin" i though this cousin was okay, he seemed like the kind of man that had good morals and wasnt scared of telling partner when hes in the wrong etc, he has stuck up for me a few times also after finding out about the cheating and during parts of my pregnancy.... or so i thought until i ended things, i phoned cousin to find out if he was using my tv subscription as i know partner was not in the country and it had been logged into at the address, the conversations went sideways because cousin wasn't happy partner came home to me once a month and that 1 time he came up 2/3 in 1 month because i was unwell and needed help with our daughter, he started saying how i was a terrible person only using partner for his money and making him pay for everything (i have my own and pay for my home, bills, car, our child on my own) and that i am making him miserable and depressed and he has never seen partner like this before and that i need to just trust him because "hes not like that" he questioned me about my son who passed at 2 days old whom he never met, never understood the health issues baby had and never encouraged partner to be there at the hospital or funeral ( thats awhole other story) he went on to saying im a "terrible mom" for not allowing partner to be there and that im traumatising our daughter and keeps promising her daddy would always be there and that i need to accept that he will never be. The conversations went on for about 45 mins where he then proceed to belittle and disrespect me and speak bad about my children. I told partner about this and of course he didnt want to hear it, i told him that he may class them as family but they arent mine or the children's family and never will be, he said he eventually spoke to them or just the cousin not 100% sure and that they we're sorry for all they said and how they made me feel. i told him i didnt and will never forgive them.
Fast forward to this weekend gone and we was meant to be having those face to face conversation about all this, i drove over 200 miles went and did what i needed to do and then as arranged to go out with partner and our daughter to speak and have food before doing the 4hrs drive back, this got cancelled because something came up and no one else was home to take over... i go to his anyways to give him food as he wasnt well and to quickly see him. Got there and his car wasnt there... he walks out in shorts this side chick had bought him so immediately my stomach sank and i felt sick, i asked why he still had those, he said he forgot she even bought them until i just reminded him and he hadn't seen them in ages and simply put them on because he found them whiles about to clean the house. He immediately when and got changed and took them outside to the bins.
I asked about the car and he basically shhh me and waved his hand ( almost like you would be brushing away something) i said please don't im not an animal, he said my cousin has it, i asked whos car was outside and he said his cousin's, confused i asked why his cousin had his expensive car that caused so much arguments just for you to let someone without a license and also has his own car take his car? He respond with its my life and my car i do what i want, i once again asked if something happened to the car would your cousin be paying it off or paying for the damages as he doesnt have a valid insurance to cover it, i was yet again dismissed, i left it there and thought he knew i was still upset as i wouldn't be cuddling him or kissing him properly and didnt speak much after this. i left got home and carried on the conversation where i explained what he did to hurt my feelings with feeling brushed off etc and how its confusing to me why he would give his 30k car to someone without a license, i explained where i was worried and worried how this would affect us if he had no way of travelling back and forth with all the past and not wanting to feel triggered by the consistency changing etc, i asked why he didnt tell me as i had said i wanted my car to cold down before driving back 4hrs because it had been on the road since 9am it was currently 5pm meaning we would have taken his car and why he thought i would have gotten in his cousins car with our daughter when he had spoken so badly of our daughter, son and me...
Welll lets just say that conversation did not go as planned this went on a 3 day argument, i asked again calmly if we could resolve this as it was stupid basically, i once again explained how i felt.. he immediately again started saying "yeah well you never take responsibility" i asked what did i do and what do i need to address... he said "im not talking about this now, there is no point, im not saying nothing" I asked a few more times what i needed to take accountability for and again same response.. then he came out with "well when you found out about the other girl, you messaged my mom and you still havent apologise to her for speaking bad about her child" .... i asked how is that even the same? His cousin spoke badly on innocent children, hes a grown man in his 30s, he went off at me and said maybe he should just move to live with his mom and that i dont appreciate anything and that i dont take accountability, i asked if he would like me to message his mom and say sorry for speaking badly of her son eventhough it was true .
he then got to work and needed to go so he started apologising, i tried asking if thats genuine or if thats because he now needs to go, he blew up hit the roof saying again he should just move country's and go be with his mom because she needed him more than I do etc etc "i need to go im at work and work is important to me ill call you back".... I kind of lost it and hung up because why Is this going on for so long?
