Question about chest pain (Explanation below)
2024.11.25 20:40 Just_Perfect6789 Question about chest pain (Explanation below)
I'm an 18-year-old woman (girl) and I've been having on-and-off chest pains in the middle of my chest since I was 14 years old. It comes all of a sudden out of nowhere. Sometimes it won't come for a few months but then it'll come back. It feels like an elephant pressing on my chest. And it makes it hard to breathe and concentrate. Laying down doesn't really help and any other movement aggravates the pain even more. Sometimes it's worse and I can't stand straight without bending due to fear of it hurting more. It'll last from 5 minutes to 10 minutes depending on the day and I haven't found a pattern. I talked to my local physician when I was 15 and they said that maybe I should get an Echo or EKG but that it was unusual because I'm young and otherwise healthy. I don't have any other issues. I did a physical exam that same day and she didn't mention anything wrong. Because of other things going on in my life and school my parents and I never booked an appointment for the Echo or EKG. I did some of my own research later on and the only explanation I can find is "Choscondritis". Which is common in teenagers and young adults. But it hasn't gone away and it's been 4 years. What should I do? Are there any explanations for what this could be? Should I book another appointment?
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2024.11.25 20:40 TheMilpie Am I blind or a creep??
TW!: brief mention of blood
Hiya, so basically, I need help. I think I found myself in the most stereotypical first wlw experience ever, but it is what it is.
WARNING! The post is long cause I suck at explaining stuff lol. Buckle up.
So basically there's this girl that I've known since 6th grade (she's a grade below me but she's only three months younger than me), but we only really started talking about 1 1/2 years ago. We met through the school band (she plays the alto saxophone and I play guitar) and at first only ever talked there but gradually we started talking in between periods, and sometimes text as well.
At first I thought nothing of it. I always thought she was a great sax player and an even better person. That was up until a little less than a month ago.
Long ass, meh detailed backstory of the events that lead me to where I am:
Now I'm not a touchy person. At all (am trying to change that so idk maybe this situation will be it). Sure, I can return a hug, but I'm not one to initiate anything else of that sort. So then the birthday of a friend of mine pulled up and sure enough, he invited lots and lots of people including me and the girl.
Now the hook with this all was that the girl (let's call her J for the story's sake) didn't know anyone at the party except of course the birthday boy, some other people from band and me. And so I decided to do a nice little thing and spend the evening talking with her cause again, she doesn't know anyone else.
Now, the area where birthday boy celebrated wasn't too big. By the time everyone has got their drinks and food, the whole couch and table were full. Not even the piano bench was spared. So we both sat down on the floor and leaned on the piano. We kept talking and saw how the brother of the birthday boy moved away from the couch. So we took a sprint at it and sat down before he could return.
I ended up sitting next to my best friend and J. And a thing my best friend for some reason loves to do, is to act like she's stretching her arms but then let them fall back down onto the people sitting next to her (iykyk), in this case me and another friend of mine. So she did that and I jokingly did the same, throwing my arm around J and my best friend. And usually people would just do that and nothing would happen. Yet J leaned into me. And stayed there. Like full on head on my chest, not showing any intention of moving any time soon. So we stayed like that, while my best friend moved away.
And from then on, through the course of the night, J and I got closer and closer, at some point switching seats cause I wanted to get some more drinks and told her to guard our couch spot. So we cuddled throughout the entire evening and even if one of us stood up to go to the toilet or something, we would return to the same position. At some point we even were playing a game where part of it was you hard to whisper to the person next to you a question and they had to answer out loud. And since we were so close, I didn't even have to move to whisper something to her. So I asked her a question (something stupid I can't quite remember) and while she thought of an answer we continued talking. That's when my best friend popped out from behind J and asked if we were done flirting and if I had asked the question yet.
So the next morning when I woke up (without a hangover surprisingly), and remembered all that happened, I blamed it on the alcohol. Cause again, I am not a touchy person and here I was, suddenly cuddling myself closer to J. More than that, I got asked about it from 4 different people separately. Weird right?
So I brushed it off and moved on with my life. Up until about two weeks ago, when we had a school event on a Saturday and the band members were required to show up. So after the event was over we decided to do a group hangout. We gathered all our stuff and at first went to sit by the river of our city. It was bloody freezing that day too btw. And so we sat down onto like giant cement steps. I sat my guitar down and leaned it against a wall. J placed her sax next to the guitar and sat down next to me.
