AITA for being upset that my uncle made all of these assumptions about me?
2025.01.24 18:41 gilette_bayonete AITA for being upset that my uncle made all of these assumptions about me?
Okay so long story short I'm 35, have held down the same job in sales for four years, have my own place which I've been there for going on five years, and always pay everything on time. The one thing I don't have is credit - I pay for everything on debit but a goal of mine has been to build credit. I don't have bad credit, just no credit.
Anyway, I got a call from my uncle this morning. We caught up about life and had some laughs, and he brought up the credit thing. He offered to co-sign for me so that I could at least get started. I was more than appreciative.
But then he goes on and on about the ramifications of defaulting, not making payments on time, and told me "If that's going to be the case then this arrangement is not going to work out." I took it with a grain of salt and just agreed with him.
Honestly I'm a little bit pissed off that he would even feel the need to tell me all of that. I make 60 grand a year and have been a top performer in sales for going on three years. I almost feel like telling him to just forget it and to save his breath if he's going to treat me like a child over it. I feel like he made all of these unfair assumptions about me and I want to tell him to F off.
I'm 35 years old and have never been late on a payment in my life.
I dunno, AITA in this situation or do I have a right to feel insulted? Appreciate it guys.
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2025.01.24 18:41 partystartsnow97 Anyone else get laid off today lol?
Just wanna mope together lol. Writing was on the wall and expected, just not this soon (thought it would at least be March) I have a couple leads working but still pretty bummed/worried.
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2025.01.24 18:41 Educational_Bug_7730 Am I wrong ?
20(M) So there was this girl whom I was talking from last 9-10 months around March 24(no crush nothing, there was no intention in the start)...in the start she was not interested even in replying,but with time she became interested in talking and we became like friends...so somewhere near may end,i started catching feelings for her....with time we become good friends and things stretched long...this all is happening online,we both haven't met yet ,not even first time.... somewhere in November when we met for the first time ,we both hangout for the first time it was chill....after this day my feelings for her increased. As we both study in different states and have hometown in different, it was not easy for us to meet. Then we met in January and this time I confessed her my feelings,not with the intention of hearing it back from her but just with the intention of letting her know......she was also ok with that at that time...days passed we still were doing the shit we use to do...until one day my friend decides to fuck around...he messaged her and was trying to pittyscore some points (without even telling me because he thought she did wrong with me ) but it backfired to me and she was like tu change ho gaya ,tujhe bura laga,why are you doing this....etc etc I tried convincing her ki aisa kuch nhi hai... suddenly I recieved msg from her saying it was nice knowing you bye....out of anger I texted the same...but I was still lacking closure so I called her to know the reason and she said ,you like me tu mujhe kissi aur ke saath dekhega toh tujhe hurt hoga and ek din toh baat band karni hi hai toh aaj hi kar dete hai... I tried convincing him bhai ki logical baat kar thori yeh koi point nhi hai dosti kharab karne ka but she was not ready to understand...I asked one final question... Do you wanna stay friends or not...and she replied no...
Should I feel guilty for ruining this friendship?
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2025.01.24 18:41 MikeCam Wanted to share my Magnemite line binder! :-)
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I’m working on organizing my workspace and looking for a better way to store scrap leather. Right now, we’ve got two filing cabinets full of smaller pieces of exotic leather, but it’s getting a bit chaotic.
I’d love to hear how y’all are organizing and storing your scraps—especially if you work with smaller or specialty pieces like exotics. Any tips or ideas would be super helpful!
Thanks in advance!
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2025.01.24 18:41 arct1c00 Opennote - Personalized Learning. Perfected.
Hey guys, we're students that were frustrated with large and oversaturated lectures and wanted to enhance learning, so we've built Opennote.
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Check it out at https://opennote.me and let me know if you have any feedback!
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2025.01.24 18:41 ValitorAU Are they listening through the watches?
Every time we've seen Mark go through and change to his work gear we've always seen him change his watch as well, presumably not to trip the Code Detectors and mitigate any potential communicating with the watch somehow.
We saw the same with Dylan, Irving, but NOT Helena (unsure if it was done for Helly).
Of course it's safe to assume that every square millimetre of the joint both in the Severed Floor, Lumon 501 Campus, Lumon housing etc are all bugged and monitored, but this little bit stood out to me.
Thoughts? Or am I losing it because it's nearly 3am?
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2025.01.24 18:41 burnedmarshmellow Breeder promised the pup was dewormed... surprise surprise
So I'm here just to vent.
I hope you are not eating right now.
I am a clinical lab technician myself and I don't get surprised by parasites, but still... ufff, this morning I woke up to 5 poops and a huge worm (like 7 cm) wrapped in the biggest one. Wrapped. Some smaller ones in the others, but the big one was impressive!
I have no experience having puppies so this is a first time experience, I usually always talk about parasites but only human stuff.
My pup is just 3 months old and we have had her for a month, it was supposedly dewormed 3 days before we picked her and there's no way she caught the big one with us, I feel.
I thought it was over but she just pooped again and she got a few other medium sized ones.
We have had her on our bed so we were extra disgusted hehe...
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2025.01.24 18:41 nerovalle Meetup at Schipol
Anyone up for a quick session at Schipol Airport tomorrow morning? I have layover from 9:55-12:30.
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2025.01.24 18:41 ScandiLand For those who co-sleep with your babe on the bed, how do you get them to fall asleep quickly?
I have a 9 week old and am struggling to get my baby back to sleep after feeding. She just wants to be held in my arms instead of being laid back down. It takes close to 1 hour to feed, burp, and 3-5 attempts to lay her down before success.
I understand the risks of co-sleep, so please refrain from speaking on that topic.
Any tips to get her to sleep faster are greatly appreciated!
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2025.01.24 18:41 Complete-Quail1257 When Family Didn’t Realize Their “Hair Advice” Was Rooted in Racism
I grew up in an African household where hair was never just about hair—it was loaded with meaning. My thick 3C curls should’ve been celebrated, but instead, they became a constant source of scrutiny. “Is that really yours?” “Are you sure it’s not a wig?” These comments weren’t from strangers—they were from my extended family.
At the time, I didn’t fully understand what was happening. But looking back, I realize it was more than “advice.” It was colorism, internalized racism, and a deep reflection of colonial beauty standards.
When I was 11, family members decided to relax my hair without my mom’s permission. They said it was to make my hair “more manageable” and “beautiful.” I didn’t understand the implications back then, but those words sent a clear message: My natural self wasn’t acceptable.
I’m sharing this because I’ve seen how these subtle forms of racism play out in families and communities, often unintentional but no less damaging. In many African and brown households, the pressure to conform to Eurocentric beauty standards still runs deep. And sadly, it’s often our loved ones—who may not even realize their harm—perpetuating these beliefs.
It took me years to unlearn these messages and embrace my natural hair, but I’m still untangling the pain of those experiences.
Have you experienced accidental racism from family or loved ones? How do you call it out when it’s subtle but still hurtful? I’d love to hear how others have navigated this.
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2025.01.24 18:41 Guimaraes_Br Alguém reconhece o modelo desse gabinete ?
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