The next day came and i noticed it was getting later and later and i hadnt hear from him ( he works nights) on his way home. I looked at his location and he was driving home so i called and immediately there was a screaming match after i asked so what happened to calling me back.. whiles shouting this is what i managed to get " you've pissed me off" "I'm literally shaking right now" "I cant speak to you right now" "I need time to process" " you're never happy" "you always have something to pick at me about" " you should just move on and find your Mr perfect seeing as all i do is cause you hurt and pain" "Ill speak to you in a few days when i calm down" " ill find a therapist Thursday and then phone you with the details" - this was Tuesday "Im going to end up saying things ill regret, please just stop" " I answered all you're questions before, and never want it coming up again, it's in the past now"
It goes on but you get the gist
I launched back with what about what i need, i told him how he still hadnt shown me the phone because its "his privacy " i cussed!!! i have to be here looking after our sick child and dont need this extra, why is it so hard to sort something and not make it into an argument and what feels like when i say i feel a certain type of way it turns into a well you do this and you do that... i asked if hes asking us not to speak for them days so he could be with whoever ( like i said i lost it and things was flying out my mouth that i dont even believe) i asked so much and said to him that part of our agreement was that we communicated every day especially whiles so far away and that if he wasnt going to do that to just forget about us because its not fair that an argument so small has turned into this just for me to now go days of being triggered wondering what hes actually doing... i didnt hear from him that night and his location didnt move, he didnt go work, when he woke up he didnt bother to call or message.. the next day he went "out with work for dinner" refused to talk to me, i seen he was at work, he had a presentation. then hours later in a location near somewhere that seemed off track as he told me they where going for dinner across the road from work, then he went to a botanical restaurant, then hours later when he finally moved again went to another restaurant, triggered i message him, he sent me a picture of him with work colleagues.. i asked why he needed to be in the other 2 locations and how is it that he cant speak to me but can with everyone else his response both times "Okay" .. i once again told him to go and remove everything if this is what hes going to do to trigger me and can't speak to me. After the okays i said "heartless" and thought okay once he leaves there we will speak because I felt those response where hearless... i didnt hear from him so i remove both locations and deleted his number once the app notified me he was home and I seen he hadn't removed anything but still didnt want to speak to me.
Im still so confused what exactly did i do. Why did this have to blow up so much ... what did i actually say that was so hurtful... i have so many questions and im so confused... honestly for the first time ever i thought i could start letting down some barriers and start trusting him again, we we're starting to laugh more again, flirt more and just be cute and happy with each other again, we started making actual plans for our future again and what we wanted to accomplish, our daughter was so excited and happy, we was excited and happy., honestly so much changed. i felt like i could talk to him again without him becoming defensive for no reason. He showed this time how much he had taken the time to actually learnt about the effects of what betrayal can do to someone and to a relationship what he needed to do to help me move forward with us, he finally got over his hate for therapist and wanted to go just to name a few.
i had many many reasons why i wanted to give our family 1 last try so please dont judge im begging, please. I have been in therapy 3 years now, and since losing our son my anxiety has gone up and my depression has gone down so I have 2 therapist 1 specifically for grief and have been dealing a lot better over the last year although it comes in waves some big some small.
I just want some help understanding if or where I'm wrong or overreacting in this? And if I'm wrong for even asking why someone else has his car when they have their own?? Am I wrong in setting the boundaries I did and is it controlling?
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2025.01.24 14:42 annamariebear Housing cooperatives in Cbus?
Hi!
I am hoping to find more information on housing cooperatives in Columbus? When I did the ol google search only one came up! I’m hoping that’s incorrect and there are more out there! Please let me know :)
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2025.01.24 14:42 Odalysbabi Let's go for a walk!! 😍🤩🐶
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2025.01.24 14:42 Fragrant-Search744 Life in Bonn - advice needed
Hi all,
me and my fiancée are thinking of spending a few days in Bonn over Easter, and the main purpose is to experience or have a glimpse on how life is like in Bonn.
We are considering settling down in either Bonn or Hamburg in the near future. I have stayed in Hamburg for about one year, and to this day, Hamburg remains my favorite city in Germany. However, I do have a great job opportunity in Bonn, offering 2 times of salary compared to Hamburg's, making it just a little bit under 10k netto per month, which is too attractive to ignore.
I had a short visit to Bonn last year in October (it was a nice sunny day with a big blue sky) for about 1.5 hours during my business trip and only quickly checked out my potential future workplace near Robert-Schuman-Platz and the city center. To be brutally honest, I did not find it super amazing nor have the excitement of moving there compared to Hamburg. But perhaps I shouldn't make judgments based on my very limited time in Bonn. That's why me and my fiancée would like to make a proper visit to Bonn.
Any tips or advice on where to check out? And nice neighborhoods or districts in Bonn for staying overnight to have a proper experience how life is like in Bonn?
Many thanks!
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2025.01.24 14:42 Wonderful-Turnover35 Still need 1 more new user for Temu willing to pay 12$ Cash App if someone can help! Must of never had the app on the device and be in the US
Can also pay through PayPal! Need 1 more
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2025.01.24 14:42 Majestic-Fee-9878 Studium oder Arbeiten?
Hey,
ich bin 20 und nun fast fertig mit meiner Ausbildung als FISI. In der Ausbildung hatte ich hauptsächlich Administration von Hyper-V Umgebungen, Netzwerk (Switch, Firewall) und M365. Dazu noch stumpfer Support.
An sich macht mir das Spaß, ich weiß aber nicht, ob ich das ewig machen möchte, könnte.
Nun weiß ich nicht, ob ich noch Studieren (Winfo) oder einfach Berufserfahrung sammeln und neue Themenbereiche kennenlernen soll.