And so we were just sitting and talking until J leaned her head on my shoulder, whispering "it's so cold". I laughed and wrapped my arm around her shoulders, scooting her closer, hoping to maybe warm her up a bit. At some point she even grabbed my hand slightly and just held it. Again, I am not touchy so what the fuck is happening.
After it was starting to get too cold to sit outside, we went to J‘s best friend‘s house since she lives close by. We all collectively sat down onto the floor of her room and sure enough, J sits down next to me. We order some pizza and for some reason they couldn't deliver it so someone had to go pick it up. Since I had my card on me, I volunteered to pay, but since its 5 fucking pizzas plus drinks, I needed some help.
The predictable is coming: the only one who volunteered to come with was J. Starting to notice a pattern here. So we got up, got dressed and went to get those pizzas (it wasn't too far from J's best friends flat). On our way there, we notice we didn't even ask what drinks we wanted, so I called our friends and we started deciding on our way there. Half way there, I notice something is up with my hand. It was sticky for some reason. So I give the phone to J and look down on my hand.
The entire right half of my left hand was coated in blood and it was dripping down onto the pavement. If you didn't know yet, stuff like that isn't supposed to happen randomly. J notices my hand since I suddenly went quiet and her eyes widen. She quickly hangs up the call, saying we'll call back and drags me to a drug store to at least get some disinfectant wipes or something.
So we get the wipes, I fix myself up on some random table in the middle of a semi busy street as people give me side eyes, we get the drinks and the pizzas and get back to our friends. I set down the pizzas on the counter and go to check on the wound, where J beats me to it. She helps me disinfect it properly and bandage it up and we go back to our friends as if nothing happened.
While eating, even though I sat down first again, J always ended up next to me. After the food we came back into J's bestie's room and sat down again, the pattern continued and J was next to me. As we were talking and just hanging out, J over time scooted closer and closer to me, laying her head again onto my shoulder. Though this time it didn't stop there.
There were moments where she'd lay her hand onto my knee, take my whole arm and just hold it; caressing it with her thumb or even would grab my hand and interlock it with hers. And it didn't help that we collectively decided to play truth or dare but with one of those apps and it kept paring me and J up in the dares.
Safe to say, after that evening, I came to some already foreseeable conclusions that I might like her a bit more than I thought I did.
Then literally two days ago, I met up with two friends since we wanted to practice a song for the winter concert at our school (from the start by laufey if you wanna know). We practiced in an empty office that was offered to us, since we couldn't get into the school without someone who could open it for us. We were pretty productive, J and I worked on the solo part since for some reason we couldn't quite sync up, and generally had a good time.
At some point, my other friend had to go, so we brought her to the train station since she didn't know how to get there and I live close by so I do. Mind you, it's still tundra level freezing outside. On our way to the train station, I offer J to loop her arm with mine, deciding that maybe I should take some initiative. She does without hesitation.
We bring our friend to the train station, wait for her to get into the train and leave and then walk back to the office. She loops her arm with mine the second our other friend is gone. We walk back and I comment on how fucking freezing it was. To which she agrees and says that even with her five layers of clothing, it's still cold for her too.
Now, some more side information. For some fucked up reason, my body temperature isn't behaving normally. Not in like a fever way, but I am either too warm or hot most of the time. Even in like 15 C° (about 60 Fahrenheit). Which means that I am warm to the touch as well. And if I'd get a penny for every time, a cold hand got slapped on my neck, "oh my god! you're so warm!" was said afterwards and the person would keep their hand there and warm themselves up, I'd be rich.
So as we laugh about the fact that J is apparently heat resistant (because let's be real, 5 layers and still shivering is crazy), she says "It's okay though, you're my portable heater. If I need to warm myself up, I'll go to you" (or something along the lines of that also unintended arctic monkeys reference??).
At that moment I was so fucking thankful that it was dark outside, cause I was RED. Like RED red.
