Realizing that my dad is a loser who's incredibly jealous of me

2025.01.19 13:10 Prestigious_Annual17 Realizing that my dad is a loser who's incredibly jealous of me

My dad 53 years old, unemployed since last year and married to my mother, is one of the most miserable men I know. Ever since I was a kid, I have always felt resentement towards him without knowing why.
In reality he's an extremely toxic person who ruins anything good happening to him. We never go on vacation. When we do, he finds a way to ruin it. He doesn't enjoy fun. He has no ambition, no reason to live. He loves to repeat and complain the same stories about how his dad failed him back in the 90s. Yet he never moves out to another city. We live a few steps away from my grandparents.
This is a thing that is recurrent with my parents. They don't want you to move out or change the things you don't like about your life. They want you to waste years living next to your abuser, still talking to him and insulting him in his back until the day you die. Never move on from your issues, never go to a therapist. Have a fucking heart attack from all the anger you keep in yourself (happened to my dad a few years ago)
My dad has absolutely failed my older brother who grew up to become this 30yo loser, addicted to gambling and drinking (he still lives with us)
As I've turned 20yo and became this young man with ambition, I realize my dad is a bully and makes fun of me behind my back. Yesterday he forced me to go to a shopping village at the other side of the country a hour or two before it closes and wanted me to try on ugly ass pants and clothes. This morning I wake up to him yelling downstairs, venting to my mom about how yesterday, I have "verbally berated him" which didn't happen. He calls me slurs such as the f word, says I don't give a damn about anything, and basically reproaches me things that are just not an issue.
He HATES that I get such beautiful clothes off of Vinted and that I sell items myself. For years I was the ugly kid who didn't know how to dress but it's finally changing now and he doesn't like it. Yesterday I mentionned at the village that I was gonna sell the pants he bought me a year ago (I've literally lost 30 lbs and it's become too large for me) and this morning he just repeats it to my mom again and again, as if that was a bad thing.
He just complains about behaviour I have... THAT ARE NOT AN ISSUE. I'm not gonna spend 70€ on ugly ass pants that YOU want me to buy. I never wanted to go to that shopping village in the first place and none of the clothes there, I liked.
Overall he just hates me for taking care of myself. He hates that I have lost weight while he is fat as fuck, he hates that I'm getting attention from girls in public transports or that I make money from selling clothes online. He's a fucking hater and has no friends. Deep down I think he deserves to die alone. He has made fun of me for MONTHS after I get this leather jacket online and now my mom admitted to me that he actually loves the jacket, wants to wear it himself but it doesn't fit because he's gotten fat as fuck.
The truth no one will address is that he projects himself into me. He wants me to buy all these clothes and items HE wishes he could wear. Except it is ugly as fuck and I don't want it. He was my exact age when he was forced to marry my mom and have children, so he wants me to hate my life just like he did.
I wish I could move out. I had made plans to last year. But I'm in first year of college and where I live, most students flats and houses recquire you to share your room with like 7 strangers while the rent is over 600€. I study engineering and I'm autistic, I can't keep up.
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I used slowing the video down, paying attention to characters with happy faces and the ones stretched while in motion and analising in detail who came before who, and got this order:
55th: Pen
54th: Pin
53rd: TV
52nd: Robot Flower
51st: Foldy
50th: Remote
49th: Grassy
48th: Gaty
47th: Tennis Ball
46th: Pillow
45th: Eggy
44th: Lightning
43rd: Snowball
42nd: Barf Bag
41st: Rocky
40th: Bell
39th: Coiny
38th: Golf Ball
37th: Needle
36th: Ice Cube
35th: Basketball
34th: Eraser
33rd: Book
32nd: Bomby
31st: Nickel
30th: Saw
29th: Marker
28th: Naily
27th: Tree
26th: Fanny
25th: Puffball
24th: Cake
23rd: Pie
22nd: Cloudy
21st: Clock
20th: Fries
19th: Donut
18th: Yellow Face
17th: Black Hole
16th: Bottle
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2025.01.19 13:10 Past_Discount_3883 [rice Lake, Ontario Canada]

Hello! I’m looking to see if anyone has any ideas what this print is? They are about palm sized (the tire tracks are from a large pickup). If you have questions I’ll answer as best as I can!
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