Lohnt sich ein Studium in dem Bereich überhaupt? Dazu soll gesagt sein, dass ich evtl. eines Tages selbstständig sein möchte und mir das Studium da evtl. noch die ein oder andere Tür öffnen könnte.
Was ist eure Meinung dazu? Arbeiten oder noch Studieren?
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2025.01.24 14:42 Blondie_0990 Trade
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2025.01.24 14:42 KiruShrimp Chibi Allosaurus charm
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2025.01.24 14:42 Holiday_On_The_Moon Gooseberry Mesa, Hurricane, UT
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2025.01.24 14:42 IceboxChamberlainn Can’t Wait For the Reveal…
That Hank has cashed out on his Eagles future and this is a masterful troll job on Max
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2025.01.24 14:42 luvhen My FRS having difficulty starting
about 3 days ago, i went to turn on my car, and it started making a machine gun / clicking sound when i tried starting it. i tried four times to turn it on and the fourth time it turned on. i then drove it around that same day and later that night it did the same thing. additionally, i tried to start it the next morning, same noise. later that night it turned on. i took it to the dealership services and it turned on every single time, even on a cold start. today, it wont turn on, just the same machine gun / clicking noise when attempting to fully turn it on. does anybody know what it could be? i was told my battery is at 100%, my alternator is good, but also that the starter is fine as well, but they also mentioned that the starter can be on its way out? thank u!
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2025.01.24 14:42 psychickabir Guys i need one GA back blr CAS
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2025.01.24 14:42 android_tests_pac CrossPost from saved for 24/1/2025 02:41:43
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2025.01.24 14:42 IYNinja2 yeat hasn't gotten worse he just has bad tracklists
like damn near every album he seems to show us peak snippets where hes in a flow state going crazy, and then just never releases them when the album releases.
like lyfestyle V2 could've been way better if he actually reduced the filler and added know no better, talking shit/hold it up, big doggy, Simon says etc
even on 2093 I like it but it would've been harder of would ya, last supper, out of my hands was on it
like yeat obviously records on substances but he shouldn't make the tracklist off em because he can't tell what songs are album worthy and what are average
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2025.01.24 14:42 beauty_vers About being employee.
My boss said they value me as an employee. I just don’t get why my paycheck hasn’t changed.
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2025.01.24 14:42 Dispensernoob Day 7 post-op. First scabs loosening
Hi everyone, I'm now day 7 post op, and my first scabs are gone, and the skin under it is raw and sensitive. What can I eat now? I just tried to eat something that was fine yesterday but it kills me now. I also had to switch from cold to warm drinks.
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2025.01.24 14:42 Friendly-Muffin-8366 Essas plantas que surgem do concreto são ervas daninha?
Sou de Guarulhos - SP. Acho curioso como elas brotam do nada em condições pouco favoráveis e crescem muito. Essas plantas tem algum “benefício” para o local?
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2025.01.24 14:42 Onsyde It keeps crashing right before starting a game
I am getting increasingly harsher punishments because every 3rd or 4th game I join my game crashes and by the time I get back on the game is concluded, I get banned, and I cant ever rank up!
I am on the switch.
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2025.01.24 14:42 Lemonpienovember1128 Lf np rats (I have multiple of pets below)
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2025.01.24 14:42 rinbiscuit can I apply for working visa in Japan if I got syphillis but got it treated?
Hello. I'm 22 and I'm going to graduate soon. 2 months ago I had sex with this guy. I asked him to use protection but bro pulled the condom out before putting in🥹 I was half asleep at that time so I didn't know. When I realized it was too late, and I had been stressing over STDs for 2 months straight (didn't check it right away because I saw no symptoms and also I didn't have money at that time) but now my tounge hurts when I eat and I can clearly see two dark circles under my tounge. And there are pink spots scattered on my arms. I did some research and knew that you could treat syphillis if you discovered it soon enough. And I'm pretty sure I only had it for 2 months (because before that I just had health check, like right before banging that dude lol) So high chance is, I can cured it. I'm going to the hospital next week! Hopefully I don't catch HIV or anything else😭😭😭
However, the thing is, I had been hired by a company in Japan. A hotel to be exact, a pretty luxurious one at that too. And next year I'm going to apply for working visa to work for them. I will have to retake my health test at that time. And I know that once you have syphillis, the TPHA result will never be negative again....so what if I did the health test and there is positive result for syphillis and they won't allow me to go to Japan???? Like they are hotel too, so they might be very strict about it. Can you still apply for working visa in Japan if you got syphillis but now treated? Can it be treated within one year though? And what if, somehow, I could still go, but during like yearly health check for employees they saw that my TPHA result was positive and decided to send me home? Is it true that once you got syphillis all the doors to international world is closed before you? I'm from a third world country so the visa process is long and strict. I'm also dreaming of studying Master in Europe but I feel like my dream is shattered because of one stupid action ở mine :(( I really regret it right now. Anyone who is working in Japan right now, can you please help me answer those questions? I need to know to decide what to do next. If I couldn't go to Japan then I would have to find other way to survive in my home country then ...
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