We get back to the office, I make us some tea to warm us up and we decide that we have been productive enough today, so we sit down on the couch. We sit and chat until I decide that I need to do something. So I just lay my head on her shoulder. She lays hers on top of mine, and interlocks our hands again. And we just sit there, both of us tired, just talking. At some parts not even talking but just sitting in silence, enjoying the moment.
I had to concentrate to not fall asleep is what I'm trying to say.
And then the moment came where she had to leave and I had to too (the office was my dad's btw), and all I hear from beside me was "I really don't want to get up."
NOW, you guy's are probably thinking "so what's the problem??" and here it comes:
I genuinely don't know if she likes me back. NOW HOLD ON. GIVE ME A SECOND.
Sure there are many more moments that I am remembering now, where it might seem like she likes me (for example that one time we did a group trip to the music store and we had to wait for the train, but it wouldn't come for another 15 minutes and before I could reach the benches, they all occupied them and she offered for me to sit on her lap. But that was like June or something)
But then also, there are moments that make me question it. For example she often times just acted distant and uninterested. Or when we would meet up in between periods (not only me and her, it's like all the music nerds of the school huddle together in one spot and just chat), she'd often scoot away (whereas she'd move closer cause again, portable heater and it's cold) from me or avoid me.
I'm not saying she has to talk to me and only me all the time but like a hi back would be cool. Of course it's not always like that but sometimes it happens.
Or when I recently (cause I was genuinely dead tired) laid my head onto her shoulder and she just kind of froze.
And it's small moments like that where I ask myself whether I'm delusional or not. Because for all I know, she might just be a touchy person and she just now got comfortable with being touchy with me.
Can it be that I'm just being a creep or something?
And I don't want to ask her until I'm at least like 80% sure she likes me back because I don't want to ruin a great friendship.
I guess this is me asking what the fuck do I even do?? Where do I go from here?? Am I actually just being a creep or does it at least sound like I have a chance?? Genuinely am so lost it's not even funny anymore.
Help would be much appreciated.
Thanks gays.
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Saletti zäme
Kontext: Ich bin mit em Militär fertig ond warte no druf, abgrüstet zwärde. Bim Zögle isch mir ufgfalle, dass am Militärmaterial (z.B. zweite Paar Stiefel) im Chäller ordentlich Schimmel ahgwachse isch. Chleider hani zum Glück ufem Estrich gha, betrifft also nur so Sache wie Stiefel oder GT.
Zur Frag: Was passiert mit em PA-Material? Wird das bide Abrüstig sowieso güsled? De chani mir das spare. Ond chönt ich de Rest eifach gratis lo retabliere?
Dankä für euri Tipps.
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Over time, I fell for you. I went from thinking“I don’t need anyone. I don’t deserve anyone” to “You are the only one”But when I knew you’d be stepping into a new chapter of your life, meeting new people, I was scared,scared that you might forget about me. So, with trembling hands and a racing heart, I confessed my feelings to you, clinging to a tiny sliver of hope. When you said no, I tried to understand, but I couldn’t. Maybe it’s our cultural differences or something else I’ll never grasp. Even so, I am endlessly grateful that we stayed friends and that our bond grew stronger. We complete each other, understand each other like no one else can, and every day, just by existing, you make my life brighter...
Still, I can’t help but dream of being more. I want to hold your hand through every moment of life, explore the world with you, walk with you in the rain, and watch the sun rise and set by your side. I want to be the person who supports you through the hard days and celebrates the good ones. For you, I’d become the partner you dream of, the one who loves you in ways no one else ever could. I wish you’d give me one chance to be your better half, to show you the depth of my love. But I respect your decision, and I’ll never make you uncomfortable. Even if I’m bound to remain just your friend, my love for you will always remain...quiet, unwavering, and endless.
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Based on my experience (see below) as a Technology Manager in Web Development, what’s the best way to get a job in Cybersecurity??
Helping lead cross functional teams, whom are both technical and non-technical with tech-driven recommendations.
Aligning Tech processes to project roadmaps and business goals.
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Oversee QA processes, as well as estimating, forecasting and maintaining tech staff for projects.
Working with other internal departments to define project scope, budgets, and timelines.
Skills: HTML, CSS, Sketch App, Jira, Adobe Experience Manager (AEM), Content Management Systems (CMS), Scrum, Digital Asset Management, Agile & Waterfall Methodologies, Adobe Analytics
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